HATTARA MATAN HAUSAWA!

[dan kauye]

:shock: Lalen ku, wallahi kuna bani mamaki, even though I am a new member, i am still addicted to this site.  You people have to remember that Allah ya haliccemu tare da halinmu, ku gaya min, who among the males or matan a wannan zancen yake da mata fiye da daya, ko kuma take tare da kishiya (abokiyar zama).  This is an experience that needs to be tested before a yi muhawara a kanta.  Ita Hafsy dai mun san matsalar ta, amma Insha Allahu.......... Saboda haka, let me draw a line, except kana da mata fiye da daya, ko kuma mijin ki yana da mata fiye da daya or you are being brought up in a house with more than one wife, else please dont comment..  So abarmu MU masu mata fiye da daya mu baku sirrin abin.

toh dan barno,daga ina yake a barnon? damboa ne goza? dukwa ne ko bama?...sai fa ku masu mata sama da daya..now let u s in we r all ears!

[dan kauye]

:shock: Lalen ku, wallahi kuna bani mamaki, even though I am a new member, i am still addicted to this site.  You people have to remember that Allah ya haliccemu tare da halinmu, ku gaya min, who among the males or matan a wannan zancen yake da mata fiye da daya, ko kuma take tare da kishiya (abokiyar zama).  This is an experience that needs to be tested before a yi muhawara a kanta.  Ita Hafsy dai mun san matsalar ta, amma Insha Allahu.......... Saboda haka, let me draw a line, except kana da mata fiye da daya, ko kuma mijin ki yana da mata fiye da daya or you are being brought up in a house with more than one wife, else please dont comment..  So abarmu MU masu mata fiye da daya mu baku sirrin abin.

toh dan barno,daga ina yake a barnon? damboa ne goza? dukwa ne ko bama?...sai fa ku masu mata sama da daya..now let u s in we r all ears!

[dan kauye]

:shock: Lalen ku, wallahi kuna bani mamaki, even though I am a new member, i am still addicted to this site.  You people have to remember that Allah ya haliccemu tare da halinmu, ku gaya min, who among the males or matan a wannan zancen yake da mata fiye da daya, ko kuma take tare da kishiya (abokiyar zama).  This is an experience that needs to be tested before a yi muhawara a kanta.  Ita Hafsy dai mun san matsalar ta, amma Insha Allahu.......... Saboda haka, let me draw a line, except kana da mata fiye da daya, ko kuma mijin ki yana da mata fiye da daya or you are being brought up in a house with more than one wife, else please dont comment..  So abarmu MU masu mata fiye da daya mu baku sirrin abin.

toh dan barno,daga ina yake a barnon? damboa ne goza? dukwa ne ko bama?...sai fa ku masu mata sama da daya..now let u s in we r all ears!

[Anonymous]

:shock: Haba Dan Kauye, daga damboa said dukwa (Dikwa) sai bama kasani, what of the other areas, ni kam daga kauyen Gubio nake, mu ne asalin badawe (bedouin) meaning DAN KAUYE.
Amma fa ka sani, yin aure fiye da daya JARUNTA ne.  The legacy left by our tradition is that a person should strive hard to expand his gona da kuma yawan iyali in Allah has given him the necessary maintaining capability.

Ko me ka ce

[dan kauye]

ai dan-barno,ni dinnan dan-kauye babu inda farauta bata kaini ba a fadin nahiyar afurika..ina kake fada..infact ..4get dai!...

bak 2 bizness...d traditional legacies? dats d problem wit hausawa ...al'ada..i'm certainly not against polygamous marriage coz it works..but whut of d circumstances surrounding it???  it shud be seen in a broader perpective ..coz i feel its like a journey thru eternity..maybe dat xplains part of d reason most women r so paranoid abaut it..most men dnt do justice..thry so selfish..there's no strings attached 2 my comments jus a matter of mind saying.i'm not sure (mayb coz i ddnt grow in a polygamous setting) amma polygamous gidaje nawa ne kaga ana zaman lafiya? why ?coz d men dnt do adalchi..sai kaga ana son yayan wannan ba'a son ya'yan waccan..pathetic enuff d diffrences shown r usually obvious.. kawai daga mutum ya dan samu karin albashi ko kuma bunkasar kasuwanchi sai yaje ya dakko wata matar??? whut of d religious injunctions??? kit-kat once asked..whut becomes of d female escalating population if we take d western style one woman route? quite justfied but whut happens 2 d those dat are simply oppressed & tied down by d difficult intricacies of polygamy??? luvin ur 2nd wife mo dan d 1st(or vise vasa) is one thing..but showing it in obvious light is anoda...u hardly cud find luv amongst d children of diffrent wives..d problem's roots r most likely 2 evolve 4rm d man's side(  though i agree 2 some xtent dat d door swings both sides..as in d wives cant be left out of d frame)..but its ur duty(as d head of d family 2 lead )..so now d whole family follows d man's path..& bang! u know d rest... kai! can we really blame d women? wen we say it's a man's world?..d ease wit which hausa men divorve thier wives remains a mystery 2 me..divorce rate is so highhhhhhh..just coz gishiri yayi yawa a abinchi sai kaji anyi saki! why? sakin mata yanzu kamar ka saki ..me zance ne ma??? ..kai me gat loads 2 do..i'll definately come back here..i(i might be wrong coz we as humans r diffrent & cee things in diffrent light,more like seeing d whole thing @ diffrent angle..& ohh maybe coz i ddnt grow in a polygamous family..)

[Anonymous]

Dan kauye GOD BLESS U KAJI

[mlbash]

AMIN, AI DAN KAUYEN BASHI DA DAMA!

[Hafsy_Lady]

MHMMM KWAJIDAI DASHI DAN ALAJI A DAN FINGER.
AND THESE ARE THE SAME MEN THAT WILL ASK YOU OF YOUR OPINION ON KISHIYA, WHEN YOU REPLY TTHEM WITH "AM KOOL TO HAVE HER AS A MATE".

THEN THEY WILL START SAYING THINGS LIKE "KE DAI, ARE YOU SURE, KAI FADA KAWAI KIKEYI, FADA KAWAI KIKEYI" LIKE THEY TELL WUNA SAY ALL GIRLS ARE THE SAME. IF BINTA RAISE HELL ON KISHIYA. HALIMA MIGHT SHOW LOVE. SO MAKE WUNA NO DEY JUDGE KISHIYA ISSUES ALL D SAME ON ALL GIRLS. AND LAIDAIZ, DO YOU KNOW THAT SOME OF THESE MEN WHEN THEY HEAR A POSTIVE ANSWER FROM A CHIKAH ABOUT KISHIYA BASU SO, SAI SUTACEWA KEDAI KEDAI LIKE THE HAVENT BLOODY HEARD MY FIRST COMMENT. I AM OK WITH KISHIYA.   :roll:  a'a sun fi son suga mace na juya ido tana tsigalewa tana cewa bata son kishiya. yawwa that is what they like to hear :roll: . SAI KACE BAMU GANE HALINKU BA.  A'A, NO THEY LIKE TO HEAR THE OPPOSITE, THEN THEY WILL START OPENING THEIR 32 TEATH LAUGHING. IF YOU WANT TO SEE A MAN LAUGHING FULL FORCE JUST PUT ON AN ACT THAT SHOWS YOUR DISTASTE FOR KISHIYA, ZASU DINGA DARIYA HAR DA DAGA KAFA (hiss, anan zancen suka fi karfi ai) :roll:

LIKE ONKUL KITKAT HERE, WE HAVE BEEN SAYING ITS OK FOR KISHIYA TO JOIN AND YOU THINK THAT WE JUST FAKING AN ACT. TO, KAFI SON KAJI MUNCE A'A BATA ISA TA SHIGO GIDAN BANE? SHINE ABUNDA KUKA FI SON KU KO? ALLAH SARKI NI NAWA MAIGIDAN MATANSA HUDU.KUMA NICE UWAR GIDA, BA ABUN DA YA DAMENI, NIDAI ABUN DAYA YARINYA DACE ZATA MUNA MIN KISISINA KO MAKIRCI TO ANAN NE ZAN NUNA MATA BATA RIGA TA FITO DUNIYA BA. IF SHE WAN STAY IN PEACE WALLAHI IT IS MY BIRTH NAME. OTHERWISE I FIT SHOW HER PEPPER(and this is the bit the other "gender" like hearing)

[dan kauye]

(enters room)..kai dis gurl! make me go chill kafinan dat gurl don yap finish sai na dawo..(kitty we gat talks..rememba i said i'm gonna lecture u small ko??? ..precious where u @..yar tsokana kawai) byeeeeeee!

[precious]

hmm?ba gani can ina shima albarka ba?ko dai sai na kwashe ta ne?

[dan kauye]

hmm?ba gani can ina shima albarka ba?ko dai sai na kwashe ta ne?

ah haba dai ai ke babbar yaya ce ,kya kuma kwace yar albarkar da kika watsa??? toh sai dai kuma fa....

[mlbash]

uhm! what a forum!

[alhaji_aminu]

salam

Ni dai inajin they have every right to behave that way. After all, we know the ayah permitting polygamy was followed with the one placing restrictions on it (on the basis of unequal treatment by the husband). If matar aure na ganin yi mata kishiya zai kawo tashin hankali ko kuma displaced attention, akanta ko ya yanta, then she should resist it.

Lets not forget they resist it because they find that as the easiest course of action. Busu san cewa they have the right to get their matrimonial relationship dissolved by a judge ba (khul'u).

In this respect I am with the Women 100%.

More power to them, I say............

[mlbash]

hmm?ba gani can ina shima albarka ba?ko dai sai na kwashe ta ne?

 a' a yi hakuri you are too precious for that!

[Fulanizzle]

ayyyyyy back to da same ol topıc...

just lıke last week we had a hot dıscussıon bout thıs......and ahhh the argument seems to never end...

FIRST of all... how many men do u see them treat all theır women equally???

plus u know that on the day of judgement ıf a man doesnt treat hıs women equally...he wıll be waken wıth half hıs body.....sooooo U love ur man..and u dont want hım to marry more than one wıfe coz u dont want hım to have the possıbılıty of wakıng up wıth half a body on Yumal kıyammah........ thats coz u LOVE hım.....okay okay  also coz u r jealous... but also coz thers a 90% chance he wont be a faır man....

And the guys always say.. 'THE PROPHET HAD MANY WIVES TOO'... emmm guysss...an advice...PLEASE stop comparing urselves to the prophet..ur not like him..nothing like him and cant be like him... the Prophet was one outta a million..someone who fears Allah sosai...even though he knew he will go to paradise anyways... I wounnt mind being his 100th wife coz he was such a good man...to all his women too...

anywayzzzz.....if my husband feels he can handle more than one wife....let him go ahead...and if he cant handle the heat? its left for him to wake up half man on the D-Day.

let him marry...i will simply stop cooking and smiling...