hmmm... first of all..... lemme state that...
fulanicious... polygamy does not favor only men... whut u said could be close to "sapo".. cuz if it was "chuta" to us women... Allah wouldnt have allowed it... PONDER ON DAT 4 A WHILE!

And the prophet (saw).. did not marry anyone while khadijha was alive... it was after her death... and he was a single father for 5 yrs too before he got married....
and he married to secure and promote tolerance.... all his wives were widows...except for aisha... he had purrrrrrrrfectly good reasons to marry them which was to unite the region and to support the widows.... and to teach/show/educate men on how to treat their wives.... a very fyne example he was...
Men in Naija... marry to brag... juss cuz for the heck of it... even after they marry 4 wives, they go for whores and mistresses.... in many cases, they marry a 5th wife... this ish is gettin' completely outta control.... and many men WILL BE punished for their misconduct... too bad many fail to recognize game....
if na so it be da sunnah dey follow.... lemme see them treat their wives as kind as Prophet Muhammad (saw) did...
let meeh see them look up to their wives...like Prophet Muhammad (saw) did
let meeh see them ask their wives for advice...like Prophet Muhammad done did
let meeh see them remain faithful....like Prophet Muhammad (saw) did...
let meeh see them take care of their responsibility like Prophet Muhammad (saw)....
let meeh see them at home wit' their families like Prophet Muhammad (saw) did....
let meeh see them care for their children like Prophet Muhammad (saw) did...
let meeh see them display that wonderful character our Prophet Muhammad (saw) glowed with....
but nooooo....... they twist everything around... >

people forget dat God dey.... u go see ur sef naaaaaaaa...
and by za way....... all these small small pikins whey marry dee rich ol' alhaji's..... dont mynd them.... na GREED that take 'am there... and when they get divorced.. they cry and complain.....
well.. who tell u to diss ur "poor" fiancee for that "rich" alhaji who's known for "sake mata"........
a beg oh........ sometimes these gurls cause all this wahala for themselves....