HATTARA MATAN HAUSAWA!

[mlbash]

BASA SON KISHIYA, KUMA ZASU YI DUK ABIN DA YAKE IYA YIWUWA SU HANA MIJINSU AURE. IDAN SUNE A WAJE ZAKAJI SUNA BASU DAMU BA SU ZAMA NA HUDU. AMMA IDAN SUKA FARA SHIGA TOFA KAR A KUSKURA AYI MUSU KISHIYA!

[kitkat]

Fada musu gaskiya mlbash!! Gashi yanzu yan matan rututu kamar jamfa a jos.

Allah ya bada ladan fadakarwa :lol:  :lol:  :lol:

[Anonymous]

To fa kuma maza kuyi hattara,don idan kuka yi wa matan kishiya sai uwar gidan a mai da ita bora.Ko ba shi yasa mata da yawa basa son a yi musu kishiyar ba?Don muddum ta shigo mijin zai fifita ta sai ita kuma ta ga ai ya kamata ita uwar gidan ta fita ta bar mata gidan.Hah!Ai matan ma suna kokari,i.e masu auren.don mazan yanzun ma dai ba kyallaye bane.

[precious]

Ashe ban yi logging in ba.That was me.

[kitkat]

Ke dai ayi sha'ani precious.
Do you know the ratio of men to unmarried ladies out there?

Abin fa da ban tsoro, idan ba a taimakawa ana shigo da ku one by one toh sai ya kai crisis proportions.

This talk of unfair treatment is on a case by case basis, and sometimes the uwargida just transforms into a monster, not giving a hoot about the husband anymore, wai ita ba a son ta an mata kishiya.

Ya za mu yi da ran mu ne, haka za mu bar yan mata su yi ta yawo a gari suna lalacewa??

Wallahi ku mana a hankali kada kowa ya zama bature ya ki karawa :lol:  :lol:

[Anonymous]

on ma own part i wouldnt mind nawa ya zama bature.kittykat a kul ka kara tsokano ni.ni ce dai wadda ka ke investigating.

[Hafsy_Lady]

Sannu, kitkat you try well well. One funny thing about kitkat and his likes. Da sunji ance Kishiya sai su dinga wani zakewa suna dariya. AND SO WHUT? Idan kishiya tazo a kanmu zata zauna. A kanku zata zauna. Ni I dont have problem with that. At all.
Number one: More liability on your head. Your cefane and expenditure list double, when she starts baby producing it flipping tripples. Kana nan kana suturu...

Number two: VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY FEWWWWWWWWWW men show equality. Toh ka sayo ma Nafisah Lace Ka sayo ma Hadiza Ibgo shaking material, irin wanda yan matan Ibgo suke dinka riga. Ha two women go fit stay neutral? :roll:

Number three: More personal responsibility. Yanzu idan ka dan kalli Maryam you wink at her, and Halima does not get the same positive love, danger begin dey nak

Number three: You these men, da ance kishiya do you think that is women's weak point? As for me if my husband wan marry 10000000 women he can, not that it is possible but just to show you the extend I appreciate kishiya. Idan 4 ne, na ehn wahala. If they join the house chain. They should level and leave in peace. Idan tace iskanci zata nuna mun, to nan ne zan daka tsalle na buga kirji ince "WHO BORN YOU" or "FROM WHERE YOU COMOT"? :roll:

Some men dont understand, and from they way kitkat is yapping and looking merry on this topic, I dont think they will ever. The kishiya has already been brainwashed right from home. Iyayenta sun hure mata kunni, not to give uwar gida chance. So when she land, she go dey begin premature rashin kunya, after a while her rashin kunya develops at a matured level. So if uwar gida has been patient and sucking it up, sometimes patiences seizes to be a virtue, she retaliate. And then and there the HUSBAND will raise ehn useless finger begin they point uwar gida! I have a freind who was so young and she got married to a man who iwe call GRANPAH! She hates it but hey.....ehn grey hair don full ehn cap. He was loaded, but oh what the hell....marry for love not for the Moneee but she loves her little Old toy. She also had a baddd aunt who give her lectures. Now my gulfreind (the new amarya) started showing attitude. I visited her house & she was making indirect comments from the main house, I felt digusted and preached to her saying this uwargida looks humble, decent, infact she welcomed me to her apartment first. See me sitting down with a human who is or might be very well close to my mothers age. She is older than my freind (the amarya), more matured and sensible, more experienced in marital life.  And naw, why my gurlfreind gonna be actin like trash?! She confessed to me, that if she dont act that way, the first wife will bully her. And now she knows the opposite and they are like best freinds. So seeeeeeeeee :twisted:  Kitkat!!!! use this as your bed time story book everyday

Kitkat, for now go siddown. First auren bakayi ba, bakasan dadin ko rashin dadin mata biyu ba. Kawai kaima ka taso tun kana kankaninka, har ka girma kagi manya nacewa a'a uwar gida this uwar gida that you ma, you take follow. No bi di way people take lable uwar gidayez? No worry marry the first one. And if you no fit keep eye for one wife go marry another. Just show them differences. Naso kata kata go de begin burst for yuwa house. If you show them same level. Love is your house address. No worry just come I fit hinvite you take you to my honti's house make I show you REAL LOVE between UWAR GIDA AND KISHIYA. They travel together, do businesses together, You will never ever know whose child belongs to who. And they are two prerri chikah's. though my honty is prettier :lol: And the husband looks well happy and healthy. Wasu mazan ma, kafin suyi aure zaku gansu da dan tsoka, suna kara aure zasu zama "bones no flesh" fitinan gidajensu ya hanasu sudanyi maiko, amman su malam kitkat yana washe baki, kai bakasa ma zama da mace daya wani lokacin yafi alkhairi ba.

Ko annabi Muhammad SAallahu Allaihi Wasalam na cewa, ku karo mata don ku numa musu so, ku auro mata idan kunsan zakuyi adalci, ku auro mata idan kunsan zaku daitata tsakaninsu, ku auro mata idan kunsan ZAKUYI DAIDAI. Allah da annabinsa baice KU AURE MATA DON KU NUNA ISABA, BAICE KU AURO MATA DON KAYI PROVING WORTHNESS DIN ARZIKINKU, BAICE KU AURE MATA DON KU WULAKANTA DAYAN BA, BAICE KU AURO MATA JUST BECAUSE YOU WERE UPSET WITH YOUR FIRST WIFE AND TAUGHT THEY ONLY WAY TO GET HER BACK IS TO RE-MARRY. UBANGIDA BAICE KU AURO MATA DON JIN DADI KO JUST TO BOOST TO YOUR BEST FREIND THAT INA DA MATA HUDU.

NI WHAT IS EVEN THE MOST PAINFUL THING, THAT HURTS ME TRICE, IS WAI SAI ZA'A BA MUTU MULKI KO SARAUTA ZA KUJI ANA SURUTU, AI MATANSHI DAYA, HE SHOULD RE-MARRY! WANNAN AI TSABAGEN WULAKANCI NE AT THE HIGHEST LEVEL. SOME TIMES, SAI ZASU SAMU SARAUTA SANNAN SUKE KARA AURE.

AND WE HAVE UNCLE KITKAT SAYING WAI KUNA TAIMAKAN MATA KADA SU LALACE. SAI AKACE MAKA MUMA BA TAIMAKON NAKU MUKE BA? :roll:  KO DA KANKU NE ZAKU FARA ZUBA ZURI'A DA YARA DA JIKOKI, SAI KACE BA'A DAURA MUKU ABUN DA ZAKU ZUBA MA KATON BAKUNANKU KU CI KUMA KU SHA, SAI KACE BA'A DAN GYARA MUKI GIDA. INFACT, SAI KACE MUMA BA TAIKAKONKU KADA KU LALACE KU SHIGA HALAKA AI MUMA MUNA TAIMAKONKU MU YADDA HAR A AURE KU :roll:  SAI KACE WASUNSU BA SAI SUNYI AURE ZASU DENA ZUWA WAJEN DEBORAH, STELLA, ALSABATU (Irin yan tangalawaja, ko yan sautan zariyan nan ba da dai ire-irensu).

YADDA KUKE KUKA DAMU HAKA KUMA WASU KE KUKA DA KU.

I FIT TAKE GUN SHOOT KITKAT AT THIS MOMENT :evil:

[Hafsy_Lady]

MLBASH, YOU SEF, WE YOU DEY THERE DEY TALK, YOU ONLY KNOW WHAT THE REAL THING IS IF YOU HAVE EXPERIACED IT. II HAVENT AND AM SURE YOU HAVENT EITHER. SO ALLOW US "WOMEN" MAKE WE CHOP DUNIYARMU DA TOOTHPICK :roll:  A'A WALLAHI RAGAL :lol:

[precious]

Well said Hafsy!!
Dont think i need to add more.

[kitkat]

Sannu, kitkat you try well well.
I FIT TAKE GUN SHOOT KITKAT AT THIS MOMENT :evil:

To fahh!! Here comes the cavalry.

Dama na san su Hafsy sai an shiga sharo ba shanu.  In the first place ina na gaya miki ba ni da mata?? Dan kawai ina baku shawarar arziki you tink say I be your mate? Has it ever dawned on you that I may be speaking from experience, ko an gaya miki duk wanda ya shigo kanoonline dan eigthy this or ninety that ne ?

To ki sani mata na biyu a gida tsala tsala kuma har yanzu ba wanda ya taba jin tsakaninsu, saboda da haka idan na muku maganar aure wallahi ko ku natsu ku dauki nasiha ko kuma ku fada cikin rudanin yau da Kullum.

Your whole post is built on conjecture and other peoples experiences. All this negative talk of kishiya is always built on the premise of "an yi mata, or an yi min ". Has it ever occured to you that maybe ke ce kishiyar? Theres always 2 sides to a coin and i'm sure if the shoe was on the other foot and you were moving in as wife no 2, some form of justification will readily come to mind to explain the situation. Allah ya ba ki me mata uku na ga inda za ki sa kanki :lol:  :lol:  :lol:

Is it our fault if were allowed to marry more than one, ya ku ke so muyi da ranmu ne yanmatan zamani, shi ke nan kun shafe ayar aure dan zamani ya zo kanku?

See me see wahala, the moment this topic comes up you girls act like its a rare phenomenum that will soon be outlawed. Have you ever stopped to consider the  wisdom behind polygamy, especially in the light of the Nigerian situation today?

To dan ku sani mu we are on a social crusade and no amount of intimidation will sway us from our course.

 Ku ma dai ku yi addua wadannan samarin naku masu zanzaro har wuya ba za ku neme su ku rasa ba watarana , kuma a zo ana dama na gaya miki dan iska ne. After all there is only so many we can accommodate :lol:  :lol:  Nima nan da na ke biye muku daga na auri ta uku na rufe kofata sai dai mlbash watakila :twisted:

[kitkat]

Well said Hafsy!!
Dont think i need to add more.

Ke kuma i'm almost thru with my investigation.

Wallahi ki bi ni sannu sannu!

[precious]

Hmm?What investigation?

[Anonymous]

Number two: VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY FEWWWWWWWWWW men show equality. Toh ka sayo ma Nafisah Lace Ka sayo ma Hadiza Ibgo shaking material, irin wanda yan matan Ibgo suke dinka riga. Ha two women go fit stay neutral? :roll:

Number three: More personal responsibility. Yanzu idan ka dan kalli Maryam you wink at her, and Halima does not get the same positive love, danger begin dey nak

Idan tace iskanci zata nuna mun, to nan ne zan daka tsalle na buga kirji ince "WHO BORN YOU" or "FROM WHERE YOU COMOT"? :roll:

Wasu mazan ma, kafin suyi aure zaku gansu da dan tsoka, suna kara aure zasu zama "bones no flesh" fitinan gidajensu ya hanasu sudanyi maiko, amman su malam kitkat yana washe baki, kai bakasa ma zama da mace daya wani lokacin yafi alkhairi ba.


NI WHAT IS EVEN THE MOST PAINFUL THING, THAT HURTS ME TRICE, IS WAI SAI ZA'A BA MUTU MULKI KO SARAUTA ZA KUJI ANA SURUTU, AI MATANSHI DAYA, HE SHOULD RE-MARRY! WANNAN AI TSABAGEN WULAKANCI NE AT THE HIGHEST LEVEL. SOME TIMES, SAI ZASU SAMU SARAUTA SANNAN SUKE KARA AURE.

hahahaha hahahahah haaaaaaaaaaaaa hahahahaha.  :lol:  :lol:  :lol:  :lol:

WAI WAI WAI WAI. (kai! Hafsy: wannan yar budurwar akwai abun ban dariya. To, dan uwana malam Kitkat kafa ji. Wai an tabo inda yake musu kaikayi. This hafsy you are one funny character.
Maganarki akwai alamar gaskiya aciki bayananki na karshe gaskiya ne. Amman abun da na rasa ganewa ana shine dan mene matan baza ku zauna da wata ba? Me yayi zafi? Kishinnan ba hali bane mai kyau. Idan mutane sun cire shi a zuci, to zama fa zaiyi kyau.

Kitkat kai! mata biyu baka taba jin koda uffan ba? watan ramaln ne dai :lol:

[Muawiya]

Nine Muawiya. Abun naku ne na kanoonline sai a hankali kafin muyi dadai mu zama muma members

[straightalkin]

LOL this is one serrrrrious debate. i dont even know which side i am on. kishiya dai kishiya ce. sometimes it is the uwar gida that is the b**** ta hana amarya sakewa and sometimes it is the other way round- amarya ta zo tana muzgunawa uwar gida. God help us.