Oya, ya'all need 2 gather around lets converse..........Its getin a lil bit borin here...........so lets start su'in 2 keep us all lively.......... It has nothin 2 du with childish behaviour as I can c, eni bahausa or Nigan like that bigmanism..........
well all can b in twenties mid twentish...less or over...well it dont matta....
Well juss wanted 2 converse about shared xperiences,funny encounters, sad,mind frustration,annoyin,scary, thugs string @ ur heart, hard knock life,embarrassin past or present thingy or xperiences or wateva I mean even memebers here u can ::) I mean say wat u feel like........ u been thru!! Mind drillin,darin or any thing that makes u wanna say W**. Any fave thingy u like.
Embarrasin moment: mhmmmm (non shud laff)
I so much is murder scared of spiders & d dark.
Sista Ummita how far?
FREE RYDERS
Well everybody hear this. Ok as u dey ci. Na poor pesin I abi. Me & my friends have this behaviour that has become apart of us...till 1 faithful day..
Actually de thing bi say na all for transportation. Orite orite wuna dey listen ba.... five of us have is phobia of cin bati.....after goin for our normal lectures and if we feel we cant bus it home,or if we feel doing it for fun all we do is to ring 999 then we get diverted 2 police dept.... we go begin dey pretend dey soften voices dey talk say we r lost & one gangsta dey approach us...di next minute police go appear, then we go nack another one....oh di gangta fledi away. Police kuma will say ok can you give us your address so that we can drive you safely home. (in our minds we go say you bet, sure sure minicab driver)
we go enta strechy leg relax & home we go.
One day, as we talk so police come ask where wuna. we come mention street name. Ashe the dept contacted nearest police partollers in that area. We were gigling, laughing & waiting for that smooth ride*the next thing* ***bam***!! we were busted. Polici man & di woman dey standi right behind our back. Me kuma I dey tell my freind fake cry sista fake cry!! I come turn ewo!!! ikodu don spill, naso I open eye.... Come see as shame come scatter for my face. Kuma embarrassent dey because at that moment I get dis my exboyfreind wey I do shege for. I curse dey man well well & he come dey pass for him car. Wayyo kunya kam ba acewa komai. I will never go for free ride again
WAYYO cikina...amma dai Hafsah sannunku kuma dai...wallahi kin bani dariya da yawa ;D
em ummita it's a good thang people like u are here to raise up stuffs like this.
But u see the problem is that most peeps, northerners to be precise are kinna scared to reveal their hearts out to others, maybe they are scared they might be turned down or mocked for that.
Nonetheless i think u should carry on with u're mission. It will be good to have some fun here
free ride abi ? good for you now gobe baza ki kara ba (lol) ;D
QuoteSista Ummita how far?
? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?FREE RYDERS
I get dis my exboyfreind wey I do shege for. I curse dey man well well & he come dey pass for him car. Wayyo kunya kam ba acewa komai. I will never go for free ride again ?
True babes, how about d other episode,!!!?
Ok listen 2 this,...... in those ol dayz, I mean when I was a lil kid, I mean I didnt du nutin in skool............. I juss went 2 skool 4 goin sake............Actually my everyday activity was 2 step in d desk @ distract everybodys attention...........
well.......... 1 tym, I bunked off skool with a couple of freinds,took a hike down town & u know...that kinda of gurls juss wanna have fun thing....(Hey cant finish it....its 2 embarrassin.......
Y'all need 2 promise me none wud laff.
Well on d same day my exams result came out: class 2 (i think) well My aunt picked up my result, out of 40 kids I came 31st................well wat du u xpect....as I said I wasnt constructed, all I knew was juss havin fun. Well my aunt saw us by d driveway as usual havin fun!!!.....well she produced my paper, I was trilled, overwhelmed & anxious 2 get home, hopped in2 d car........as soon as I went home..I ran in2 my mums arms screamin,laffin.............this I said.......Mamma I came 31st.............My lady was like whut................u know I was a kid then I was overtaken by that 1st after d 3...........well my mum went furious wat du u xpect.........since then I reconstructed my life....nxt xmas Ii came 3 out 40!!!!
Ehem.....& Maleeq truss me am open
:o ;D ;D heheheheheeeeeeeeeee lol lol lol child madness syndrome na wetin dey suffer this gyel by that time. I agrid witi you. now di gel dey make it straight A's as I know. emu...eHEMM Ummita I geti confession and I hope your sense that great sense of humour you get go fit forgive me. U see e get one time wey everything na you seminars, lecturer and u bi top for everything. One day like this I no fit bear di jealousy...so I carry feltip marker go clean yuwa name for top memeber board which made me feel a litul biti better for quite a while, but now i com dey feel guilty like this. (forgive me)........
Freinds: I had a bad day today. I was sleeping in class. I had a rough day last night I was trying to revise. Well my tutor kicked me out of class. With all that anger boiling inside me, I stumbled and fell over a bucket of mop and cleaning detergent in my class corridor. Now sadly looking :-[ I lost a good freind of mine. she called me to meet me up. Well I forgot 2 switch off my fone and I was telling my other freind that my freind that rang me bugs me alot I cant stand her she is a miser (rowan tsiya) and I see no reason for her wearing makeup to makaranta ans so on, this and that....wallahi she heard it all on the fone. I pretended to be happy to see her when I met here. Wallahi she gave me mai hot and told me off. She insulted me like hell. and I couldnt say nothing. Who is to blame? Had it been I kept my mouth shut all this wouldnt have happened b/w my freind & I :-/
Came home & it was locked forgot my keys somewhere (I cant remember) one of the windows was open I hopped in, a passer by saw me & rang the police. I was charged with breaking in & theft, but the good part of it I explained and they understood and they apologised. (well am always getting in trouble with the police and I dont know why. I know am just a good gyel). If I ever see that passer by I will break his head. The last thing that I was so tired and lazy so I put some noodles on fire and decided to come online to see whats up with you all!!! came online....at this moment that I am writing this all out. I smelt something disgusting. I now realised it was what I had on fire. My noodles is burnt. Now basically I have no supper. Am now goin out to grab a quick dinner pack and I just hope nothing bad will happen on my way out...if it does tune in thing page or drop by so that I can fill you in next time.
I know y'all sympathise ko?
Oh my God Hafsah, I couldn't help but laugh...
but I do sympathysize with you for loosing a friend...Allah ya shirya tsakaninku.
hahaha...hafsa and ummi!!!! na wa for u!!! ;D
hmm.. as for meeh.. letzz see... i'll gist u bout my JJC to nigeria...
in New Capital Primary school... we had this french teacher from togo... newayzz.. he asked meeh to make a sentence... and i said... "the boy hid behind the car"... and the man look meeh one kine...
"what is CARRRR? caRRRR??? say KAH! KAH! KAH! say it like an african! you're not white!!!! your not american! your an african! KAH!"
i swear i wanted to open the ground and enter... :-/
HAHAHAHA...man!! gaskiya nayi missing kanoonline sosai... since I came back I have been laughing my guts out.
lmao hafsa sorry kawai. Dyme so went to New Capital School too?
Hafsy babes.....cudnt help but laff: That is one mad .......summary of ur bad day! U dont wan2 hear wat guddies I have in store 2 brighthen up ur day :P
Quote"what is CARRRR? caRRRR??? say KAH! KAH! KAH! say it like an african! you're not white!!!! your not american! your an african! KAH!
Gud heavens Dyme! That teacher muss have been d best. Well I got some mad thinkins goin around when I read ur story.
Juss imaginin.......wats d flow of his Adam Apple........when he was pronoucing d "KAH"
& I hope u still have ur oesophagus?
As I b kanoonline guard person,which gives me d gud xcuse & every reason 2 infrom other kanoonliners) that when I was doin d normal patrol late lass nyt, I spotted a couple of intruderz (shebi, oda kanoonlist know sey). we get nyt creepers 4 this site!!!! cumin here @ 2, 3 & even 30 (thirty) oclock @ nyt.
From now on.....I will call all those cumin online late nyt......when they shud b in bed...........KNNC........(Kanoonline,nyt,creepers)!!!!! It is my duty to ban all KNNC, because it is just not ryt!!!
So KNNC's BEWARE & BEWARNED . Eny KNNC's found again will b liable 2 prosecution
They know their selves (I am laffin).
Mazaa na 4 nite dem they work now besides its now around 5am 4 naija and u posted this not morre than 30mins ago so id charge u first thing in the morning to Police commisioner Bilyaminu for nite creepin as u call it.
guys bari in baku wani labari,amma ku yi sympathising da ni fa.
Ok where do i start from.....Ok there was this day in my first year at F.G.C Kwali,woke up in the morning and my feet were hurting,but i did'nt bother to check so i hurried to the mosque.After praying they were still hurting so i decided to check,guys u wont believe this but kafa na ya cinye :o.i was confused cuz i was sure my feet were not like that when i went to bed so i met some seniors,they were like this is normal, ai bera su ka cinye ma kafa ??? :o.as i junior boy i could not do anything so i hurried back to the hostel to get ready for classes but to my astonishment my whole box was missen ???.Again i took tkis as a man and decided not to call home.Hmm....after a few days kuma skool bag di na including my exercise and text books was missen :o ??? :(.Now this was it , i had to call home.My mother almost cried when she saw me ,infact i overheard her telling my sistr"ai Yaya kam nayi sa'a da ya dawo gidan nan,da ga shi sai report card din shi da aka soka mishi a aljihu ya dawo gidan nan".
That was how i left the skool,kai it was raelly a bitter experience.
lol! ashe kayi kwali? when was that? no dauka u were in command all along....
GFella... yeah i was in New Capital... i even remember u... and all the other pesky rowdy hausa boiz...
hmm another gist... ok, was talking to this guy... it wasnt like i was feeling him or anything, i mean, he wasnt even "all that"... i was juss talking and talking, and then playing around with a stapler...
hmm... before i know, i stapled my finger... and remained there like :o !!! hahaah... i tried not to show the guy i hurt maself... so i was tryna act cool and collected... amma f'real duk na roode!..lol
Quote,guys u wont believe this but kafa na ya cinye :o.i was confused cuz i was sure my feet were not like that when i went to bed so i met some seniors,they were like this is normal, ai bera su ka cinye ma kafa ???
1 bafflin thing Mo!!! Ur feet still remainz as an unsolved mystery!! Rats bite off feets?
Ashe,.....I have 2 get rid of my lil niece (pet hampster). b/4 it finishes her 4 barbacue!!!
Am back
Tragedy upon tragedy...............my version for today my own don pafuka finito! I don lose my bobo for 1 week & eight days. Me & my man naso we like each oda well wellu.equation balance. He like me I like him Di tin be say we dey togeda for tiri yrs now 3yrs. Na for long term relationship we dey. One day like this we come go wedding. Naso we di gels get one corner wey we sidown dey browsw & select wo beta pass among di boys wey dress for tazarce. Na my mouth & judgement wey pass everybody there. Naso I come dey put my kolo kolo eyes for one fyne bobo I spot. On a scale of 1 to 10 I go rate the man 9%. Everything of his is in good condition. His face, no bear bear like goat, his head no look like ogidi tree. emu!!! his total structure na correct. Meh ma sef I know I pretty no bi small (yes I pretty) I know say if di boy spot me, he go like me. well I had one option to walk pass him ;D. As if it was written on my face like I target him before I pass him sef he don call me already. His voice en...emmm bace cewa komai... abar zancen kawai. The sad thing was my bobo travel. So I be single while di cat is away di mouse go play...... Well di boy come tell me he like me, mi kuma i no dey play that kine hard to get (because I no wan opportunity make ey pass me. The man get good sense of humour, good method of sepikin hausa/english, he no dey boost around and the bi as calm as ice. well di boy com collect my number...well he dey visit me regularly. Love just dey spark like fire. till one fateful day. I NONO say my "We met at a wedding boyfreind" na my bobo cousin. One day he come visit me my bobo come na there they come jam**** moment of truth....na so I come drop mouth like monkey....i dey blink eyes like scape goat.....my bobo come dey ask "wetin bring you here abi you bi freinds with her broda, this bi my fiancee wey I dey tell you about. SHAME AND EMABARASSMENT/ only one way out, God make you open floor swallow me. As my bobo getti hot tember naso he walk away after realisation of the chater I bi. wey di tin bin I come ring am, out my self for anoda trouble. I come tell em say you know say if na your cousin I no go freind but if na oda I go freind. Naso my bobo call me cheater. Now my bobo dey angry and na now sef I realise my bobo fine pass my we met at a wedding bobo. Now as my bobo get good heart he don forgive meh. Kuma my bobo no dey cheat at me at all at all, anso he dey treat me like egg. Well we don solve dey issue. But today naso my bobo call me for my cellular, wireless cordless mobile telephone. I dey hear voice of one yeye gel for background. I come dey raise hell dey shout at my bobo. who bi that for background. Who be that man snatcher, that useless gel? I come dey say Farouk I swear I will kill you today. U dey cheat ba!! Well he just said one thing and I KEPT SHUT..
Hafsa yanzu ke kina ma da baki kiyi masifa, ko kiyi kishi bayan ni cousin dina ma kike so....to ba wata bace illa kakata goggo abaiyya, kuma kinsanta (see how I come dey blush......emu>>> I bi very fair wo!) so no one should say black ppl no dey blush.
As from tis time any gathering if we get and I dey for company of my freinds, if Browsing and selecto is in process (thats di title we give for selecting who fine pass) naso I go dey block my ears with cotton wool. I no wan anodda trouble.
Now as I dey write this I dey think. WHEN WILL I STOP GETTING INTO SHAMEFUL SITUATIONS?
Hafsa!!! Wallahi kina bani dariya sosai... u r lucky u don get a man with good heart...
AAAH!!! and about the granny!! man!! that's way off the hook! Lallai kyaji kunya sosai!
Ok hear this...
I think I was only 8 or 9 yrs... there's this Islamiyya we used to go in warure...anyway...da kwai wani gidan cousins dina a unguwar...one fatefull day, me and one of my cousins went to the house and it was locked...so we knocked on the door then ran away, came back and knocked again then ran away again...we did that like 3 or 4 times.
AAhh...on the 5th one, I went back alone and saw the door opened! As I turned to leave, I saw the house maid... OH MY GOD...I will never forget that day...she beat the living day lights out of me...ta takani...hit me from all sides har sai da nayi... ;D I have never cried in my life like that day.
I went home and kai kara... the next day, someone from home came to the skool and reported the thing to one of the malams... the maid was called and was questioned why she did that to me...Uhm...as she opened her mouth, na lie don commot!!! "aa na ganta ta fadi ne, shine nace mata ta tashi ta daina kuka tayi hakuri"... nace AH!! wallahi karya ne! duka na tayi... but obviously as she is older than me, the malam took her word... ni kam aka barni da tsamin jiki!!!
Allah sarki Ihsan Sannu Da jiki. lol,lol,
Well, i even feel embarassed 2 write this
Ok.... On a nice sunny day, going for a picnic with some friend's & cousin's, wanting 2 eat nothing but Indian curry chicken, we popped into a grocery. I being Miss Busy Body in da front grabbed a Frozen Chicken meat balls and there was no price on it, so decided 2 join da q 2 pay 4 it. There was alot of ppl and i was inpatient and eager 2 leave, but didn't know da price for it .So i decided 2 ask I shouted across da shop full of ppl
EXCUSE ME MISTER, HOW MUCH IS UR BALLS &
and all i could c was all eyes on me.Even the shop man stood there staring. I didn't realise ??? wat i said until 5 sec later BALLS :shock: ohh god I was way too embarassed & melted into da shop flour,i placed da chicken back and end up not buying it. Tun daga ranan, bani ba indian grocery innan:-[,
Lol lol :D :D :D nice 1 Beebat
LoL!!!!! hafsa and beebat!!!!! LMAO!!! kai, amma ihsan kin ji jiki~
u know sumthin'... some of these females at weddings.. they dont go to celebrate their friend's/sister's/relative's wedding.. they go to get their own hubby... ::)
the "notice meeh" thing is very very annoying...
and the fellaz tryin' to impress... with their tazarce... iz like.. oh local boi go siddown one place and dont come out... ;D
kai Ihsan sorry wo! :(And hafsa Hmmm......Al'amarinki sai dua'i .Beebat naki kam ba magana :-X.gaskiya kin kopsa!
Dyme ke ko ga biki ai dole a zarce ko ka samu ta gari ;D
HAHA....kai Beebat i sympathize with u wellu wellu. Damn, it must have been.....sorry kawai.
lol
Ppl call me Millie,
I came across kanoonline & this topic gave me the privilegde to write out my story.
Ummita I have to thank you ;) & I noticed your intials. I have heard about you from a freind, do you know Hydar? U can reach me at Milliebabes@hotmail.com
I lived in Lagos. I once lived a happy life which shattered into thin air and what remains of it is just pure grief, anogy, misery and this I will never forget.
It all started out when my father died on 5th August 2001 . I was 20yrs of age and this came as real hard experiances that alot of you out here my age have never been through. My mother was mixed race. Her mother was a spanish lady that she lost contact with & all her generation when she moved down to Nigeria. Well after my fathers death, my mother was forced to marry my fathers brother. They say is tradition: I say the begining of hardship & for the wealth my father left us.
My only older brother Vincent lived allmost all his life in U.S. & I was used to those summer & christmas holds down there. Well life became a struggle. My uncle took possession of our inheritance. In particular, my dad left me 2house,2cars a land in my home town Bendel, and some other miscellaneous, so was my brothers share taken all away by my uncle. I attended a private uni in the outskirts of the southern part. My Uncle removed me & off was I to ABU zaria where though hardship I finished my degree course. All designer clothing was banned or a taboo to me, because my uncles three wifes swoped my closet & introduced Iro & bubu & George: infact they turned me into a housewife with the dressin and all. My mother was so pretty: ppl say is because she is half spanish or so and so did ppl give me comments of my looks. So did many flashy cars patrol Bendel streets, asking for my hands in marriage. Well the only b/f I had for 2yrs was take away by my uncles daugther. They go engaged. Well not only did my was my boyfreind taken away. Somehow I was deprived of speaking to my bro, my mobile was taken away and given to my uncles daugther (Amanda) which she uses to call my ex every second!!(imagine how I would feel). My pc I normally chat, mail ppl out & do my coursework was also given to uncles youngest son!!! Well my mum & I were treated badly. Foodd!!(I hardly see food in that house given to me or my mum) Besides food was the last thing on my mind. I have other worries. Still I maitained food supplies for mum with the savings I have.My mum had no one except her sister who also lives in lagos and they were like water and fire. so going to her was a minus. By the way, (incase I forgot to say this) my mum was asked to move down to Bendel. On a visit to Bendel, I searched for my mum in the small room my uncle gave her but I coudnl find her, but the room was taken over by my uncles 4th new wife. I then found her. Situaited in the garage was my mothers new room. It wasnt that bad & it wasnt ok. Because this is my mum who onces had her own apartment but now she lives in a garage. She was ill. With some savings I had (let me tell a lil of my savings, my dad opened a account for me and I said no need dad, that time everything was ok, he said to me Millie darlin , u never know, mabe I it might come in handy)!!!! (u bet it surely did) Well now... I was able to take my mum to the hospital and after some months she was diagnosed with BP. Well I knew if she stayed longer she might also end up end. I had a idea. I bought a ticket and flew to Kano, went to to see my dads freind Alhaja Mohammed in Hotoro, his wives, Oh my dayz!!!treated me with royalty....talking of beauties hausa have it all!!! Uncle Mohammed was like a father to me and a good buddy & also a business partner with my dad. Now the big suprise!! My dad had this huge share and a contract he signed came well. I left Kano richer than I taught I would ever be. He also had some investments in Vincents name. & not a dyme did my dadas freind take out from our money. He sat down for say 3hrs and showed every detailed inflow of money. & then he folded all the documents & handed it over to me. He also gave me 30 thousand naira as help. I will forever thank him enough. Hausa ppl are real. When I was in this mess hausa freidns stood by me so did my other freinds. he told me not to worry and he was going to fight till I get back all that my father left from Uncle!!
I came back to Lagos and stayed over with my freinds hausa also(Gosh Hausa ppl, I simply love..........) Well she helped me in everyway so did her family. I finally went to meet my mothers rival sister(suprised and shocked she opened her arms to me) well all I heard about was she was used with black magic against my mum or so that they will not be in good term.................... Well she fought for her sister and got her a divorce. We all moved to Lagos. i finally got a job & my mum went into a partnership with her sister selling Gold jewellies e.t.c. I finally got in touch with Vincent who was quite upset that we've abandoned him. We told him all and till this day I can still hear him sobber. Tears flowed my eyes so did my mums. Well after two weeks my brother landed. Hell was to begin. You know that sort of legal calamities that onyibos have my brother was using it against my uncle (I knew it wouldnt work) My brother decided that we all move to US. Already my mum & I have this Shughai Visa so getting prepared wasnt that difficult. 2months before our departure. I came back from work. My aunt rang me to pick to some money from her customer. As I parked my car (Yeah, I forgot my aunty gave me a Honda car). I just felt someone pull me out I was almost beaten to death. Thanks to the 2 Okada men that saved my life and to God almighty. Few days later I started hallucinating & behaving like a mad girl. After what my aunt & mum been through: I heard those boys that beat the shit out of me were cult members and for my beauty they wanted me for sacrifice: who sent them. My uncle of course!!!!
Well this made us change our minds and 2weeks later we left for US. Life is ok. I am almost done with my masters, in uni. My mum works in a solicitors chamber and my brother is a lawyer/solo artist (he does the singing in his spare time) We were able to track down my mothers ppl. & spanish life ,.......!!! :-X But the boys r cute!!!! ;) I am also engaged and will be married July 2003 to a hausa manhopefully!!! , he is so loving and caring. My religion: (christianinty) Though, I have always had a passion for Islam. So adjusting with my muslim fiancee is at all not a prob. His family are so ok with it. He told me he will maitain his religion and I will maintain mine.My bridesmaid will Haleemat a hausa freind I met in Newyork. I hope all of you will come for my wedding(share my new found happiness)!!!!
Well thats all for my past live experience. For my uncle he is still leaving in Nija and eating my fathers money. I dont know what nemesis will befall him, but I surely know that it will sooner or later.
oh Lord... i'm so so so so thrilled!!!! that u kept ur head up high and survived all that....
gurrrrl.... i'm near tears...
wait.. i'll be back....*sniff*
hmmm...i dunno wat to say ,urs is a rrreally touching story.as 4 ur uncle God no go leave am.
awwwwww.....Millicent that was really abitter expirience,and how heartless your uncle was,but as the common saying goes "he who laughs last,laughs best",and i'm sure u are.
And'bout the wedding... ;D,i'm soooooo happy for u.may it turn out to be blissful ;)
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Ummita I have to thank you ;) & I noticed your intials. I have heard about you from a freind, do you know Hydar? U can reach me at Milliebabes@hotmail.com
Ehemm...(she coffs) Millie Hon, well......Nah i dont know him....or mayb I du :D well actually ....(no comments :-X).
I was really struck by ur life history: It is so touchin. am also happy about ur soon 2 bcome a married woman, I also know ur...........................................
QuoteOk..this myt sound funny, buts its so stupid...
......I juss popped my head thru d window & go.........ishhh....*** lady!!! move it, will yah??? ?
See this gel :o :o :o Ashe my own beta pass, since me na my inlaw I take mistakely curse, but u na yuwa mama: Ummita meimaso ki kwalero sin to shin ta kwem!!!! ;) Dont tell 'em wat it means
MILLECENT: Wayyo! Eya eya! eya, I cried and cried and cried and cried and cried ten box of tissue including the side of my mother wrapper was used to blow out all that yorky thing wey fill my nose. I also come dey laugh dey smile dey happy dey dance with joy when I hear yuwa endi of story Such is life!!!
;D ;Dhafsa gaskiya ba me ban dariya a site kaman kiii!!
Not looking for sympathizars.................I mean I been through one of those situations where you find yourself helpless.
HEAR MY STORY.
Met a gurl feel for her and things were straight, she was in uni studying for her degree course I was doing my Master final year.
I bought her loads of gifts, paid for each and every of her cell bills, took care of her transport tickets to and from Nija, I saw to her every necessity. I went shopping with her, held bags, opened car doors & entrances I treated her like a queeen, I treated her like a lady. she treated me like a king. She also cook meals so that I could pick up when ever I was away as am a bachelor.....she saw to the fact that my fridge was always packed. My does my launderette on weekend incase you guys get the wrong impression,......we werent cohabitting, mind you. she leaves with her parents and I live on my own. Both our parents knew we were together. Our likes and dislikes she took me to yoga classes and I had to sit down for three hours and watch helplessly women excersing. I took her to the gym she couldnt stand it. Music she loves 112 and things like that. I was into hiphop and garage. Films she hated action packed I loved it. I knew all her likes and dislikes. When ever she called I could tell what sort of mood she is in.. whether angry or happy. All her freinds knew me. I gave them cars for gurls day outs. Her freinds liked me much and infact my gurl adored me like whut!!!!!! She knew I was the quite & shy type. So she excempted me from things I do not like. Well things started getting nasty. She was seeing another GIZZARD behind my back. And the money I was giving her and all that. she was using it to support the suckers financial needs. She told me to get her the latest mobile in town for her. I did the next day she said it was misplaced (when her book opened & her secret all spilled in open air, I found out she gave it to her new guy) Well next she started asking foor designer perfumes. As I knew what she wants ( I alwayz get the latest Issey Miakey for women)She started asking for the receipt. One time I caught her in Booths and what was she doing: she was exchanging all the female perfumes to male (who was it for, the sucker!!!) She stratred acking like a real big 'ol fraeak hiding phone bills and all that. She started excusing herself immediately her phone rings. Getting all tensed up when her mobile is with me. She hides txt messages & beep alerts and all that sort!!! Ma gurl started acting strangely. All she wanted was money. And I gave it to her even thorugh I noticed some changes. Well things got really nasty because some how I got to find out. We broke up after 4 years of long string. I took up all to her shits. Infact I wrote her exams did her projects and all she got were top marks and meritss. She came first. My mum could ask me to do things and I could hesitate but in her case, it was different. Not that women control me, Nah..........I just taught they were so fragile and I handled them with care!!! ;) Yeah I got hooked up with her BEST FREIND. Infact since they were together, I knew I got the hots for her freind. I asked her out she agreed. I loved her and she does thesame. My ex couldnt stand it and threatned to kill my baby gurl. She calls my house curses everyone. She smashed up my brand new car. She ran up my credit card. She put together my male buddy's against me. She deliberately stole my semisters projects, and I failed because I couldnt submitt the assignement. She stole it from my car. But hey I still made it to the top!!!She came to my house, broke in even when my alarm was out. She smashed up my stereo, My prized possession PS2 My games keep me company when the B***h broke my heart!!!! she smashed up my tv. Well she became a threat every where I go. Life was also a living hell for my new gurl and also a best mate to my ex. Well I TAUGHT the best thing to do was to break up with my new gurl as well for her own safety but then I taught nah....................that aint happening because I trully love ma chick!!! Well she told my peeps I was a fraud master, I chop up people head for money thats where I get my dough. ( I juts work in my spare time under my father.which is so funny, as gurls behaciour makes me laugh esp when we are in to deep shits) she do almost mersiless things.(So I bullshitted everything thinking she just needed time to get it through her head that we are over). I swear that gurl was driving me insane!!!!!!!!!! Well I knew I had to set the record straight. I knew I had to sort out that B**** even though I did love her. (If you trully knew how I loved her once but who cares..its all over now .......)(that reminds me of her favorite track its all over now 112) surely it is..... I was to do something something....act real quick. She was about to know that I also could be so bad. I was a devil in disguise.!!! She was to regret ever loving me. She bruised me so much that I always had the heart to forgive her, but If I dont act real quick she will destroy my life. I pity the next guy who will fall for her. Guess what I did to that..........money after slot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I dont want you to go................ :o :o.I dont believe you did that!!!!!!!!!! I will holla next time.
Yo!! Ummita keep d place blazing.
PS: I STILL LOVE MY BABES. SHE IS EVERY MANS DREAM.
Rolled out!!!!
DAYUM!
Ayya... I sympathize with you ladies papi... I pray this new girl won't be like her friend... coz u know... :-/
Quoteshe treated me like a king. She also cook meals so that I could pick up when ever I was away as am a bachelor.....she saw to the fact that my fridge was always packed. My does my launderette on weekend incase you guys get the wrong impression,.
um.. excuse meeh.... but did she really cook? and do ur laundry?? ? ?? LMAO!!!!!!!! she filled up ur fridge?? ? ?...... LoL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sorry.. i juss hadta laff....
O! u sabi tell stori wo.
hello guyz yu can call me babygal i was introduce to kanoonline by a friend like three day ago n its really nice since then there no day i dont come in i dont have a story to say yet but will laita insha allah
Glad 2 have u bck.............no wonder!!, so thats xplainz d depression. Man u need 2 sort urself straight out!!!
Though................(its all ur fault) ;)[/blue]
Man that gurl was sssooo heartless :o,i really felt 4 ya when i read this ,nnywayz its almost over.But u're really strong cuz if it were it would've taken me a very long time to trust any gurl,ko da yake..............ya wuce :-X
Wayyoooooo Allah :'( :'(, Ladies Papi, gaskiya, yarinyan ta kupsa maka,soyayya hauka ne, Amma kai baka.........anyway kasan matan yanzu........sai gyaran allah. Kai kuma sai ayi hakuri saboda shine maganin duniya :-[
QuoteNot that women control me, Nah..........I just taught they were so fragile and I handled them with care!!! ;)
Yo!! Ummita keep d place blazing. ?
PS: I STILL LOVE MY BABES. SHE IS EVERY MANS DREAM.
Rolled out!!!!
U surely hadled her with care, as she is fragile...........mhmmmm u know wat my peeps call gurls like urs (we call 'em GONADOM BABES). Wanna know wat it stands 4? ****Gurls of nowadays depend on money****
Ur fragileness did surely work but d other way round: it didnt du nefink!!!!, xcept shatter u down 2 pieces.
Ryt............Paps as u d man...........I say pick ur pieces & get ur act 2gether........get real, suck it up life goes on!!!!!!!!!
Na true...... Justi forgeti di firobilem.............
I get sitori, ANOTHER SAMEFUL ACT.............
This one na mi, na mi.
I get one of this pesky boys why dey disiturb me well wellu. One day di boy came for inside him small rav4 moto. He come dey bounce like bouncin burner for my front and for all my seven firends wey dey there. Then three cars come land and all his friends comot...........Well mi kuma as I bi center of attention....I wan du shege for di boy.
Chineke mnmezo!!! wuna wan here.
I come dey du my catwalk............dey blink eye like babie doll...........dey look all di boys three quarterly...........I come dey front....dey walk as if walking is a stress. Wai irn I wan du shege...........I wan put history...wey ego bi talk of the town. I come carry my left hand (come du Film style) come give di boy kpwa kpwa (DIRTY SLAP)..... for hi chick, I come say kada ka kara zuwa gidanmu,....an hana ni samari.............di yellow feva face him get come turn red. I juSt come do one kine stylish u-turn walk away. everybody there come du mouth like u go fit cook kpamo 4 inside :o :o :o Ni kuma, I justi dey feel untop of di world. I dont break record for book of genius........slapping a fine boy in the presence of his & me's firends. Wallahi kunsan me ya faro..........I dey waka like so dey stick nose for air................dey feel like wan queen. I justi hear, somebody jack me from the behind. Somebody strangle my neck. I come turn na tree hot slap from left and right side justi dey land for my face. Kpwaw, tass, kwap, tatass, na dey thing I only hear..........naso I come dey see stars. I come close face dey cry like one goat.........As I dey recap di incident & as I dey write wuna.....so I just dey regret............dama banyi kuka ba ko? Da ma na basar dinnan, ko ya kuka ce? (kuma ashe akwai mazajen da basu kyaliya)? esp hiting a chick queen like me? ;D well shame as usual come scatter. Na so my shishigi firends come surround me dey comfort me. Shi kuma di boy dey come justi enter there car & manuovered away..leavin my swollen face like kumburaren flour....
Come seee as my face swell up...............bulldog beta pass me. Since that day. I never ever, I will leva leva do....(indian style) dama I don forget say that one na act.
Kano oneline make wuna no take me as mumu..........as I juss dey tell wuna na sitori....na because I dey feel free & this place dey remind me so....4 back home....... and also yaranta ne lokacin...yanzu kuwa ina.....!!!!!
Blad...........where ma blood @? Ummita. cee as how yuwa post dey make me tell my sikirit.
No problem sef....this one I don pass.....ma sef as di boy & me bi good freinds now well well........
Hafsa u've simply made my day. You are funny bubbly and surely knows how to make people laugh. Yeah I heard your story from your little young peeps around uni.
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U surely hadled her with care, as she is fragile...........mhmmmm u know wat my peeps call gurls like urs (we call 'em GONADOM BABES). Wanna know wat it stands 4? ****Gurls of nowadays depend on money****
Ur fragileness did surely work but d other way round: it didnt du nefink!!!!, xcept shatter u down 2 pieces.
Ryt............Paps as u d man...........I say pick ur pieces & get ur act 2gether........get real, suck it up life goes on!!!!!!!!!
Yeah well. I didnt regret all that I did for her, but I surely did regret ever knowing her. Yeah guess I just have to get a grip 'ol things. Sucked it up already. Am sly remember!!!! ;)
Hasfah!!... u don make me cry from laughter... Ummita, plz maker her reveal more secrets (lol) I can't get enough of her stories... ;D
LoL!!!!!! i find sumone who nearly pass meeh in maddnesssss... meeh slap a guy?? ?? ?? at this age of mine?.... ok so i used to wrestle wit' them and spit in them face when i was TWELVE yrs and below... amma..... oh gelle.... u try oh LoL! he show u pepe!
Ouch gul,
Here is a kool joke I read from a mag:
3 guys were having a conversation 1 of them was an American the other was a Japanese and the last was a Nigerian.
The American started of by saying my country is so technologically advanced that a guy who had no legs won the New York marathon on prosthetic legs.
Then the Japanese guy was like that is nothing we r so technologically advanced that a guy was fitted with prosthetic arms and legs and he went on to won gold in the Olympics in boxing
Then the Nigerian was like that is nothing in my county we had a guy who was born without a head and he is now the President of the country and he has a coconut for a head ;D.
com Venom thiz yuwa kin joke ;D.......
wanaan dey basically da ehmm.... kakeyi :-X :-X ;D ;D
annywayz nice one!!!!!!!
i'm out ;)
Hehe nice one . u get am wellu wellu ;D
Its been a long long time. Kanoonline, kanoonline. They still exist. But surely everythings good here.
Came 2 sort L paps, I heard what he wrote in konline, so I came to read the whole thingy. hmmmmmm................
Ummita Blad, Hafsy blad!!!!!
Ummita man!!! U need 2 shove your a** outta ol heiz, coz these days ol heiz gon' be staying ol indoor, & we missing ol heiz, u stuck ol here in konline!! Man, pck up & lets get outta ol heiz, cuz we gon b hiting town. cuz hell fun aint ol kool with out yah, heiz missing we all on yow. Yaozags ;)
That was L paps story: Listen to the true picture. #
A guy cheats on his girl. Wat would any responsible girl do? Well to top things up Ladies Papi Include those three Timberlands that got ripped!! Graffitti writing on your car!!! Thats fulfils how insane she was driving you to.
She wasnt your gurlfriends mate, but she was her blood cousin man!!! Blood cousin!!! ::) ::) (ur new gelfreind is your oldgirlfreinds blood cousin shortie). You started on her cousin nigga! Listen how bad is it. When a guy comes to see his babe, but his eyes are glued to her cousin. You bought presents for her secrtely (incase you didnt know, we all know your games). Of course you lavished your ex with luxuries. Did she beg for that? Well you infact took her cousin out pretending to be treating her like yar uwar budurwar ka! But deep inside theres something fishy! Yes she did help with teh cooking etc. For laudry I know she just took them to laundry services man! Yes you cared she did as well. You didnt lie to anything you have written all out. Yes trully it has all happened, but what did you do first? Whats the real issue behind all this? Was it her cousin you were dating only? Or should we include you dating her older sista. Now you callin ma shortie a playa? Er??? What makes you any different? Wait till she see this. U gon' get ol a** whoopidy. Am gon bring her 2 konline.........better stay indoors & make sure u have a helment on..........hehehe..I just love these type of things. All the members would you want to hear the whole story? hehhe L papis u will be sorry. U got games huh? A 28yr old still palyin hot skool games!!! I pity you if the whole gurls get to read this.
Ummita why didnt you give me ol heiz hardy? U let him off like that!!!!!. Anyway I dont blame you, I hate that cool atty's of yours. Anyway now his clamin to be your husband. I saaw it in another post (u are in big trouble babes :P :o)
Hafsy Babes. you u let guydies off like that. :o :o Is that how we rule? oin our own style?
Ihsan, Maleeq, Fella and all thats not the whole story.
To be honest, L paps we all know you are one cool guy, & everyone says it. but, that is not all that has happened :-/ between you & her.. should I tell them?
..... her COUSIN?? :o?? i'm guessin papi is from kano..... ::)..
aniwayzzz... i bet he was eyein the cuzin all along... man, mallo boiz would date u, ur cuzin, ur friend, ur enemy, ur aunty.. and dont be surprised when he hits on ur granny.......*hiss
mhmmm
Venom nice one u gat there,keep them coming ;)
Heard of Kanoonline, came online and found just about the right topic to let the world hear me out.
I wanted to tell you guys how life was good with my baby girl. We started off since in junior high. I graduated she went off to university. We were inseparable. I cared so much that words cant describe. We were together all the time. We were still young, she was just 20 . I was 27 so we were still young. We had palns to be together. We had plans to marry together. First we wanted to achieve our goals. She doeasnt care about money nothing like that. She wsa gentle, kind, charming,god natured, popular, playful,soft spoken, faithful,fearful,tolerant, brave, sociable,polished,obidient & very sympathetic. She was everything. We shared together happy and sad moments. She stood by me when things were rough. She was so much fun to be with. I am glad destiny lead her to me. I cherished her like everything. She was my best freind, she kept all my secrtes, she was a true companion, my soumate, my best freind. I respected her like a man supposed to. She knew how to treat me well.
Damn!!! like took over its toil, I fateful day, I came to pick her up from her uni, well we had a little argument that day & she refused the ride home. Well I told her if you like dnt speak to me and she said dont worry I will never speak to you again (I taught she was only joking, because she does things like that). Well I decided to see a freind. Later that day ataround 5:30pm, my heart began to bed badly. Damn! I knew something was up. I became so moody for no reason. Nothing seemed so good. As I drove past my girls house. There was so many people at the frnt gate. Well I taught maybe my girls step mum had a baby, cus I recalled my girl telling me her steppy was goign to have a baby. Well from peoples reaction I knew I taught otherwise. Parked my car & all I could hear was people crying. I pushed towards the crowd & I remember my girls brother Nafi'u coming towards me so did her older brother Bash they heald on to me. I taught what the heck is ging on. ............................................... I couldnt belive it. Not my biggest fear. This cant happen. My girl was gone. (I still feel odd believeing that till this day she is trully gone). I recall laughing at all the people, becuase I was with her few hours ago. I refused to agree that she is truly gone. How did this happened. A big truck (drove over her). The ugliest scene was I saw my girl. I cant explain. I still grieve. I still mourn for her. I cant believe she was gone. I wake up in the morning thiinking she will call my phone and wake me up for prayers. I guess this is over. Allah gave her to me now his taken back what I did cherish. My girls father honoured me, so much by allowing me to lead her prayesrs immediately after the mallam. I was given A BIG sized pic by her sisters for keeps. Thousands came to sympathise. I still cant imagine. I am still in griefs. Am scared be with another incase I loose her most of all I cant find anyone that is worth my girl. Myself & her peeps are creating a personal homepage for those of you who would like sign in memory. But at thesame time you can sign in my homepage. SHE WILL ALWAYS HAVE A PSECIAL PLACE IN MY HEARTAND FOREVER HER HEART WILL GO ON.
Thanks for reading till this end.
Ummita & ur peeps, thnx 4 goin thru the hassle to design my girls homepage. Allah ya biya bukatu.
I would like all kanoonline to show that my girl is also a freind, even though some of you dont know her.
PS: The home page is still under construction. Therfore assessing might be difficult. http://www.geocities.naslub. (For those of you that will take the burden to sign up. Na gode allah ya biya bukatu)
In loving memory of Lubna Hayat Ibrahim
From 1981 ---------2002
University of Glamorgan
:'( Allah ya jikan ta... and Allah ya gafarta mata... Wish ya all the best homie... keep ya head up!
are u sure its the right addy... didnt go thru...
Uncle Nas, ;D
Yeah . Its good that you srufed through. Didnt we tell you that this site is kool. Well Lubna surely did live a life. We lost a blad man!!!! I will never forget her. One thing that she did was to stick up for me when I got my self in Bulls. She sticked up like all D bLAD SISTAS!!!
Kai Nas, ba shegantaka ba, na tuna lokacin fa, kai mallan da kayi wani akshon sai kace a film, Romoe nogo even fit do that one. Di time wey you come dey sob like so...wani irn kuka dakayi sai kawa ka burge ni....irin kukan (mai shiga zucui) the best part bi di place wey her papa home hold you, u come embrase her papa dey cry like soooooooooo........eyya di tin come touch my heart my soul........... & another place wey you come look like one kine acto is di place wey.........kai (make I shurrup). I am supposed to sympathise as di gel bi Blad!!!!!!!!!!!!
(brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrashew) sorry for my bad manner. I was only blowin catarh... :'( Allah ya jikan Blad)!!!!!
We gon be just fine! True Blad!!! Respect!!!
Make I go cry small
Ayya Nas...wallahi I really sympathize with you ?:'( Allah ya jikanta... yasa Aljanna firdous ce makomarta. And may Allah give you someone that will be like her.
Hafsa!!! u dis gel!! ?::)
Ladiez P. :o :o :o :o :o...na so??????? God help you wo!!! looks like is someone is gonna ...
To Nas
May Allah magnify your reward, make better your solace and for give ur deceased.
Amen
Nas that was.....im outta words ,but i juss gotta tell ya bro
keep tha faith n pray for better days.ita kuma Allah ya jikan ta.
QuoteAyya Nas...wallahi I really sympathize with you ?:'( Allah ya jikanta... yasa Aljanna firdous ce makomarta. And may Allah give you someone that will be like her.
Hafsa!!! u dis gel!! ?::)
Ladiez P. ?:o :o :o :o :o...na so??????? God help you wo!!! looks like is someone is gonna ...
Allah sarki, Ihsan my kawalliya.. wallahi sai kinga akshon din da Nas yayi kolacin rasuwar Blad dinmmu. I was only being realistic. Insan sai kingani, abin ban shawa. Nas you sabi cry. Ina irn kukan slow motion. Mmmh make I shorop.. 5 minutes silence in respect of our lost Blad.
Lubna may you rest in piece. Allah ya baki gidan aljanna. Muma sai mun hadu ashan. (kuka) :'( kai wayyo)
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That was L paps story: Listen to the true picture. #
A guy cheats on his girl. Wat would any responsible girl do? Well to top things up Ladies Papi Include those three Timberlands that got ripped!! Graffitti writing on your car!!! Thats fulfils how insane she was driving you to.
Did I miss out this much!!!!!!!!!!!
You see how insane the gurl is? Now she is sending my own freind N. Star after me in a site. S N. Star you better stay outta this. Yaranta na damunta. I mean, theres ntohing wrong in telling people your story. Am not the closed type. Am a free man. So that gurl was the one with Graffiti writing on my car ;D Mata dai!!!!. N. Star you dont know the clear pic. You just heard bullocks.
I met her cousin before I met the gurl. Her cousin got married to some dude (forced marriage I guess) then I met the cheater!!!! well we broke up. Is there anything forbidden to date a freind? Nah I dont think so. U see technically I gat nothing to loose, except dating that gurl was the biggest mistake ever and she messed me up badly////becuase it will affect all my relationships because I just cant see how I will date a gurl & trust her whole heartedly. Theres always going to be a doubt of a heart that was never really sure.
Ummita yeah you can go ahead and deny.... ;D ;D but...........(kai jamaa gaskiyanta ni God Father dinta ne. Ina da matata da wasu ke so su kasheta.
ummita
guys this story na for real......... u know say ma house na full of babes, so when ever were broke and feel like eating assoted@ getting some figures, ma cousin de sicklecell da plan na for her to start sicklelie and admit her self in hospital for da seek of those materials, we go stay for hospital for say 1 week after everyone brings da cash@ assoted she de fly home immediately.
one evening we all made plans for her to stay for 5 nights, we don't know say her dad don't buy tickets for london and we meant to live in 2 days time. daddy come break news we were all suckin, as we went to da hospital daddy know say sorry next time maybe coze u no fit travel because u de sick badly, this girl talk say babah mai ka chi he repeated his self she now sat down and confess everything she talk say babah all da time way i de come hospital no be sick na plan we dey make, lord that was so bad and da worst thing she couldn't keep quite she went into details da doctors and almost all da family were there, that was so disappointing and we were all suckin wet b4 she even finish talking.
salam
umma mohammed
Quoteummita
guys this story na for real......... u know say ma house na full of babes, so when ever were broke and feel like eating assoted@ getting some figures, ma cousin de sicklecell da plan na for her to start sicklelie and admit her self in hospital for da seek of those materials, we go stay for hospital for say 1 week after everyone brings da cash@ assoted she de fly home immediately.
Dont worry we believe u fur-real!!!! errrrrr............. that is sooooooooo cheap......di only way 2 get better is 2 pretend 4 sickness.
Simple method.............carry kwarya go sit 4 traffic light...u will eat wat is more than assorted.
Nxt tym indulge wuna selvs 4 street beggin...........e beta pass. :D
Heyz, gaskiya, 2 b honest (I wont lie, I did laff @ ur story) 8)
So safe!!!
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.carry kwarya go sit 4 traffic light...u will eat wat is more than assorted.
Nxt tym indulge wuna selvs 4 street beggin...........e beta pass. ?:D
Heyz, gaskiya, 2 b honest (I wont lie, I did laff @ ur story) 8)
So safe!!!
Gaskiya Umma naji maki kunya, Ummita nice one ;D
Nasiru accept my sincere condolences,Allah ya jikan rai :'(
Umma......hmmm...... Al'amarin ki sai addu'a ,but i'm sure u've learnt a very good lesson ;D .SORRY WO :( .And Ummita ,very good advice ;)
Nas thiz iz trully a tragic event.plz kindly accept mah warm and deepest sympathy. i sure ope thiz shud be a turnin point in ure life,u know,to make u become stronger .
as for the other gal.......well u alwayz reap wat u .....
I'm out :D ;)
LoL! Umma na wa for ur head...lol
hmmm... Lpapi... yeah, its actually forbidden to date a girl then date her friend, cousin, or someone she's close too.. its juss one of those unwritten laws in the unpublished book of laws.... ya'll really need to check ya'selves.. >:(
My appreciation goes to Mohammed, Fella, Dyme, Ummah, Ihsan, Venom, Maleeq and who ever I have not mentioned and has paid his/ or her respect should know that deep in me I would always thank you
Hafsa tsiyanki bata karewa. Har online ma sai kin wa mutanen. Ke ki ka sani rannan na gudu daga jama'a saboda tsiya. but to tell you the truth, it pains, because I never had the chance to say goodby to her and till this day I blame myself for having an argument with her. Well as the peeps here advised. I just have to move on, life goes on. Nagode.
To ma thuggish bro, L Paps ya dai naga duk an taru a kanka. Zaije na gayamata anjima cewa... na so you dey follow women online. :D
Peace buddies
First I would like to show how much I have read about peoples past and present life. Funny stories & sad stoires.
Hafsa I can feel u in the air. U remind me of my sis
I would like to pas my condolence to Nas. I heard about your girls accident even when I didnt know both of you. But heard about it through a couple of some peeps I know. Your gurl is surely one good going girl as I heard thousand trooped to pay their respects. I wasnt there but I am paying mine now! Allah ya kijan ta.
As loads of you have told their stoires I feel quite safe to tell you mine.
I was born in Nigeria, moved outta Nija when I was only twelve. My father brought about that desicion because I was becoming a nuisance. At twelve I smoked dope, at twelve I beat up my older and younger brother and sisters. At twelve I was always behind bars. At twelve I became the talk of the town. I did nothing in school but to spend my fathers money on chicks. At age 19, I did something got a huge sum of money and bought a car. St Thomas & Cresent were as school I always cruise to disturb the population.
I quit school. I quit school , I got my self engaged in different types of money making activities. My age groups couldnt believe how older men who could be my grand paps age were my business assciates. One of my female freinds in particular, her father was a freind of mine. She went crazy when she saw me with him, thinking he is just in the same class I am. Girls to come to me and I pay chedas for like hell.
My father his relatives have all tried to put me straight, but men!! I was completely bended. Mum use to cry becuase she couldnt handle my calamities. (I have asked for her forginess) every one tried addu'a accompanied, but I was so bent!! My father had enough and he taught the best way was to move me out of Nigeria from Kano, because he taught all those boys (yandaba) were the onces influencing me, He didnt know I already had my own gang. I use to jump through gates, climb thorugh windows to jump into my room after midnights. I use to drive away with my parents car to Abuja and come back when ever. Man I just couldnt keep a grip on things. Well, hearing the news of my shipment to Uk, I wasnt the least bothered, neither did I feel kool about it. As freinds came to pat my shoulder thinking........wow! you gon be kool in UK..I just shrugged off and couldnt care less. I couldnt be bothered because the day I left I caused a disturbance in the airport that I had to be locked up and I was the last person to board the flight.
Down to UK I was sent off to a college called Bournemouth or some **** like that). My older brother was in uni, same as my sis and my junior sis was somewhere.. I dont know. I never rang them, I never visit them but always I did mail my big bro to send me my dough. If my account has been freezed.
One time, I informed the teachers that I want to change a coll and I was refunded my money back. The tutition fee. Yeah I booked a flight to Ohio.. I went off to US. I lost contact with my family. I was depending on my self except the money from my accounts and some travellers check. I was into all sorts of s**ts. Well some day I saw this boy of my age.. That was the turning point of my life. He was into Quarnaic recitation. Some how I did join and with hussling, bowling,together. I pray & party.... I managed to do my sauka but not hadda. I did graduate from college in US Because I had just 6mnths to finish up when I left nija.
Well my father traced me up seeing where I was using his cash through transaction.. I dont know how the intelliegent onces do it. I rented a flat all along. I was a heavy smoker. Got my self loads of ****ts I was just chilling in my rented house and the door came knocking. Opened up my dad came over with my oldest bro, the one I feared most. Even when I call my self a thuggish Neeg, rolling outta control. I still fear my brother. Well I had the greatest curses in my life. And from seeing how miserable my dad was, and after I spoke to mum in dads presence. I said nah men! Things gat to chage for real and for good. Gathered all my belongings and documents and I was sent back to UK. Meanwhile I had a car I bought in US. My man, had 2 pay for shipping and all.Then I realised he still loves me, and look at the hassle I have put them through. I started getting my acts together with the help of my little sister. She changed my whole life. One day she said something to me and that was the begining of my turning point. It made the bloodiest meaning in my f***ked up head. I changed for good. I am in my third year degree course..managing I wasnt the serious type all along. My religion and faith I have kept it close to my heart. My family..becaase I wasnt with them all along. I wasnt that bonded with them. I find it difficult to sit with them together, so I end up doing things on my own. talking to mum is also difficult because I never enjoyed that motherly love. Who is to blame, myself I deprived my self of my mothers love, that I always admire how bro, chat to her. Anywayz cant be bothered. But hey!!! I stll bowl and roll out!! I was a complete nuisance and a troublesome boy. I always get my self in to mess any time I come to Nigeria. The last time the police brutality in Abuja gave me the heaviest clod blooded time. That I swore never to mess around with Nigerian police men. I taught they were just as easy as Bristish police gang.
Well Alhamdulillah am still good but same time I have sinned. I lived a rough and cracked to the bones life.
Kai, kai kai, lallai kayi dabanci mallam, lallai you were one problem child. I no say yuwa mama..........go dey think otherwise as she don already deliver you.
Brother my own bi say you for no change. e beta as you be trouble some. Na this kine of men I like ;D Staight from the ghetto.
IF i COME TELL YOU MY OWN............I don nak you finish for roughness. Di SAGA wey I live mema no bi small. ;)
God bless you Anwar atleast you don lay good foundation on top of yuwa old one. You will make it thru homie.
Respect!!!! 8)
All praise is for Allah who saved me from that which He tested you with and who most certainly favoured me over much of His creation.
Man its nice 2 hear that u r on the straight and I pray u stay that way. One thing I would advise u is to try and get closer to ur mum, I know it is not easy but it should be a gradual process. Cause remember that we only get 2 live 1s so make the time u have left with ur mum count.
May Allah help us all in our endeavours AMEN
Nassss Nas Nas
SubhanAllah
kai.......just reading that made me see life from another point of view.......aww my lord....
my deeeeepest deeeepest ........
just stay the strong brother u are!!! and May Allah see and help u thru and ease ur pain!!!!!
salamu alaikum
Anwar lallai ka buga duniya,nnyway i'm glad u've seen the light hoping u take another bold step foward by getting closer to your mother cuz its the best that could ever happen to one in this life man.
Ight man peace!
Haba NAs u dont have to thank me,its the least i could do :) ,were like one big extended family right? ;)
hmmmmmm mian kaji Mohammed sai kace wani mutumni kirki. Bayan ka cimin mutunci wai ni ban zama member ba. As you come dey firitend good fesin like so. ef ati all na gut fesin you bi, why you no gud por me err? Ansa zis kuweasshon? ::) ::) ;D
Anwar!!! Sannu! Just know that God loves you. I once had a friend that was very much like you, he was so so twisted, anything bad you know he was into it. Sadly he wasnt as lucky as you are as he is not with us anymore, and he never had the chance to set the records straight.
Alhamdulillah you have seen the light now and i salute you courage for wanting to take charge of you life again and wanting to make a change, but as Mohd Ibrahim said.... you need to get your mama's forgiveness bigtime. And make sure you never even dream of causing her any more heart aches.
Allah's blessings to you!
anwar man uve seen and gone through a lot ,may Allah continue to help. And once again plz try and find peace with yur mother.
Salamu alaikum
Ya, Anwar.....couldnt be happier for u....and Insha Allah I pray that you draw closer and closer to Allah everyday
Insha Allah
Ameen
my man Anwar urz u have to thank tha Lord cuz u r one lucky person.
To find ureself in a situation like thiz and be able to redeem oneself iz truly a gift ftom Allah.Juss one more thang i'd say u overcome ure insecurities and make a GO towards reconciling and gettin along wit ure Mom cuz its in tha fiundationz.
i'm out :D ;)
Ayya hafsa ,sorry enh :( i did'nt mean to upset u ,was only joking .i no know sey u go vex :( .abeg wo a yi man hakuri
See ur self Moh..As a minister & when u were sworn in......u promised 2 serve ur duty ond grounds take care of women in this forum........naso u come mess up ::)
Ummita allow me to breath :( :D
See u....... :P I cova ur nose..........go hospitul.....I assure u na sinosis dey block yuwa nose or na catarh sef either way its got 2 b one of d above :D
Just as Anwar said. This shoul be the right place to feel safe to tell my story. Grew up in Lamido Cresent at Kano. Attended St' Louis Sec school. Aged 21. Studying Boichemistry in University of Michigan.My father wanted to marry me off since when i was just 15years old. I didnt want to marry. All my amibiton was to fulfill my goals. I kept praying to ALLAH to change my fathers mind. His mother tried to convince him but my father would not listen. My mother was on my side, so was my older brother. As I did not want to offend my dad. I consented. Few months later i got engaged to somebody who was old enough to be my grandfather. I cried day by day, couldnt eat, my only survival was water. I stopped going to school, stopped seeing freind I was on my own a loner. just 3 months before the marriage. He got missing. When I was told that the man to be my husband was no where to be found. Guess I just raised a brow and said life has still its open doors for me to walk. Honestly I didnt know whether to laugh or cry. But it was funny. Missing. Well people came to see me to see how I would react. well what to they expect. let me sit down and shout who has seen my engaged groom. hahha! I didnt. because I dont know how I should react. he is not yet my husband and am not his wife. My father was trying to marry me off aginst his free will. Later you wont believe this. Some one heard about him in Maiduguri. Since then, he was so rich, very rich. and in my own thinking money is not everything :-X My uncle was kind of his close freidn. My uncle went down to maiduguri. tHE MISSING GROOM, yes that what I call him, already has a big condo in Maid. around sunday amrket. My uncle reached his house, well he was given food and shelter by no females but male cooks. The house was massive but he only leaves alone. Well they chatted he informer my uncle that he just wanted to make me happy by buying his big house (that wound thave turn out to be my end) Well ngiht time came my uncle went to sleep.....ssround 4:40 soemnoise woke him up. it was the roar of a big car (DAF CAR SAYS MY UNK). My uncle decided to poke his head through the window curtains. (I couldnt belive what he told the elders of my father) He said "wallahi da an bashi husba, da saidai a birne ta ba jiki)
well me spotted THE MISSIN GROOM. in a pair of shorts and giving order to about 4 hefty men if "saying kan da kafafuwan yan jinjiraye ku saka su anan) well believe me or not, he was engaged in that yankan kai business. And this is how I came to hear all this. Well the came home 2mnths later that he wnats the marriage process to go on. I said i had exams to finish, well I started preparing documents to leave Nigeria which I did. Infact, mai yankan kai shi ya koreni daga Nigeria, the only country I grew up in and I am missing alot..That all about the missing groom. I guess it sounds funny, ridiculous 7 unbelieveable yeah my self......I cant believe I have been a victim of such a situation.
Ubangiji Allah da ya kare mu ka kuma kare na gaba damu.
I heard of kanoonline from a freind, and how alot told their stories. SO I taught I would love to share mine.
Ma'assalam
gush i'm speechless nonetheless i'll say a bit
u r one lucky person believe mii cuz maybe we would have been readin about ure tragic story from one of theze daily newspapers.juss keep thankin Allah and i believe all will be well
:o :o :o :o :o :o
wow, Husna, allah ya miki goran arziki. Wai da yanzu ana nan ana matan mai ...... :-X :-X oops. Allah ya kare, allah kuma ya baki miji na gari. ;)
WHAO :o!!!!!!! ANWAR.... never knew we had hard core hausa boiz, talk bout thuggish ruggish!..... oh boi WASSSSSSAP??!!!??!!!!?!!!! LoL!
dont mind meeh..... lol.... Allah ya shirye ka!!!!! 8)we love u tho :D
Husna Luv..... gurl... u lucky... if not, da yanzu and balla miki head.. ;D izz good ur alive sha... but f'real... i still dont fall for that "yankan kai"....amma.. its nice to know ur an intelligent sistah... and insha Allah.. all will turn out well
Abdul-Maleek i agree with you Husna is a very lucky person ,Allah kuma ya kare mu duka.Husna thank Allah and continue to pray for his guidance and protection.
Dyme ni ma abun yankan kai din nan yana puzzling di na har yanzu,only that in my own case na yadda .Sis its real wo :o (miye ba'a yi a kasan nan)
Husna gaskiya ur one lucky person. Allah ya kare na gaba.
kE.............I heard ur story from sum1 else.....ashe its true........May d lurd guide us against all evil doers.
Husna,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,u got my spine all frozen......Gurl u are the definition of LUCKY!!! Luck originatd from U!!! Luck was born the day u were born!!!!!! Lucky must be ur twin brother!!!
lalalala.....kai situation like this makes u thank GOD there is a God!!!! Makes u BELIEVE there is A God!!!
Husna, I can tell u must be a sweet gurl, God is with u....and May he alwayz be with you.
Man....thats a lesson for all these money-luverz...... thank God u aint that type, Husna.... I know lutta galz that would have fallen into this deep trap!
Allah kare
salam yall
Credit to you guys for having the courage
to come here and share your story with us
Barkanku da Arziki and my condolence to those who
lost their love one.
Godiya muke ICE ;) Amman ibi like say una gist us any past or present story with has become apart of yuwa living life ;D
Oya...........make una listen.........Una no see me 4 tiri days ba........make I gist wuna of di misery wey I fall for. Una know so say if una see something wey fine for man fikin ...you would love to have it ko? Or fashion wise?
DI TITUL OF MY STORY IS NEVER AGAIN IN MY LIFE
.. Ok CONTACT LENS.....mhmmmm. As wuna know say me & my Blad Ummita na bonded we bi,..di gel get difiren category for contact lens. One day like this. mima I wan put, but as fashion concern not to correct eye sight. Naso I come carry blad own put. I go skool dey bounce dey du shakara. Naso I come de zaro idanu for di fiful wey dey for distance make them notice. On this day I get communication lecturers, & last week the teacher marked me down as per wai I no dey do eye contact and body languauge well. This week I get corect distinction for eye conctant. Di teacher justi dey yarn me....my head justi dey big...she no no say na show off wey give me credit for eye contact skills & to even put things up na borrow borrow wey carry me go put tin wey no belong to me. Na so I spend di whole day for skool dey bude my seyes like so.
I justi dey du shege... I come ring my blad tell her say "oh gel I come yuwa house enter yuwa room carry contact put" naso she come use that her small innocent voice talk say"Blad you shoudnt have they are my prescription, besides they are not the fashionable onces" I come talk say shuruf my freind, na rowa you wan do. Naso so I come tell blad ay I dey vex..oya buy-bye.
I come dey vex say because I borrow her property she dey front. I come go optician order one fine one. I come use ma 4wks chop money pay deposit. (don bakin nacin tsiya). Well in di evuning I come go blad house talk say"I dont order ma own sef, you can eat yuwa own, blad never look me sef. she justi keep quite dey listen to music" Naso I come push blad lie down for bed. Begin to sleep.
About three ours later. (NA BATTLESHIP I BEGIN) I SAY EYE OPEN I NO GREE OPEN, EYE OPEN EYE NO GREE OPEN :o :o naso I come dey dey shoutUmmita come wo, she come run for stairs...thinking maybe I was in danger. she come hiss begin dey walk away. Naso I hear her.. she come squeek like small mouse, Hafsa wat in the name of lord did you do to your eye.
I come say oh gel wetin you see, as I no fit see for mirrow. she said yuwa eyes don swell up finish. Naso thousand thing come rush for my mind. First na who go dey lead me with stick. Who go bi my companion. I no go fit look again. I no go fit select cloth buy. I no go even fit come online. CHIAW!!! CHINEKA GOD...
Naso I come dey cry.,....mhmm tears kuma no fit commot my eye justi dey pepper me. Di good samaritan Ummita come rush inside toilet as I fit touch. naso I touch say na cotton wool she dey use clean my eye. she come use this eye disinfectant ino du. Mi kuma na cry I justi dey du..she come dial emergency. they come give us few tips naso my eye dey begin open smallu small. naso Ummita use dey curse me for Fulde language. If my mouth dey I go finish di gel. But faith nemesis don catch me finish.
Na so I suffer one good week with eye like light bulb. I come dey wear shades by force for winter. Fiful jsuti dey look me like one craze. Ummita come de ask me, gel where are you heading to. I justi tell her say I dey come,. Naso i reach opticians....I come say CAN I plz cancel the contacts I'd deposited for. I come cancel. Me and contact never again in my life. e pepper me like hell. As from that day if I see cotact for blad dressing mirrow na so i justi dey turn ma eyes jeje.
Never leva & I will never again in my life. garin neman gayu zan rasa yan idanu.. ::)
Kai wai wacece wannan yarinyar ne? Hafsa. lol, lol, lol, lol gaskiya kinbani dariya sosai sosai........ai lallai zamu dinga zuwa nan wajen. I would like to know the rest of the gang.
1/2sa indeed you are soooooooooooo funny. I feel you for that contact lens issue. ;)
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DI TITUL OF MY STORY IS NEVER AGAIN IN MY LIFE
Hafsa I couldnt help but laugh at my work place. I had the attention of my collegues who also burst out with laughter. My fiancee came to my work place quite frustrated after work and all I did was to pull a seat in my office and log him on to this site to your this topic. You made his day.
I would also like to thank all those who gave me words of encouragement. I did read all. I really thank you for all your kind heart and support.
Thank to Ummita as well because you have really brought people together to share apart of their lives and all these people have really contributed and supported us all both in funny and nice ways. Keep it up
Hafsa you will make a great comedy writer!!!!!!!!!
F.D.Q. does not believe that sace sacen mutane occurs in Nigeria. Well let me tell you something that happened some years ago.
It was at the time when Nigeria was worst hit by the fuel crisis. It was so bad that Kano became emptied of cars for some days. It was a time that marked the beginning of Taxis overloading a car with passengers.
I took a taxi and went visiting. I did not find the person I was looking for so I decided to just head straight back home. In those days I was living in Gwammaja. I flagged a taxi and got inside. There was another woman at the back and a man at the front. The woman you can tell straight away had come from some village. She had a two month old daughter that she had strapped on her back. As the taxi negotiated a junction, one of the tyres went flat. The taxi driver got down and with the help of the male passenger, they began to take down the flat tyre.
Meanwhile, this woman and I came out of the car and at the instigation of the driver, we began to flag another car. Several cars stopped but when ever i mentioned Gwammaja or this woman mentioned Gyadigyadi, they'd all move on. This happened for I don't know how long. It became almost like a rythmn that I'd say ?Gwammaja and this lady would say Gyadi gyadi right after me. Then my eyes caught sight of a brand new white peugeot. I only noticed it because I'd driven in one with a friend that day, so I thought maybe it was the friend. However, as I have not been blessed with a curious nature, I did not go to see who the occupants of the car might be. They must have noticed me looking at the car because the next moment, the car's headlights flashed an invitation. Like I said I don't have a curious nature and I have never been tempted to take lifts from strangers and I have had quite a few offers in my life. So I just turned my head away, and continued hollering at taxis with this woman in tow.
So we kept on until there came a time which was only a few minutes really, when I called out "Gwammaja" ?and there was no attendant chorus of Gyadigyadi. I turned my head to see what was wrong and lo and behold there was this woman ENTERING this white peugoet! It felt like I was watching a slow motion movie! The oddest sensation that struck me was the incongruity of it all. All I could think of in the split second or so was that there was something wrong here. This woman was not a young girl otherwise I'd understand the interest of the car's occupants in her. Coupled with that, she had a baby girl and she was dressed in a most unkempt manner. ? The taxi I'd flagged down had stopped. So I said to the passengers
"Look at that woman entering a car and she doesn't know the occupants."
One of the passengers said to me ''Quick tell her to get out! Doesn't she know a na satar mutane?"
She was already seated in the back seat on the right side. One of her legs was inside and she lifted the other off the ground with her hand on the door handle ready to shut, when I swiftly went and banged at the boot of the car.
"Get out! get out!" I shouted.
Luckily she got out and stare stupidly at me. The moment she was out of the car, a hand shot out from the front ?passengers' side of the seat and slammed the door shut and ?the car sped off at an incredible speed!
See how I come dey shake for body! All I could utter was salati, meanwhile one of the taxi's passengers got out and began to curse the daylights out of the poor bemused woman. All she could do was mutter that she didn't know a na satar mutane, that she'd just arrived in Kano that day! My God how I latched on to the driver and said I'd pay him anything just take me home o jare! For me all cars became suspect from then on. ?The taxi driver was very kind and took me right to my front door (or near to it as possible) at no cost to myself.
The next day, being grounded yet again, I went and hailed a taxi. The most incredible thing happened then. This man came running from the opposite direction and just brushed past me. Any passerby or observer would have just seen a man rush by me. However as he passed he said distinctly to me
"Je ki kishiga waccar motar".
I looked at the approximate direction he indicated and there was a white peugeot saloon car exactly like the one I saw the day before trying to kidnap that woman. There was a big fat man standing next to the car and the moment he saw me look at the car, he shouted
"Ga ta nan!"
What did I do? I wrenched ?at the handle of the first car that stopped! Oya explanations later! Luckily it was not a private vehicle but a taxi. If he wasn't going my way, I reckoned I'd drop along the way.
I still have not stopped taking public transport in Nigeria. Alhamdullilahi, I am also a person not easily scared. What I do is that wherever I am going, be it in my own car or a taxi or hiace or what ever, I always say Bismillahi Rahmannir Rahim. I reasoned with myself that if you start anything with the ?name of Allah, you have started on an excellent footing, and besides, how many times has my life been endangered and I will never get to know about it? I simply made it through because I started out in the name of Allah
Hafsa,
Hafsa doesn't suit you
Go change your name to cheeky girl
You are d--m funny :D hehehehe
Plenty talents dey for this place oooo!!! All of una well done.. this place dey very impressive, major THUMBS UP!!!!!
kai Hafsa yur stories r soooo funny....da kuma tausayi ,da kunya ..well! its all gud.Ummulhuda may Allah coninue to protect us all cuz u were really lucky.
people ma sef get am 4 stories wallahi,hafsa all thix yuwa stories i will advise u to compile all of them and heed straight away for hollywood and zuba musu wit them.
Ummul gaskiya kinyi magana Allah is ahead of everything
Hafsa man,...................I cant help the laughter but share with with palliez................Even Jim Carey no pass you for madness.
Ummul....You surely do use your senses. Keep on the watch. But God is by your side.
Anwar Mallam..its good to have you hear. Atleast this site will keep you busy. We all thank God you have changed. Don nima ka bani hard time. Regards to Brother
hafsa wat would kanoonline be without u... ;D , i mean ure soooooooo fuhunny, guys i dont mean baanda ku ,were family ;) .
Ummulhuda amma kin auna sa'a,Allah kuma ya kara kiyaye wa
Ummul that was kinda scary....u gat hair standin straight @ d bck of ma neck....& a lil scenario,....I was takin a hike & down came this van...coloured whyt.....I quickly zapped away...even when it turned out 2 b a delivery van...now am so supa scared of whyt cars..... :D Honest I am :o
Hafsa......oh well she has so many drama'z of her own...
PS: plz xclude me nxt tym...as private issues shud b dealt out privately(she smiles). Kiddin yah Blad..b/4 u unleash on me
It took me two weeks to get over white cars also. I'd feel my heart jump the moment a car approached me!
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah
Please,before reading my story,try andput your self in my own poisition,don't abuse,curse or take me to be an irresponsible person,the story i want to share with u is not my own making i found myself in that situation and whatever..........for the purpose of getting advise or prayer!!!!!!!!
i'am in great dilemma,ina da aure da 'ya'yauku,ina son miji na so na tsakani da Allah,miji na mutum ne da duk wani uba zai so yaga 'yarsa ta aura,sannan mutum ne da duk wani da zai so ace shine mahaifinsa,ya rungumi danginsa da duk wani wanda ya nemi taimako a wurinsa yana da wadata daidai gwargwado,in lokacin hutu yayi yakan dauki ya'yansa da matarsa wani lokacin har da mahaifiyarsa su tafi uk canada holland paris ,a bar ta maganar hajji da umura wanda wannan a cikin 'ya'yansa shida ba wanda baije sau biyu zuwa sama ba[yana da uwargidansa]infact he protected me and my children from the hostility of his wife and grown up children not that he denied the other children and his wife their right,no,kowa yana bashi hakkinsa,that is not the story,this is just the background,i only want you to know the tyoe of person i'm married to,so that you can judge me,idan ina bacci to sai dai ya kwana da yunwa amma ba dai ya tashe ni yace a kawo abinci ba,in kuma zai fita zai ce min ga driver in akwai inda zaki,bayan na koyi mota sai da ya tambayeni irin motar da nake so kuma ya tilasta ni na koyi mota,rayuwa ta kyautatawa da soyayya ba irin wadda bana yi masa shima kuma ta bangarensa haka,to kamar yadda yake gidansa a cike kowani lokaci,his junior brother used to come and stay with us,'cos he is the one running my husband's business since he[my husband ]is a civil servant,during that stay we became very close ta yadda duk inda zanje tare muke tafiya,shi yake rakani makarant a kasuwa da sauran wurare,kar ku manta shima fa yana da aure sai dai bai yi sa'an mata ba duk rashin hankali da wani dabbanci ba irin wadda ba tai masa,sai su yi fiye da wata shida bata je dakin sa ba,
to,yawanci in mun zauna yakan min bayanin irin zaman da yake yi da matarsa da irin munanawar da take yi masa sannnan gashi yana ga ban kai matar tasa shekaru ba amma ga abinda nake yiwa mijina saboda haka abin yana bashi sha'awa.,infact he even told me their sexual affairs and so on,'yan uwa kun san halin shaidan a she shi duk abin nan da ake ciki ba wadda yake so a duni yar nan irina !!!!! ??? ???ko mai nake so zai kawo min yarana duk abin da suke so suma zai musu wani lokacin in na bashi sako wurin maigidan nawa maimakon ya karbo sai shi yayi min da kudin sa,to ni duk na dauka saboda brother din shi yake min haka,na saki jiki da shi sosai ta yadda duk gidanmu ba wanda bai san shi ba,in anzauna ana tadi kowa a danginsu sai yayi maganar kusancin mu,kowa kuma ya dauka saboda irin soyayyan dake tsakanin su da wansa ne yasa haka,kun san kuma dama idan aka ce mata biyu ne a gida to,dole a sami wanda yake favourite dinka,kuma dole you have to form an alliance with one of the members of your husband's family so that he can forward your interest,protect,and establish you within his family members,duk dai wanda yake nigeria,yasan issue of extended family,wata rana ina kwance sai ya shigo dakina sai yake tambayata mai nake yi sai nace ai wanka nake so in shiga saboda zanje makaranta,sai yake cewa ko inzo in miki wankan ne,i felt ashamed though i did'nt say anything sai na fita na tafi dakin maiugida nayi wanka bayan na fito sai ya bani letter ina budewa sai na ga kalamai da bazan iya kawo su anan ba kuma wai gashi yayi mafarki so so and so .........is happening btween us,that day makarantar da ban je ba kenan,maigida ya dawo daga wurin aiki yaga ba yadda nake ba,kuma ganin shima kanin nasa ba walwala sai yayi tsamammanin munyi wani rigima ne,kuma shi bai cika shiga cikin fadan mata da 'yanuwansa ba sai dai idan abin yayi tsanani,naso in gaya ,masa meke faruwa amma saboda kusancin su da kuma sanin cewa yana da high blood pressure sai nayi shiru,muka tafi a haka a she shi gogannaku bai hakura ba yayi ta bin hanyoyi da dama har at last......................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Kun san sharrin shaidan sai ya kasance wata rana ya dauki small radio na maigida shi kuma is part of his habit in zai kwanta barci sai ya kunna radio a ahnkali idan barci yaso ya dauke shi sai ya kashe,to sai ya nemi radio na gaya masa cewa ai kanin sa ya dauka sai yace in je in karbo,oh!Allah naje na yi knocking ya bude koifa na gaya masa ya bada radio and when he brought it instead of him to give me he hold my hand and shaidan automatically start his work he kissed me though short and in a hurry i left,the next day he send a short message thanking me for that short kiss saying it was the shortest and sweetest in all his life,in short he was expecting more of it. :'( :'( :'(
Abinka da shaidan da kuma kasancewar we are always alone,we kept on kissing saying good words to eachother[,mark you no sex ,only romance and exchange of letters]we stayed like that for almost a year,and whenever he is living[yana zaune a wani gaRIN DABAN DA INDA MUKE,he only comes if there is any work at hand]rabuwa muke yi irin ta romeo and juliet,sai ya kasance idan ya tafi baya sati biyu sai ya dawo yayi kaamar six weeks sannan ya koma he stayed more with us than with his family,wasu abubuwan zan boye su to avoid leaking secret,wannan kamnar summary of what happened nake baku,wallahi sai ya kasance shi dai so yake kawai ace na zama matarsa,zai yi kuka yayi hayaniya wai bada gaske nake sonsa ba,in da da gaske ne da yanzu nasan yadda nayi na aure shi,to a gaskiya abin da ba ku sani ba ,prior to that relationship i'm a very faithful girl[i'm only 25]duk wani abu na addini ba ya wuce ni,kuma duk wani abu da zanyi sai na hada da ubangiji,kusan duk wata sai na sauke mana alkur'ani nida yarana da mai gida,don har wasu suna ga shine sirrin zama na a gidan idan aka duba irin dadewa da kuma gogewar wacce na samu a gidan wasu sun dauka bai fi in yi shekara ba in fita amm sai suka ga sabanin hakan bayan kuma irin kauna da mijin yake nuna min,to most of the time i'll tell him the implication of what we are doingboth islamically and socially,amma shi a kullum ba haka ba,duk wani wanda bai sona to shima basa shiri,duk kuma abin da nake so in har ya sabawa ra'ayinsa in dai nina ce to ya zaunu,duk abin da zai yiwa 'ya'yansa ,matarsa,mahaifiyarsa,sai na sani kuma sai nayi approving,wallahi in zai ci abinci nace a'a to bazai ci,duk wani abu da nace bana so zai bari,ta inda na tabbatar da yana haukan sona sai ranar mun tafi makaranta,shi yake driving sai yake tambayata mai zance game da soyayyar mu,sai nake nuna masa cewa wannan abun bazan iya cewa daga Allah bane tun da bai yi daidai da koyarwan musulunci ba,sannan gaskiya bazan iya rabuwa da miji na saboda shi ba,haka kuma koda mutuwa miji na yayi yasan ba zai yiwu in aure shi ba,kafin in gama bayani ,wallahi sai kawai gani nayi mutane sun kewaye mu ana tambayar ince dai baku ji ciwo ba,a she yayi loosing control har yaje ya bugamu da jikin pavements na kan titi,kai irin abubuwan da suka faru suna da yawa wa'yanda na tabbatar da gaske yake yi.
a cikin shekarar mu ta uku muna secret love,the type that even romec and juliet will salute us,sai ya kasance duk wani abin da zanyi wa maigida na ba ya so,in na kawo mana abinci [da ysake duk tare muke cin abinci]nakan yi sreving din miji na ko shi yayi muna hira sai ya kasance ya daina cin abiunci damu,in mun zauna da daddare ana hira sai yaki zama,in na tashi zan tafi in kwanta nace masa sai da safe sai yaki amsawa,daga karshe he told me that he felt very bad for me to abandoned him and slept with somebody after i knew how much he loved and desire me,na kanyi consoling din sa tunda na riga nasan mai yake so,in tabbatar masa ba yashi a duniyar nan,sannan nasan weeekness dinsa in daina masa magana in kuma daina kula shi to nan kan har kasa zai tsuguna akan in yafe shi,baya kira na da sunana sai sunan da yara ke kira na ko kuma anti,to da yake kullum cikin addu'a nake ubangiji ya kawo min karshen wannan al'amari tun da dai yanzu kusan ko a gaban waye zai kokarin nuna min so wanda nakan yi kokarin in kau da kaina ,sannann nakan nuna mmasa implication na abinda muke yi daga hujjoji na zaman yau da kullum,shi dai bai hakura ba amma ni Allah cikin ikon sa after four years of our love [kuma nima na soshi son da ban taba yiwa wani da namiji ba,]abin ya fita araina amma shi kam sai ma abin da ya karu don in har yana nan ban isa in amsa wayar wani ba sai ya kama hauka yana fadin maganganu,ko da kuwa mace ce tai min waya saiyace wai gani yalke kamar in ina kula ta bazai samu attention dina ba,duk wani suna da ke cikin handset dina na namiji yayi deleting sai dai in bar number a diary amma ba handset dina ba,ina amfani da mtn da kuam nitel sai na yi kyauta da handset daya saboda haka in dai zanyi amfani da line daya to dole dayan ya zama na baya functioning nan ma don me nafi amfani dsa nitel maimakon mtn wato kenan tun da shi yana mafani da econet bana so yayi min waya kenan ,abin wallahi ya fara damu na yanzu tun da nida i ALllah ya yaye min amma kuma tun dashi kamar yanzu ya fara sona kunga da sauran rina akaba,a kwai hanyoyi da dama da zan yi in rabu dashi to amma ,dole in yi protecting zaman aure na tun da ya riga yayi portraying din image dina a wurin family din su,sun dauke ni star bana laifi,kuma duk wani abin da ya faru suna goya min baya[u know the politics of staying with a rival]sannan idan na fada masa abin da yake zuciyata bansan irin reaction din da zai yi bsa,tun da wani lokacin yakance zai je ya fada wa mahaifiyarsu shifa ba wanda yake so sai ni,nakan kwabe shi to idan kuma na rabu dashi kunga komai na iysa faruwa,ni dai yanzu addu'ar da anke yi shine tun har Allah ya amsa addu'a ta ya cire min son sa a zuciyata,shima Allah ya cire masa ni a zuciyarsa,sai dai kuma fa banan gizo ke sakar ba domin akwai lokacin da yake tambaya ta yaya zamuyi da irin wannnan son da muke yi wa juna?sai nake ce sai mu roki Allah ya cire mana yadda yayi na tsorita matuka don yana rike da zobo a glass sai kawai naga ya saki a aksa yace shi da ya roki Allah ya cire masa ni a zuciya gara ya roki mutuwarsa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :-X :-X :-X :-X
husna, was up? so you go to school in michigan huh? I know people there, write me an email at emkay44@yahoo.com. I'm just couple of states away from you
Wai.............Errrrrrrrrrr....am kinda speechless 'ere. Well Mrs........whueva. Ur story........is so..............way outta ma bound 2 come 2 a conclusion...or say judge....Well hear this: If u like d guy & he like u.............tell ur man. Probably ur husby myt compromise & sacrifice his marriage vows (he may call it off) 4 his bro'z sake 2 marry u.
If @ all otherwise, then I say u beta b real careful. I kinda know somebody that has quite a similar situation 2 urs (but I'll keep zipped 4 now)
Well wat can I say..................u wanna save ur marriage? Then tell d guy 2 get d hang of things. He shud sort himself with his wife. Islamically a man is not allowed 2 come in2 d same shelter if he knows d woman his not his wife......ka son din mutum ne. So b real careful. For u wud not wan2 bcome a sinner(dont think am being mean) But its d fact.
I hope everything goes well....hmmmwishin u all ze best
:o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o I need to go see an optician...I don't think am seeing quite right... :-X
Lady, ur story really is something... Man!!! U shud have told ur husband since THE FIRST DAY the guy asked if he can do wanka for u...Subhanallah...even repeating that makes me feel ... :-/
But Alhamdulillah Allah ya cire maki sonshi...coz really it is jaraba... uh uh...to yanzu this guy ya ki barin ki...what if ur husband finds out? You shud have told him wallahi tun farkon abun...oh ni.. :-/
Allah shima ya cire mashi sonki daga zuciyarshi...ya kuma gyara between him and his wife...Ki yi ta addu'a insha ALlah komai yayi dai dai... Amma fa ni mijin ki nike ji...don kuwa a shiga hakkinshi sosai... :-X... to, ALlah ya kara kiyayewa
Ya ALlah ka gyara al'ummar musulmi baki daya...Allah ka rabamu da rudin shedan da mutum...Ameen
SUBHANALLAH WA'IYAZIBILLAH! :o[/b]
"Unknow" as you name your self, Thats shocking:o
You said we should try and put ourself in your position,
why can't you try and put yourself in your husband position, How does that feel?
Sister you have no excuse what so ever,
You are killing your husband and destroying a family, Subhannallah.
Wallahi you better sort it out NOW and seek forgiveness b4 is too late,
In kika bari har kuka mutu da haka, Lallai kedashi kunshiga uku.
Kuma i don't believe you never had sex,
And you too must have given him a green light b4 he make the move.
Hummmmmmmmm!! SUBHANALLAH, AllaH ya kare :-X[/b]
Maganar ki duts 'yar uwa Ice... Unknown, better ask for ur hubby's forgiveness b4 me kasancewa ta kasance (either you or him)...wallahi I'm still shocked :o... it's not like wai this kind of thing will NEVER happen...it's just that this is the first I have ever heard... :-X... Allah ya kara kiyayewa
QuoteWai.............Errrrrrrrrrr....am kinda speechless 'ere. Well Mrs........whueva. Ur story........is so..............way outta ma bound 2 come 2 a conclusion...or say judge....Well hear this: If u like d guy & he like u.............tell ur man. Probably ur husby myt compromise & sacrifice his marriage vows (he may call it off) 4 his bro'z sake 2 marry u.
Ummita, marriage between Hajiya Unknown and her brother's husband ya haramta har abada. There is no way that they can be lawfully married in the Sight of God ever. I say this on the assumption that at one time or the other, he the husband's brother might have tried to encourage her to leave her husband. In fact it is so judging from what she said about his surly behaviour when she has to serve her husband food and so on. ?
On my part, I will advise her never to mention this sordid state of affairs to her husband What good would it do? It will destroy her marriage, it will put a wedge between her husband and his brother, it will probably cause him a massive injury since he (the husband) is hypertensive. It will utterly destroy her relationship with her inlaws although that is secondary really since she will not be a part of the family once her husband divorces her and he will once the full extent of this reaches his ears. Women have been divorced on far less serious things.
The problem with inlaws is that whether they become her X inlaws or not, they'll never let her live down this event. They will hound her with abuses, she'll be much gossipped about especially a gidan suna gidan biki and the like. God help her if she appears at a public function where some of her inlaws are also going to. ?
If her husband divorces her, even let's say the brother can marry her, her Xhusband will not like it let alone want it, and he is an influential member of his family so the lovelorn brother will probably fall in line and do what his elder brother wants and that is not marry Hajiya Unknown. Her former husband will not be the only one who wouldn't want to see her married to his bro. All his other family members would be against it too and especially his mother who probably happens to be the mother of both sons. The mother will be thinking of her sons' happiness and after the tragedy of the first marriage with the elder son, she will not want the same woman married to her second son as she will believe the girl will do to him exactly what she did to his elder brother.
And would the brother's wife take it lying down? She will fight tooth and nail to see that Hajiya Unknown does not become her cowife, despite what ever her husband accuses her of dong to him. For all Hajiya Unknown knows, the brother may be lying about his wife. What sort of a happy life will she build for her self then? She will sink to the lowest of the low in the eyes of her inlaws especially after what she as said of doing no wrong currently in their eyes. ?
There is an English saying that the grass is always greener on the other side. Also it is human nature to covet what you cannot have. So this man covets his brother's wife precisely because she is not his wife and she is his greener pasture on the other side simply because he cannot have her. And when a person believes himself to be in a clandestine love affair or situation, everything about it becomes more heightened in terms of emotions e.t.c. because of the secrecy ?and covertness involved.
I suspect this man does not really love Hajiya Unknown, he is just reliving his fantasies through her and unfortunately for her she did not see through him from the beginning. He is in the grip of lust and not love. If he truly loved her, he will consider her happiness, and keep himself away from her, seen less of her and not disturb the status quo and tranquillity of her married life. He is also an extremely selfish person as he knows very well that our society does not condone this kind of behaviour. ?I can also bet my last kobo that this man will never marry Hajiya Unknown given the chance. You value less what you have than what you don't have, so the moment she becomes free to marry and it is sanctioned for example by his family, he will back out because reality is not as rosy a a dream. He will adopt the same attitude towards her as he has towards his wife.
In cases like this, women are always the losers. There has never been a time when a woman won in situations involving extra marital affairs. The woman becomes the social outcast stigmatized rejected and ostracised. The man? ?He is forgiven by the world at large and he is usually found a suitable bride to marry and everything settlesdown nice and comfortably for him. His indiscretion becomes life's little experiences. After all even in our Hausa society isn't there a saying about extra marital affairs for a man being equated with 'ado or kwalliya?'
So I shouldn't advise her to tell her husband. Think of her children as well, how it will affect them especially when they have to live motherless with a probable wicked stepmom, and ?'yan uba who will always provoke them about their mother being a scarlet woman.
Hajiya Unknown, your best option lies with prayers to Allah. It is a good thing that Allah has removed the disease of lust for this man from your heart. He has become for you what Glenn Close ?in the film 'Fatal Attraction' became to the character of Michael Douglas: an obssessive thorn in the flesh. But he is removable in Sha Allah. My advise, dont ever let your husband know about your indiscretion, you will harm yourself in far more ways than you can imagine. Allah Ya rufa miki asiri, kada ki tona wa kan ki.
Ki karanta Surah Yasin kafa 41 with the intention Allah Ya raba ki da wannan mutumin. Also there is a verse in Surah Kahf verse 78, where the prophet Zulkifl (Alaihi sallam)(I think that is what he is called) is talking to Prophet Musa (Allaihi Sallam) " ?
"Kala Haza fariqu bayniy wa baynak. Sa unabbi uka bi ta'wiyli ma lam tas tati' 'alayhi sabra"
The first part of the verse is the most important for your case. Translated the whole verse is something like this:
"He said this is the break (parting) between me and you. I will explain to you the allegories for which you could not be patient. (Correct me you learned imams out there, this is my own translation I don't have a translated Qur'an at hand at the moment).
Anyway recite this verse as many times as you can at anytime of the day and night in sha Allah, Allah zai rabaki dashi without your husband ever being aware of your predicament. ?Also in Surah Yasin, recite this verse
"Wa ja alna mim baini aydihim saddau wa min kalfihim saddan fa aghshaina hum fahum la yubsirun." This verse was recited by a friend of mine Allah Ya jikan ta many years ago when she had a ring on her finger and she didn't want some one to see t and I asked her why she ws reciting the verse and she said that if you did not want some one to see something or become aware of something about you, you recite it. Also when I was watching a movie once upon a time about the life of the prophet, I saw this verse written ?and being recited at the moment when the Mushriks of Makka went to assasinate the Prophet on the night he began his hijrah from Makka to Madinah and he came out of his room and went through the mushriks and out without their ever seeing im because Allah made him invisible to them.
Another thing if you read the Qur'an always have a translated copy at hand. When you read the arabic version and the translated version, you will find instances that fit circumstances in your life like a glove in your hand. When ever you fall in to a difficulty, always recite those ayas that fit into your particular circumstance and seem to be talking about your situation and insha Allah you will see that things will work out.
I sincerely wish you luck because What is that saying of something na mace na mace ne? I have forgotten. One last thing however, Ki roki Allah Ya baki tsahon rai you and your husband so that in the far future, you can confess to him when you wouldn't have so much at stake then.
Good luck.
P.S. I remember the quotation:
Ciwon 'Ya mace na 'ya mace ne' and I know a lot about inlaws; I have them.
Unknown,
I feel you. I will love to sit down and talk to you, I have seen this problems a lot. I really didn't want to talk about it, but as part of my profession this is what I sometimes do. I really don't know what to say here, I will probably want to talk to you one on one. some people might disagree with me but this position unknown at it's very difficult. she can try to put herself in her husband shoes which I bet she has done that tons of time, but I also think she need a professional help, she need somebody to talk to before she made one HUGE mistake that she has to live with for the rest of her life. First of all I will have say tell your husband but as ummul said what good will it do? you know your husband better than anyone how do you think he will react to this situation? is forgiveness in the air? is he willing to forgive eventhough I don't think he will forget? so by you telling it will cost you everything... your children, integrity, and your future. I also understand that you feel by not telling him it's like you are cheating him, please spare him the pain and not. I know it's difficult to live with such a lie in your mind,heart and soul but honey you need to try. the only way you can try to live with this is by getting rid of his brother, by that I mean all that romeo/juliet thing gotta go. talk to him and ask him if he really care about you he should be a man enough to let you go and take care of the people that you love. but I will like it if you try to reach me you can still be anonymous but I feel your pain and I will want to try to help you. gilr please save your marriage I'm around your age and believe I have seen a lot and ?:-/.... just take care of yourself. I see that Ummul really see something about this brother, eventhough it has been going on for 3 or more years this guy is nuts and crazy. why would you want your love ones to be unhappy?
Assalamu alaikum
I will like to thank u for your response and advice,particularly ummulhuda and emkay,though some of you are too harsh on their response despite the appeal that you should look at it with idon basira,nevertheless,i myself sometimes think wheather i'm the much awaited dujal[or ist iblis?]but sometimes if i remember Alllah's saying that he is all forgiven and compassionate i felt at ease and calm,but what i really want you to know is there is no lye about this man's love for me,i have stayed with his wife,infact even lived in the same house with her,i have seeing how she treated her husband infact everybody knows how she maltreated her husband,he made several attemts to add another wife but still she will scuttle the affairs threatening the girl and even the husband himself,so to say he lied to me about his relationship with his wife did not even arise,remember he is my in-law,that means i'm an insider to the happenings of the family.
I volunteered this information without any body forcing me to do so,ko mai mutum yake yi ko mai rashin ilminsa yasan abu mai kyau kuma yasan mara kyau,kamar fadin annnabi[S.A.W] cewa zunubi shine abin da yayi kaikayi a zuciya kuma baka son mutane su sani,to haka wanannan al'amari kunsan the closest person in my life will be my mum amma kun san ko ita taji sai ta harzuka talkless of other people,kamar yadda ummulhuda tace fada bazai yi wani alfanu ba,to hakan ne,kuma kamar yadda nace a farko no sex!!!to haka abin yake saboda ba dalilin da zai sa in yi karya bayan the damage has already been done,so what i want you to understand is this thing have been in my mind for so long and its the grace of Allah that i said it,kuma at least i felt a li8ttle bit relieved,ko yau na mutu nasan ina tsammanin rahamar ubangiji,tun da yace in har kayi niyyar aikata mummunar abu sannan sai ba ka aikata ba to kamna da lada ,to shi yasan mai ke zuciyata duk abin da na fada wasu baza su gamsu ba,amma har ga Allah wani abu bai shiga tsakanin mu ba,sannan sama ace na fada in the initial stage who do you think will believe me apart from my husband?idan mahaifiyarsu taji do you think zata yarda danta yayi wannan abun kuma ko yaya zasu yi su kare shi zasu yi,ita kanta kishiyata will capita;lise on that and blackmail me,ai ya auro wata da har tazo zata rabashi da 'yanuwansa!you know ire iren wa'yannan abubuwa da kuma su kansu yarana they may try to abandone them,and even hate them for the sin of their mother,kowa yasan yadda society din mu yake tafiya da kuma yanayin zama a cikin surakanai,ku da am baku sanni ba ga judgement dinku balle wa'yanda suka sanni?tsakanina da miji na akwai zaman lafiya kuma nasan in har yaji hankalinsa zai tashi though i don't think he will divorce me,but where is the trust that build a happy home,me kuke tsammani idan ya ganni da wani namiji koda kuwa dansa ne,kumsan ire-iren wannnan su suke kawo rashin zaman lafiya har akai ga rabuwa,kuma walllahi badon 'ya'yaan ba da tuni nayi confessing masa na bar garin 'cos he deserved my sacrifice,kamar yadda emkay tace it will really touch the future of my children,shawarar ummulhuda abin dauka ne,ni dai yanzu bana jin sa a zuciyata,kuma insha'allah zan yi adduoin da kika bani ina kuma gode muku bisa irin fahimtar da kuka yi Allah ya shirye mu ya kuma shirya aman 'ya'yanmu.
emkay i don't know how to contact you but i am also interested in your advise.
Assalamu alikum
Wai hausawa suka ce" in ka dade to lallai zaka ga da dau" gaskiya i will first commend the effort of mrs unknown for trying to put the record straight,it seems she is God fearing ,if not of what importance is it for her if ever anybody come across her behaviour in the net?she really made a great effort by trying to tell other people of her predicament and her resolved to change for the better,though i have come across similar issues but have a little bit differnce the difference is the people involved in the affair in my own case is between husband's friend or servant or even maiguard with the masters housewife,another differnce is the other is due to lack of satisfaction and care,whoever is in kano from 1993 to date know of the increasing demand of millionaires wives to have someone as thier stand by husbands incase the husband is not around then the other will fill in the gap,
Kasancewar da yawa daga cikin masu kudin mu don't have time for their wives what they are married to is their bsinesses they dedicated their time and energy in neman kudi forgetting their responsibility to theri wives,zamu ga film din hausa da suka yi film on that angle in da ace ba ya faruwa ai ina ga baza suyi ba,what i'am saying is not in support of mrs unknown oor her actions no,abin da nake so ince shine duk wanda kaga ya samu courage na sharing problem din sa with another person to akwai likelihood na cewa yana son ya shiryu.i so much agree with the views of ummulhuda ummita and emkay and since the woman said she never had sex with that man i think there is no need to tell her husband ,had it been that she had sex with him then that will automaticallly haramta aurenta da mijin ta,Allah shine masani.
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though some of you are too harsh on their response despite the appeal that you should look at it with idon basira,
Ayyah Sista Unknown...wallahi no harm was meant... :-[ If I was harsh, it was not intended.. and plz do forgive me... :)
I just thought ur hubby has the right to know ...but maybe I am wrong... :-X
Cool As Ice uknown
We mean no harm.
Is just that Man made disaster is always shocking :-X
Nas hiya Allah ya kara maka hakuri Allah ya mana gafarta mana. keep ur head up.
Husna i don knw wat to say, u r very lucky i guess who knws it might hav been ur head someday if i ran out of heads. anyhow hope u achieve ur dreams out there. so r u gonna go back home eventually when u graduate? or wat u gonna do? take care.
Hajiya Unknown.
I always feel happy when I can be of service to ppl. I am glad that I can be of service to you, kuma Allah Ya Karbi addu'oinki bi sur'a bi sur'a, Amin.
I believe you now when you say that you have never slept with this guy. You must try not to think too badly of the girls on this forum, it was a little hard to believe at first that both of you could be in a celibate relationship for four years with so much passion running high! Some of us used a bit more tact that's all.
This makes the guilt burden of your case so much lighter. Unfortunately, it does not make the repercussions for you less or lighter.
I've been thinking about your case since I read it. I'm usually like that, If something gets at me, I can't easily remove it from my mind. I keep going over it in my mind and analysing it. So I was going to write a rejoinder on what Gimbiya has written, but since you have responded, I might as well direct it at you.
I re read your story and got aquainted with more facts which had not registered in my mind the first time I read it. So I was going to say to Gimbiya that sitting your brother in law and talking to him may not work, since by your own admission you have done so and it has not worked. In fact he caused you a minor accident and he becomes all nerveless and things start slipping from his grip, and also his wish for death rather than remove this obssession from his heart.
To me he sounds like a sick man in need of medical attention, some psychoanalysis actually. But since you cannot be able to help him in that way, and he will not listen to reason, then aprt from the prayers, that you should be doing, you should begin to avoid being with him whether alone or even in a crowd, as much as is possible for you, and as much as is possible for him not to realise that you are avoiding him, otherwise the situation could turn ugly.
Also recite La ila ha illa antas Subhanaka inni kuntu minaz zalimin as many times as you can during the day or night (especially when you find your self unavoidably alone with him), and La Haula wa la Kuwwata illa Billah.
I'm going to give you something else. This should be for your husband to make him love you more than before, so that come what may, you will still be together.
When you wake up to pray Subhi, get a cup of warm water or cold water. Get some honey about two spoonsful. Mix the water with the honey. If you cannot get honey, sugar will do. keep the water nearby and say your subhi prayers. Once you finish and you have said your daily supplications, bring the cup of water next to you. Recite Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim 786 times and blow over the cup of water, with the intention of gaining your husband's love and trust. Then every morning or afternoon, pour some of the water in his tea or drink. You should do this for a week. So the cup of honeyed water should last you a week. There is no need to do the whole process every day. Za ki ga abin alajabi. My advise still stands though: Don't tell him anything.
I think you are talking about Gimbiya when you say EMKAY. At the present if you want to contact her, then you have to join the forum then you can write to her privately. On the other hand she can write to you through your email address. But I think it is better if she contacts you first. This way your privacy is still very much ensured.
Waye yace........aure between a a man brother to his wife is not permissable in Islam.? ::) If at all a man & wife r seperated, divorced or the husband died. Then there is every right for a brothers husband & wife to wed...........subjecting to the fact that she is not in marriage tyez with the husband.
If at all a man divorces his wife....she has every ryt to marry the brother....
Its juss something that has to do with tradition...that I find very annoying....amonst the hausa...........watz d biggie dating or ending up to marry ur boy freids best mate? I mean ....ppl make it sound soooooooo ridiculous..Its not haram....but esp hausa....they turn it in2 some big issue....
For Lady Unknown..............yeah alot of ppl have told of their stories.....& in ur own case....2 me its juss like everyday history....I have seen & heard wat could b termed as in ur case a minor....I have seen & heard major...cases. As long as u said u've warned him...thats fyn,,.....If he doesnt listen make a report to ur husband & come clean....we all make mistakes once in a life time.....ok mayb things went a lil bit 2 far....but then we r all being fair enuff 7 considerate to wat we think. I personally see no biggie.............we all make mistake & we all repent & we all ask 4 4giveness....If Allah subhanawata'alah wud fynd a heart 2 4give...so let alone others......So ppl ya'all dont need 2 go grabby on mi lady aye!!
We leave in peace lady unknown...
Ok shall we proceed................................
Err.....Ummul u stikll see white cars...........MohIb....how about ur biten off by rats feet....Ihsan....yeah mayb u r naughty when u were lil...hope u dont go peepins no more....Nas our babe...will still leave on(RIP BLAD) Millie whenz...d weddin cumin up? & finally blad Hafsy...hoep u've stopped goin 4 free ryds.....no more contacts....& no more secrh browse & select........
LALLAI KANOONLINERS....YA' ALL HAVE LED A LIFE!!!
lol! ;D :D Yes they have all seen better days
Ummita, you've got me all wrong.
There is nothing in a brother marrying his bother's ex wife even if the X husband were alive. What is forbidden in Islam is for a man to encourage a married woman to leave her husband so that HE may marry her. Marriage becomes HARAM for ever between a man and a woman if the the man tries to persuade the woman to marry him while she is still married to another man. It does not have to be between brothers either. It is between any man and woman that can lawfully marry each other in Islam.
You must know that a divorced woman is not supposed to be courted by a suitor until she has completed her terms of Idda. So if that is not allowed in Islam, then this is definitely TABOO!
And Ummita, it is not as easy as you make it sound i.e. come clean if Allah SWT can forgive us, why not us forgive each other? You have answered your question. We are not Allah SWT. We don't have His Patience Perseverance and Magnanimity. He is not Influenced by anything.
We are humans subject to emotions and the influence of circumstances. How do you know how her husband is going to react under these circumstances? I know the majority of men would do something which they will regret later or not at all. It's a life with so much at stake that we are talking about. Besides ai Allah Ya na Ganin all of them. In Allah Ya so, He would have made the husband aware of what was happening, a long time before this, after all this thing lasted for four years. Obviously, there must be good in the woman, kuma she has not fully betrayed her husband. Ai Allah Ya na sane da haka. This is a supreme trial from Allah, believe me and it seems that she at least is passing the test. Dukkan mu nan sai Allah Ya jarrabe mu da one situation or another to test the level of imanin mu. Some of us wanda Allah Ya so da Rahamarsa go through it without even realizing that they are being tested, because of the level of patience da Allah Ya zuba musu. And we are not crabbing at her. She came with the problem seeking some comfort and Alhamdullillahi she found some.
This is just not the right time for a confession of this nature. By all means she should confess one day, but not now. Too much is at stake for her.
No more white cars for me thank God. The only thing I see these days is a long stretch of tarmac and my two feet pounding the tarmac one after the other.
ight guyz hold on a minute.....ummul i understand what u saying but look at it thiz way.lady unknown brought herself in the mess she iz right now dats 4 sure but it doesn't sound as intricating as she makes it seem.i believe she is in no dilemma,cuz by saying she is, she's like in the middle and she has her husband by one side and the brotha by the other side,and she has to choose btwn the two of 'em no! thats not it.to mii she shud assume diz guy(the bro) is some retard or he doesnt even exisit
the message is simple and plain ,she made a blow by allowing their relationship span to a lenght of 4 yearz ok.....dats a mistake right but then tell mi wat gud will it doo her if she tells everyone in dis world about her and the bro and not telling her husband?i'm perfectly sure there is this guilty feeling that will forever deny her any peace at heart if she chose to zip her mouth.
ight they dont see each other anymore dats gud the next thing is she shud pray to God and tell him(husband)and try to convince him it waz out of the devils work and dat he shud 4give her.
From all stories I have seen here and read, I have learnt that my issue is something which I can disucss here. I would like to pay my condolense respect to Nas, Allah ya jikan ta. I have also heard about her death amman bansan ku ba. yau kanoonline ta hada mu.
I am 21yrs. My father owns his own business and my mother is a doctor. I was the only female child with three older brother. I grew up to learn the hard ways. To strive & work hard. Both three brothers have reached their ambition of what they want to be. My older brother is a pilot, second is an engineer and the last one urned out to be a doctor. All my life , when I was a little girl I wanted nothing but to be Doctor. I studied hard to make it through. My father adored me so much, I had everything ranging from all sorts. At aged 19 I got my first car. I was everything to my parents. I was the first priority to my brothers. They treated me so well. Familied & relatives liked me so much. I was trained to respect, to love one another. I graduated from Islamic school recitation when I was 13yrs. I did my high school and am currently in uni and working at the same time. Life was good. Everything went well for me. I last time I shedded tears , was when my brother fought someone on my behalf. that was back then in high school. So you can imagine the kind of love I had. Not until this day. I got engaged to a man from Kaduna State. I was to finish uni before we got married. By then my father married a second wife. Well she was good for a state. Then with time things began to change. Living life, family love was out of the question. My father hardly sits to talk to us. H e never speaks of my mother, talkless of my brothers. My mother was just staying in the house...with the name called marriage but not practising marriage. I grew some sort of hatred towards my father for neglecting my mother. She never dares go close to him. She told me the last time she saw my own father and her own husband was 6wks ago..and living in the same shelter. As we all know, people said my step mum had a hand in that. Well I didnt care because I wasnt the ype into all that. My father took back the car he bought for me, said he was no more going to pay for my tuitution fees without no reason, he told me brothers to bring back all documents and leave the houses he has bought for each of them. The cars he bought them he took it back. My older brother gave his own car to his first son..but even that my father still asked for it. My mother was asked never to go to work or she will cut the thread of marraige between them. My Mother wasnt broke because she maintained her saving. My brothers had their own...so imagine inda bamu da abun hannunmu ya kenan. I worked part time in a solicitors chamber and did manage my mums business. So money wasnt the problem.
This day I came back from uni and found blood all over my mums sitting room. I knew something was wrong. I sensed it, now I know that was the reason I told my lecturere I wanted to go home. He asked why? I didnt know. I ran to my mums room, there laying on the floor was my mother in a pool of blood gasping for air. She called out my name. There I lost control I only sat by her door step staring at her and sobbing. It never occured to me to act quick. Then I regained my sense I ran to the sitting room where I left my bag. I could not find my cars Keys. My brother bought me a car. I searched thinking I just dropped it. I ran to call for my step mum and she told me to get out as I was disturbing her sleeping baby. I now ran to my neighbours house (my engaged boyftreinds house) called him out asked for keys and I grabbed it off him and headed for his cars. I have never been into their compound before...amman na matsu don uwata na cikin wahala. I came home. I couldnt enter the room thinking maybe she was dead by then. I just stood by the door way. Then my fiancee came down worried. He asked what was wrong I just pointed out my mums room. He went in then from there I didnt know what happened. All my fiancee told me was that I had passed out. My father was infromed of my mothers situation, all he uttered was, what does he care?
If not he was my father, he would have regretted being alive
My mother recovered and began to tell the story. She had a fight with my step mum, who used (roofing shit, langa langa) to hit my mum. after their fight my mum went into her room to say her prayers only to realise she has been bleeding from her wrist...there she lost energy and collapsed. Immediately my mum finished, I dug out some valium tablets....gave it to my mum...I lied to her that it was some pain killers. After I was rest assured she has half way gone. I bolted out this heavy chain and headed for my step mums room. Sh was on the phone. I locked the door room and only God knew, because I didnt know I did so much damage till the door was broken by my brother. I had already swore that I will leave her with marks for the rest of her living life, which I did. Missions completed, no regrets. 8) No one touches my mother and goes free. Had it been my mum was awake she will make it a mission impossible..Thank God to Valium pills. My mum heard of what I did but wasnt that happy. My step mums packed out and them there came loads of charm locks (laya) that she used to powerised my family, to tear my family apart. Shes gone, my fathers back and thigns are back to normal. Thanks to Allah
Thanks Ummita
Ayyah Mariya...wallahi ur story abun tausayi...and that was a good thing u did... idan tasan wata ay bata san wata ba 8)
And Alhamdulillah things r back to normal... :)
mariya wat u did was courageous am happy for u that ur family is now back to normal. so wat did ur dad had to say when ur evil step mum left? (u don hav to ans just curious) anhow all the best. take care of u
ok listen to this guys opinons will be very helpful. when i was 15yrs, had a huge actually humungus crush on some guy who was 20, and some how, i got his no, and startd callin him up to chat he thougth i was cute and brave.... anyhow wit tyme i feel in love wit him( well thats wat i think happened) anyhow we became friends, when i was 17yrs he started to come chk on me at home say hi, and go home then call me on the fone and we talk for hrs till early hrs of the mornin(this happens when he comes nija for summer) anyhow as for me i was fallin deeper for this guy, was all goody gooody thinkin am gonna marry this guy (in my gurlly fantasy) well the guy no dey giv me show so i confessed that hav always been inlove.... and he was like how could u i cant go out wit u, u r like a sis to me i was like no am not u wont call ur sis at unholly hrs of the nite and talk till the morning anyhow the guy was like it will ruin our friendship blablabalab.... so sha we still friends, started seein other ppl. so went away to skool, meet some yoruba guy, started goin out wit him only to discover he was two yrs yonger than i, anyhow the guy was nice so i was age nuthin but a no. so went on then some guy that i knew told me am the gurl he has always wanted ,,,,,,,, and i was like we shall c but sha the guy took it the wrong way, and was all ova me in a way, and me for abt a yr, so when i saw him a yr later (coz i neva saw him when he confessed it was ova the fone and internet), i was plannin to say hey u misunderstood me...., but i couldnt and he lost his dad and i didnt hav the balls to say anythin to him, so sha the guy already had planned my future wit him and me i didnt knw wat to say so wateva he said i said k k k . then i left for skool again. and back to my yoruba b/f but then i found him too childish so i was like me i no fit so lets break up(and all am thinkin of is the other guy the one i mentioned from the beginin 24/7) anyhow at first he was bein difficult but later on he was like k. then i was like lets get back he was like k, and then the other guy who wants to marrry me was like ok i want u to go back home so we can get married i was like r u mad? i hav my education to finish..... anyhow i was like i am not gonna take any shit from u. and he accused me of playin him..... and my crush guy(whom i forgot to mention is my best friend) said i did the rite thing. and the yoruba guy, his so called best friend came and asked me out which really pissed me off. so i went to my ex bf, and was like y is ur friend askin me out he was nah no way i was like yes way anyhow i told the guys ex gurl and he denied it ... but he neva came to me and said y did u tell me ex and ur ex. so guys help the sis out here i knw u r gonna think am nutta here but still need ur opinion on all this mombojumbo. will really appreciate
I just dey laugh wickedly. He he he ashe somebody don pass me for browse search & select. Gel (ummi) he heh I just dey nack hand por tebur. Why di bobo no like you. ah ah he hi Abeg Fella pass me tissue, my eyes dey water.
Now yoruba guy dey por lead y u reject that one. Kai alamuran kano onliners bai karewa. Ke, baki san yadda ake saka mutum son dole ba. Hear this carry sword go him face. Na propose zai yi,. He he he......ayyyyyy awooo ewoo my belle. Na you wey get correct sense por this place. eyoo my belly. To Ummi wanne muka zaba yanzu
Yoruba guy or I have a hit crusher
Anty Unknown kuma. I read yuwa sitori. Ibi like say na fiction. but I now say na lie my brain dey tell me . Anyway I have seen alot have advised, yanzu idan nace wani abu. U might think am crazy. Oya di besti solution go tell yuwa bobo. but if he carry stick. Ke ni kaina nima matar aurece. nasan yadda rayuwa take. Ki share kawai kiyi tuba.
Assalam to u all,hope kowa da kowa is doing fine,Haba my sisters do u think i'll be annoyed with u just because u exxpressed ur views?no ,not at all, i'm not angry infact i'm expecting more harsher words and condemnation ,but still u expressed ur views in a matured way,yhe only thing is i am trying to set the record straight,by explaining further.Who on earth can raed this topic and praised the writer unless such person is not exixting in human world,so is all due to individual differences u just read but u can interpret it the way ur mind focus,so may be some see my reply as somebody who is annoyed,even if u abused me,i really deserved it,because of my offence,and about what abdulmaleeq said i'll felt guilty for the rest of my life if i didn't confess,i think not now that i have found soothing words cunselling and great du'a,u're aware of one of the shurud of taubat is regretting what one did and promising in his mind not to do same for his remaining days on earth,so,that's exactly what 'am trying to do,with ur kind concern insha'allah i will pass this test.U DON'T KNOW THE EFFECT OF THIS CINAMANA :'( in my heart,i took the pain of asking one mal[though not directly]and he said had it been that i hade sex with that man then i have to confess to my husband,but since there is no such.. i should ask Allah's forgiveness and continue with my life.
btw::: ummulhuda and gimbiya i don't think i have enough words to thank u,what i'll say is u ll 4ever remain in my heart,and by Allah's grace i wiil continue to pray for u,and all kanoonliners,may Allah guide us all.
ma'assaalam. ???
Oh my days. Mariya you really have guts. You did the right thing. Mothers are worth everything to guide them for.
To Mrs unknown I wish I can read your story. I cant read hausa. Now I will just hang on till my fiancee comes over so that he can translate it.
Hafsa is so funny. I hope to have a child like you who will always make me happy
well Ummul...lol.. Allah ua kareh! :)
Mariya..... kin hadu.. wallahi ur hard core oh... i salute u well well ;)
Hafsa... go back to that mental asylum enh... wallahi ur own don exceed madness... 8)
Unknown... if i were u. i'd repent SINCERELY!!.. and avoid the hubby's bro like he was a plague...(cuz he kinda is)
really..... to even think of divorcing ur hubby and then marryin' his bro is TRIFLIN!!!!!!!....ask forgiveness from Allah.....
ps... i wouldnt tell my hubby tho... ::) Allah Ya che.. dont tona ur asiri... repent and dont repeat it... :-X
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Hafsa... go back to that mental asylum enh... wallahi ur own don exceed madness... 8)
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Lallai u call me craze.. How can you conclude that am mad hadda wallahi.....? Some ppl sef their head na real ova zero....Now you tell me who fits PERFECTLY to be regarded as a complete mad gurl who needs to be tied up in a straight jacket? he he he he ;D Go rest gel.
NOW Mariya, I juss dey laugh my head like so...Na correct thing you do like so. Na you gel na you...I sure say na you wey win Mike Tyson championship....Na correct as you buga shege....like this.Even Ali boxer no fit...I like yuwa style. But errrrrrr as you give our mother (because yuwa mama bi my mama as well ) you sure say you no ova dose am? Because ova dose...go fit proceed our mama wo!!!
In ADMINISTRATOR KUMA. OGA admin..I post response it appear as aunty Mariya name. I posted another response at the poem section it appreaed as Hamza. Plz look into this situation. & then again I registered ages ago. but I cant sign it. But plz take note on the name errors.
Thanki you ;)
With regards to Mariya's story, ni kullum ina mamakin wa 'yansu matan da za su shiga gidan wa'yansu da sunan an auro su. Su tarar da a complete family and then they proceed to tear the family apart. What pleasure do these women get out of it? To my understanding, if a woman decides that she can live and share a man with another woman, then she is the one who has to do all the compromising since ita taje ta tarar. Isn't it enough that she has been accepted by the members of the household as one of them? If a new kishiya truly loved her husband, she should try and get along with the ppl he gets along with and these will be primarily his other wives and kids. If any show her hostility then she stays out of their way as much as possible.
And then to use charms in order to secure the husband's attention. Where is the merit in that, when you think you can only secure the husband's attention under the influence of black arts? Not satisfied with that, one has to destroy his family also. Believe me, duk matar data ke haka ba son mijin take ba. Because if she hurts his family, she also hurts him and if she can stand to hurt him in that way, then she doesn't really love him.
Mariya, Allah Ya da da karewa, amin.
QuoteAssalamu alikum
since the woman said she never had sex with that man i think there is no need to tell her husband ,had it been that she had sex with him then that will automaticallly haramta aurenta da mijin ta,Allah shine masani.
Ni kuwa in my opinion as a layperson, auren mace bai automatically haramta da mijin ta ba because she had an affair outside marriage. I am a layperson here as I noted so my views can be disregarded. But I am under the impression that there must be an act of LI'AN before the marriage becomes completely haram b/w the hubby and wife.
The husband must accuse the wife first, (and vice versa?). If the swearing of oaths take place then the marriage is forever anulled. Otherwise Allah ne kadai Yasan between the husband and the wife, and if a wife is cheating on her husband with another man and he never finds out then retribution will be exacted from her by Allah (S.W.T.) ranar kiyama, but she still remains the man's wife as long as he does not divorce her for some other reason (since he does not know her infidelity).
In ba haka ba kuma then Shira, if what you say is correct, then by implication, all those rich ladies keeping lovers, are automatically living in sin with their legal husbands as well, since some of the men don't know about these affairs.
A man may know of his wife commiting adultery, if he does not accuse her of it, and forgives her then I think their marriage still stands. The rest kuma tsakanin ta da Allah ne, but if a husband forgives his wife, then she can be assured of forgiveness from Allah upon repentance.
Let's not forget one thing, while we are on the subject of infidelity, that while some women cheat on their husbands, it is more often the norm that men cheat on their wives, rather than the other way round. Many women are also aware of the fact that their husbands cheat on them, but unlike when the husband cries foul and wishes for istant retribution, many women keep quiet about it. Does that mean then they become automatic divorcees, because their husbands are wayward? Of course not! So why should it be different for a woman?
Ummul,
for some reason I seem to agree with you most of the time. see I have a problem with the males cheating on their wives and think it's okay, but to them seeing their wife talking to another man on the street that's enough to call it quits. so I'm with all the way.
Salam,
Hope y'all are doing just kool, I feel like Iam knew here, coz so much has happnned and Iam glad I was able 2 squeeze lil tyme 2 read up every bit of this forum. Iam more than happy 2 learn alot and read up the mysterious stories.
I must pay condelence to NAS and I wuold like 2 let you know that, Lubna is waiting 4 you in heaven. Allah ya ji kanta Amin, mu kuma mu taya shi yin addu'a, Allah ya bshi wat makamanciyarta kuma ya jikanta da dukkan musulmi!! AMin.
Malama unknown, Allah ya kare, Allah ya ta kaita. Husna labarinki ya bani tsoro matuka, da duk na dauka tatsuniyoyi ne i dan naji irin wannan labarin, sai yanzu, mAlam Anwar, barkanka!! Allah ya kara taimakawa. Oh boy, 1/2sa u wan kill man with lafter, ummi na wao for ur dudes, ummulhuda congrats!!
Kai, wallahi I feel Iam missing soooooooo much, u guys shud keep it up!! Bless y'all....
I just wanted to show how very much I apreciate your kind reasoning. I taugth alot will crucify me especially when it had something to do with my mother. When I needed du'a the most that was when alot of my ppl back home were crucifying me. Kameel, dyme, Ihsan, Ice, Baby, Ummul, Moh, Fella & all the rest I tank you very much. Ummita am gald to be part of this whole thing.
Peace ya'all
QuoteI just wanted to show how very much I apreciate your kind reasoning. I taugth alot will crucify me especially when it had something to do with my mother.
Peace ya'all
awww crucify u like how? :) well u thot wrong... we're all sinners.. juss some more messed up than others ::)... hehe joke... ;D
but f'real tho.. i still give u madd props tho.. aint come across mallo boi ruff as u.. :P. sha... movin' on...
MHMMMmmmmmm....hmmmmm amke I talk abi make I shuruf :-X I go talk........family onliners wuna no grab.......wuna no grab...? baku gane ba? baku gane bayani ba? hmmmmm make I unleash di secret..This Anwar and this Fyne dyme Ibi like say sometin dey cook for under pot. Make wuna read again from where di boy tell him sitori dyme justi dey firaiz di boi...hmmmmmmmmm gelz ;D ;D Ori don spill. mhmmmm make I go. henyways make wuna grab..I jealous wo he he he. Guyz I gatta roll out! Need 2 go do a little bit browsing and selecto.(for those of you wey gane wetin I mean, take this ;)..
Mariya dats sad i really feel sad if i see a polygamous family thats got al sorts of problems..
Sannu da kokari (yanmata) Mariya. Wishing you all the best.
Mrs Unknown I hope everything goes well. From the looks of it I dont have to add anything here because you have received the best advice from all our members
Mareeyah, I'm really sorry. I feel u down here. I dont know but if there is anyway this forum could help, I know it'll b glad 2. I wish u the best of luck.
Allah ya taimaka mana gabaki daya, amin
mhmmmm all of wuna own beta for this forum. Naso I come do nak anoda shege. This time I promise never to apply any facial make up. Ok girls just want to recceive a days facila beatuy make up, we carry leg go saloon we one do haduwa for this our friend marriage munason muyi gayu and haduwa. We all decided to bring in a new trend..muka je akayi applying mana henna (incase all the yeye bois no grab) lallan mai filawa......ofinkakwakwe ::) let me proceed, with the exception of presido, she never apply anyway I no blame yan gayun karya. Mi and other four freinds apply. We went for facial make up I wan look pretty so I tell beauty applicator make she repair ma eyebrow small. Oya presido just dey make me laugh because I dey receive txt message from one Igbo boi(incase wuna wan know Ibgo boi see me, kuma shi be yadda ba yanayi) anyway presido she never do anything but make me laugh, na magazine she carry dey read. Ok I come do mistake naso beauty applicator come scrapeeeeee one eye brow.....fiawwwwwww. No hair remnant on one eye brow.......she come say am sorry madam but due to you lack of sitness but movement ,one of yuwa eyebrow is vanished completely from yuwa forhead....I jsut come do one kine turn naso I see my eyebrow don dissapere. chiawwwwww, chineke god/ I nono wetin to do beauty appilcator, na hot tears just dey comot. Presido come fall for chair dey laugh. Naso tears dey comot and one eye get raised eyebrow di other no get eyebrow nor hair at all. I come ask di lady say if I apply spirit automatic hair go appear. she come say am sorry madam but it will have to take a few days. I suwe I one kill miss beauty applicator. even though I neva receive correct beauty treatment. Naso I come manage go home dress shege I apply hadadden lace for my body. Nite time don nak. Party go start in hr time. I come wear one shegelege lace. come nak daurin goggoro. bu errrrrrrr my misvanished eyebrow naso I come use eye pencil marker trace eyebrow. we come jam pack for hausa get together, I get my bobo for one side but I still dey do search browse & selecto. Presido say she no go fit go kuma she never go. naso mi I carry leg go. We jsut dey enjoy with other freinds naso my yeye hand come reach face.......and fiwwwwwwwww black comot from eye brow..I neva realise till it is too late. wetin sef carry hand go face? I no know. Naso one secret admirer come bounce I just dey open teeth fia fia.. dey blink eye brow to get di boi attension mima I know say I fine so di boi go come. Naso he come dey yarn. I just dey play hard to get, naso he come ask say, ke ji mana ;) ina dayan giranki ya tafi? I come look my hand..naso I come see smudged black for my hand for eveery where. I come realise say I remeber say I get one eyebrow wey vanish. One real one fake. Shame scatter! shame cover my whole body come see frustation. At that moment I said to my self walahi gobe zan tafi salloon ni banyadda ko gira na ko kudina
OK LEMME WASTE MA SUNDAY RESTIN HRS 2 TELL A TALE!!!!
Onliners: Plz help me come to conclusion: Who did I really have dinner with??????????
It started like this, During a trip 4 a pilgrimage, I was in Madina, so I went off to say my magrib prayers for I left my freinds shopping. I went in2 d mosque & spotted an empty place, but sitting just beside that next space was a lady who I would honestly call Madam raggamuffin...she looked tattered, dirty and from the looks of it she must be so emaciated lackin propa food intake.
From my little observation which I made my final conclusion in just 3mins, that empty space was avoided because no 1 wanted 2 sit nxt 2 her. She was also sufferin from a bad eye problem that her eyes were soooooooooooo unlookable......she was the type that a person could vomit in the middle of a lunch when u get a quick glance @ her.
Well I couldnt be the least bothered. Wat du I care, as long as she is human wat diffrence duz it make b/w herself & maself? Yeah even though she was soooo not the type of person anybody would love to sit by. I still proceeded walking towards her and thinking away. I pulled out ma jabbah & carpet and I turned it round and said to her, can you sit on it 2gether with me. She looked at me in dismay and disbelive she was also scared and I nodded to her giving her a hand gesture to come along. Yeah she did she sat quitely next to me avoidin me avoidin eye contact she just kept sayin her du'az. But something about her was quite worrying......and belive me I was amused by the way she was praying. I asked her some questions and she told me she was a hafeez, who lost mum & dad & lost her husband & kids...she had only one broda who was off in Iran or sumwhere like sum place like that (cant recap) that but she had no one nothing but herself. I felt terrible & almost 2 tears (not 2 mention a big capacity I have 2 brk down & ma big reserviour of tears, she laffs) All this about d woman neva did put me off instead I was really into this strange woman. After prayers I said to her, do you want to have lunch with me? She neva looked @ me but I kinda sensed she found it suprisin, so I asked her again and she said yes......
I quickly left my things behind and speed off to some fast food restaurant. I wasnt at all hungry infact me & my freinds had already fulled up our tanks but I just wanted to know more about her, but then she was a complete total stranger. Why was I so into her? Reasons I not know of :-/ & till this day I dont know!!. I came back with munchies,actually I bought d food 2 b hoovered by one person..cuz I was stuffed, I had already vacuumed much, came bck....she was still sitting and just about then she said to me you know I so much love chicken...by then I didnt have a doubt...but now am soooo curious how did she know I bought her chicken.? :-/
Well I pushed the whole food and watch her eat like she has never done before, I sat quitely hoping I could get the best out of her to speak up. 2 Tell me what ko?:-/ Wallahi nemer ben sabi ba? I didnt even know what was it about her that made me want to speak to her.
Well I was far away thinking about this lady who has no one & thankin Allah for makin us complete...... she rose up her head and broke my tauts she said to me, why are you not eating? she said am sorry I should have allowed you to eat first & I can have the remnant... :o That was so unbelivable..I felt so heartbroken.....but Yes I lied I 2 her I said to her...ow I was just about to....... but my tummy hurts...it has nothing to do with your hands dukked in2 d food.
Infact food was not d problem...even if there was a problem which arosed tension in me, she was d solution, there is something about her I wanted to know..but still I dont know wat I really wanted 2 know(a bit confusin..)
Wat I really wanted to know was, y did she has some sort of erry feelin & connection against me. One unusal thing was when she spoke she never looks me in the eye. Another thing was the way she sat, she sat in one postion 4 ova an hr and didnt move..I would have turned & changed a zillion positons. One more thing..was yeah!!! she was sooooo pretty but in her conditon it hid her prettiness. Well out of my taut did she break me, when she said to me can you spare me some dates...but boi...I had none but I said to her I will run off and get you some (OK...Dont take me 4 miss goody two shoes, mayb am juss d nxt Mother Teresa or Princess Diana :D..that am sooo in2 wretched ppl) ok lemme proceed I said I had none but she said I shoulnt bother getting her some. She now asked for water and I said to her I had none but herez some drink...I just turned round to get her d drink I bout purposely 4 her...I was usin 2 hands 2 pass d water..as respect but hey!!! wat did I see when I turned round...........nutin!, absolutely nefink! except her jabbah. lying on ma carpet.I turned round looked & searched I couldnt find this lady but she left her hijab & a small tasbah, infact if her shoes were gone. I would have said shez gone, but they were there...& they were some unique slippers I have neva seen....Mi lady was gone, vanished in2 thin air!!
but then came my realisation I didnt notice her goin off & it was juss a 3sec intervals,...me turnin round & she disapprearin!! then came anoda realisation,......I neva even saw her feet lets alone her hand she hid them under her jabbah & again she was so nice that I knew she wouldnt have left without saying goodbye.....but d most amusin was she said she was Arabic,....but believe she had a perfect gud english communication, I asked a lady few paces away if she did c a woman leavin she said nope......whut!!!!!! I began 2 shaken, cuz I taut that was insane!!.....or mayb I was bcumin mental!!!! Impossible....well at that moment I began to get freaky. I began to shiver. b/4 u knew it I was out of the mosque, heading to where I left my freinds...a few mins later I spotted them.......they were even freaker than I was cuz,..they said 2 me I was scaring them with my veryyyyy unusal behaviour that I have just started..I became very tensed..& even a lil boi did scare me when he walked pass me in that situaiton...I get jumpy whn ppl pass-by. I said nutin till we were heading bck............4 a dayz rest. I finally summoned up 2 courage 2 tell my story.
My freinds kept all quite till I was cleaned out from ma mouth 2 d heart, finally they all sparked out laffin......some were fallin off. Now that I taut was even more scary.....well all they said to me was gurl........u really iz on crack, cocaine & speed........they neva belived a thing...well I cundt b bothered 2 make them believe.or anybody. All I was afta was checkin unda ma bed every two mins & lookin @ ma bck 2 make sure I was safe! then I decided 2 ignore all them gurlfreinds who I taut really were the once on Speed & crack!! ::)
I ducked ma hand in2 ma bag 4 a gum.,,,,,,,,,nutin touched ma hand, su'in did..I brought it out.............it was........it was........a rosery.....it was a tasbah d ladys tiny tasbah....how did it get there? I left it on d floor near her hijab..How did it get in2 ma bag. It still remains a mystery 2 me. cuz neva was I a believer of such things...even when miracles did happen..but not in unusaul ways!!I finally told ma freinds.look herez a tasbah I was tellin u that..even though d lady seems soo poor she has a real unique beautiful tasbah..now its in ma tremblin hands.
This tym every one was headin 4 d door.............so was I. Now I told ma gramz about it, & she asked 4 d tasbah I said 2 her plz go pick it up urself in that bedroom...........cant go in there!!! well ma gramz said mayb she was a soccerer or mayb an angel from above!!!!!!!!!!! Now this tym I was headin 4 d doors.....................I was so scared that I neva did I invite ppl 2 sit with me...
For the tasbah....ma granny kept hold of it,...for ma freinds they were the real speedy gurl who were high on d run, who were headin 4 d doors. In ma own situation, now I stand out like this askin u.....du u have any idea who I really had dinner with apart from seeing her as a normal old lady? WHO DID I REALLY HAVE DINNER WITH? :-/ :-/
This came from past xperiances, taut I shud share a bit...afta ya'all have said ur stories, Id also like to say a big thankkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkz 2 all of u. Indeed ya'all have led a life 2 tell a tale ;)
Heck did I type all thattttt? Call mi a professional typist ;)
Kai................Ummita for all these yrs I've known you, ai bansanki da tsoro ba. This is one interesting mind chilling story. Gaskiya it gave me the goosebumpsssss. To answer who you had dinner in my own opinion, I would go with what your nan said: Yeah maybe you had dinner with an angel. The funny bit was about your freinds ;D
My God, that was soooo.. dunno!! yeah, she must be an angel. It was sum wat scary but the simple fact that it was in a mosque made me undesrtood the whole thing. But ummi u really have a strong mind to have get talking 2 the old woman!!
Miracle happens!! Loads of us never realises that Allah tests our faith in so many different ways. It seems u have passed this particular one. I pray we get to pass ours when the time comes. Lucky u, u had dinner with an angel...
Wow, some story Ummita. Dont know but i would think you probably had an encounter with a Jinn instead of an angel, but Allah knows best. Now we know where all that talent is coming from ;D, she must have given you a gift ;). I have heard of stories like that where pple just appear for no reason and dissappear for no reason, especially in the holy mosque in Madina, you know it is not only us humans that are muslims but the jinns as well, so they also go there to pray, just like we do, to evade attention they appear very haggard and ugly since they are naturally better looking than we are.
My sister..hahaha, sorry I no mean to laff, but my belle self dey complain say d thing too much. I really so so so so sorry to here about ur eyebrow. It is so unfortunate. And I salute presido for her belief in natural beauty. It works though for some people only. And as for that woman, to say I fit catch am, mo b only eyebrow I go remove, har eye lashes din ma sai na cire, in kuma yi mata ladan askin kai, no mind am I know say na attachement she dey do sef.Amma yanzu abinda zakiyi shine, make wuna go make them count ur eyebrow for the other eye, then put price for one, say 500 box, then bill the woman or sue am for all she got. hahah Sorry wo.
emmm Ummita you didnt actually state out that you were crying. Meyasa kika ki fadan wannan part din. Yeah we said she was on crack & cocaine..but Allah daga baya it was soooooo freaky.From my own point of view,can I say the lady was a witch ;D Nah Ummita I think you dinned with an angel... ;) Thnx for your concern Ibro
Hafsy!! she always makes me laugh
Ummita ow! am out of words. Do you know that Jesus once came in the form of a wretched man to test the faith of some men? Am with Kameel, the lord just wanted to test your faith. May the lord keep on being with you. I wish I dinned with her, though I will not be allowed into the mosque
Wow Ummita this confirmed my fears that this intelligence is morethan natural,i think u dine with an angel or jinn who will continue to bless u and surely u are a gret girl,i salute u,and for hafsa had it been she joined u in the dinner i think ..................kai hafsa a barwa 'yan baya and i'm sorry for u may Allah guides you and may you go back on your legs i really pity your situation
WHAAAAOOOOO!!!!!! ummita... thats a TIGHT 'tory 'tory!!!!....
Madina is a WONDERFUL place.... wow, i love that place sooooo much!!!!!!!!!
..ah, i get gist ... about one of my friends, chioma... so this gyal and her brothers and friends where playing in their neighborhood... (they were little back then)
they caught a BIG lizard and decided to perform an "operation"... they took a razor blade... sliced the reptile open.. took out its internal organs... WASHED IT!.. then placed it back into the lizard... ::)
but the funny thing about this story is... the lizard got up... walked about four steps... then collapsed and died...
the gurl was telling meeh and laffing and falling and rolling... and i found it funny, b'cuz.. the lizard actually WALKED :-/
Hafsa your drama no dey end :)
yakamata ki hakura da kwalisa, hehehe.
Ummita that lady can be an angel, a jinn or just a great magician,
Only Allah knows.
And so is your lizard FDQ
Life is so full of wonders!
Quoteauthor=Borg link=board=chit-chat;num=1042120592;start=135#149 date=03/09/03 at 20:40:47]Wow, some story Ummita. Dont know but i would think you probably had an encounter with a Jinn instead of an angel, but Allah knows best.
Borg wallahi ur reply iz freakin me out! ewwwwww jinnz! :-/ & sum of ya'all r sayin angels :-/
Dyme gurl.......yeah Madina iz kool......shud I continue goin & havin strange freaky encounters...or was that a miracle as all of you stated? To ni dai Allah ya kare ni...they more ppl speak of it the more errrrry things get.
PS: D lizard story......she laffs that was maddddd...........funni
Ummita, no need to freak out, you passed the test with flying colors.... most pple get marooned for doing the wrong things to them... (still frightened? :DHehehehe)
Guys, dont call me gruesome but we used to do similar things to lizards only difference was we used to grab them tie 'em up, stick knock-outs in thier mouths and set alight..... believe me they never walked an inch after the bang.... God forgive me.. but what to expect from a borg!
QuoteGuys, dont call me gruesome but we used to do similar things to lizards only difference was we used to grab them tie 'em up, stick knock-outs in thier mouths and set alight..... believe me they never walked an inch after the bang.... God forgive me.. but what to expect from a borg!
She laffs & laffs.....now thats wat u call freakier than a borg........Innalilah u iz madd funni........I didnt know which iz funnier, from urs 2 Dymes.........cruelty 2 reptiles........no wonda these dayz I hardly c any lizard around......insertin knock out in lizard....don Allah tell me how du they look like....afta..duz their intestines pop out & spillin everywhere or du they burn out...makin them propa barbacued lizards Borg that is disgustinnnnnnn. Cruelty 2 reptiles (she laffs)
OH LORD HAVE MERCY!!!!!!!!! loooooool!!!!! loooooooooool!!!!!!! looooool!!!! knock outs?????? loooooooool!!
QuoteGuys, dont call me gruesome but we used to do similar things to lizards only difference was we used to grab them tie 'em up, stick knock-outs in thier mouths and set alight..... believe me they never walked an inch after the bang.... God forgive me.. but what to expect from a borg!
lol lol lol Now Borg I think you pass Hafsa for madness ;) That was so funny. It took me 5 minutes to recoup from laughing.
and Ummita they were you were screwing in fear and that 3minutes under bed check up was what made us conclude that you were on crack cocaine. But yes it is still a mystery don mina fa na tsorata. I will go with you had chopiz with a jinn or probably an angel
Way to go Borg I like that mean side, Ummita you dont know the joy and feeling to see the most vulnerable thing in danger. The excitement is the fear in d victims eyes. I will soon use your methiods Borg but in my case lethal solution zan dinga sakawa ciki bakin humans.
Ummita Believe me you had dinner with a witch he he he he
Fascinating ko? Wanna know how i stopped?
My father had an air gun that i used to steal to go and do target practice with lizards, frogs and other creeping crawlies i could find in my gun sight. One fine day i grabbed my rifle and headed to the garden looking out for my next victims.... i saw a frog in a very nice position... it was my chance to blast it to heaven, 'Borg the terminator' har da kwanta wa a kasa trying to make it as real as i could, i took aim 3, 2, 1 fire!!!! Haba i fired the gun but....... i didnt know what hit me!!! The recoil effect from the gun after firing jolted it backwards and the view finder landed on my mouth... man the pain went straight through me. You should have seen my mouth a few minutes later, there was no blood but ,my lips were the size and colour you see on the black slaves in those asterix & obelix comic books. I slowly sneaked back and returned the gun, as my bad luck would have it, my younger sister (amebo!!!) saw me returning it.... eeeek.... i knew no story i manufactured would work... especially with such swollen lips. When my mama heard the story she said 'Allah ya kara, next time you will go tormenting helpless creatures...', ba irin zolayar da ban sha ba, and Allah kawai ya sani all the names my lips were called. I wish it was the end of it, but that amebo had to tell my pop when he got got back home.... i was locked up in the bathroom for another 6 hrs as punishment for unlawful possesion of an air gun. ? And guess what guys,..... i missed the darn frog... (the terminator got terminated).
That was the last time i blasted reptiles or anything for that matter, even though my friends continued in my footsteps hehehehee..
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Hafsy!!! sannunki...gayu yayi kai (lol)
Ummita, insha Allah koma wa kika yi meeting abu ne wanda ba mai cutarwa ba...Allah yasa alheri :)
BORG!!!! LA LA LA LA...hmmm, ashe haka kake?? (lol)... har yanzu haka ake ko an sake? :P
Ummitah, I know this kinda things sound creepy...but I`m kinda glad and u should be too, that it happened this way. you have just breached a connection wid our immediate neigbours, the jinns, and you met the good ones. If I were u, I`ll hold on to the rosery as a gift. Yes it is spooky, I would have wanted such. Things happen sis, what an adventure ehh?
I dey go
Lallai Hajiya Ummita, A gaishe ki da aiki. I felt nima dai bari nayi leading naku to my path, so that you guys will stop having the wrong impression about me (women Hater). Ku biyo ni kusha labari.
I lost my mother (Hajiya Ameena) RIP mother, I barely knew her. The only thing I remmeber about her was her voice which is also fading away day by day except of the loads of pictures I have. I was the only boy in the family, my father battled or ko dai nace he tried to raise me up as a single parent which was not possible. My father married another wife that it was only when I grew up I came to learn she was not my real mother (when I was only 8yr by then) ko dayake, all I knew she was my mother (Hajiya Fatima) she gave brith to four girls and I happen to be the eldest in the family. I call her mamma, well sometimes she shouted at me for no reason, but I was to young to bother all I know to just to play. As I was growing up she made every single step ahead for me difficult. She beats me, I have to go to school with scars over my body. She didnt care about me. All she ever cared was her daugther ( I wont mention names) well she refused me to go my mothers relatives, banned me from going out, banned me from seeing my father, I cant even go ton his sitting room. She infromed my father I was on drugs and I was stealing. She told my father I was responsible for impregnating her own stupidddddddddd house girl (all i DO NOW IS LOOK BACK AND LAUGH) She said my father was paying money for nothing. I attended Samadi primary/sec thats where I graduated years back. I remeber when the so carrying principal made a visit to my fathers house due to the scars she noticed 9abunka da farin yaro ;D) My father was never at home. Travelling to countries, sometimes I blame him, I never had a chance to see my mother and now I have a chance to grown with my father but he was never there. Becoming independent was what I took upon. I vividly remeber when I was always bringing good certificates from nursery, she used sponge 9soson karfe) girls I know you know that, wanda ake wanke massive pots daji, she scrubs me bad with it) If I do wrong I wont see abinci. Kuma God blessed me with alot of freinds, they troop my house (she shouts at them, drives them a way0 My father gave me my first car when I graduated from sec school, she said if I cant take the transport I SHOULD FORGET IT. wELL BY THEN (NA FARA SANIN CIWON KAINA) Na dan fara taurin kai ;D Well one time I was admitted in the hospital, suffering from typhoid. I was in the hospital for two weeks seriously ill. She never paid me a visit. The only person I saw from my fathersa children was his second daugther. She was the only one close to me, because I dont even talk to the other coz she has spolied them rotten, ni kuma bana shiga harkansu saboda banason raini. The only people I saw where freidsn and my mothers relatives. I was almost dying in hospital. My father was as usual abroad!!!!!!!! She canceled my trip to US 6yrs ago so that I can further my education. Well everything in the house was my fault. My father situated a little apartment for me she decorated & furnished everything. She said I was bringing girls over at one time she heard a girl shouting that I was raping some girl.....9kunga halin mata ko?) well she did everything she could that finally my father had to build another apartment for her daugthers who are far off worse than I am....sune masu kawo samarinsu gida suna throwing up parties. My father loved me so much but she tried everyway to break us apart. I still could remeber one time she was sleeping I didnt know I was chasing a freind by then I was like 6yrs(menasani :-/) the door banged ta kamani ta dake yi, she twisted my hand har nasami dislocation, just because the door slammed hard. well I was asked kada na gaya wa babana instead I should say my hand got cut up by the car door which I did. well until now my father didnt know what happened really, besides she didnt care to take me to the hospital and I struggled with ciwon hannu for almost 1month and I was just six year(if I had a mother if at all she was alive things would be different) I left my fathers house. I told him that I wanted to be independent he gave me off a house and some money to start off yes I found my way up. I worked so hard. In the last 4yrs ago I got to go off to US finished am still in uni currently studyin. Its been 4years since I last stepped to my fathers house, sadai naje na sameshi wani waje. I swore I will never ste to that house again because I dotn feel part of it. That house remains an enemy of my life. Hajiya Fatima speaks of me, I always hear the rumours she passes out, The lastest one was that I was doing the cocaine psuhing ba karatu ba. No matter how much she hated me, shekaru nawa tun ina da shekara shida, yanzu ya kamata ace she has a heart for me but no day by day she continues to hate me, nima I continue to hate her. She also had an accident two days after my arrival in Nigerai during summer I refused to go. Ta nuna mun hatered kawai. I tried to get together with her, I remember there were time da zata duke ni but I will run and hug her, saboda tsoro da zafin duka da kidimewa. You can now imagine. This is just a little of the way I was being maltreated by a woman. Me nayi mata, uwata ta mutu, ina rabi maraya but she has made life so uneasy that I wonder if I am ever going to leave my children alone at home even with their own mother. Even though am all grown up, nasan ciwon kaina, I do thigns on my own, she still hauts me she still is a night mare. But life is good I still maintain a good relationship with my father, even when my heart aches to share some time with him she wont live him to see me. Am gald that I have my mothers side, they do everything for me, I have most of her brothers in US here one big family, so idan anyi depreiving dina daga digan ubanan I still found happiness.
So jama'a ina su hajiya Ummita, Fulanicious da suka tsigale min wai maiyasa masaka women hater.....to ga dalilai nan dai(yan kadan daga ciki kenan) not to mention when she had me locked up in jail for 3weeks, she refused to infrom my mothers side where I was held duk da they can provide what ever the amount to bail me out for no crime that I havbe committed. I have written alot bari na dagaka. So Ummita and Fulanicious its not that I hate all women but Fatima made me hate women, she makes me look at all women as evil, so dont think I hate all women but....................kai bansani ba. To bari na karkabe riga ya ja gaba. ;D I believe such is life ko?
By the way ina ma Nas gaisuwa, Hafsatu kai kai kai sannunki ;D Ummita ni ma dai I think its a jinn. Millencent you uncle can make do with my step mother, they will make a good partner. Mariya :o kina da karfin hali. Anwar to abindai ba cewa komai Ihsan banda ke wake zuwa tsokana gida mutane? Beeba abun naki babba ne :o Ummul Allah ya kare gaba. Dyme lol abun dariya. Borg lallai kayi risan rai dayawa to jama'a sai wa kuma?
Ayyah, No wonder ka tsani mata, Allah ya hada ka dana gari, you'll see how wonderful this creations are. Allah ya taimaka mana gabaki daya, and Allah yajikan maman ka. Ameen
Women Hater thanks alot. Now I wish you all the best in your journey thorugh life. Alot of people have sad alot here. Borg yours was funny and that goes for Dyme. Ummita I think it was an angel from above :-/ Women hater, dont worry women are the nicest humans ever. You have just been throguh a phase in life. We all have good and bad times, we just have to learn how to deal with them
QuoteI remember there were time da zata duke ni but I will run and hug her, saboda tsoro da zafin duka da kidimewa.
Stupid boy she wan kill you but you still dey approach her maye ;D ;D ;D butttttttttt Allah sarki :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( I just dey cry I finish one box of kleenex wipes now na my mama wrapper I dey hold dey blow nose.
Borg you sure say na lizard you enjoy killing or you enhoy eating it as well because indirectly na hunting you dey do. Kuma nama kadangare kuke ci kawai za a wani wayance mana ;D [color]
Women hater
Forget and forgive your step mum if you can
and keep moving on with your life.
Allah subahanu wata'ala has make a promise to us that
who ever did good will for sure see good
and who are did bad will for sure get punished.
So batta da wannan and just put it behind your mind.
Stop using that name because i assure you some women are really beautiful inside and out.
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Borg you sure say na lizard you enjoy killing or you enhoy eating it as well because indirectly na hunting you dey do. Kuma nama kadangare kuke ci kawai za a wani wayance mana ;D [color]
Su 1/2sy ke nan, lallai lafiya ta samu har an fara instigationing!!! To Allhamdulillah for your safe and quick recovery.
In aka hada miki kadangare shish kabab, you wont know what hit you... u will just ask for more ;D ;D ;D
Woman hater, kar ka bar step mom din ka ta yi ma 2 - 0, since she made your life miserable in the past, let her remain there... move on and enjoy what life has to offer ka ji, Insha Allah you will find some very nice lady that will wipe away all the pain and sorrow your step mum caused you.... Insha Allah mu na nan, za ka dawo wataran ka ba mu labari.
I think its time for that name to change.
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Insha Allah mu na nan, za ka dawo wataran ka ba mu labari.
Amin
Allah sarki women hater dole ka sani mata...amma ay ance ba duka aka hadu aka zama daya ba! dan haka not all women are like ur stepmother!
When u meet Miss Right, duk wannan zai sake ne insha ALlah...Allah ya bada sa'a... ;)
My fellow onliners I would like 2 ask I favour of u. I am about 2 start my exams and I would like 2 ask u if u could plz put me in ur prayers for I really do need them. 2 all those who pray 4 me ? May Allah reward u with goodness?. AMIN
well, homeboi, if ya spent less time online..maybe that'll do the trick ;D hehe
hey, woman lover... its orite... to get to the rainbow.. u gotta get thru the rain...
so shake it off.. Allah ya jikan ur mother!..
ur stepmama is juss one woman... dont let her ruin it for u.
kuma, i hope u get to make changes in ur life thru alheri... amen!
... see wut i mean by men are easily controlled?? *tisk tisk*
allah ya ji kan rai amin. ayya i dont really know where to start i really feel ya. i think the best prayer is that allah ya baka mata da iyali na gari masu albarka. and for ur step mum just carry on with ur life allah ya baka saa da karatun ka so that she will see all shes sayin. amin .
and about yu hatin mata see i dont blame yu. but at least by now yu shud know not all of them are like that. just pray allah ya baka maka ta gari yu will see how nice they can be.
Woman hater,
am speechless,
man really
May Allah help you in this world and the here-after.
Not all women are bad....... not every woman is hajiya fatimah.
man again i must repeat......
i can only sense yur sorrow but cant feel what you went through.
May Allah bless you
Allah sarki baby boy :'( :'( Kada ka damu, when ever you need a momma to cheer you up when things get down, just holla at me ok ;)
THATTTTTTSSSSS whats beeN buggin u :-[
I feel for u...bro i feel for u...Allah sarki....sannu...sannu
Look i am not asking u to forget and I will never blame u if u never forgive....i wouldnt too...and even though i dont know that monstress...i hate her...with every atom within me...and i dont know u, but I will NEVER forgive her for what shez done to you ......
but i am asking you....infact begging you to not think all women are the same...and to not take it out on all women... infact she aint a woman....wannan bata da feelings...shes inhuman........coz of her dont hate us... Wallah some of us are real good...and ur name....pls change it to WITCH HATER..... coz the way she treated u..even a lifeless object doent deserve such thingz!!!!!!
You know what? keep ur head up, never let her words or action bring u down....continue to have faith in God, continue to do ya thang...continue to represent......Allah is wit u.....and we the kanoonline fam are praying for ya...n we got ur back homey!!!!
Much fulanicious luv!!!
salamu alaikum
ur a sunshine....keep ya head up!
lol twinkz!!!!!
heeeeeeeeeey HAFSY and UMMITA!!!! i had a dream with u gurls!!! it was at this strange spot.. like a stadium, abi na auditorium.. lol... dont worry.. u didnt look ugly ;D ya'll were representin!!.. newayzz. i juss thot that was odd.. and wanted to share wit' ya'll....
i juss pray i wont get any nightmares of alhamza and IBB and error and....oh i pray not! ;D
Ayya is all kanoonline loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
but chia why this girl no dream me ehn/ Why why why? Dyme you sure say you never forget me for the best scene in you dream. Why she no dream me :'(Abeg dream me next.
and emmmmm ke, ki spreading holy water around for corners of your bed, because I alone really kno what these to girls really are ;) Even though we are miles apart. I kno what they do in Umuahia.......
Oh......you were together with them in a staduim or na auditorium........shikenan u don join. I knew it!!! Cult members. Chia make I raise ma skirt, ignite my legs and do z hundered meter relay zoom off. I fear you girls. Abeg Dyme I take chineke beg you no dream me. I no want
But seriously thats weird, dreamt on them? Are they freind of your if yes then saboda haka ne, but its all kanoonline family love. but I still remain firm there is something going on among the three og you (I was just touching my head and looking at my back to make sure am not the next victim) ;D
To jama'a na gode duka. Twinkle that would have been most comforting.Thanx guys. Yes! I have passed it over, that remaisn a history just wanted Ummita & Hajiya FUlanicious to get the real picture before they think am being cruel ;). Thnaks Ice, venom,Ihsan, Dyme . Such is life ;D Oh well were did we live the fun ;DSomebody heat up this place ;)
hmmm.. make i tell u... since i was a baby.. i've been hard-core ::)
even during my embryonic days... i was reppin well well! my mom said i was one tuff belly kid.. ;D
when i was about 4 months old.. i burnt my elbow with hot water... my mom heard meeh crying.. but ignored meeh.. cuz she said i always cried for no reasons aniwayz.. then my dad said my mom shld check on meeh.. cuz the crying didnt sound normal...
momsy turned around... she saw flask dey lie down wit' meeh.. haba, her front started falling... she lifted meeh up.. and she said that my elbow and flesh were literally HANGING OFF, as if they would DRIP OFF!!!!!
it was soooooooo bad.. that the doctors thot my nerves got affected.. and i almost had it CHOPPED OFF!!!!.. but luckily.. they figured it wasnt that deep.. and juss had medications..
i still have the SCAR on my elbow.. since i was 4 months ooo! :o
then... when i was still below a year old.. a bomb went off behind our crib.. and the glass window shattered all over meeh... my dad carefully picked up all the pieces while my momsy dey panick finish!
so..worrelse.. ah yes... i was about 2-3 yrs old..and i fell in a bunch of broken mineral glasses... someone broke them.. and i was the lucky kid to dive in!.. i got stitches above my lip and other scars...
..still a toddler.. i took a razor blade and kinda slashed my thumb.. i dont remember if i wanted to chop off my thumb on purpose or not... maybe i was juss trying to yanke my qumba.. only the Good Lord knows...
when i was about 6 yrs old... i was swinging b/w the side table and grandmomsy's bed.. when my one of my hands slipped and i came crashing on the EDGE of the WOOD!
i stood up immediately.. looked around.. horrifying faces dey stare meeh back.. i smiled trying to show "naw, i aint hurt".. but then felt a warm feeling over my eye.. it was BLOOD! my upper eye got CUT BAD!... and then suddenly.. DIZZINESS!.. then CP time! sha, i had a stitch.. the scar still dey...
that stitch was one of the coolest experience i had.. i can still remember how they did it! kool!
then.. when i was about 5.. or i guess 6.. in my popsy village.. i was playing around some wood planks. one happened to have a huge @$$ nail on it.. then meeh, wai ban yadda ba, i get "super converse", i go step on the nail and it wont penetrate.... BOI WAS I WRONG!!!!
well.. for some reason it didnt hurt. i was trying to shake off the plank with the nail IN my foot. and i saw this one boi (in our compound) and yelled at him..."kana gani da qusa a kafa na baza ka taimake ni ba? D'Allah zo ka tayani chirewa"...
so i got a tetanus shot... and well survived... half the village (ok maybe not half.. but trust all those almajirai to come and watch) came to check out the "laffing gurl with a nail up her foot".. for some strange reason, the nail tickled as they were drawing it out!
then.. i fell off trees about a KAZILLION TIMES! but i never fractured a bone.. i conquered a lot of trees... olive trees, oak trees, bishiyan mangoro (my fave to climb), and also those kano trees with red flowers and flat green fruits. Guava trees are tiny.. but i climbed them finish.. i got hurt a lot of times...
especially when our uncle would come and chase us away... meeh and my cousins and friends on top of the tree.. and we alarm "ga uncle lawandiiii..... mu dirga!!!!!!!!!"
haba, then u see everyone running for cover!! man.. i love life..
then.. meeh and a couple of kids on our block. used to go and tease dogs and make them chase us... dayum, once we teased this huge dog!!!!! and wow.. see us sprinting around the neighborhood!!!!! and the thing never tire.. it juss dey pant and run after us.
i guess that was the last time i tried ish like that... the dog nearly BIT us.. and i know that one get sumthing that pass rabies.. it sabi culture HIV virus in its mouf!...
on my 15th bday... hmm.. i nearly drowned! talk about dday...(DEATHDAY)...
my friends threw a party for meeh... so i come dey wage hakori.. i come baff up.. so fresh and so clean clean... i had these heavy boots enh.. and baggy wando.. i come carry my sef dey shine!!!..
then to my shock.. those yeye pesin come lift meeh toss meeh in the pool.. the DEEP side!!.. see how my baffs come weigh meeh down.. chineke! wai!!!!.. i was SHOCKED TO MA BONE MARROWS!
then my peoples thot i was faking it.. wallahi the 'yan banza left struggling for a good amount of time.. until on of the girls were like "uh, guys, i think she's serious..".. but the gurl wasnt in her swimsuit...(she had a reasons). so she couldnt come and get meeh.. she tried to tell the others.. but them too busy dey laff like clown!..
then finally.. they got in and pulled meeh out.. come see how everyone ya tsure! we sat there for about 5 mins juss :-X :-X :-X :-X
then the party went on LoL!
to be cont....
WOW, you be proper 'problem yarinya', remain small you fit pass me sef!
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on my 15th bday... hmm.. i nearly drowned
then to my shock.. those yeye pesin come lift meeh toss meeh in the pool.. the DEEP side!!.. wallahi the 'yan banza left struggling for a good amount of time..
lol lol lol was it a cold night ;D ;D ;D
dyme queen....bout tha lizard washin thing..lol...i wonder y u r suprised. u too sound like a person who will also do tha same thin....even worse.... :P
Women luver.... pls dont make me n ummita look bad here... u came all of a sudden and showed us no LUV... tell me, what do sistaz do when they are showed no luv... u started the whole thing...
and i wanna just say that u shouldnt judge
people b4 u knw them. not all women r the same. And Allah subhana wa taala KNOWZ and is my witness that I will NEVER EVER EVEN DREAM OF WHAT UR STEP MOM DID TO U.... I WOULDNT EVEN DO IT TO AN ANIMAL.
But whats done is already done, and Allah saka for u....
fi Amanallah
DYME....I'LL KEEP PRAYING FOR U.....
where is that pastor when u need him!
lol at dyme. Allah sarki human hater :'( :'( :'(
lol.... naw.. it was a nice weather country!!!!
borg.. lol.. mhm.. thats juss the ones i had time to put up... kai, and people wonder why i be RELIGIOUS!.. God has ma back lol...
fulaniqueen... u berra commot!..lol.. and nicious, its ok, I'm my own pastress...
Aunty Dyme woooooooo! I greet u well well... what an adventure...
Make I nak wuina one chapter. Fashy the other sitori this one na new one.
We all sabi stobburness wen we dey small. Ok wo! na mi na mi. E get one time. We jam pack me and my uhuahia crew Ummita & blads for that place Kano (kai that kano sef! he he he) na them sabi theirselves. Heni we. This party go jam! Naso we just dey front as per els don jam. Heniwe, na eight of us come plan to go that party. (except party popper Ummita) ::) hiss dama she sabi spoil anything and without her abubuwa basu dadi ;D abeg if you read this one make your head no big wo! Heniwe we come plan we arrange eyebrow, arrange nail everything correct we apply make up we take polish face. Dma di party go nak ego begin hussling for nine of di clock hour. Heniwe we all gather. Dama gels wuna know who di drivers (the boys of course ::)) so e remain tiri people wey no get ride, naso we beg blad she she carry us go. Naso she come carry us drop us say have fun, but she no root wey she go go back home, as per ba yar gari bace bata san kano sosai ba, heniwe mi no sabi drive dama, naso I come get my freind sun koma she kuma she come ring sombodi make she go pick her. Heniwe! we jam there. everything dey gravy like so, Other people just dey dance.......wuna grab wetin I sabi do ko ;) ;) Browsing and selecto kuma my cute boo dey diya as well. Anyway me and my boo just dey chill like so. Naso my blad come call my cordless, wireless, mobile, cellular,econet, mtn telephone(by the way kai that econet abi na mtn) (na wuna sabi) anyway she come say Blad granny mama done nak town! She come nak say my mama as well don nak town! Again my older brother don nak That my brother burauba...na correct Godzilla he bi. I fear him pass my father sef. I no reme,ber di time I fly pass my bobo. Naso he just dey hola my name (for inside my mind, I juust dey say ba yanzu ba bob, ba bayani kawai) I gather 3 of the girls wey dey stay under our roof. We come call blad she no fit answer her telphone. Heniwe ba mota"! All the boysd dey hussling naso two of my cousinz bros come gimme car keys but di tin bi say I no sabi reach drive! Di other gel kuma her bodi dey shake (My granmma na correct evil pessin she bi ;D koya yana tsoro) Heniwe naso we si this big alhaji wey get this big belle, wallahi he look as if e get belle. Well di man like my pirend naso he say 2a'a yanmata bari na kai ku inda zaku" at that moment we no get time to give dirty look or that kine attitude before the man corner go driver sit I have already entered the car. Heniwe! naso di man dey drive slowing trying to chirps my pirend 9niko tsinewa nakeyi) heniwe he ask of my pirrend name she come nake Nafeesa (kuma ba sunan gskiya bane) well gist dey jist between them, mu kuma for back seat just dey pray and sweat!!!!!! Heniwe I loose control come call her by her correct name. I come say Hadiza don allah kara buga wayan Ummita ki ce mata tace ma Deborah su bude mana back door (guess what that fat belle man come say dama karyan suna kuke mun, to ku fita a mota na) Come see shame, Allah ya isa wallahi haka ya sauke mu for titi, that wuna kano road ::) anyway an ma kusa gida :P Infact we just dey front and all these kano people dey hola us, one man took a left turn instead of rgiht. Gaskiya mim sef I know we nak kano ;D 8) ;) Heniwe we just dey cat walk, da muka shiga wani titin gidan aunty nawa, we raise our cloth, remove shoes and after the coutn of two he he he come see gudu even horse no pass us. Wallahi ban san na iya gudu haka ba. We reach my aunt house. My heart just dey palpitae as I spot my gran mama car. I just collapse for gate eyes coem bring tears nba san mun shiga uku. Naso I come dey recite addua. I come call our maigaird the main gate was locked chineke! Chiaw!!!!! we come go back gate closed! I come spot my room get light. Ummita Ummita ! I come dey shout name. But di yeye gell come blast music. She no fit hiya. I come dey regret say why I carry dis gelk come our house sef (ko ya yake ita yaruwa ce ;)) My freind just dey recite suratul yasin, we come dey rub rub addua for bodi. Da na ga GO NO GO. Nace Hadeza, Farida, Raliya wuna sabi climb tree and fence, one come say nidai nasan ina karama ina hawa nace oya1 I come raise cloth but di problem bi say...wuna know that kine electornicitjng wire wey people dey put don barari, we gettam but lucky enoguh babi tawai fence side din. Naso I come help Reeya I come say climb that brancvh ki dirka she climb and dum! she land. Hadiza come land as well. I come dey throw shoes, bags, mobile through fence. Mariya come do one heavy crash land! dummmmm! I come say kun kwashe kaya? I no hear reply? I come say Hadiza ki shiga gareji akwai ladder di dakko? I no hiya reply as per I no get anybody to raise me? I come da swear why they no dey answer. I come vex come climb tree out legs for branch I come do one kine summersault crash land. wuna know those kine gravel stone? Make una imagine di kine ciwo da naji. I come let one kine breath piaw!!! I come spot all my freinds dey stand dey look me. Naso I come spot ummita I come say haba! blad why you do us shege? I come say ina Hajia? Ina mama? Baffa fa/ welll di suprising thing bi say blad no even look me for eye her head de kasa. My freinds as well. Nace iskanci wannan ma ai iskanci ne ina magana kun share ne. Inafact kayan tana zubar baku kwace ba. I come bend down one select ONLY my kaya. I come spot another extra six legs. I come spot one leg wey I recap years back I use to massage those feet wen I bi small I come say HAJIYA!? ::) I see warpper I say MAMA? I see those kine kanawa tazarce I know say na yaya? I lost touch of blood. Infact na blood just dey clot for my heart. I come do slow motion raise head small. My heart just de na buguja ! bigid! bigidi! honestly on that day my heart nak differently kuma honest I no dey feel my heart for di place wey ibi na for head I dey hear heart beat. I come look blad, come look my freind. My granny come say kun dawo? I come say ah! hajiya mama Baffa? Kunzo lafiya? Dama yanzu nake cewa ko lafiya? well make wuna no blame me I lier. I confuse pass anything. My granny say yanzu kuma barayi kuka zama? Anyway my granny fire us like hell. Aka kira masu gadi fire them as well. Naso my brother come ring my uncle who bi correct SOLDIER! Akace za'a zane mu. My uncle came that night wo around 3:55pm. In gaya muku yanuwa a waje muka keana. Infact wen uncle solly come (na di name we take call em ) Uncle solly yace ai Hajiya ba wata magana da safe za'a je a kulle su kawai behind bars. My mama kom say kwairai , suna nuna ma barayi hanyan shigo wa, she come say for that matter Party!!!!! cikin dare nann!!!! wai wani direban ne ma ya kaiku? Ku kira Nura...Nura na you take this gels go party? Nura say no naso we all come look Ummita. By that time Ummita was alrady half dead (ke if you read this sitori) idannunki kawai nake tunawa, but because of di love wey di blads dey share. I comot boldly come say my freind took us. Anyway my brother say if I keep keep quite za'ayi mana duka. Uncle solly come bring this big previa car come load party gels four of us. za'a kaimu police station, za'a kulle mu behind bar. My granny was saying kuna mata, yaran musulmai whatever whatever. Ni by that time. as per I no get experiance ban taba zuwa ba I was thinking of that Oputa panel, di type of harsh treatment, I come look Hadiza come say, za'a bamu fararen kayta da kwanon karfe she come dey cry. Uncle solly one close door my mama coem dey say.....akaisu ko na huta kuma ba wanda zai zo visiting. I come hold door, come fly comot go hold my mama dey cry cry cry. dey beg I come dey swear say we will never even step out. My granny was saying Bukar baza ka tafi sasu ba (uncle solly kenan) Ummita just dey cry.......wallahi it looks so real that we were going. because my mama call our househelp deborah wai ta bamu abinci a tefi demu. I dey cry dey call Ummita name. Nace shikenan no music, no yawo, no abinci beta, no fine clothes, no frejnds, no tv all that I was thinking. I come dey cry. Uncle solly come do u turn naga this one na for real. I come open window dey call my mama name. Dama I love that woman like hell but on that day nace anya she bi my mama kuwa/ because she dey influence uncle solly. Heniwe shege Mamma ;) hes the best maigaird...he come open gate. I come dey think say duka yan unguwa zasu ce those umuahia gels wey land few wks for kano for that unguwa dey go cell/ well uncle solly drove road pass we just dey beg uncle solly. Naso he just dey drive around one time yace zaku kara? before he finish that one I DONE swear ten time, har ma ina cewa I wont go back umuahia sai na ance, ba zan je kitchen ba sef sai na tambaya, anway he come carry us go home. anso Mummy hajia come dey shout baka kai su ba? Naso he come sai ai sun nemi gafara. Fada ko munsha shi. My granny come dey address as as barayi. We come enter room Ummita eyes come red my own come red. NASO WE LOOK EACH OTHER. we come tiya LAUGH......We all enter toilet fall for graound dey laugh. Come see as we cover mouth Ummita come dey call us barauniya number 1 2 & 3, hussling party gels. I laguht tiya. Why? its just di episode of di climbing and landing and meting the threee most feared people except my mum in front og me. and wen we were being manouvered away to cell!!!!!!!! Since that day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If we dey go party we go blow lie!!!!!!! Infact did we stop or not? lol yes we did!!!!!!!!!!!!
I go nak you the bestest ever past history of me......That one na real real episode.........
LoooooooooooooooooooooL!!!! kai, loooooool... looooooooooooooool..... wayyo!!!!! looooool!!!!! ALLAH YA QARA!!!!!! ah!!! looooooooool!!!!!!!!!!....hahahah!!!!! LoL!
QuoteHeniwe naso we si this big alhaji wey get this big belle, wallahi he look as if e get belle. Well di man like my pirend naso he say 2a'a yanmata bari na kai ku inda zaku" at that moment we no get time to give dirty look or that kine attitude before the man corner go driver sit I have already entered the car. Heniwe! naso di man dey drive slowing trying to chirps my pirend niko tsinewa nakeyi) heniwe he ask of my pirrend name she come nake Nafeesa (kuma ba sunan gskiya bane) well gist dey jist between them, mu kuma for back seat just dey pray and sweat!!!!!! Heniwe I loose control come call her by her correct name. I come say Hadiza don allah kara buga wayan Ummita ki ce mata tace ma Deborah su bude mana back door (guess what that fat belle man come say dama karyan suna kuke mun, to ku fita a mota na) Come see shame, Allah ya isa wallahi haka ya sauke mu for titi,
KAI YARINYAN NAN LOL LOL LOL HA HA HA HA HA HA. HAFSY KEEP BLAZING! SO I HEARD OF ANOTHER EPISODE OF YOUR LIFE JIYA. This time mutuniyar kice tayi messing up :o Me ya kaiku? mhmmmm bari dai nayi shiru :-X but idan kika basu labarin lol Ummita ma tafiki rashin ji lol joking
lol lol kaiiiiiiiiiiiii innalilah wayyo allah cikina. lol lol lol lol lol
looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool THIS GIRL CAN KILL PEOPLE WITH LAUGH.
LMAO
Quoteno reme,ber di time I fly pass my bobo. Naso he just dey hola my name (for inside my mind, I juust dey say ba yanzu ba bob, ba bayani kawai)
LoooooooooooooooooooL this has GOT to be the FUNNIEST PART!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
oh Lord i'm ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!
Hasfy!!!! LOL....hahahaha...u don give me di laughs!
don't know what to do without u gurl... ;)
Kai Hafsy you made me laughed like I have never laughed before.
lol lol lol lol WHERE IS HAFSY NE? lol lol PLZ KEEP THEM COMING LOL LOL. Ashe girls sabi rashin ji? lol
jama'a na tona wa kansu asiri :o :o
IBB, baka ji sunan wajen bane ba!
Quotejama'a na tona wa kansu asiri :o :o
To sai akayi yaya? Ra'ayi!!!!!!! Besides you are still living that life of let me keep things to myself? :o Sorry it doesnt work........
Infact guys this is no laughing matter this is no laughing issue at all. Listen! I came back from my lectures in Wednesday last week at my door step was a dead bird.........I did a quick du'a and skipped the bird and entered home. I was to grab a junkie because I was hungry I came out and I saw two OWLS on a tree branch. I recited Ayatul kursiyyu and moved on, but I was so scared. I came home said my prayers and you know because on that fateful day. I was the only one at home. I went to bed.I went into a dream that seemed like eternity. In y dream I was wearing my mothers bedrobe and I was fighignt a huge bird. Honest no joke! I was so strong like XENA DA WORRIOR PRINCESS. I was battling with the bird and finally (you know the funny part of my dream was Ladies Papi featured in it) :-/ Honest! he threw me a sword and I chopped off one leg of the bird & its head. I remembered in my dream that I held on tight to its wing. I woke up in the morning did my morning du'a and I swear it! All I found on my bed was two feathers. I was getting freaky, when the girs came home I asked if someone was pranking me and they all said nope! NOW THE SHIVERS CAME DOWN MY SPINE, Because when I went out to get some morning fresh air, the dead bird I had seen the night before was still there, but this time its head was out. Of course I couldnt bring in the picture, that I had almost a smilar dream to that. Well thanks.......not until big mouff (Ummita) ::) that I have been possessed. Well I couldnt think of nothing through out the day except that bird. I decided to seek an alims help, but I totally forgot. I went to sleep that said making sure I didnt ommit any of my SPECIAL DUA'S. I went to sleep and never had it happened to me, the drema I had last night continued, but this time the head I chopped off in my dream the night before was replaced by a head of a woman I onces knew, but that was ages ago. I remember that woman as I have quite a good memory, she was my nanny when I was quite young and her name was Deborah.........She was fighting with me but I managed to run off, I woke up shivering with sweaty forhead. The next day I ang my mother and narrated the whole story. My mother informed me that Deborah had to live our house, my mother dismissed her because she was so strange, she was strange in the sense that at night if my mum is sleeping she walks into the room and stand beside her bedroom and when my mother couldnt take her stangey behaviour she had to ask her to live. My mum told me she heard that deborah was part of some cult member back in the days (of course I couldnt care less of this things) fate is all I have. Well these couple of days she has been coming in my dreams. She once came with a tea spoon I remmbered I always took anywhere when I was a baby, she was giving it to me. I am so scared but my prayers is all I have. Been making alot of du'a.
But what I dotn understand is that: she she seeking vengence because my mum drove her out? Or is she just scaring me off? Or am I just hallucinating? OR IS MY EX-NANNY haunting me? :-[ This is shivers for me. I am so scared!!!!!!! but Allah subhana wata'ala knows best.
Who even knows wthether its IBB ::) ::)
Gurlfreind ::) as we all said, it aint got nuttin 2 du with ur nanny.......rather u've been POSSESSED by demons!!!! u need 2 b excorsized!!! U give me a shivers........gaskiya mu dai.............
1/2sy 2day, u of all ppl :o (she laffs) kai kai!!!! :P dont worry nxt tym wen she cums in ur dream.........juss holla.......@ US
Where's Stephen King? ? ? ?
Ummita might be right u know ;)
??? ??? ??? ??? ???I have a very heart touching story i am still contemplating wheather to say it or not :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
let it out
sorrow shared is sorrow halved ;)
Well,i decided to finally say it out,may be i will be lucky to get an answer to many questions i have been asking myself,i came from a very big family for the fact that my father had five brothers and four sisters,and each of them had at least five and above children,this made us to have many uncles and aunties as well as cousins,my parents are united,the children exchange visits and even some are staying in some others houses,for one reason or the other,this made us to be free with each other and enjoy the company of our brothers and sisters,since we are many you have to get somebody that you are so used to been with,among the girls and boys,me and one of mymale cousins[mustafa] werevery close,since i was achild he did everything to me,as a sister infact he chooses everything for me upto my secondary days,i was in ss1 when he graduated from uni,he is a very free person infact almost everybody likes him,couse he was so free caring and above all generous,he will buy al sort of things to us,but he made sure that i get the big or nicest thing,every body looks forward whenever he was coming,all members of the family knows that iam his favourite[as everyone has his own favourite]we were all like that,when he did his kur'anik garaduation he went all the way to my school ,to pick me,but he wasn't allowed,he had to shift the graduation till we came back[i was in ss2 then]when we came back he organised a very big party to his frinds sisters,among his sisters and cousins i was the only one that gave him a gift,that single act of mine made me a star in his eyes,infact even our parent started teasing us as husband and wife,deep within our mind we know we not only like each other but love and cherish each other,but none of us say it out,kusan ci mu ya kai in har he wants to travel to tare zamu tafi,duk inda ka ganni to yana nan,matsalolina,damuwa ta,abinda nake so,da duk wani abu na rayuwata ya sani,don ko bana wurin idan ana tadi zai ce da ina nan da kaza zance,yawanci kuwa hakan akanyi idan nazo aka tada zancen abinda ya fada din zan fada,haka nima nasan rayuwarsa.
A cikin haka ne sai wansu da yake karatu a waje ya kare karatu zai dawo gida,dama yana aiki kuma ya samu promotion,mustafa da wansa sun shaku sosai,duk wasu abubuwansa shi yake masa,kuma since he doesn't play with the other children though he is like his brother kind and generous if you like something from him you nhave to go through musty ,kowa tsoronsa yake not that yanada zafi amma saboda baya sakewa da yara,da ya dawo mustafa took me to go and greet babban yaya,
Washegari sai ga mustafa da kaya niki-niki wai an kawo min tsaraba,after somedays sai ga babban yaya wai ni yake so,to ban dai ce masa komai ba,ashe har ya fada a cikin gida,ni kuma bani da kowa sai mustafa[duk da baice yana sona ba]da musty yazo na gaya masa sai kawai ya bani encouragement na cewa in amsa masa,i was so surprised ni na zaci mustafa ne yake sona ashe ba haka bane,naci kuka sosai,[shima mustafa ashe ba yadda zaiyi ne,tunda wansa ya furta shi kuma bai furta ba]don haka daga baya sai kawai ya nemi ya bar kasan,bai dawo ba sai bayan da na samu first child dina,when he came back he stayed with us at lagos,'cos he couldn't get a house,duk wani damuwa da wata shawara kamar kullum yaci gaba da bani,shio yake kwana da baby na,dan wata hudu,duk inda zashi dashi yake tafiya, tun da yayi 'yan mata na shiririta a jami'a bai nsakle kula wata budurwa ba har yaje ya dawo,kannansa da yawa sun yi aure amma shi an nemi da yayi aure yaki,to ina yarinyar ma,har iyaye suka fara rade-radin ko bayi da lafiya ne?a dangi yaki kowa balle a waje,bayan dawowarsa muna tare har wata rana mun fita dashi zamu je gidan wani brother dinsu,sai naga hoton wata yarinya a motar na fara tsokanarsa ko zamuyi surkuwa ne ?sai ya fito min da wani envelope ya nuna min yarinyar da wani abokinsa yace zai mu su kalanda na aurensu ne,so ni kuma sai na fara zancen yaushe zamu sha biki,when went deep in the discussion he told me that since he lost me he wasn't ready to have any other girl again,i was so confused,na tambaye shi ni,yace kwarai kuwa,nace ba kai kace in yarda da proposal din yayya ba yace yes,ba yadda ya iya tunda bai riga ya furta ba,kuma yayansa ya shiga shi yasa yayi shiru,nace to mai yasa baiyi magana ba,he told me he was trying to put everything in place before saying it'cos he wanted the marriage to take place four weeks after his proposal,so that we can enjoy ourselves better,that if he said it at that time our parent will restrict our movement together and baya son inyi nisa dashi ko na second daya.
That is how we stayed for almost a year,kullum ina tunani mai yasa bai yi magana da wuri ba,saboda shi nake so,kuma mun saba ba wansa ba,then all of a sudden he wake up with a strange illness,he had a stroke and his hand was paralysed,znd it even affected his speech he wanted to talk to me but all he was saying is rubbish,i couldn't understand a single sentence i cried for the whole day b4 babban yaya arrived,so he arranged for his admission at kano,wayyo Allah muna kuka muka rabu,unfortunately b4 they reached hospital he was completely speechless,har kuma kafar sa ita ma ta zamo paralysed,daga airport straight suka wuce hospital,kwana biyu babban yaya yace zaije dubo shi,naso in bishi amma da farko yaki sai daga baya ya yarda muka je tare,after two days muka dawo tun da dole zai dawo wurin aikinsa,wayyo bakin ciki goma da ashirin na rasa in da zan sa kaina saboda damuwa da fargaba,infact zuwan da nayi baya magana amma yana gani na ya fara dariya,he opened his palm and give me a sign to drop my baby on his lap,
Duk abinda ke damu na yanzu shine a duniya wazan gaya wa cewa shi nake so?wa zai bani iznin in je in yi jinyarsa?haka dai na zauna har dai kwananan ya samu sauki,abu na farko da ya fara tunawa nambar waya ta,he called me but he couldn't talk,and later yanzu ya fara recovering har yana magana hannu da kafa dama sun riga sun warke,abinda ke damuna shine ni nasan tunani na,da kuma bege shi ya kawo masa wannan ciwo,haka shi yasan in bani ce a kusa dashi ba ba zai iya wani tasiri ba,gashi kuma babban yaya kamar ya hadiye matarsa saboda so,sai dai ni yanzu hatta abinci bana iya cin na kirki,sai dai rama da kuma yanayina da duk ya canza,ni kaina na dawo wata maras lafiyan dole,kullum sai dai inyi karyan ciwo,duk wasu abubuwa dana saba yi da yanzu na kasa yinsu,abin da yafi daga min hankali shine wa zan gaya wa dalilin cutuwa ta?haka shima wea zai fadawa dalilin cutarsa?an san mun shaku amma kuma ai yanzu aure ne da ni,a akarshe ina neman addu'ar duk wanda ya karanta wanan sako akan Allah ya bashi lafiya,sannan ina neman shawara akan abin yi.
NA'IMATU
:'( :'( :'( :'( :'(OH!my sisiter i have pitied your situation infact i even imagined how u felt,how lonely and deserted u might be,for somebody that sacrificed his happiness for the sake of his brothers happinees,that man surely deserved sympathy,he deserved love.but the only person to show him that love and care is u,well i think try and convince your parents and husband point to himm the closeness of 2 of u,show him that he needs u there,not in form of lover but as his favourite sister,tell them u didn't find it easy to stay whiloe he was in hospital,i think since everybody knows 'ur closeness they will reason with u,then after he recover u can find a beeter way to get out of that mess,but dont relent on prayer,let God remove that love from your heart that u just stay as normal brother and sister,encourage him to marry.Allah will surely see u through,i wish u success
??? ??? :'(Oh you are really in a great dilemma,i agree with maryam that prayer is the greatest weopon,please pray and go close to your parent may be they will advice u on the next linme of action
i CaN see ppl with multiple personalities here....i hope the story's not fabricated too :P
SALAM
SORRY TO SAY BUTTA IZ THIS FOR REAL? COZ ?THIS KINNDA THING DON EVEN HAPPEN In SPANISH SOAP OPERAZ !
WELL JUST INCASE 'this is tru' just wanna say sum....
First of all.....gurl just wanna say I feel yah!
And u know I have sum couple of advices for yah
1- u know u mentioning the kind of family u are from and even giving names of people....and ur description of things.....honey u are giving away too much...what if somebody that knows u reads this and ?it reaches ur hubbyz earz?
2- u might think ur a victim but the biggest victim here is than man u married. He doesnt even have a clue whats going on behind him...
3- U and mustafa both made mistakes.... when his brother asked for ur hand in marriege...U SHOULD have told him u luv someone else and vice versa for MUstafa....
4- And another thing I want young ladies to note is that NEVER marry someone u dont truely luv coz all sorts of ish are alwayz bound to cum up. Not especially if he is the brother of the one u luv.... u feel me?
5- Honey all is over and done u cant turn the hands of time....this is how Allah drew ur life....so u might as well accept it. kiyi hakuri.
6- ?You ahve to move on...u have a baby...for the baby's sake....concentrate on his father! coz if ur cover is blown imagine how its gonna affect ur son when he grows up.
7- ?AND as a married woman...ur heart is yearning for another man , this can get u out of Islam and Allah yayi punishing naki....May Allah forbid Amen!
Sister I do feel sorrry for everything and I pray Allah shines his rainbow over you and your family...
They say "A WOMAN IS WHAT KEEPS THE FAMILY TOGETHER"
Suga....as a daughter,wife and mother u have to be strong to keep your family together! May Allah be with u ....God bless
PeAcE!
Hahaha!!!!!! Kina shige kuwa da ranarsa, Unknown, Na'ime, Maryam, wannan irin kintsa labari ke kadai, sannan kin kuma dawo kina ba kanki amsa haka :o
WOW!!! Lallai ppl like U son san yadda zasuyi amfani da internat.
Amma baki ganin cewa kina toshewa ppl with geniun problem kofar samun shawara??
FALANICIOUS Don't mind her, Itakadaice take kidanta kuma
take rawarta.
Kin tuna labarin ta a baya inda take cewa wai she is in Love with her husband brother? Well she is still the same person changin stories and also replying to herself :o
Check her email Add and u will see what i mean
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SORRY TO SAY BUTTA IZ THIS FOR REAL? COZ ?THIS KINNDA THING DON EVEN HAPPEN In SPANISH SOAP OPERAZ !
my thoughts exactly!
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5- Honey all is over and done u cant turn the hands of time....this is how Allah drew ur life....so u might as well accept it. kiyi hakuri.
PeAcE!
Amma Fula you get sense no be small ;)
QuoteHahaha!!!!!! Kina shige kuwa da ranarsa, Unknown, Na'ime, Maryam, wannan irin kintsa labari ke kadai, sannan kin kuma dawo kina ba kanki amsa haka :o
WOW!!! Lallai ppl like U son san yadda zasuyi amfani da internat.
Amma baki ganin cewa kina toshewa ppl with geniun problem kofar samun shawara??
FALANICIOUS Don't mind her, Itakadaice take kidanta kuma
take rawarta.
Kin tuna labarin ta a baya inda take cewa wai she is in Love with her husband brother? Well she is still the same person changin stories and also replying to herself :o
Check her email Add and u will see what i mean
Well u may be right,but one thing i want u to understand is this person could be one two or three,what i mean it could be different people,but i don't know this is all assumption,and i first agree with hb but later change my mind when something happen,duk wanda yake amfani da net ko kuma yake kokarin yin reply a wannan forum din idan yazo typing address zai ga so many mail addresses,so ba lallai ne mutum ya typing nasa ba especially in yana so yayi covering kansa,so is possible an samu co-incedence ne wurin amfani da mail adresses iri daya,don nima nayi bincike kuma naga wasu wadanda suka yi amfani da address daya wannan forum amma different name su meyasa ba muce musu mutum daya bane,irin wanna we just reply or keep queit 'cos zato zunubi,and we are all unknown here.
sorry i mean defynest not hb 8)
Quotesorry i mean defynest not hb 8)
I am lost.............. what did I say? ???
To jama'a as everybody in this forum knows me except for the JJC's ;D. I have one advise for the lady in trouble. Ke! any time you gat tears in those eyes. Come to papi ;) Am the man!
Anyway everyone knows how I joke around, wasa nake miki NA'IME. I read your story but all I can say is Allah knows best. Just make du'a. God will be your guide.
Madam Hafsy you will never stay out of trouble. This time aljannu ke damunki>>> To!!! babban magana :o
Good lord I missed this place. I missed the whole family ;)
It really amazed me to see people i expected to be civilized and highly educated turn othrwise, :-[ :-[how on earth can u claim that such things never happened?don't u know that the world is becoming a global village,and the essence of the net is to share ideas,learn from people and get imformation,at least if u cant reply just keep quit amma is not good to just start accusing people of wruting or fabricating lies,for what gain ?if i may ask,why is only naimes message that is recieving a knock on the head? :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(ok guys just face the reality,i dont say u should believe with all rubbish but at least u cant justify that its a lie,what am i to gain by fabricating stories?is it a writing or story telling competition? :) :) ??? ???so please take it or leave it,thanks fulanicious u can advise as well as anyother person wishing to do so,Our prophet said"duk wanda ya yaye wa wani mutum musulmi dan uwan sa bakin cikin duniya to Allah zai yaye masa bakin cikin sa na lahira"don haka ku taimaka :-/
Salam,
Naime am sure they didnt really mean it in a bad way, but all d same we du apologise. And as u can c.....Fulanicious has said it all...........
I will drop a few line...juss keep ur faith & religion close 2 ur heart. May Allahs blessings b upon u, & d guy that was ill....Allah ya bashi lafiya. But lady.......save ur marriage & dignity & stick 2 d father of ur children.
QuoteIt really amazed me to see people i expected to be civilized and highly educated turn othrwise, :-[ :-[how on earth can u claim that such things never reality
Are u stiil discussing with them?ban san me kike nema ba
Though i am not good at narrating stories but this topic really inspired me,well,let me see whether i will make any sense,read this.
One day me and my sister muna irin hirar 'yanuwa da kuma friends from this topic to another,then suddenly we open another chapter of the story which has to do with my sister's neighbour and friend,muka fara zuba we discussed alot about her,there is nothing about this woman we didn't discuss,infact we are so carried away to notice the presence of my sister's daughter,unknown to us the girl has cramed almost everything we talked about that woman,and co-incidentally the woman just enterd the house,since an saba da ita she went straight to my sisters bedroom,she met us there and we continue chatting about something else,b/4 we could realize what is going on my niece don narrate everything we have said to the woman,infact the more we tried to divert the topic the more the girl spiitted it out,har da tambayar maman nata wai ba ita ce kuke cewa tana yawan cin bashi ba,kai haka dai muka yi cirko-cirko ,kunya kam ba afada, :o :oat last we have to apologise to the woman and told her that is not really her an dan samu mix-up ne akan labarin da babay n ta fada,though the woman was not convinced she left the house in annoyance,she was almost shedding tears,kar kuga yadda muka rude muka zauna jugum-jugum,and the innocent child was not aware of what is going on,untill the mother gave her a dirty slap,kai gulmma da dadi but if it is out an ji kunya. ??? 8)
Hmn, gulma!!
Gobe ma kwa kara gulma a gaban yaro......
amma dai fa abun da kunya...... :P :P
awwww im sorry that happened....
Be teadfast in prayer and patience. ?Surely you will find the best of solutions. ?May Allah bless you as you pray and remain patient. Good luck NA'IMATU
Allah sarki..............KILISH, ALWAYS KNOW WHERE YOU WILL RUN YOUR MOUFF, BASKET MOUTH DON OPEN UP AGAION WOH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;D
ABEG ANYONE WITH NEW TORY. ME IS FREE. NEW STORIES CAN I READ? IF YOU READ MY MSG, MAKE SURE YOU LEAVE YOUR LABARI KINJI? KAJI?
ME IS SHOWING MAD LOVE FOR ALL
i can bibidly remember when i ws bery little, i was enrolled into nursery school after i obtain my B.A Play Group, i was in a new class with new paces op guys & all zat, nursery 1 por zat matter.
so on zat paithpul day, i was so freesed that i wanted 2 take a leak urgently, i took fermision prom our aunty & she said i should fee right zere (irin ina damunta din nan). and ni kuma as ze "menace" zat i was zen thought zat she was rite, i was seating between my colleagues in a bench op 3, and i just unziffed my trousers, and began 2 fee at ze sfot.
after i pinished, oza students broke ze news 2 her & she came runnin' askin' me y i fee on ze ploor, i was like "c zis woman O"?
i later got a thorouhg beating... ;)
I RANK YOU FIRST GRADE MUMU!!! ;D
NEXT STORY PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE?
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i can bibidly remember when i ws bery little, i was enrolled into nursery school after i obtain my B.A Play Group, i was in a new class with new paces op guys & all zat, nursery 1 por zat matter.
so on zat paithpul day, i was so freesed that i wanted 2 take a leak urgently, i took fermision prom our aunty & she said i should fee right zere (irin ina damunta din nan). and ni kuma as ze "menace" zat i was zen thought zat she was rite, i was seating between my colleagues in a bench op 3, and i just unziffed my trousers, and began 2 fee at ze sfot.
after i pinished, oza students broke ze news 2 her & she came runnin' askin' me y i fee on ze ploor, i was like "c zis woman O"?
i later got a thorouhg beating... ;)
Dem no suppose beat u fa!!no be dem say make u fee there? ??? u were just being a good boy by doin what u were told to do.........ko ba haka ba?......................lol
Mudacris, u were the funniest foolulu 1 can find around......lol, but u only did wat u were told , didnt u. u were a good boy.
Read this:
We (I, my Brother and a friend of mine) were chatting in the living room, talking about different things, u knw as usual with guys. Then I pulled a container of drugs, which my popsy has filled up with so many different kinds of drugs, and wanted to take a pain killer. My popsy is actually in his late 70s so u can imagine how life is at that age, just cant do without drugs...So it happened that Baba was just in his bedroom, which is actually a door from where we were talkin. This was around 9.30 pm, n all of us thot he had already started sleepin. My brother then was like i have started being a drug addict, just like some1. Not only did he say that but he went on to say boldly that Baba ya zama dan kwaya! n we were all like, hmmmmmm wallahi kar ka bari ya jika.........Ashe baba idon shi biyu :o :o kuma duk ya ji shi.
The next day, just after having breakfast, baba said my bro shud hand him a glass of water that he wanted to take his usual. as he collected the glass of water, he looked straight in my bro's eyes n was like: JIYA DAMA KAI KACE WAI NA ZAMA DAN KWAYA KO? ?:o :o :o :o :o :o :o
My bro was shocked n speechless, n was like : ANYA KUWA! :o :o :o lol just then sai nace ni dama nayi latti, i have to go to work now......
sai anjima
LOL @ zeezee,
Right! just taught I should share a few memoirs............
Tragedy after Tragedy.......follow me and hear the chains of events that came one after the other.........
I can still remember, at that veryyyy young age, it was on friday morning, I woke up being moody and looking for everyones trouble at home, I know what I wanted and the only way to get it was to sulk & sulk and mourn & mourn, keep mumbling and grumpling, finally I went up to my (sweet mum) pleading......the house is full of big brothers and I seriously want to have fun, she knew the answer, I want to go spend the summer break with (despite her slammin shes still jammin lol) After going through alot of agony of pleas I was finally allowed, soon my suit case was ready, it was time for my mum & I to go through the normal check......toothbrush, check! underwears, check! readingbooks, check! praying abayat, check! ..........on and on she went, and I was loosing my grib, I finally said my "spice girls CD" my mum said check.......* I bidded farewell to everyone I could see the tears in my mums face, but whatever!!! I shouldnt always be by her side......I was accomplied by a helper......& we jetted off on a 6hr journey......I reached my destination, it was time for rejoice, the hugs and what ever went on & on welcomes.....whatever whatever....my favourite meal was preapred and after all the excitement of re-uniting we finally dined. Night came through, all went well, the sun rose"! After breakfast the helper bidded me farewell and took off with the driver. Now was the time "MY MUMS" words were always ringing, Hafsy I know you are a good girl but please stay out of trouble, and yes I was determined to be at my best. Well the house was full and it was like a ritual all the family members ate together, and the grandma goggo Indo is old so when its time to eat she has to be brought downstair, I volunteered to go hold her hand and bring her down......(you know) santas little helper....I did I gave instructions "goggo saka kafa daya sai ki saukar da dayan" she did, we were just about seven stair case away from the main landing, I didnt know I stepped on her veil and the old lady tripped and fell.....the only thing I saw was she rolled to the landing......there was so many commotion with the family members, but she was ok and eveyone had breakfast,!!! we all had shower....I participated in the normal activity of the tradition of their house, but when it was time for karatun quran I ran off. Their mallam came & they read their quran, then after that my self & a few other freinds settled to watch cartoon, red riding hood, sleeping beauty, cinderalla all them collections we watched. We were called to say our Zuhr prayers which we all did.......later we heard grandma has been rushed to the hospital shes got a dislocated finger :o :-[ I was only trying to bring her down the stairs! Ashe her had has been swollen due to yesterdays roll over from the stairs Well we were young what did we know, we continued playing, ok we were banned going out so I always liked dancing to the heavy rythm of salijo the securty mans guitar and he always happily played me tunes! I danced and others watch me, I soon had enough of the dancing and went wondering around......There was this window.....that was buggled proof and I just felt like going into the sitting room throught the window, I had my head first in then the waist went through and that was all.......I couldnt move no more......STUCK! best describes my situation, I raised alwarm with a loud scream......& God there was just to many people within a few minutes. I was still there for like 20 mins..no improvement......If my condition was not at all comfortable NA WAHALA! Finally the weilding man was present......very dangerous situation, he had 2 power his whatever they call it knife engine, God I was just praying that my intestines wont drop out.......I was finally free with a red sour back.....that went past...two days later, I was still enjoying my stay it was so hot on the sunny day so the aunties organised a little kids play thing.....we were giving painting/craft work to do outside but I didnt feel like joining he rest of the kids, so I decided to do my own thing........I wanted to swing not on the "LILO" even though there was like two available, no I want to summersault on the aircondition, Immediately I gripped on the metal bar........I didnt know what next, but the pain........I could hear people screaming but I was just gone............coudlnt move, just hanging couldnt even feel my feet on the floor.....next thing I knew I was in the hospital......getting a blood trasfusion......I was being electructedddddd badlyyyyyy that I went all pale I was being told I had to be knocked off with a dried big tree branch.........few days later I was discharged, my mum was not told because they knew she would worry.....I became all sulky and I got all the special attention.......I wanted to play with the rest of the kids but I was not allowed.......I begged, I was allowed but on one condition, that I remain uner the supervision of a child minder....well no big deal since I can run around, we were playing hide & seek, catch & kiss, beauty's palace and all those kiddy games, so I just felt bored, I soon jetted out of sight unnoticed. There was this huge tank.......at the back of the house which networks the water system. I decided to climb it, reached up to the tank, climed on the tank & I saw the lid.....I was like how many inches away from the ground.....I could still see the others playing and they all looked small.......well I opened the lid and there was water......I decided to put my feet and feel how warm or cold the water was & how cold it was!!!. Soon the childminder scared me off..she shouted Hafsy!!! Oh my God.......this time she is up there......I was startled & I lost balance! I lost my grip entirely and fell into the tank,okkkkkkk I know I felt light, couldnt breath, my nose was blocked, I felt dizzy......from there......I, didnt know what happened and everything went dark.............Soon I was hearing people screaming we need to take her to the hospital.......and I opened my eyes there was like everybody over me.......Still to make sure am safe I was taken to the hospital & the first words of the nurses was "wasnt she the one we dischagred two days ago"? and I replied yes I was and I burst into tears crying and feeling guilty for all I'd done! I wanted now to go back home, I needed my mum........after a few days I was packed and good to go.......before then something happened/............it was the worse.......aint Tellin ;D (THNX 4 READIN TILL DIS END)
Well...i think hafsa u were or is still a TomBoy, u really did some crazy stupps, but men i did crazier stupps so i cant start 2 say zem here, i think Karambani is ze only attribute we habe in comon!
All ze same i fray zat u'll not gibe ur puture huzband frobulem in ur matrimonial home...Amin!
lolololololololol ?x ?1000000000000000
u this gel, u r one funnneeeeeeeee girl!!!!!
u sabi shege no bi small. after reading the first page here, i found myself reading the whole thread non-stop all da way.
i must give it u. nobody can do it more than u do.
Wai, lol lol, Hafsy kenan, u ar always full of adventures as a result of curiousity. Lol (i hope it dat gene wont travel up da F-tree ;) )
famous babe,
i admire ur style,unique personnality and an intriging atitude,i guess ur flattered but thats how i can feel about someone nice.i guess u've painted me black but you don't judge a book through it cover nor even the book you never saw,again i want you to know i'm not toasting you or finding a means to get to you coz i have the most beautiful girl i ever met,she's from ur fellow state jigawa(a half cast).
i love her so much bcos i'm kind of diificult to luv but she loves me as if i never offend her,i kind of do mistakes always but she tends to forget the mistakes and starts i fresh,i get too busy to call her but she does'nt bother to call me a million times,if only she knows how deep is the love i have for her she would love me more than ever!!!and to make my tale supperb our relationship is not up to 4 months and i'm studying at A.B.t.U BAUCHI,while she is always in abuja where i reside during hols.to life have been great to finally someone that loves me so much.is'nt that romantic and true
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I think this thread should be compiled and produced under a book,and where are the leaders of kanonline ,please rate this stries,from the most notorius,intersting,funny,annoying,sympathetic or what have you of the stories,please keep it up,we need more of this stories please :-*
I SO SECOND YOUR SUGGESTION GUEST. HONESTLY THE ARE SO MANY STORIES ABOUT KANO ONLINE MEMBERS THAT WERE VERY INTRIGUING, INSPIRING, FUNNY, MORE HILARIOUS, SCARY, SAD AND IT HONESTLY DID BRING US TOGETHER WE CLICKED ALRIGHT. I MISS HAVING THAT.
TO RATE THE FUNNIEST STORY HONESTLY MINE GOES TO HAFSY-LADY (STORY SHE SLAPPED A BOY WHO LIKED HER WHO SLAPPED HER BACK & THE ONE WHERE THEY WENT OUT AND HER GRANDMOTHER WAS IN TOWN)
MY NEXT VOTE FOR NOTORIUS STORY WILL GO TO FYNE DYME (STORIES WHEN SHE WAS A KID FALLING OFF A TREE)
AND THE MOST SYMPATHETIC STORY WAS THAT OF MILLICENT AND HER EVIL UNCLE
SCARIEST STORY WILL HAVE TO BE UMMULHUDA & THE VAN OR TAXI MEN AND ALSO UMMITA'S ENCOUTER WITH....WITH...I STILL CANT FIGURE OUT, ANGEL,JINNS OR GHOST!
GOD IT FEELS REAL GOOD TO READ BACK ALL THESE STORIES. I REALLY MISS THOSE THAT HAVE BEEN ABSENT. CAN WE HAVE MORE STORIESSSSSSSSS PLEASE. WE FAMILY HERE.
I stumbled across this thread and it kept me glued to my screen till the end. I have read about life experiances, funny, sad, horrible, outrageous and lots more. I have to say Hafsy gave me a few tear drops not of sadness but she was more than hilarious.
After reading a few I want to tell you a story not of myself but of my best freind which should set an example to others: but for security purpose I will not mention his name but will forge names.
I have know this freind Shehu for than 29yrs. We did our secondary school together, graduated from ABU Zaria, furthered our maters abroad together. Though we secured diffrent job prospectus in different areas of location. My freind has been dating a girl for more than 4yrs and what they have together cannot be described. The bond they had was so tight that nothing seemed to break through. I grew fond of the girl as a sister because of the way she carried herself. She was religous, educated and was very kind. Sakinah was everything a man could & would ever want. She was modest, gentle & quite. She was in her 2yr studying medicine. Shehu was so fond of her. His whole family knew her, his mother adored her so much. His sisters and brothers called her Auntie. Every one liked her. including Shehu's nephew who was just 1yr old. He seem to sing songs putting Sakinahs name inside. On her side, Sakinah had alot of freinds and a big family. Every one from her side knew of Shehu & myself as his bestfreind. He loved her so much. They decided to marry. but hid father opposed saying that he should wait till he gets really stable in his job. He has a very high profiled job and was making alot of money. Shehu & I invested in a little business and alhamdulilah it is doing well. He argued that he was doing well and would like to proceed with his marriage proceedings. His father later subjected after so many consultations by the elder members of his family to his father. We were all delighted, (I will move on with the story because I no words can explain my joy when my freind was getting married). I week to the marriage: everyone was excited, Sakinah with her battalion freinds were making so many demands on the abokan ango.....it was party after party, dinner after dinner, we had a bachelors night, and all sorts. Freinds flew from abroad, some travelled all to mark this occassion. Everyone was happy Shehu was getting married. It became the talk of the town. And that the couples were a match made in heavens. Events followed events and as Shehu was arab related he also had bout 3 days of on-going arabic culture wedding. In total his wedding lasted a full wk and 3days. Yadda hausawa sukance auren GATA ayi mishi. His father gave him big house, ga mata kyan halaiyya ya samu, he has a good job, good family, he is very well mannered, decent, religious what more could he want? Sai godiya ko? I now decided to not visit my freind till after about 3wks, saboda as a newly wedded man he shoud devote time to his wife. All was going well but due to my closeness with Shehu, it turned out that we had lunch, dinner, & spend alot of time in his house. His wife also do join in to chat before she leaves. Sometimes, I eat before Shehu comes home & so on. I became Sakinah next of kin in any emergency. Ba wai bata da gata bane a'a, don tsanin kusantata da maigidanta. After a yr and a couple of months. All was going well. I visited Shehus house one day. And just entering his house the feeling wasnt right, wasnt as it used to be. Normally the Tv set is making its noise, or you would hear Sakinah giggling away with her visitor freinds, or you would hear her talking to her family on phone or you would find her chatting away with her husband. I went in calling out my sallama, to abunka da sabo da naji shiru kawai sai naje dinning table na zuwa abinci na dawo parlour na saka tv ina kallo. Ba da jimawa kadan ba, Sakinah walked in. One thing with me I cant keep an eye contact ballenta na ma da makar abokina, so I started to tease her playing with my food saying the food is not even delicious that my girlfreind could cook better than this. On a regular basis, she would normally reply me calling me gauro (bachelor) yaushe xan kawo mata gida? and things like this, but ALL WAS SILENT. She was only replyin in a mhmm and a'a, I felt uneasy and taught she has changed, I looked up at her and her features was not right. Her face was swollen, and she had a blood cloth on her right eye. and a big cut on her chin. I was shocked, out of words and afraid. I stood up and before I could utter a word, she burst into tears. To, it was that day that I knew it take a lot of time to calm a woman down when she is in tears. I tried asking her what was wrong she said she was ok and she fell down the stairs. (Now this confused me, as close as her husband was to me & the way she carried me as her brother I felt she owed me no secret hidings) She refused to tell me what was wrong. She quicky wiped her tears forged a smile and said let me get you water. I was just lost, as she turned around there was a big cut at the back of her elbow. At that instant I called on to her and said she just had to tell me. Then the tears started flowing. She was shaking and shivering. She now told me, my freind her husband who loved her so much has been beating her silly. For the past two days. What has she done? she said that is what she doesnt even know har yanzu. I decided to immediately go and see my freind and put his head right. Amman she quickly said no. She was very scared of him. In her face was fear (kamar wani dodo) she was not even able to tell her parents. She told me her parents were travelling and wanted to see her before they left but in that condition she lied to her parents saying she was travelling. I was confused, shocked at this unbelievably scene I witnessed. She told me to swore never to discuss anything with her husband and I said nothing. I made a quick exit leaving my half eaten food. I re-visted her freind shehu the nest day. As I walked in I heard a broken glass, I ran inside and near the kitchen door was my freind Shehu fighting with his wife. I quickly ran & vcut through, there was blood dripping on the floor, not knowing where it was coming from, Shehus face was alright, except for his breathing and I could see Sakinah was in pain. down below he palm was a cut. I screamed to my feind that what the hell was wrong with him? Is he crazy or mad? Sakinah started crying and went on her knees begging me to take her home. Shehu seized the car keys and she was shaking. First was to get her treatement, Shehu refused, so I called in onr of my anty's who was a medical nurse by profession. My autnie was more than shocked that she started insulting my freind. Now, kunsan ance ya mace tafi sannin ya mace, after taliking to my Sakinah, my auntie came back insulting shehu of not showing his happiness for Allahs belssings. I was confused, san na nemi karin bayani, and my auntie confirmed that Sakinah was pregnant and Shehu has asked her to abort the child because he is not financially stable. IN what way? Oho! I was shocked. Sakinah claimed that he has been beating her up and even told her to go on some pills to avoid pregnancy. She refused and insisted on keeping the child. She has evevn started shopping for baby clothes and was excited even though months have not passed. Shehu said he was not going to take any financial responsibility what so ever on the child. So Sakinah started her baby shopping with her own money and not a kobo was chipped in by Shehu. She said shehu said if she does not abort the baby he will divorce her. I was so confused, I couldnt believe my freind was capable of that. As we all sat confused. Shehu came in from his room with is blood stained shirt off with a peace of paper giving it to Sakinah and that he has divorced her. Callling her names like matsiyaciya, karuwa, da dai sauransu. Sakinah collected the paper and she was still shaking, she was scared. Subhanallahi was all I kept uttering. I sat down with my head in my hands and I was so shocked. Shehu dressed up and left the house. Sakinah packed up a few of her belongings and my auntie drove her home. A week later she fell in, there was rumours all around town that people have used juju so so many other, but ni ban yadda da wannan ba, I dont know what has gone over my freind. Sakinah was hospitalised and she had abun da ku mata kuka fi sani (miscarriage) The nurses claimed that she had suffered internal something? I cant remember and therefore the baby did not survivve. I paid Sakinah visit every wkends and gave her the little I could afford. She also use to tell me to send her greeetings to Shehu, kuma wallahi ko da wasa da wayo sai ta tambayeni ya Shehu yake? She was even saying mhmm we better hire a cook, but I know she was concerened for Shehu. Her parents were really hurt but they did even say a word to Shehu or his family. Shehu's parents were hurt but just at one time, Shehu became out of control. No one can talk to him, and as his freind I was still by him, duk da nassan so da dama yakan zage ni idan na fara mishi fada, or he hangs the telephone on me infact he started avoiding me, but I still nagged on. Sakinah had difficulty triying to put her peace back together. Presently she has gone to medical school, she was amongst the five best students in their year. Hopefully she will be qualfying as a medical doctor next year. She looks very well, I spotted her driving some weeks back and talking on her phone and she really looked happy and well. Coincidently, I was with another freind of mine, whose cousin came in telling us of some girl called Sakinah how madly inlove he is with her, how goergeous she looks, how intelligent, religious and kind she is. And that they will be engaged next yr February and will marry by June. He has been talking about her when we were breaking our fast. How he tlaked about her was so much. So we were making fun of him saying watakila ma wata mummuna ne, munsan Nafi'u da zaban tumun dari, so my freinds cousin, kept his kunu & ran off to his car, he later emerged with something I can tell is a picture. Muka bushe da dariya saying zai bata mana shan ruwanmu, we now said mugani? And in that picture was the same same same Sakinah. Haka dai na ijiye koshiyana, ina mamaki, nayi shiru. And my freinds started saying a'a lallai yayi dace, ko ina kishi ne? I just kept quite. I didnt know if to be happy for her or to be sad for my freind? After asham prayers I now called shehu and after gaisuwa teh first thing he said to me was "kaji wannan yar iskar zatayi aure" ko? I said I didnt know she was getting getting married. I was saying subhanallahi, haba Shehu meyayi zafi haka? Why did you hate this girl so much? Har yau har gobe bansan abun daya maida son Shehu ma Sakinah kiyayya ba.
To, jama'a kunji da wannan real life experiance din da abokina da matarsa ya shiga. Don haka wallahi kwanakin baya nayi mugun tsorata da maganan aurena ya tashi. I didnt know what was really my fear!
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ONE WORD FOR SHEHU (HE IS DOG!) wuf wuf wuf! YOU FREIND IS CRAZY IN THE NUMBER SIX, YOUR FREIND IS CRAZY, YOU FREIND IS A LUNATIC, YOUR FREIND IS STACK RAVING MAD ('a'a hold up, ai duk wannan makes one meaning: hauka ko?) HISS YOUR FREIND IS EHM EHEM EHMM WHTA IS MORE WORSE THAN MAD ITSELF? ANWAY HE POSES A THREAT TO THE SOCIETY AS WHOLE, IF HE CAN DO THAT WHAT MAKES YOU THINK HE CANT KILL? AND BA WANI JUJU KAWAI YANA TASHEN BALAGEN FITSARA DA RASHIN IMANI NE KAWAI :roll:
I SWEAR IF I BI THAT SAKINAH WOMAN, I GO SHOW HIM MY FATHERS NAME BI REVENGE! YAN DABA SOSAI ZAN SAMU. (ABOVE THE LAW) HARDEST,TOUGHEST THUGS. DAMA E GET ONE GROUP FOR SURULERE WEY THEIR NAME BE (KILLOZ) NA THEM I GO HIRE, SEND EHN HOUSE.
TABDIJAN, IN MY LIFE WHAT I HATE IS A MARK ON MY SKIN :roll: BRUISING ME UP LIKE THAT! TABDI DA SAI NA SAKA YAN DABANNAN SUNJA MISHI BILLE, TUNDAGA BAKI HAR KUNNE, IGBO, YORUBA HAR DA (MIAW MIAW) BILLEN KANAWA ALL TRADITIONAL MARKS ON HIS FACE SAI NA SAKA ANYI MISHI A FUSKA. THEN I WILL ORDER THEM TO BEAT THE LIVING DAY LIGHT OF HIM. I WILL FURTHER BURN DOWN HIS PROPERTY AND DO OFF WITH ANTYHING VALUABLE AND WORTH HAVING. THAT BUSINESS HE INVESTED I WILL DESTROY IT. I WILL STALK HIM. I GO SHOW HIM SAY IF HE IS BALAGAGEN DANBANZA I DON STAGE HIM FOR THAT. ANY MAN THAT DENIES FATHERING AN UNBORN OR BORN CHILD, IS NOT A MAN BUT A PIEACE OF PUPPET WITH NO STRINGS ATTACHED. :evil:
THIS IS SO HEAT TOUCHING. IT ALMOST MADE ME CRY. IF I SHOULD EVER CROSS PART WITH THAT YOUR FREIND. I WILL RUN HIM OVER. :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil:
SERIOUSLY MUAWIYA I THINK YA'ALL NEED TO GIVE HIM A RANDOM CHECK AND SECURE HIM A PLACE AS THE HIGHEST PROFILED ASYLUM FOR THE MENTALLY. NO SERIOUSLY THAT MAN NEED PRAYERS :shock: KODAI YA SHA GIYA NE? :shock: A'A TO, ANY RIGHT THIKING PERSON FIT DO ALL THESE. KAI EVEN IF A MAN IS THAT MUCH INTOXICATED THEY WONT BE THIS. HE IS SERIOUSLY CONJUED IN HIS MEDULLA OBLONGATA KAWAI!
IN THIS MATTER, THERE IS NOTHING LIKE HAKURI, OR LET THINGS SLIDE, NOTHING LIKE DESTINY'S CHILD POWER (as so many members) think FIRE FOR FIRE is. THIS IS REAL. SO THIS ONE NOBI EVEN FIRE. NA BULLET FOR BULLET. SOME MEN, ALLAH YA SAWWAKE YA KUMA SHIRYA. SAI SUN BUDE BAKI SUCE MATA THIS MATA THAT. SEE CORRECT DEVIL FOR HERE!!!! :evil:
Kai da mu'awiya ka fiya tsokana da karambani.Kawai ina zaman zamana ka je ka zakulo wannan thread din ka sani na zama glued har tsakar dare ina karatu.sai da kai na ya fara ciwo sannan na tashi.Kuma har ban yi dan zikirin nan na lokacin azumi ba.
Anyways na karanta da ga farko kuma na ga naka labarin.Dama ance u dont know a person till u live wid him.Haka ta kasance da abokin ka,ita matar tashi in the end ita ta ga halin shi.Allah ya bata zaman lafiya da sabon shi kuma tsohon Allah ya shirye shi.Allah ya kare mu mukuma.
Ni dai lemme tell u mine.
Last year ne ko early this year ana sanyi sosai ,kuma i was about 7 or 8 months pregnant.To sai doctor dina yace naje nayi wani blood test.to tun dai da na fara wannan dan laulayin na zama sarkin kuka,im ba kuka ba to dai shegen fada da masifa ,later on kuma dai mantuwa kamar me.To ganin cewa wajen da dan nisa about 8 stops ne from gidana daga train sannan kuma sai na shiga tram nayi wani 6 or 8 stops din,ga sanyi sai hubby dina yace na shirya ya kaini around 8 na safe.Muka shiga mota muka tafi lab.muka isa na fito zan shiga sai na ce wai! ai na manta lab test din a gida.To dai maigida yayi shiru .. to muje na kai ki gida kya dawo da train.Muka dawo na hau sama na dauko lab test na fito .Sai yace muje na kai ki.Ok part 2: na shiga na mika musu takarda.Ashe wata old one ce nazakulo na months ago.kuma not the same kind of test.sai nayi shiru ..
ok just do this one i'm sure it is part if the test da za a yi min.mutumin yace to yadai soka min allura yace na dawo da new one din tomorrow.so na dai fita ina yake na cewa hubby(dama yana mota) ai sai na dawo gobe.nayi bayanin me yafaru a 'yar karamar murya.Bai ce komai ba..
muka je gida.He took me the following day and just kept shaking his head.
To dai bai yi fada ba kuma ina tsammanin yana gudun daya cikin biyu.ko in yayi fada na fara kuka har kwana uku ko kuma nayi ta fada da fushi har sati daya.
to haka nayi ta yi kamar wata mahuakaciya kuma dai har yanzu ban dawo da sharp mind din nan ba.Malam mu'awiya in kaine me zaka ce min?
WANNAN BA KOMAI BANE, ILLA PREGANNACY MOOD SWINGS IRIN TAKU TA MATA, KO DAYAKE MUAWIYA AKA TAMBAYA BA NIBA.
KAI KAI KAI WALLAHI WANNAN LABARI NA MUAWIYA ABUN TSORO ABUN HAUSHI, ABUN BAKINCIKI, ABUN TAUSAYI, ABUN MAMAKI, KUMA DARASI NE SOSAI GA KO WACE MACE: DON ABUN MAMAKI SHINE DUK YADDA SAKINAH TAKE SHAN WAHALA TAYI SHIRU BATA JE GIDA TA FADA BA (AMMAN WASU MATAN KO TSAWA YAYI) AM TAFI GIDA KAI REPORT! HALIN WANNAN YARINYA NA YABA DARI BISA DARI. AT THE END SHE GOT A HAPPY ENDING ZAMUCE KO?
SHI KUMA WANNAN ABOKIN NAKA SHEHU, ALLAH YA SHIRYE, KUMA HALINSA ABAR KYAMA CE DARI BISA DARI. A CIGABA MISHI DA ADDU'A KAWAI.
NIMA INA NAN TAFE DA TAWA LABARI, INA GANIN ZAI GIRGIZA KO WANI MEMBER A FORUM DINNAN.
KAI KAI KAI!....AI NI SAI YANZU NA KARANTA LABARIN MU'AWIYA..HAFCY LADY,U'VE GAT EVERY RIGHT 2 CALL DIS MONSTER A DOG...THIS MAN DUSNT REP MEN @ ALL @ ALL..NOW YA ALL KNOW WHY I SAID THERE'S A DIFFRENCE BETWEEN BEING A MALE & BEING A MAN...BUT WAIT,NOTHING GOES 4 NOTHING FA!..DONT Y'ALL THINK HE IS UNDER A SPELL OR SOMETHING??? 4RM MUAWIYA'S NARRATION DIS GUY WAS NEVA LIKE DAT B4 ABI??? THEN WHY D SUDDEN CHANGE???..MAYBE D PROBLEM LIES SOMEWHERE BETWEEN JUJU & ASIRI ..WHO KNWS??? BABU ABIN DA BAYA FARUWA YANZU WALLAHI..MA HEART REALLY BLEEDS...
ONCE UPON A TYME NOT LONG AGO,3 WEEKS 2 BE PRECISE..DIS GUYLETS JUSS CALL HIM IBRAHIM..ABOUT 26-27-28 LETS JUSS SAY IN HIS LATE TWENIES,A GRADUATE (NOT SURE) BUT GOT A DECENT JOB & A RESPONSIBLE LIFE...D TRUTH IS I DNT REALLY KNW DIS GUY DAT WELL ..Y'KNW DAT HELLO/HI TYPA FREND...SO I & A FREND WERE @ D TRAFFIC HOLD UP WEN ONE GUY(WHO APPEARS 2 KNW MA FREND) CAME OVER & TOLD MA US DAT DIS GUY IS DEAD..I WASNT PARTICULARLY SHOCKED AS I DNT REALLY KNW D DECEASED DAT WELL..UNTIL MY FREND NARRATED 2 ME WHUT BEFELL D GUY..FEW MONTHS AGO DIS GUY WAS WELL AS WELL THEN FELL SICK ALL OF A SUDDEN...HIS ILLNESS DETORIATED IN A VERY MIN TYME..HE LOST MAD WEIGHT....ALL MEDICAL TESTS 2 LOCATE D ILLNESS FAILED...WAS TAKEN 2 SAUDI-GERMAN HOSPITAL...SPENT LOADS OF MONEY...STILL NOTHING IMPROVED IF ANYTHING 'WORSE' IS D RITE WORD..HAKA DAI AKA DAWO NAIJA AKA SHIGA YIN NA MALAMAI DA GARGAJIYA AMMA INA..AND D INTRIGUING PART OF D STORY IS WALLAHI HAR YA MUTU BA'ASAN ABIN DA YA KASHE SHI BA..THEN ROMURS STARTED CIRCULATING DAT D PROBLEM'S ROOTS SPRONG FROM INTERNAL FAMILY STUFF..ASIRI..TSAFI..WATEVA..Y'KNW THOSE BIG BIG POLYGAMOUS FAMILIES..AKACHE KAFIN YA RASU HE LOST MORE THAN HALF HIS WEALTH THRU ASARA..BUSSINESS FAILURE...HE EVEN LOST 35 THOUSAND$ WHILE TRYING 2 DEPOSIT @ D BANK-KAI ASARA DAI KALA KALA NO APPARENT REASON...D STORY IS LONG SO I'VE 2 STOP HERE..SHI YASA NACE WALLAHI MUTANE ABUN TSORO NE YANZU..ALLAH YA JI KANSHI YASA YA HUTA.AMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEN!
Haba wannan labari ai yafi karfin a bayyana irin takaicin da naji!!!ho this is incredible pls muawiyya try and know whether your friend is taking some ........ :shock: may be irin kwayoyin nan ko kuma is tasking alcohol auren soyayya fa aka yi.Kai ALlah will saka mata :oops:
Haba wannan labari ai yafi karfin a bayyana irin takaicin da naji!!!ho this is incredible pls muawiyya try and know whether your friend is taking some ........ may be irin kwayoyin nan ko kuma is tasking alcohol auren soyayya fa aka yi.Kai ALlah will saka mata
namanta inyi log-in da suna i am not a guest :D
A'a Auntie Kilishi, dis tym am tyin up ur legs....I will gt bck 2 u, naki is big tlk lemme juss comment on d above.....(she laffs)
Quote from: "dan kauye"DONT Y'ALL THINK HE IS UNDER A SPELL OR SOMETHING??? 4RM MUAWIYA'S NARRATION DIS GUY WAS NEVA LIKE DAT B4 ABI??? THEN WHY D SUDDEN CHANGE???..MAYBE D PROBLEM LIES SOMEWHERE BETWEEN JUJU & ASIRI ..WHO KNWS??? BABU ABIN DA BAYA FARUWA YANZU WALLAHI..MA HEART REALLY BLEEDS...
A'Aaaaaaa Dee-Kay, u iz also a believer on this kinda thangs! Enywayz I dnt blame a loco...villo (local villager) lyk u (she laffs). Ma belief is dis, wen God says b, it will b...... Am not a believer on all dem juju & black magic, thou as ppl so claim dat it happens, but dis rely'z solely on onces belief. If u hav a belief dat nothin will eva happen (free-willed by another being) without God designing it to be then I dnt think the greatest juju maker can eva put a curse on a person. Put juju/assiri aside, dnt u think he might hav been puttin up a fake act juss 2 win her heart, he myt hav been brainwashed by haters, he myt been brainwashed by ppl round him, maybe he never liked her and hated her........"we all dnt know"
Muawiya, ur freind shehu doesnt hav a full iman 2 beat *** a woman lyk she sum animal. Even animals a reasonable right thinking person wnt do that! It is unfair & unjust of him to treat her lyk that. If he wanted a punching bag he shud purchase one and not use an innocent sista 4 it. Ur story has really moved me. May he see the light again. As d sayin goes afta hardship comes happiness! Saknah is duin well alhamdulilah wat has she gotta loose? Instead he is d supa looser!
@ Dee-kay on ur story, so indirectly u guys r questionin d death of dis man? We hav a right to live but God has d right to take away that right he gave us keda ker mentar! D man myt hav died of NATURAL death. Not all deaths muss hav a curse for it. Sum die afta a fatal accident, sum afta a sickness, sum passaway due to nervous shock, anxiety, stress......Mah aunt died in her sleep not suffering from none of the above mentioned! She wasnt suffering from any illness watsoeva! That is juss pure Kadrat! About his economic loss......ALOT of ppl have suffered detriments. Financial loss happens 2 alot of ppl. Even wen ppl start up a business they r bound 2 xpect loses a lil b/4 things get grill. Try drawin up ur cash flow forecast......ppl tend 2 fynd out dey do loose out on invested money d 1st 6mnths. Theres no reason to start questionin his death, his financial status, his health. Allah yer kerber da abunshi. Life is full of suprises anyway bt d mans sudden change shud nt suprise u! Allah yerner yin abunde yasoyi......Kumer duk abunde yena farawa Allah ne yana sakarwa! All we gotta do is pray 4 him (May God grant his paradise).
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Quote from: "dan kauye"DONT Y'ALL THINK HE IS UNDER A SPELL OR SOMETHING??? 4RM MUAWIYA'S NARRATION DIS GUY WAS NEVA LIKE DAT B4 ABI??? THEN WHY D SUDDEN CHANGE???..MAYBE D PROBLEM LIES SOMEWHERE BETWEEN JUJU & ASIRI ..WHO KNWS??? BABU ABIN DA BAYA FARUWA YANZU WALLAHI..MA HEART REALLY BLEEDS...
A'Aaaaaaa Dee-Kay, u iz also a believer on this kinda thangs! Enywayz I dnt blame a loco...villo (local villager) lyk u (she laffs). Ma belief is dis, wen God says b, it will b...... Am not a believer on all dem juju & black magic, thou as ppl so claim dat it happens, but dis rely'z solely on onces belief. If u hav a belief dat nothin will eva happen (free-willed by another being) without God designing it to be then I dnt think the greatest juju maker can eva put a curse on a person. Put juju/assiri aside, dnt u think he might hav been puttin up a fake act juss 2 win her heart, he myt hav been brainwashed by haters, he myt been brainwashed by ppl round him, maybe he never liked her and hated her........"we all dnt know"
Muawiya, ur freind shehu doesnt hav a full iman 2 beat *** a woman lyk she sum animal. Even animals a reasonable right thinking person wnt do that! It is unfair & unjust of him to treat her lyk that. If he wanted a punching bag he shud purchase one and not use an innocent sista 4 it. Ur story has really moved me. May he see the light again. As d sayin goes afta hardship comes happiness! Saknah is duin well alhamdulilah wat has she gotta loose? Instead he is d supa looser!
@ Dee-kay on ur story, so indirectly u guys r questionin d death of dis man? We hav a right to live but God has d right to take away that right he gave us keda ker mentar! D man myt hav died of NATURAL death. Not all deaths muss hav a curse for it. Sum die afta a fatal accident, sum afta a sickness, sum passaway due to nervous shock, anxiety, stress......Mah aunt died in her sleep not suffering from none of the above mentioned! She wasnt suffering from any illness watsoeva! That is juss pure Kadrat! About his economic loss......ALOT of ppl have suffered detriments. Financial loss happens 2 alot of ppl. Even wen ppl start up a business they r bound 2 xpect loses a lil b/4 things get grill. Try drawin up ur cash flow forecast......ppl tend 2 fynd out dey do loose out on invested money d 1st 6mnths. Theres no reason to start questionin his death, his financial status, his health. Allah yer kerber da abunshi. Life is full of suprises anyway bt d mans sudden change shud nt suprise u! Allah yerner yin abunde yasoyi......Kumer duk abunde yena farawa Allah ne yana sakarwa! All we gotta do is pray 4 him (May God grant his paradise).
To, Ummita abunne ne nima ban taba zaton abokina zaiyi haka ba. Amman a taimaka da addua Allah ya shirye shi. Don abunshi sai tabarbarewa yake yi. Da ansoma masa wa'azi da fada lokacin ne ma abunshi ke tashi. Ayi mishi addua ya koma yadda yake da, ya kuma aure, Allah ya kuma albarkaci aurensa.
Kilishi ya za'ayi kamar yadda dai Ummita tace, komai nufine na Allah. Sai addua.
@ ummita,tell me u kidding if not...helllllllo welkom 2 d realworld,in as much as i hate 2 indulge in asiri/juju beliefs..i certainly wudnt say its not happening or feign ignorance & assume it dusnt wen it does!,i neva told u d whole story coz i myself ddnt get d whole of it either....yead GOD gives & takes life..amma kina da labarin cewa even annabi muhammad(s.a.w) anyi masa asiri/sammu kuma ya kama shi??? if u dont knw now y'knw..as i was narrating....d oga pata pata of d family of d guy in question died a coupla years back..left vast wealth..had like 30 children or so..then aka raba gado bla bla bla..a larger part of d family members went in2 living soopa large & squanderd thier share 2 d last dough..y'knw parties,women,cars..& all..but dis guy kept his head up..worked hard upon his chedder..in a short while he became a self established millionaire..y'knw..progress..earned degree in sociology..opened strings of shops in d mart...bought a posh mansion..abaut getting married 2 one of d prettiest & hottest chikalahs around..in fact d wedding fatiha was jus weeks away ....then all of d sudden..he fell terribly ill..if d problem was a medical one it wuddav bin detected wen he was taken 2 saudi..but nothing prevailed he juss kept loosing weight & acting scary 4 no apparent reason..then came 2 financial side of d story..his invested empire fell off dramatically..y'knw lace shop ya kama da wuta..phone shop yan fashi suka shiga! now tell me why his death shudnt be questioned???? think thrice gurl!..& one amazing thang was one guy 4rm d same said family died a couple of weeks unda similar circumstance??? ke yarinya yanzu fa kiwon mutum ake ba kiwon dabba ba..now whut'd ya think???
wit respect 2 mu'awiya's story,read his last post carefully..u'll c where he wrote"ayi mishi addu'a ya koma yadda yake da..this means dat d guy in question was neva like dat b4,ofcourse i'm not trying hard 2 insunuate som'en..but hey a sudden change in behavioural pattern like dat is always accompanied by some devilish strings attached especially in dis part if d world!....how did mu'awiya put up wid his frend's prone-brutal behaviour all those years they'v bin 2getha ( dats if he(mu'awiya's frend is really evil)..& y'knw whut??? one's personality always reflects in every of one's actions so..rule out d possiblity dat he juss tried 2 win her heart juss 2 y'knw..whuteva...check it out..i'll BRB!..peace 2 all
well sorry 4those that have redphobia :D i just decided to change a bit,over to z business,about juju well i know it do happen but didn't believe in it,the best option is follow things diplomatically :shock: well if you read this story you will understand what i mean
A cousin of mine was so shocked when she heard about her husband's plan to bring (in) another wife,tashinn hankali ba wadda bata shiga ba tayi kuka tabi kawaye tace wannan tace wannan but the husband was bend on taking another wife,my cousin dai tayi addua har ta gaji abu sai gaba yake it even went to the extent that ana planning a kawo kaya,i don't know from where my cousin got one plan,she met one of our brothers tayi persuading nasa akan ya nemi wannan yarinyar da mijin ta yake son aura,yaron dan jamia ne and a handsome boy,ta bashi address na yarinya and the boy swung into action ,yaje ya gama tsara yarinya tun bata sauraron sa har ta fara sauraronsa,and my sister spent a fortune for the guy so that he will look good and nice she bought many gifts and gave to him ,shi kuma ya baiwa yarinya,he will take his friends car and yaje hira.
Sai da yarinya ta sake da baby boy then my sister tace yaje su dauki picture da yarinya kuma he should try his best to snap a lovable picture,and they did,then one day he took the picture and went to my cousin's husband's office and since sun saba da boy din don yana zuwa masa aiak and so on,the boy demanded for his car ,mijin ya tambayeshi ina zuwa he now told him cewa zai je wurin yarinyarsa ne ya kaimata wasu pictures da suka dauka,he now brought out the pictures and handed it over to the man,who was shocked at the sight of the pictures,ya dai dan daure ya trambaye shi meye tsajkanain sa da yarinyar sai yace ai yarinyarsa ce kuma har sun yi alkawarin aure wannan hotunan ma sun dauka ne saboda kalandar auren da za a buga.
My cousin's husband kamar zai yi bindiga but took style sent the boy on an errand ,shi kuma ya buga mota sai gidan su yarinya ta fito ya balbale ta da masifa in short sai da suka rabu , dama ya turo kaya don haka ya turo aka kwashe masa kayansa.he later told my cousin dalilin da yasa ya rabu da yarinya cewa ai budurwar su wane ne,she was like ato ai an gaya maka girls of nowadays are not trustworthy,kai karshe dai mijin was so afraid of nneman wani auren kar akuma,for about nine years now da faruwar abun mijin bai sake maganar aure ba,though with time watakila zai yi :?: :?: :oops:
So kunga ba wani juju dabara ta fidda ita. :o
hehehehe...kilishi dats a very good strategy,
but i waz just wondering did da other girl get married in da end?
man is like the stories in this room are very intresting. long stories like in story books god d**m. thats y i cant contribute here, stories 2 long 2 read and so 2 long 2 write
where my peeps @????? y'all holla...goga,muda,ihsan,ummi(any more room 4 me in those..lol),hafcy,twinky,precious,malbash,...figorms,beautilicious,feteez(we gat talks),kit kat(ina ka shiga ne?) sa-salati,kai kowa da kowa! where ya @???? dis place is ge'en boring & i feel called upon 2 re-kindle its fire..but 1st me gat issues i garra get resolved i'll holla @ ya'll soonest...but b4 then ..lemme do some surutu as usual(lol)
k-onlyners....cud u believe dis guy's nerves??? & i ain't talking abaut sa-salati!..i just read his 7th PM ! .....launching vicious personal attack on me! u r very coward ..i thot r a freestyle rapper..then battle me lyrically infront of everybody & stop sending me crap PM! marra fact i'll battle ya 32 rounds non-stop!.....u against who? boi grow up ! lemme drop som lines of mines!
u walk an inch i run a mile y'cant win u always right behind me
i told ya i'm so far ahead of my tyme i'm abaut 2 start a another life
looking behind u i'm abaut 2 pass u twice,matta fact i'm too fast gorra slow 4 d future....i'v passed my present wen u cant even get past my past
u know who u r & yes u gorra break down,u've crossed my line so u know u hav 2 turn around
u cant block my cream u cant stop my dream..u r just a bored clown looking 4 som fun,u miserable,garra get ur freak on or get ur hell move on
nothing phoney dont hate on me whut u get is whut u dont see..ok now, that's when you start to stare at who's in the mirror
and see yourself as a kid again, and you get embarrased
And I got nothin to do but make you look stupid as .....hahahaahah ...jus kidding boy! but on a more serios note,neva-eva-neva fill up my PM box wit little disses/curses or else i'll unleash more terror..y'know i burn like acid..i keep u on ur two toes like high-heelz!..it all fun though.....
guess who i ran in2 2day??? my childhood crush(lol)..funny how tyme flies..9 dunking years felt like yesterday..she looked diffrent now..(nature @ work i guess)..if anything she looked 100x prettier..plus som curves & bumps in d right places...after d re-union pleasantries ,i cant help but blurt it out..& i was like ..GOSH! asma'u looked totally different..ofcourse she asked how & wore a worried face(i xpected dat..na women now..wetin!)..until i added 'u looked absolutely terrific' & re-added my fave chat-up 'u looked like britney's clone(lol)..alas..it was tyme 2 leave ..i immidiately hated her sisters 4 coming 4 her dat early....anyhoo..it was a nice 15mins i had ..& i know where 2 see her if i ever now if i eva wanted(no doubt 4 shiz) plus i own cher number hahaha(dat means enuff flashing)....she reallly made my day...i'm loving it param-pan-pan-pan-pan( & i'm not refering 2 justin's new single coz dats dan-kauyes')...so whuts up wit urs??
last week was real hell..i was down wit fever most days..worse yet..na zo na fara ciwon ido(poor me)..i was quite broke(which i hated)..went 2 an eye clinic (which i hated even more)...but whut i'm abaut to tell y'all is not my mis-capades & mis-fortunes..though i'm d whuteva-comes-my-way-typa-guy..yikes!..whut i'm abaut 2 tell 2 is something 2 do wit one guy i knew a couple of years bak ..2 years bak 2 be precise...i was on a small queue @ d optician's,was really hungry & got restless..& there's dis small fast-food eatery near by..so i popped over 2 do som munching..i got in..someone opened me d entrance & quickly followed wit a 'welkom'..sure d voice sounded familiar but i was too hungry 2 turn bak & see who it was....then came d order talk....dsame guy @ d entrance came 4 my order & i instantly recognized him .....i wondered whut he was doing in a filipino restaurant..but ofcourse i'd stupid not to observe dat he was a guard/attendant...my heart really sank..it was somone i knew bak wen i was in BUK..we met @ d b-ball court ..he was very bright a student ..he used 2 tutor me in one of my maths courses i had difficulty with..he was in his final year..dept;biochemistry & i was told he was a 2'1 mover..here we are now,two years later..he must hav graduated ..wit a good class (i thot 2 my self)..but whut d hell was a biochemistry graduate doing @ an eatery????(one million curses @ nigeria!)..worse still,d useless filipino woman was shouting crappy orders @ dis guy...instantly i lost my already weak appetite....& trust dan-kauye being d curious type i found myself asking if he recognized me,whut he was doing there,whut happened 2 his course,.....he answerd each & every question ...i'm working here as a waiter/attendant,i really recognized u,i graduated wit a good 2'1 degree but cudnt find any job so(in d meantyme) a friend landed me dis waiting job 2 make both ends meet.....he looked lean & sad! it was incredibly unbelievable..but hey u betta believe coz its real & happening..i cant imagine not getting a proper job after all d hardship,sleepless nights of study..nigeria ALLAH ya'isa !..
& this reminded me another one,it wasnt long ago,infact it was during d last ramadhan(as in dis years') i escorted a frend 2 d industrial side of bompai....went 2 see someone in one of d offices there,i waited in d car while he went in...it was few minutes away 4rm iftar(shan ruwa)..i spotted a crowd of abaut thousand ppl outside(no jokes)....trust dan-kauye..i dashed over 2 see whut was up....2 my astonishment ,i found out that one rich lebanese guy took d responsiblity of feeding all d poor masses mostly company labourers during ramadhan..& one busybody even gave me som irrelevant additional in4mation..i was told dat d lebanese guy does dat philanthrophic act each & every ramadhan & chose 2 remain anonymous...but d food reciepients? they were bizy tearing each others clothes,shouting @ d top of their voices & threathning hell & high waters all because of a plate of rice & beef & d funny i mean sad part of d story was dat a couple of lebanese blokes & chicks parked their cars & watched a free show while they laffed thier asses & chatted in poor arabian accent..my heart really bled! in kano! kano of all states! kano of all of all center of commerce! kano home of riches! land of milk & honey flowing non-stop(ofcourse it flows but only d home of rich)..so how ironic!..whut do u think?????
i'll be right bak.....peace y'all
Dis guy can make noiseeeeeeeeeeeeeee! Dee-kay, ha' body? Enjoyed all d storiesssssssss.........I read
Got a really moving story of ma own aswell, if u guys wanna hearit lemme know.....though its a LITTLEEEEEE bit long
Quote from: "ummita"Dis guy can make noiseeeeeeeeeeeeeee! Dee-kay, ha' body? Enjoyed all d storiesssssssss.........I read
Got a really moving story of ma own aswell, if u guys wanna hearit lemme know.....though its a LITTLEEEEEE bit long
its like i'm d only one home....talking baut noise u know i learnt 4rm hafcy &...baut d story..i dont mind if its encyclopedia volume juss roll..there u go gurl..
Quote from: "Anonymous"Quote from: "ummita"Dis guy can make noiseeeeeeeeeeeeeee! Dee-kay, ha' body? Enjoyed all d storiesssssssss.........I read
Got a really moving story of ma own aswell, if u guys wanna hearit lemme know.....though its a LITTLEEEEEE bit long
its like i'm d only one home....talking baut noise u know i learnt 4rm hafcy &...baut d story..i dont mind if its encyclopedia volume juss roll..there u go gurl..
ooops..4got 2 log in.
Quote from: "dan kauye"
u walk an inch i run a mile y'cant win u always right behind me
Hey Dan kauye u listen to Spice girls? heheh wierd, dats from "Stop" in their Spice world album rite?Quote from: "dan kauye" nothing phoney dont hate on me whut u get is whut u dont see..ok
ummm and dis one is from Jenny from da block? hehehe Quote from: "dan kauye"
& this reminded me another one,it wasnt long ago,infact it was during d last ramadhan(as in dis years') i escorted a frend 2 d industrial side of bompai....went 2 see someone in one of d offices there,i waited in d car while he went in...it was few minutes away 4rm iftar(shan ruwa)..i spotted a crowd of abaut thousand ppl outside(no jokes)....trust dan-kauye..i dashed over 2 see whut was up....2 my astonishment ,i found out that one rich lebanese guy took d responsiblity of feeding all d poor masses mostly company labourers during ramadhan..& one busybody even gave me som irrelevant additional in4mation..i was told dat d lebanese guy does dat philanthrophic act each & every ramadhan & chose 2 remain anonymous...but d food reciepients? they were bizy tearing each others clothes,shouting @ d top of their voices & threathning hell & high waters all because of a plate of rice & beef & d funny i mean sad part of d story was dat a couple of lebanese blokes & chicks parked their cars & watched a free show while they laffed thier asses & chatted in poor arabian accent..my heart really bled! in kano! kano of all states! kano of all of all center of commerce! kano home of riches! land of milk & honey flowing non-stop(ofcourse it flows but only d home of rich)..so how ironic!..whut do u think?????
i'll be right bak.....peace y'all
wat i don't understand is, was it da "food-sharer" dat was watching and laughing?
If dats da case then he's not only wasting his money but he's also getting
zunubi
Quote from: "ummita"
Got a really moving story of ma own aswell, if u guys wanna hearit lemme know.....though its a LITTLEEEEEE bit long
YAN MATA, ABAMU MU SHAAAA. BA KOMAI INDAI LABARINKI DA DADI, BARE NASAN MA AKWAI SAI KI BABU MU SHA MUNA SAURARO. IDANUWA ZURU-ZURU KUNNUWA WALA WALA. BISMILLAH
@ fateez a.k.a miss scrutiny,nope..dats not 4rm spice gurls but jay-z(song;u cant ,year ;96)..but hey i'm not surprised coz these bunch of popstars often bite out 4rm emcees...& yup d other was j'los'
with regards 2 d other story,the lebanese philanthrop wasnt part of d ppl who watched & rediculed our ppl..u got it now?
i'm bak,ummita since u r not ready yet...lemme talk 2 'd voice within' they say i make so much noise but i think it pays alot 2 be outspoken..a research @ a london institute revealed that those who open up leads happier lives,hardly hold grudges,& wud likely live longer compared 2 thier mealy-mouthed/keep-sealed-lips conterparts! where's hafcy?? plz make som joyful noise!
bak 2 bizness, do'y know whut i've bin thinking abaut lately??? year 2005!,they say "it's funny how tyme flies" but i, dan-kauye of all ppl says "its scary how tymes flies"....once upon a tyme not too long ago,remember d Y2K bug??? wen prophets of doom prophesised thier intricate network of lies abaut d world ending,computer bugs,earth ozone layer getting broken & all??? now its bin 5 dunking years..yes 5(its not a misprint)..
y'all might be wondering whut inspired me 2 pen down dis piece...last couple of months were x-perience-filled 4 me,too personal 2 share here but 4 sure i did a thorough soul-searching assesement on my whole life;my goals,pitfalls,shortcomings,failures,weakness,strength,power,faith,behavior,achievement,success,plans,& all..infact i thot abaut my whole life as whole,as if dat wasnt enuff i dived in2 searching thru d lives of my freinds,colligues,parents,siblings,neighbors & all..i came 2 a simple conclusion..life is not born but made so life is whut u make it,its up 2 u 2 broaden up ur horizons & see beyond d superficialities & trivialities of life.fate always hav a hand in our daily dealings but u can choose 2 cheat fate if u r strong,hardworkingly diligent & determined..only if u walked a mile in my shoes will u comprehend well.
now we r juss couple of days away 4rm year 2005..this means getting older,getting closer 2 d seven feet under(grave),taking more life responsibilities ,xploring life itself & best of all knowing why i/u/we is/are here in d 1st place!..do u realize how much tyme we spend trying 2 better up d world around us not d world 2 come 4 us in the here after?, see,i ain't preaching but hey no matter how much u love this thing called earth u were not here 150 yrs bak & wil not be here 150 yrs 2 com..so now its up 2 u to do d rest of d calculation & make d best out of it.here's a little mind boggler..do u realize that men spend more tyme playing football,PS 2,basket ball,making transactions,sleeping, than they do wen it comes 2 religion;prayer,wa'azi,& all?..as 4 women its all gossip,make up,sleeping,cooking,net,ceremonies!..so now how many hours do u sacrifice 4 GOD out of d 24 hrs given 2 u every day??? they say an average person shud sleep 4 atleast 8 hrs every day & sure we try 2 comply & notch up even more..if we sleep for 8 hrs everyday 4 a year this means dat we get 2880 hrs of sleep per year!..whut of prayers?? lets assume we spend 12mins in each prayer( i'm sure most most of us dont spend up to 5 mins)..we use up only 720 hrs 4 prayer per year...so why were un here (earth) in d 1st place?? out of 8640 hrs we hav in a year we spend 720hrs praying,2880 hrs sleeping & d remaining 5000 hrs goes 2 other worldly sectors of our life! dont get me wrong plz,i'm not saying we shudnt get enuff sleep ..all i'm saying is how much effort do we put in religion compared 2 d effort we put in wordly activities?? so does dat justify our actions?? we r all guilty of sum of us are guiltier than others...kai i don tire i'll be right bak...
na dawo again, oya gather around lets converse ..lol..talking abaut new year's resolutions,do u hav one? coz i've truck loads of them...som ppl want 2 stop smoking,som want 2 learn anger management,som want to loose weight(lol),som want 2 become more religious,some want learn how 2 save,all these we call them resolutions.& believe it or not we all hav em..u
where do i begin? the truth is i really want 2 see a new me..afterall new year means 2 me ' new me' & wen i say 'new' i mean new in all aspects especially religion.then career,relationships,family, finance,etc..i really want 2 stick 2 these resolutions but its easier said than..talk is cheap u may say but no infact big NOPE! i'm hell bent on seeing a better me next year..
1.religion;i've done enuff surutu on how much i wanted a positive change wit regards 2 how i handle religion..but it takes much more than juss typing 2 accomplish my mission..funny enuff,religion in itself covers every & anything in one's life...whuteva it is check it out ..its in there in ISLAM if its not there then believe me its not worth its salt...i still recalled that tyme a frends heard me rapping over jay-z song 4rm verse one 2 three ..& he goes like.."hmmnn..it wud do u a lot of good if u can cram up d holy QURAN" ....it never made sense 2 me then..but now? yup lots!..i'm basically a good memorizer,trust me i can memorize d whole QURAN in matta of month if i eva wanted ..here i am..not even half of it without reading thru d texts! so i want a change..i want 2 go bak 2 islamiyya,join an islamic organization,join online islamic forums,learn arabic,hadith,ahlari,qawa'id,fique..all! yup i can do it & so cud u!
2.career; this is d last thing i eva want 2 talk abaut coz d road there is really rough,& in my own case & terms less travelled,my career took so many turns dat i became lost,confused,disappointed..but come feb next year(insha ALLAH) every thing will be ok..but hardwork is always d buzzword ..lets juss see sha..
3,relationship;lol..right now i'm single as a pringle & ready 2 mingle..lol.see i've a thing 4 pretty gurls..i dunno i juss lov'em..tall sorta short,short sorta tall,slim sorta fat,fat sorta slim(no honesly not fat..lol)..fair sorta dark,dark sorta fair..i just lov em..i guess dat goes wit most men coz dat how we r genetically wired,but no! its not how far but how well..so its not juss having a girlfrend but having d right one..& again 1st things 1st..wid d look of things around me presently i doubt if women r @ d top of my priority ..i wudnt mind 2 date if its britney spears fa..lol.ok now seriously,i'm trying 2 be sensible wen it comes 2 gurls coz i'll hav 2 admit i'm a total freak wen it coms 2 dat..no maybe 4 d pretty chicks dai..lol.so the resolution here is 2 stay away & keep off as much as possible @ least in d meantyme since i've got bigger issues on my plates
...2 be continued...............
You know dan billage,ni ma I just got into this relationship problem and believe me it put me into this deep thinking mood and I swear life is just so insignificant ..well at the moment.Anyway it, that is the problem, made me realise a lot of things.Like you said shorcomings and longcomings(wat's the opposite of shortcomings).Sha u all get, ai ko?So i have things i need to do ,correct,step up on,stop doing blah, blah,blah.
First of all i have to thank God for my family.I just didnt realise how lucky i am to have my parents,brothers and sisters.God they were sooo supportive and caring and loving.just thinking of them wants to make me cry.Anytime i got real sad i called them and i felt happy.
2nd cos of the problem i began to pray alot.I felt so ashamed of myself that i only began this prayer all the time when i got a little trouble in life.So i have decided to continue my prayers ,problems or no problems,happiness or sadness,health or illness.Now i'm into dhikr all the time and i intend to make my life such.
3rd i have decided that i must come first in my life,no one should come and destroy my happiness,my self esteem,my progress in life.Afterall the prophet said when you pray,pray for yourself 1st,then your parents and etc. so now i sit and think,really wat do i want in life and how do i achieve it?Of course after life there is nothing to think about but Al-jannah so dama wanan ba sai na fadi me zan yi ba.
So here I am,changed ,armoured and ready to tackle life and it's problems head on.And i say to myself 'be good,have a good heart and good tongue,trust in Allah and let the world come.I'm ready.'
Precious,
Being redeemed is truly a sweet thing and i pray that God continues to guide us aright. But even with the shortcomings or longgoings in life one should not forget that, this life has been designed along a definite course such that any attempt towards reversing it is dangerous. Precious if you are a gal, permit me to say this. It has always been the attitude with some ladies as i observed, when they unfortunately experience a 'not workable' relationship ( i mean boy friend/girlfriend) they resort to a more dangerous trail, that of the Feminism with the illusiion of women liberiation. BRB!............. take care. Though am not a women chauvenist at all!!!!!!!!!!!!! i have lots of respect for them, i believe the feminist movement is not the right channel to defend their rights rather it leaves them so ashamed of theirselves trying to adapt to being men. sorry, its only my sincere supposition. Byah
Sannuku dai,
Hello to all members and non-members before I make further move let me just make a brief intro to make myself known. I happen to be using a freinds laptop about 4months ago and saw this particular website. I asked her about it and she told me its just a regular site. Since then I have become attached to this website and I have been very well enjoying reading so many post. I may say that I have read far to many and too much of the posts and am very well familia with alot of members here unknown to them. Amman abun shine, I registered twice but I seem never to be connected. I wanted to get in touch with the administrator or moderators but failed, amman ba komai I can still make a post.
Seeing so many stories in particular that of Hafsys and her escapades with her boyfreind and of recent the one of precious motivated me to come out of a shell and tell a story that has made me see in total darkness. Yanuwa bari na baku wani labarin zuci, a story that only my heart knows & a story that only my heart can trully tell. I am 20yrs of age, hausa, studying and leaving in Abuja. I had been in and out of 3 long relationships not that I was a player not mentioned the primary one nursey 3 kind of boyfreind thing. But the first ever boyfreind and liked was when I was 16, though we got seperated when I was 18 after two years that was because he left the country. He said the distance brougt us apart when he came back and he wanted me back badly. Perphaps a genuine reason right? But a realisation I made long ago is tha maybe he never was interested because even distance cant come between love, but a more excuse on my side was because I was young, naive, and wanted to a big girl so I made a quick exit and got myself acquinted with my second boyfreind. The second boyfreind I had when I was 19 and ended everything up when I clicked 20 was that he was such a good guy and everything, came from a very religious and known background. He was abit of those niggah nonsense of you know what I mean but he was so good to me. Well it all ended when he went to abroad for 3months in hols and he came back. He rang me because he could wait to see me and I was all calm and he taught I wasnt happy of his return. Of course I was but the thing is my quite, calm nature is really giving people wrong impressions about me. (When my older sister would jump, sing hug my mum kiss her & run around the house, say after getting a present from my mum,mine is usually a thank you to God and a big hug to my mum. This always saddens her because she always thinks am having problems and wount talk about it. Though she knows me & she bothers no more.) Thats just my sort of nature. Anyway my boyfreind from abroad came to visit me and I came out from our house after being told he has arrived. I approached him with my frequent smile & teasingly said to him, I taught it was Will Smith all dressed up looking cute. So he smiled and he came close to me I knew right there and then what he wanted to do. Ok kissing is something I wouldnt do. He asked me why I said he needs to rethink, its not our culture nor our tradition. No male or female can come in contact till after marriage, so he said its juss a kiss I said what ever. My face reaction changed to the worse. I folded my hand looking confused thinking is this the right guy I used to know? Well my older sister studied all her growing life abroad but nothings changed her. Infact the day she came home she was dressed in zani da riga and how gorgeous and pretty she looked. She is juss so crazy and funny but she didnt come home with the kissing thing even after she met her boyfreind. Anyway my boyfreind got upset and left. He gave me some presents which I told him he shouldnt have because coming home in one peace is enough happiness. He insisted and I refused it was later that our maigard brought it inside the house that someone brought me a message. So I kept it and the next day my freinds parted me with all. I soon heard that my bf had gone round spreading tales that I was so local and unsocial and he cant believe how a pretty girl will behave so unsocialised. I didnt bother and didnt care but I told my sister who told me he was no good and he was a little naive kingthergathern boy and I should never see him again. This was a decision I already made long ago at heart. Few of my freinds who came back telling me what he said were saying just because of a kiss how could I break up with such a guy? Maybe just a kiss meant nothing and was of no big deal but to me it means hell alot! We exchange kisses and hugs with my family members but not someone I call a boyfreind. Maybe some do but I dont. Maybe after my marriage I can. So I ended the relationship because he was acting like an immatured, little boy. Between 20 yrs to 21 I had so many men asking for date so many, it began to scared me, I expected that so many men chasing after my sister because she talks too much and she is abit bubblier than I am. Yet so many attention was focused on me, nothing about boasting truth is what I tell. I had boys in my age group asking me out, Men in 20's and even so many proposals for marriage settlement. I rejected because I knew deep inside me I was not ready or maybe am scared. Of what? I cannot say. A year rolled with education on go and the constant admirers who would do anything just to bear the title that am the one they are dating. I soon met a guy, I wasnt ready for relationship but he wont let me go off his sight easily and he constantly came around. We became really close he was such a gentleman, good manners, kind and charming. He made me believe that trully we have prince charmingssss in this world of today. I wanted him so much like a brother, he wanted, he liked, Love is the word, he loved me dearly like a girlfreind more like a wife. I never liked staying on campus so immediately after lectures I will be out of Gwags heading to Wuse. This guy would pay me visit twice a day, between the intervals of every single day he would call me in his office for endless conversations. One thing about me is that am abit quite and so this really saddens him for he would sit on & tell me things and the only response he normally gets is either a'a, a, or my very frequent smiles. I will sit with my chin in my palms just to listen. This he sometimes thinks I never cared. But I did, I wasnt the type of girl who hide my feelings or prideness is something am too much for. I level down to everything and that is what makes my life so simple and easy for me to ride on. All was well between myself and my boyfreind. He was the one thing next to my immediate family because am the second child of my parents. My older sister is 24 full of life, graduated of recent. She is the chatty wild type who has life full in her hands. We hardly have time to sit and talk she is always around and engrossed with her freinds. Lokaci daya ne nakan samu mu zauna muyi hira. Trully the only spare time we have for talks is when she is having a bath. That when I would push open the door halfway and sit by the door. I use to be so happy for the little time we spent together. She loved me dearly and sticked up for me much during the younger days till present. As she dresses, I ask her about things like why wont she marry she has people who trully cared, she would then turn around and smile telling me that she swore on marrying the same day I will. She didnt care about what people will say, all she cared was to see me happy. I would laugh and then ask her what does she think about my boyfreind. Then she would come next to me to tell me he really cared and infact he calls her every say 3 days to pay his dues "yaya babba". She said to me why am I scared to introduce him to the family? At that instant it just caught me because I happen to know even his second generation of great grand parents before his immediate parents. His bros and sis, relations and they loved me dearly. I felt shame, because all he know was my sister and one best freind. Not that I didnt have a chain of freinds because the more close he gets the more real things get! My freind always tells me what a hadsome and gorgeous guy he was. How life-treating made me well. How so many of my freinds envy & had admiring crush on me. I would laugh and shake my head. Maybe is my quite nature. We would go out with my freinds and how they love to see him. They would gather & we would all chat together. My freind was my second sister but she was in her finals in uni. So during hols she stayed back writing her finals & after that me and my bf would go pick her from Gwags back into town. He soon became like a brother to her. She was also the only daughter of her parents so you can imagine how dead spoilt she is. Things were going so well and my loving parents were too caring. They spoiled me with pure unconditional love but taught me about every good deed. I read my quran, read about hadith, I prayed everything I had & everything I know I do. I made a decision to introduce him to my family to meet my mum her older sisters, my aunt, female cousins of my age clan and so on.My father was on a trip abroad and I taught he can meet my dads mum & so on. The day came my sister was going on a wedding of her freind so my house was more than full, they were dressing up, chatting and clapping away I was on my bed shaking and and one of my sisters freinds turned around saying (havent I eaten?) I asked why? She said because I have been eating away my fingers. Then I realised and stopped. My aunt came in to call me to tell me that my grandmum & mum are ready to receive my boyfreind and I should usher him in. I was weak in my legs so I sent him a text telling him to come in and he should make sure he remembers all the rules. He should never mention that he is here for marriage! Because if he so does I will end the relationship, (he is just here) to make himself known. He text me back "saying yes your majesty, I heard all and will abide all". That was a little relieve because I smiled and summoned the courage, went out to see my mum and if you know how aunts behave, they were busy laughing and teasing me, I couldnt even look into my mothers eyes because I was too shy. This is the woman I lay on her laps, play with her hair even after so much scolding I wont let go of her hair. I went off and soon saw one of my cousin. He is one boy that knows me inisde out , the one person that we have so much in common, the one person we fight for bicycle during our young days he was like a twin brother to me, so I settled myself down and his usual stories of laugther soon suspended the fact that my boyfreind was in a sitting room with half a dozen of my family members. Soon my aunt walked in, saying shikenan an gama magana you will be getting married in a week. I didnt know but I was hot, felt a right headache coming throguh, lost words, when she realised my worriness she told me to calm down that she was only joking. My boyfreind left without seeing me. Later that day he rang me to tell me all that happened and how he never got the chance to see my mum. I was a little bit taken aback. I asked why he said he just answered a few questions from the lady who called me before he left and that was it. He didnt raise his head up, bowed down because he was shy and doesnt even know my mum who is my mum. My boyfreind is abit quite and very shy, even with my girls, they end up chatting and all he does is smiles and he would glance from one to the other and would look at me and he would just smile and shake his head. He asked me how I handle my freinds because we were totally opposite they were radio I was like a cemetry. My boyfreind came in the evening and in my hand was a photo. I showed it to my bofreind and he goes this woman is looking so matured but she is gorgeous. I wasnt at all jealous because I know my boyfreind had trust in him so I didnt care what ever comments he makes on girls. He asked me if she was arabian with an astonishing smile just like mine. I said its alright am not jelous so he should not make references to me. I said to him this woman is the woman he couldnt have the nerve to raise his head up and look at her and that this is the woman I love and call a mother. But I respected that and wasnt upset because it showed his respect, kunya is a second to good biyyaya to parents and that gave me more reasons really accept him in my heart. Not that I dont I do but something keeps holding my whole trust from him. I wasnt suffering from insecurity problems but I guess thats just my nature or taking precations to hidden repacautions. Later around 8pm I saw a couple of missed calls just seeing my sis name of my phone made me smile so I quickly rang her. There was lound music; Dan Asharalle for those that know him, in between she said even though she is in the biki her mind has not been there and she was so worried I didnt pick up. She asked how did everything go go? I just said good. In a pitched worried tone she said what do you mean good? I said all is well> She started shouting that I shouldnt hide anything. Then I said seriously everything was ok and fumbled a giggle. Then my sister started shouting and saying she was so happy for me I taught she was getting the wrong impression. So I said sista ba maganan aure yazo ba fa, just to make himself known and she said she knows. She said she misses me and that I should get ready she is sending someone to pick me up for the wedding. I tried saying no but she insisted. I was at the wedding and my sister, the freinds and bride and the whole battilion of abokan ango were all doing the spray. I soon spotted my best freind and went up to her, she was cursing at me saying that I said I was not going for the 'eve' party and that I said I was going for the luncheon and she was so upset. I apologised and told her all that happened from my boyfreind/family to my sisters persuasion to come. She was relived at face, so she asked me to come join the dance, I said no am shy besides I dont know how to dance. She pulled me in and I was just standing laughing, soon my sister and her freinds spotted me and they all came rounded me and started doing the money thing on my head. I was happy seeing my sister having fun and the good dancer she was I started to do the little baby steps I could beside her. I didnt even want her to move an inch. In an instant I froze because there was this gentleman that was putting money to the bride and groom I came to find about he was the babban aboki, and everywhere I went he followed me, kept looking at me. I had no choice so he started talking to me and my sister and freind were out of sight. I was shaking because I know he wants relationship but I already have a boyfreind. I was explaining all to this and he was just in the midst of apologising because he didnt know. I felt someones eye burning I turned round and spotted my best freind staring deeply with some sort of smile that I couldnt say whether it was a grin or that sort of 'you are cheating on you boyfreind and I will tell smile'. I made a quick excuse and left. After the wedding I told my freind to sleep over at home. In my room I told her all that happened with my bf when he came in today. Her face reaction kind of changed and she said why did I introduce him? I said because he kept budging and I felt selfish knowing his once and he doesnt know any of my family except sister Hameeda & herself. She made a face like 'whatever' and told me she wanted to sleep. I was suprised because she never acted the way she did. The next morning my bf called me and my freind was in the shower. He said I should say hi so when she came out she asked who called me and I told her it was my bf and that he says hi she said he is such a bug-a-boo and that why is he calling this early mornin? It was 12pm by then I felt shocked but I didnt say a word. We had breakfast and decided to visit a freind. Around 2pm I knew my boyfreind was going to call but he didnt, 4pm there was no call. So I called him because he told him he was going to KD so I shouldnt bother calling him incase I lost service. So I called him and we said hi and all but I could tell from the tone of his voice that he was a bit cold. I asked him what the problem was and he told me, he called I refused picking up and when he rang again my freind told him that I was sleeping and that he coudl hear my voice from the background. I apologised and said to him my freind might have not recognised his voice. We said goodbyes and I felt bad but didnt say anything. I didnt want him to have a bad impression about my best freind and I also didnt understand the sudden hate my freind developed for my bf and why she was acting mean. In the evening my phone battery went low, and I didnt speak to my bf to tell him that I got him drugs because he had a bad cold and he is the type that would never ever go to the hospital so I took it upon to provide treatement. I am an unqualified doctor and in my bathroom are all sorts of tablets from paracetamol, to actifed, to propanol etc so its just a matter of digging in the cupboard and re-surfacing with maganin mura. I didnt know how to reach him because I felt embarassed asking our freind if I could use her landline to call a guy. So my bestfreind said I should call him with her phone and I told her he just got a new number I stored it on my phone but I havent crammed it yet. Besides it wasnt a big deal because the cold wont do harm I can wait till tomorow if he comes home. She insisted so I used her phone to call him. I said he would come right away because he just came back from Abuja, so I said he doesnt have to, if its not getting worse he can come for it tomorrow. Well things kept happening like my freind showing more distate for my boyfreind. One day I rang her and she said she was having a bad headache, so I rang my bf to tell him not to come see me because I wanted to have a days out with my sister. I heard a females voice on his phone and someone hanged up. Nothing crossed my mind at first so I redialed and it went straight to voicemail. I called his other phone it kept ringing but no one picked up. I didnt bother so I hanged up. My sister asked if I told him we were going out. I said I tried but some girl picked up and hanged up. My sister went what? She said "and you are here acting stupid someone is after your man", I started laughing because I was just happy that my sister is just crazy to be lovable. I said no, even if it was a girl might probably be relation or just a freind. My sister said she was ringing him and I said no. My sister said if he was cheating she would surely kill him because no one can treat me like that. She was cursing and I just followed her to the car holding her bag thinking if she was on liquior or something. As we pulled out from our drive I just spotted a red car and I knew it was my boyfreind. My sister was saying thank God it will make it more easier for me to kill. Should she just drive me over or wait till he comes out? I started laughing and went out of the car. My bf approached me saying is that not my sis and why was she giving him that kind of look because he was so worried, so i told him not to worry. So he said I couldnt even call him after telling him to go on an errand. I laughed because I knew he could make jokes. My sister started honking for me to come along. So he went over to great her and she behaved) So he told my sis that he wanted to visit me but I told him to go on an errand and my sister asked him what did I say he should do? He said oh she said that I should help her pick up her bestfreind to our house and when he went over she said she was no more coming and that he should drop her in someo other freinds house. I was a little bit suprised but I didnt say a word ratheI thanked him and he left. My sister wanted to have fun and my mind was somewhere but I shooked it away and soon I was laughing at my sister who was singing to Toni Braxton. Well aleast she was sing driving and not drink driving. I didnt tell my sister that I had not assigned my bf to give my bestfreind a lift on his way or to whereever because she would kill my freind and I dont want our relationship to end because she is indeed a good freind not till what happened. I was tempted to call her and ask her but I kept quite. My freind started acting weird and rude to me. Anytime I call her if she is up and felt like going out she would tell me she is busy. Soon we came to hardly not calling each other. One day my bf picked me up to go pick up some clothes from the tailors. On our way he saw his freind and he went over to see him, I was in the thinking of which of the tailors did my sis give her clothes to so I can pick hers as well when my bf phone rang. I picked up and someone hanged. This happened 4 times and I wanted to know who it was so when the phone rang again I refused to pick up and it went to miss calls. I quickly went on his miss call list and I was hoping to see a name but it was just titled 'A' so I traced up the number and the number looked so familiar then I knew it was Aisha my bestfreinds number. Just then a text message came in I knew it was not right to read someone elses even though it was my bf's but I opened it and it read "kuna tare da itane?" kuma meyasa baka daukan waya na? call me back lov Aish. I saw more text with 'A' titles my hands were sweaty and shaking I read about four and in one I froze because it read "muna tare da angel dinka a biki amman tayi sabon saurayi" pls call me I have something to tell you. I noticed I could see well my eyes were blurry. It was after something trinked on my skirt did I notice it was tears. I was suprised at why I was crying, I never knew I had so much weak at heart. I was the brave one at home, I hide my emotions and I never allow emotions to eat me up in terms of relationship. Yet today I was crying, tears were spilling on my bf handset and as I show a blurry figure coming towards the car and I knew it was my bf I quickly wiped off my tears. I was trying so hard to make a decision before his shuts his car door. Or to fully break down. I didnt know whether to shout or remain calm whether to tell him what I saw or to remain quite and see how lengthy they could go, or to start spying on them but I felt it was stalking. Part of me didnt want to believe, part of me belived it, part of me regretted knowing him even introducing him to people of all my mum part of me regretted even coming out from home on that day. Part of me said I shoudl walk out of the car. But I was too shock and lost to even make a quik decision something I am very good at in times of emergency. I looked straight as he came in and sat down saying what is amusing my eyes or is it that I have never seen men fighting over a jerican of petrol? I quickly pushed my finger on the play button of his radio so that he wont catch me up in any conersation and I realised it was one of my CD's I gave him Zain Bhikah and that song wanted to make me cry the more so I I told him that I didnt want to go get the clothes and that I rang the tailor who has not finished sewing. He was soon worried he kept looking at me and checking for the traffic light to hit green. I looked straight not caring if he care or not. I didnt even want him to ask me anything so I just handed him over the phone not for him to know but for him to give me the benefit of being alone because him talking will only add to my misery. I finally turned round and smiled saying him your girlfreind Aisha called 5 times and she even sent you a text, go ahead open it. He looked confused, so scared. I didnt say a word and I told him to take me home. He tried all that a man can do, he called more than my counting limits, he called my older sisters phone, he even rang my house phone something he has never done. I was eager to go back to uni atleast my mind will be else where an focused on my studies. During my lectures anytime I spot a red car I will either squat under the table or hide behind trees. He kept coming to Gwags in the morning and immediately after my lecture beccause he already know my timings. I didnt even know if he took hols off his very demanding job. When I went back to uni I didnt want nothing to do with Aisha freinds who are equally my freinds saboda gulma so I moved with other freinds. It happened we were sitting with my freinds they were busy chatting when one said who is that cute guy coming towards I raised my head up and saw well my ex, now I can call him an ex boyfreind dont you think? Anway I took off in such a quick pace and before he could follow I was lost in my faculty building. I never wanted nothing to do with him. I was hurt but I wasnt hurt because am glad I didnt take it too far I very much thank my concious mind on its refusal to saying yes on his request if we could marry. He kept living me voicemails on how it was not his fault, and how my freind kept sending him love text, how he told her to leave him alone and accused her of being a deceit but I didnt care. Even if it wasnt his fault. A mouse will only love a cat if the cat says he loves the mouse back. So he must have given her the face. As for Aisha,I boycotted her she called me, she came home and I wanted to be distant from her because thats the only way to keep peace. I never confronted her about why she was dating my bf. I said nothing. I can her once in a blue moon. I think by know she knows what she has done but she is too narrow minded to apologise or maybe she cared less about how I felt. She can have my ex it will no longer upset me. What made me upset was at first she was my bestfreind, if he was befreinding someone I dont know and not close to I wont even care but move on. I didnt tell my older sister what happened because surely if I do Aisha will be miserable for God knows how long and she will be bruttal with my bf but I taught let them live it is not the end of the world. I dont know if I should tell my sis. I know she will soon start asking of him. Because she has already started saying why didnt he call these day. I told her he travelled, but for how long should I keep lying to her. If I dont tell her she might think I have no trust and this is my sister. As for Amir and Aisha they can have each other the more reason why their names start with (A's dont you think?) It makes me laugh these days am not insane but all Aisha attitude about why I introduced him to my family, about why she hated him, about how she made me use her fone so that she can retrive his number on her caller list to start calling him. All this jumbo mumbo puzzle I finally fixed together is what makes me laugh now. But with sister and with freinds like the person who I first saw kanoonline website on her system have helped me continue from where I stopped. She is what I call a real true freind. I have now moved on and already doors are really opening up to a brighter future for me. I dont know if I can tell all the girls not to trust their girlfreinds because one proved to be a back stabber but another is proving herself as a worthy freinds. I dont know if I can say you should not trust boys but sometimes he take trust for granted but what I can trully say is having a crazy funny sister is what I am surely happy for because I now realise that I have nothing to loose. With a broken heart someone has already started fixing it up.
So THATS EXCATLY HOW MY BEST FREIND STOLE MY BOYFREIND.
Sorry I forgot to write my name (Mufidah).
I enjoyed all the stories I read here few months back. Never got the chance to say I did but I trully did.
am just commending u guys 4 this wonderful and indeed lenghty stories , i swear i no go fit write plenty rubutu like this one o!!!! i no, no wedar na lazyness or na lack of talent .but i love reading it .so thanks guys KEEP IT UP AND I WILL KEEP READING.
mufida
welkom onboard,u'll surely hav a nice stay here & make som terrific freinds, nd abaut ur story..HUH! i'm @ loss of words u deserve a nobel prize(lol)...i'm really moved ..no ,she's not ur freind she's ur foe..i cant say u shoulda,coulda,or woulda coz i'm not in ur shoes..i really cant clearly imagine how it feels 2 get hurt like dat ..but one thing's 4 sure;u r an epitome of womanhood..as i've learnt in ur narration;it all sprung 4rm jelousy/envy..i know it wudnt make much sense if i assume all women r like dat coz she(ur so-called freind) duz not rep women but hey,xcuse my brash thot,a lot of women r like dat..as in its atypical of a lot of d women folk 2 indulge in d best buddy-treachery-r/ship thang,of course u hav nothing 2 lose wit ur bright future,experinces,looks,& best of all supportive sis/fam..& abaut ur bf, (mind u i'm not trying 2 take sides wit him..its juss whut i see)i think he sounds alot like a very good chap if not 4 ya freind who must hav manipulated /muscled her way 2 his heart so shud i say 2 his hands(coz it ain't luv @all),i believe dis guy really loved & cared 4 u coz he exhibited all d qualities of a real guy & prospective hubby, as in...good family background,calling & caring 4 most of d tyme,being eager 2 meet ur parents,respecting ur sis,being occupationally responsible & best f all luving & respecting u ..whut more cud u possibly want 4rm a guy???his only fault was dat he rolled on 2 her beats but hey,dont be surprised he dusnt/never feel anything 4 her which i strongly believe.he even called & did everything within his capability 2 xpress his apology...i think dis guy deserves a second chance..who knows! he might juss be ur MR right & u mentioned something like hearing his own side of storyl;if a guy aknowledges his mistakes especially in a r/ship..& tried 2 apologise & make ammends guinienly ..then he's likely 2 be a real guy...& dats a good expression of masculinity & bravado not d other way round(coz men r generally not really good @ r/ship issues)...but d trouble is do u still luv him??? (i suppose u still do),is he worth his salt?,do u think u can move on wit him again? if yes then ,take him bak ..u hav nothing 2 lose! ...i'll be right bak..peace !
Quote from: "dan kauye"@ fateez a.k.a miss scrutiny,nope..dats not 4rm spice gurls but jay-z(song;u cant ,year ;96)..but hey i'm not surprised coz these bunch of popstars often bite out 4rm emcees...& yup d other was j'los'
with regards 2 d other story,the lebanese philanthrop wasnt part of d ppl who watched & rediculed our ppl..u got it now?
hehe...my bad then, and um it's not scrutiny just a lil observation :P , oky?
and about that philantrophy, it's da pple {da ones dat ate da food} dat
fooled themselves i don't blame those pple 4 laughing at all {if u see free
show u no go watch?} it's just so sad dat some of our pple act like dat but
wat can i say? naija wud neva be fun without all those lil extra stuff
Mufidah:I must hail u 4 such a looong and interesting story{i cudn't stop reading}.
Looks like u really need a hug *HugZ*. Oky seriously I think u have to
tell ur sister. If u keep it a secret 4 too long and she eventually finds out
she?s not only going to be angry with Aisha and Amir but she?ll also be
mad at u. She?ll start getting feelings like u don?t trust her or something.
Also maybe u shud?ve listened to his side of da story. {though I don?t
blame u for keeping quiet.} U shudn?t bother urself about ur friend cos
she?s probably not enjoying r/ship {I?m sure ur face and memories wud
be haunting her} It?s cases like these dat make me so scared of having a
really really close best friend or going into a deep relationship.i think u
shud compromise with ur sister and 4get dat Aisha and Amir neva
existed. If u do so, then r life wud be back 2 normal and ur heart wud be
fixed in no time. But if Amir is really meant for he?ll come back. {u know
wat I believe: if u luv something set it free, if it comes back 2 u then, it?s
4 u, but if it doesn?t it was never meant 4 u}, ~*Best Wishes Sister*~
Quote from: "Fateez"Mufidah:I must hail u 4 such a looong and interesting story{i cudn't stop reading}.
Looks like u really need a hug *HugZ*. Oky seriously I think u have to
tell ur sister. If u keep it a secret 4 too long and she eventually finds out
she?s not only going to be angry with Aisha and Amir but she?ll also be
mad at u. She?ll start getting feelings like u don?t trust her or something.
Also maybe u shud?ve listened to his side of da story. {though I don?t
blame u for keeping quiet.} U shudn?t bother urself about ur friend cos
she?s probably not enjoying r/ship {I?m sure ur face and memories wud
be haunting her} It?s cases like these dat make me so scared of having a
really really close best friend or going into a deep relationship.i think u
shud compromise with ur sister and 4get dat Aisha and Amir neva
existed. If u do so, then r life wud be back 2 normal and ur heart wud be
fixed in no time. But if Amir is really meant for he?ll come back. {u know
wat I believe: if u luv something set it free, if it comes back 2 u then, it?s
4 u, but if it doesn?t it was never meant 4 u}, ~*Best Wishes Sister*~
yea mufidah.. fateez is rite!
n dat story waz sooooooooo touching.
take care aiite..~*Hugz*~
Come here sweetie.........Huggable Hugs. Let di boy go jare. You too a fine girl for him.
Nnnnnaaaaaa Ummita biko things must start changing quick quick!!!!!! :shock: No more jolly jolly freind freind with my boo.Ummita you now I te'quero you so much but biko I wan draw border........because I no wan any round di behind relationship :lol: I trust you wellu well but ehnnnn like say nobi di same issue wey Mufy & Aisha get, naso dis kine trust, trust dey trust yuwa man for best freind hand.
Lailai! Noooo. As from now honwards....dont even ask of how he is doing do da wasa ne, if you ask me how is he doing even if you phone as you normally do, I will automatically assume you are dating him because I no wan here disame tori. Are we clear!? My boo, kuma tomorow first thing at 6pm I will call, yanzu ma dan dare yayi ne. No more hanky panky! No more Mr nice guy to my freinds. I will give him a proper lecture. Ko kallon kawata yayi to Allah ya isa ba yafe ba! :roll: Daga yau irin rana ta yau ko murmushi ban yadda yayi ma kawayena. :twisted: I dont blame one of my freinds Nabila she never allows anyone to see her boyfriend, ashe abun da take gudu kenan!
Fateez you are right on your words. Amman kinsa wasu mazan shegune. Idonso baya zama waje daya. Allah dai ya shirye masu yin haka.
If I tell you guys how my own MEET DI PARENTS WENT like four years back, you will all be on the floor laughing. Di guy na real shege! D kine embarassement ehn cause me ko? mhmmmm :lol: He was too local, a local champion he was, my brothers and uncles were all laughing I became the subject of a laughing matter the whole week. I was no more called Hafsy Lady or mumsy handbag :lol: They started called Mrs Maki :evil: They told him to join them for dinner mhmmmm another story there just because so that they can laugh! The whole meeting with my brothers and uncles he only spoke english :? And I didnt even know how I crossed path wit this man. I didnt even invite him home, I dont even know how he knew my house, whether he stalked me home I do not know. I met him a day after four days I was sitting with my aunts having my hair braided and I was crying because they kept pulling the kisto, my brothers and uncles were all gisting. Then the housegirl said we had visitors and the next thing we heard was "assalamualaikum then boxes starting coming in. From where? Ogini dey happun for my house? Wai Alhaji Maki ya kawo kaya. I met the guy at a wedding and I kept running away we kept making fun of him with my freinds but after four days his elders delivered boxed for marriage :shock: Ko wa ya gayamishi nace bani da miji oho! :? I was confused telling the women they must have made a mistake and they said the were absolutely sure. My niece, my aunts, uncles, brother, even the housegirls. All the girls were on the floor laughing with tears, my elder brothers were trying so hard not to laugh, my uncle was trying to welcome tthese old women with two men carrying about 7 boxes. I was just standing with my hair all messed up with my novel looking confused and wanting to really kill that man. Thank God my parents were away on a trip! Now how shocking is that? D only thing about the man was that he was is quite cute but not as cute as my fiance. To add to matter he was married with 3 wives as I heard, you know those kind of hausa men. Kato dashi ya wani ce ni zai aure. :evil: Thats why I dislike going to some hausa weddings :lol:
Mufy you own meet the family is far far betta than this uninvited pieace of thing that met my relations
now dat was so lol hafsy!!! lol. :lol: :lol:
pardon me but i cant stop laffin... :lol:
Ok hear this...
I think I was only 8 or 9 yrs... there's this Islamiyya we used to go in warure...anyway...da kwai wani gidan cousins dina a unguwar...one fatefull day, me and one of my cousins went to the house and it was locked...so we knocked on the door then ran away, came back and knocked again then ran away again...we did that like 3 or 4 times.
AAhh...on the 5th one, I went back alone and saw the door opened! As I turned to leave, I saw the house maid... OH MY GOD...I will never forget that day...she beat the living day lights out of me...ta takani...hit me from all sides har sai da nayi... ;D I have never cried in my life like that day.
I went home and kai kara... the next day, someone from home came to the skool and reported the thing to one of the malams... the maid was called and was questioned why she did that to me...Uhm...as she opened her mouth, na lie don commot!!! "aa na ganta ta fadi ne, shine nace mata ta tashi ta daina kuka tayi hakuri"... nace AH!! wallahi karya ne! duka na tayi... but obviously as she is older than me, the malam took her word... ni kam aka barni da tsamin jiki!!![/quote]
lol, sorry bout that but it was kinda funny. sanu kinji, that's life, ama bata barmiki tabo bako. be cool u 'll
Quote from: "Fateez"Quote from: "dan kauye"
u walk an inch i run a mile y'cant win u always right behind me
Hey Dan kauye u listen to Spice girls? heheh wierd, dats from "Stop" in their Spice world album rite?
Quote from: "dan kauye" nothing phoney dont hate on me whut u get is whut u dont see..ok
ummm and dis one is from Jenny from da block? hehehe
he he he how u doin hope cool. gurl tell me bout this(dont hate da player, hate da game)
FIGORMS, YOU ARE STOPPING THE FLOW OF THE JUICY STORIES. LET THE BALL ROLL. YA KAMATA KAIMA KA BAMU LABARI
lol. k. lemme tell u gyz a lil story.
1 w/end my cousin and i wanted to go out to buy some cds somewhere near our house. so jus as we were gettin ready, my aunt came in and told us dey were goin out. n dey r leavin us to babysit d lil kids (a 7 yr old gal n a 3 yr old boy). so we were lyk ok no probs. we saw dem off smilin n wavin lyk good gals. lol. and mind u my cousin's dad waz really strict!. so after they left, i waz lyk, well i guess we jus hav 2 sit n w8 4 dem. my cousin waz lyk wat? no we r goin. we'll jus leave d kids n tell dem we'll be rite bak. i waz lyk no dats a bad idea. she waz lyk nah its ok. dey'll be here watchin their cartoon n we'll be bak in no tym. so i waz lyk fyn lets hurry now!
so we left d kids alone and went out. we were walkin n gistin and we 4gt dat we left 2 lil kidzz @ home. so on our way bak, i waz lyk, hey faiza, wat if we jus saw ur dad sittin in front of d gate waitin 4 us ? wat wud we do? we were jus across d strret from d house den, we saw d guardsman gettin up. we jus stopped their. i waz lyk. dont tell me they're bak n he's openin d g8 4 dem. jus den we saw his car comin outta d house. kunga wani u-turn da mukayi!!!!? we were shakin all ova! wat do we do now. they'd see us. n there was no where to hide. d house we were close to is an embassy. b4 dey'll let us in, we'll get caught 4 sure. n if we say we'd cross d street. dey'll see us. if we go bak d way we came dey'll see us. there waz no where to hide. so there waz this tree beside us n i waz lyk hide behind d tre! so we went n hid behind d tree. but d tree would not conceal even 1 of us. b4 i knew it my cousin was lyin flat behind some flowers n she was pullin me get down get down. i waz lyk no way! passers-by were starin at us laffin. 1 guy was like... kun fita yawo ko?
nywayz my cousin was tellin me to get down i was lyk no way am gonna lie down on d street. pple r looking. and dey'll know we r out of d house. dey r probably out lookin 4 us now. lets jus turn in and confess. my cousin waz lyk wat? he'll kill us. b4 i knew it i was lyin down beside her. so after like a min a guy called out. ok u can get up now dey r gone. my cousin was lyk no, he wants us to get caught. so we w8ed for lyk anoda minute n den we stood up, looked around. dey were gone but pple were laffin at us.so we jus started runnin. i've never seen my cousin runnin til dat day1 she was too lazy to run. anywayz we were runnin and d embassy guardsmen wer tryin to block us tellin us we had to go bak and go the other way. we knocked dem down. dey almost fell. lol. we ran. we didnt evn look if there were cars on d street we started crossin. a car nearly hit us, my cousin went bak but i didnt stop til i reached home!
i went str8 up and ask fati if dey asked where we were. she waz lyk yea n i told dem u guyz went to amecon ( a shop). 1 mighty headache jus decended on me. i jus sat down there. not knowin wat to do. i waz lyk faiza am off. am goin home. i started down d stairs and she caught me n waz lyk u r not goin anywhere,. we must answer dis querry togeda. so we sat n w8ed . den l8er i waz like. hey y dont we call ur sis n ask if dey saw us! so we called her. wen she picked up she jus started laffin. my cousin asked her if they saw us n she was like."hahahaha toh ni dai bansan ko baba ya ganku ba" i swear i almost fainted. he'd kill us if he saw us lyin down on d street!!! anywayz in d end she told us dey hadnt seen us. but her mum was furious dat we went out n left d kids alone. and it turned out dey 4got sthn n came bak so their dad didnt even know we were out of d house. so we jus told their mom dat we went to d neighbours to collect some cds and we even saw dem wen dey were leavin. but dat headache did not leave me till d nxt day!
Thats wat I call lowwwww to the ground. LOL
Hafsy yours is hilarious. Yar kare so theres something in this world that shuts you up? LOL.
Quote from: "beautilicious"lol. k. lemme tell u gyz a lil story.
1 w/end my cousin and i wanted to go out to buy some cds somewhere near our house. so jus as we were gettin ready, my aunt came in and told us dey were goin out. n dey r leavin us to babysit d lil kids (a 7 yr old gal n a 3 yr old boy). so we were lyk ok no probs. we saw dem off smilin n wavin lyk good gals. lol. and mind u my cousin's dad waz really strict!. so after they left, i waz lyk, well i guess we jus hav 2 sit n w8 4 dem. my cousin waz lyk wat? no we r goin. we'll jus leave d kids n tell dem we'll be rite bak. i waz lyk no dats a bad idea. she waz lyk nah its ok. dey'll be here watchin their cartoon n we'll be bak in no tym. so i waz lyk fyn lets hurry now!
so we left d kids alone and went out. we were walkin n gistin and we 4gt dat we left 2 lil kidzz @ home. so on our way bak, i waz lyk, hey faiza, wat if we jus saw ur dad sittin in front of d gate waitin 4 us ? wat wud we do? we were jus across d strret from d house den, we saw d guardsman gettin up. we jus stopped their. i waz lyk. dont tell me they're bak n he's openin d g8 4 dem. jus den we saw his car comin outta d house. kunga wani u-turn da mukayi!!!!? we were shakin all ova! wat do we do now. they'd see us. n there was no where to hide. d house we were close to is an embassy. b4 dey'll let us in, we'll get caught 4 sure. n if we say we'd cross d street. dey'll see us. if we go bak d way we came dey'll see us. there waz no where to hide. so there waz this tree beside us n i waz lyk hide behind d tre! so we went n hid behind d tree. but d tree would not conceal even 1 of us. b4 i knew it my cousin was lyin flat behind some flowers n she was pullin me get down get down. i waz lyk no way! passers-by were starin at us laffin. 1 guy was like... kun fita yawo ko?
nywayz my cousin was tellin me to get down i was lyk no way am gonna lie down on d street. pple r looking. and dey'll know we r out of d house. dey r probably out lookin 4 us now. lets jus turn in and confess. my cousin waz lyk wat? he'll kill us. b4 i knew it i was lyin down beside her. so after like a min a guy called out. ok u can get up now dey r gone. my cousin was lyk no, he wants us to get caught. so we w8ed for lyk anoda minute n den we stood up, looked around. dey were gone but pple were laffin at us.so we jus started runnin. i've never seen my cousin runnin til dat day1 she was too lazy to run. anywayz we were runnin and d embassy guardsmen wer tryin to block us tellin us we had to go bak and go the other way. we knocked dem down. dey almost fell. lol. we ran. we didnt evn look if there were cars on d street we started crossin. a car nearly hit us, my cousin went bak but i didnt stop til i reached home!
i went str8 up and ask fati if dey asked where we were. she waz lyk yea n i told dem u guyz went to amecon ( a shop). 1 mighty headache jus decended on me. i jus sat down there. not knowin wat to do. i waz lyk faiza am off. am goin home. i started down d stairs and she caught me n waz lyk u r not goin anywhere,. we must answer dis querry togeda. so we sat n w8ed . den l8er i waz like. hey y dont we call ur sis n ask if dey saw us! so we called her. wen she picked up she jus started laffin. my cousin asked her if they saw us n she was like."hahahaha toh ni dai bansan ko baba ya ganku ba" i swear i almost fainted. he'd kill us if he saw us lyin down on d street!!! anywayz in d end she told us dey hadnt seen us. but her mum was furious dat we went out n left d kids alone. and it turned out dey 4got sthn n came bak so their dad didnt even know we were out of d house. so we jus told their mom dat we went to d neighbours to collect some cds and we even saw dem wen dey were leavin. but dat headache did not leave me till d nxt day!
hehehehe...dama i trust Faiza with dis kind of thing! Allah ya kara 4 2 of u!
hehehehehehe Dat reminds mi, it's been long since i heard from Faiza sha.
Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"Come here sweetie.........Huggable Hugs. Let di boy go jare. You too a fine girl for him.
Fateez you are right on your words. Amman kinsa wasu mazan shegune. Idonso baya zama waje daya. Allah dai ya shirye masu yin haka.
Wallahi it's true. Thay have too much ruwan ido. another problem is when
a guy does sumtin wrong and gives u a stupid explanation and u listen to it,
then dey sort of gets this notion dat anytime he does sumtin stupid he'll
just cook up a stupid explanation to give u cos they'll believe u r stupid
enuff 2 listen to dem...kai infact some guys r horrible. Mufidah incase dat
guy comes back 2 u, let him suffer some more b4 u give him eye! !
WAI WAI WAI, LABARAI KALA KALA. NA SHA KARANCE KARANCE, IDANUNA HAR SUNYI ZAFI
hahah ! ....beautilicious..dama ance mara gaskia ko a ruwa ma gumi yake..
where's mufida...whut's latest?
u know whut ?? neva mind me blabbing way much much ..juss a matta of mind speaking..i've always bin outspoken since a toddler(LOL) ..yeah..erm.now..its time 4 a change..its 2005..time 4 a new betta me..time 2 work harder,play better,live life 2 d fullest,time 2 be nice but neva a walkover,time 2 medidate..life's too short 2 be wasted...time 2 worry abaut somethings but enjoy a lot more...i'll tell y'all whut i've got up my sleeves & whut's really up wit me later...but now??? k,ok,something really caught my attention..u know how dan-kauye be! he switches thots eezily(lol)
..Aren't funeral's s'posed 2 be occasions where ppl reflect abaut thier lives & whether they hav done enuff 2 justify thier x-sistence???.however there r always surprises when u get there coz not everyone attending shares d same sentiment..i wud not hav penned down (sorry ..i mean typed down)dis story if i hadn't heard an older gentleman(who stood next 2 me) xplaining 2 a younger guy whut shud-or shudn't be said or done on such occasions" i don't think there's book or manual that xplains how 2 behave @ a funeral " d guy said curtly,obviously annoyed by d older man's advise..
i looked around @ small clusters of ppl cracking jokes & laffing loudly as d body was lowered 2 d ground ,they were obviously insensitive 2 d bereaved family's grief & (some) thier presence was merely social..funerals are indeed opportunies 2 meet ppl as a freind wud remind me later ,but there was also a moral element 2 consider ..d freind in question tapped me on d shoulder & wispered " ba'a zumunchi yanzu so we don't get 2 see much these days until someone dies ''True'' i wispered back coz i cud not think of anything else 2 say ,,my frend later left me & went 2 shake hands wit all other ppl he hadn't seen in ages..it wasn't juss him who went abaut renewing his freindship @ d xpense of a dead man.At d cemetary dat day,many met & discussed skool,bussiness,d latest films they say & where they spent thier holidays(no kidding)..when d ritual was over ,som still lingered around 2 catching up wid d latest gossip & news!
Maybe they shud build a social club somewhere in d cemetry 4 such ppl.. i thot,complete wit snooker table & all.d guy who said there's no such thing as funeral manual quickly walked past me 2 d older man he rebuked earlier..i didn't catch whut he said but it looked like he was apologising .i think his conscience got d better of him or he must hav bin thinking of his own funeral when somebody else wud ask him questions abaut d real manual book (QURAN)over his grave.
A couple of days later as it turned out,i met dsame freind dis time @ d park its not somone's funeral ,is it?" he joked
I looked around @ d sight of little kids playing away..laffing & screeching wit delight & said ''it is difficult 2 tell d diffrence these days'' he thot i was mad until i xplained .."Oh that?" he said & broke in2 laffter .perhaps death does not mean d same thing these days
"I know whut u mean" i had 2 agree wit him '' ppl shuffle btw weddingfatihas & parties so often dat that funeral becomes another large gathering
"Only there are no invitation cards when somebody dies " he said
''Give it tyme it'll catch up soon "i said
When he walked away i jus stood @ dsame spot watching endless stream of ppl walking in & out of d center.I rememberd my mum's words"ppl watching is d gr8test therapy 4 a lonely soul "
Death unlike life,neva demands crowd yet d presence of ppl is almost a must .4 dat matta ,perhaps watching someone emarking on his last journey is therapeutic 4 some ppl.If it is ..then it might not be a bad thing 2 go 2 funerals after all....catch ya soonest!
You know,these days akwai ilimin addinin but we just dont use it the way we shud.It as you said kauyus,funerals shud make people more aware of how short life is and how one day we are all going to be put in that small hole.so that people leave the cemetaries a bit more determined to be better for the next few weeks or days kafin su manta.Toh sai gashi a makabartar ma basu tuna ba bare in sun fito.
Alah ya sawake, ya shirye mu.
Mufida i was touched when i read ur story,and is not only with young girls nowadays even women that married and got separeated tried to snatch husbands,is even better when you are not connected to the man,u can just called it off,but if u are married to him there is nothing u can do, be patient and just pray,u even made me fear because i was thinking of inviting ummita and her friend hafsy to my house for a smalla get to geether but now i have to think twice :lol: :lol: :lol:
Quote from: "kilishi"Mufida i was touched when i read ur story,and is not only with young girls nowadays even women that married and got separeated tried to snatch husbands,is even better when you are not connected to the man,u can just called it off,but if u are married to him there is nothing u can do, be patient and just pray,u even made me fear because i was thinking of inviting ummita and her friend hafsy to my house for a smalla get to geether but now i have to think twice :lol: :lol: :lol:
Wallahi kar ki fara!!! Ance ummita idon ta kaman da battery ya ke aiki, idon ta kallaci mutum sai kace an zuba mai ruwan sanyi :shock:
A'a wetin hot? I land all of wuna frown face. I missed all of you except one person :roll:
Kilishi..........ai in baki saniba jiya ai yazo gidanmu wajena ana yaci lunch shiyasa yace ya koshi daya dawo gida :evil:
By the way, got a story of my escapades whilst I was away on a trip. Correct show down....
Story will follow soon
Quote from: "kitkat"]
Wallahi kar ki fara!!! Ance ummita idon ta kaman da battery ya ke aiki, idon ta kallaci mutum sai kace an zuba mai ruwan sanyi :shock:
Are we talking from experience here?..........Hala ruwan sanyin ya zuba dan kanka :lol:? Or is it the battery eyes that has taken effect on you? :P
LOL LOL LOL ( I got you there kitkat didnt I)?
Oh boy I miss this place.................
Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"A'a wetin hot? I land all of wuna frown face. I missed all of you except one person :roll:
i believe i'm not the one peson!
Kilishi..........ai in baki saniba jiya ai yazo gidanmu wajena ana yaci lunch shiyasa yace ya koshi daya dawo gida :evil:
By the way, got a story of my escapades whilst I was away on a trip. Correct show down....
Story will follow soon
i be like say hafsy don they go for endless sleep,we na tori we dey wait for but na so tey she just kept us scratching eyes,we no no weda na for anoda style she take nak tde tory,any way hafsy we dey wait woooooooooooo :lol:
Ok, Kilishi there are three 5 big stories. Make your choice.
My big scandal with my husband and his brother or the one I got into a big trouble or the my mid lovelife crisis (well you know :lol: ) Or the major show down on my trip...........the police, aftermath of what happened b/w myself and mum & dad or what we did last summer with ummita. (The unthinkable!)
SISTER KILISHI, WALLAHI NA DANYI TAFIYE TAFIYA, BUT BEFORE YOU CHECK IN I WILL MAKE SURE I WRITE TO YOU THE BIG STORY. ABUN DAI BA'A CEWA KOMEI.
KINSAN ZANYI AURE KWANAN NAN, AMMAN YANZU NA DAKATAR DA BIKIN KANIN MEIGIDANA KESONA :lol: , HOW HE FOUND OUT AND WHAT HAPPENED SANNAN KUMA HOW HIS BESTFIREND WAS ONCE MY EX :roll:
Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"SISTER KILISHI, WALLAHI NA DANYI TAFIYE TAFIYA, BUT BEFORE YOU CHECK IN I WILL MAKE SURE I WRITE TO YOU THE BIG STORY. ABUN DAI BA'A CEWA KOMEI.
KINSAN ZANYI AURE KWANAN NAN, AMMAN YANZU NA DAKATAR DA BIKIN KANIN MEIGIDANA KESONA :lol: , HOW HE FOUND OUT AND WHAT HAPPENED SANNAN KUMA HOW HIS BESTFIREND WAS ONCE MY EX :roll:
Kuma ba kya jin kunyar fada.
Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"SISTER KILISHI, WALLAHI NA DANYI TAFIYE TAFIYA, BUT BEFORE YOU CHECK IN I WILL MAKE SURE I WRITE TO YOU THE BIG STORY. ABUN DAI BA'A CEWA KOMEI.
KINSAN ZANYI AURE KWANAN NAN, AMMAN YANZU NA DAKATAR DA BIKIN KANIN MEIGIDANA KESONA :lol: , HOW HE FOUND OUT AND WHAT HAPPENED SANNAN KUMA HOW HIS BESTFIREND WAS ONCE MY EX :roll:
wELLCOME MY DERA NOT DEAR HAFSY HOW YUNA DEY,I HAVE BEEN WAITING SSINCE NMAKE SURE SAY THE TORU DON REDY BEFORE I CATCH YA,MAKE SURE SAY DE BOBI NO GET YOU WO :P
Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady" ZANYI AURE KWANAN NAN, AMMAN YANZU NA DAKATAR DA BIKIN KANIN MEIGIDANA KESONA :lol: , HOW HE FOUND OUT AND WHAT HAPPENED SANNAN KUMA HOW HIS BESTFIREND WAS ONCE MY EX :roll:
Haaaaa :?: :shock: bigi talk. too hot to handle. Since u don dakatar, kan you aksept afflikashon :?: 8) LOLOLOLOLOL
may be hafsy don marrry d boy be that and i be like say the old bra don hit her mouth jammm naso she no fit talk till now by the time she stand up to talk..................
TODAY, am going to gist you the gist. Kilishi but I will have to go out, when I come back I will give you the write up.
By the way, ya gida? Ya maigida da yara duk ki gaishe su
Sallama
I'll risk being called a spoiler. But can we get more people who post alot here to participate or on the general board? The general board deals with more serious and pressing issues.
To a chigaba da tattauna frivolities.
Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"TODAY, am going to gist you the gist. Kilishi but I will have to go out, when I come back I will give you the write up.
ALL TALK 'n' NO ACTION *(hisssssssssssssssssss)* :roll:
UMMITA GIDANKUUUUUUUUUUUU KINJI KO :twisted:
Ok this seriously happened. December 25th 2005 at around 3:45pm, I was staying over a nieces house, who was newly wed. We chatted till the hours of 2pm when she retired to her husbys room. I decided to make a few calls before I get a good nights sleep. I finally settle to got to bed but my throat felt dry and am used to sleeping with a glass of water close by. I went down to get a glass of water and noticed my nieces huge fridge was was left ajar and I taught I saw a manly figure. I was about to tip toe back to my room thinking it was my nieces husby when I remembered he has travelled out of town. I was cursing my niece for being so lazy not to clean up after her but something funny else happened. On the floor I almost slipped on something from the lights coming from the fridge it was well poured on the floor it was milk. I taught of wiping it off but I was so tired so I got my bottle of water and went to bed. I was going to play some Tracy Chapman but I taught otherwise, so I picked up my Sudais and was heart reciting Suratul Ammah. I felt guitly for leaving spilled milk and my mind was not at rest. So I threw on my bed robe and went downstairs. Now something strange happened. All the spilled milk on the floor was gone. I was a little startled and I taught my niece cleaned it up. My niece woke me up for breakfast and we were busy grubbing when I said to her that I can see she is making a good wife by pouring food on the floor, she taught it was my usual teases when I went on to say, so you also didnt sleep till about 4pm. She now asked what I was on about, so I said to her am on about the milk she spilled last night. My cousin said what millk, I was begigining to get upset and curse myself for comming to my nieces (dama we dont really get along, but because she claimed I was the only one who hasnt stayed over at her place :roll: ) Anyway she completely denied it and made me look stupid and I taught, probably I was having a dejavu. We went shopping came home, I rang my old woman we all chatted and watched movie after movie. At around 11;45pm I told her I was going up to pray my Shaf'i & wutri and would be back soon. I prayed and I was making du'a when I heard voices, sounding like little kids. I peeped thourhg a window which was facing her guest house and saw a boy and a girl playing on a heep of sad. After my prayer I went downstairs and told my niece that I know how young amarai like to complain about being lonely when they husbands away and why wont she invite those little cute kids who I presumed might be her gatemans kids. She looked at me in the strangest way and asked what kids? I replied the once living in your guest. She cracked up saying Malam Idi youngest son is almost 30years and that no one was staying at her back house. I turned serious. I swore on seeing them and she said there are no kids and infact her neigbour whose house is not even attached to hers just gave birth recently. I was a little scared but kept a bold face. After residing to bed, I made my dua'a but something wouldnt let me sleep. I kept hearing tuds and tubs and kids gigling. And honestly speaking these kids were speaking something I cant understand but I could tell they were playing. Soon I heard like little scratches on my windown and I taught it was raining. Something moved near my forehead and I was so freaked that I began to shake, I reached out to touch my forehead and noticed it was my hair. I pulled it back into my scarf and wanted to pull my covers, when I noticed something so tall standing almost next to my bed. Something so so so tall, never seen nothig like it. I cant explain how I felt, I felt hot, dizzy, scared and I could even move a finger. I taught the earlier I make a move the better. I said a quick dua (SO HELPED ME GOD_ & quickly grabbed my phone and had the camera lights on. I went for the lights and quickly went to my nieces room. I barged in and woke her up. I told her that I saw something strange. Anyway we made du'a and slept on the same bed. The next morning she told me, since she stepped foot into her matrimonial home she has been noticing some strange things and she has only been praying. So we tried to shut it off our minds and she was making samosas and chicken for me for dinner because I told her I have been craving for it. AT 9pm we sat to watch some movies and do some gossiping. All was well, when we heard a loud bang from upstairs. We looked at each other like we didnt want to go but I didnt know what moved my leg and we went up stairs on the floor was a big framed picture of my cousin and her Ango. She said (God now I have to buy a new frame) but something else got me thinking, how can this framed pic fall when it was well mounted above a mantel piece! Anyway we picked the shattered glasses and my niece was about to go down and get a hoover, when she turned round and asked if I have closed the door. I gave her an insulting looking asking her if my name rhymed with stupid, but she turned serious on me and said Hafsy, I cant get the door open. Sheeeeesh, now I was getting panicky and scared and this was so weird to happen and my instincts gave me this pooky vibe. So I started reciting a du'a grabbed the door knob and pulled hard and it opened. We went down stairs and believe me from no where we saw this white chicken in the house. Where was a white chicken standing on my own plate of samosas. Boi, come we screamed ran from one wall to another and then back up the stairs. We called the gateman (Malam Idi) who came running, and he came in. We came downstairs, my niece manage to grap her gyalle, I grabbed at nothing only my bedroom slippers and the clothes I had on. He looked up and said he didnt see nothing but that he wants us to come and have a sit he wants to talk to Hajiya. I looked around thinking which Hajiya, then remembered that my niece is married and is Hajiya now :roll: He said he didnt see anything but teh way he looked at tell told me there more than that. He said he had something to tell us and it is in our best interest to listen. That ever since the building of this house commenced and he became a gate man to the uncompleted house till it was occupied by the owner and his wife (my niece) that weird things have been happining. In short he claimed for the house to be haunted. My throat went dry as I began to recall the strange things and I taught....s***s am in a real horror show. When I remembered I found it hard to believe but with what this old man was saying we couldnt move an inch. I felt nature call but was too scared to go bathroom alone. My cousins is next to useless to be an escort and I cant ask baba dan tsoho to walk with me to toilets. I was also shaking, I felt my temperature rise high and as I have never witnessed these scary things in my life. The old man said, that during his days, the land which was built upon was a big bush with a big heap of an ants house & was being claimed to have been guarded by the "others" boi, that ticked me off! I was so close to peeing myself off. And that many stories circulated it but he didnt want to tell my nieces husbsy so that people wont say he is hating (I taught hold on onld man, hate or no hate, you should have told him, at this moment my life is important). I didnt know when I began to punch numbers, and quickly made a call ordering someone come right away. In no heavens way was I spending another hour in that house. No freaking way!!! I was reciiting du'as calling on Gods protection but I dont wanna see nothing, not spilled milk, or kids or some strange poll moving thing or a chicken smelling on my samosas. I wanna be in the comfort of my zone. I wanted home right away. The car came and we quickly went up to gather our stuff. My niece was coming too. She will stay with us till her husby comes home. Her housegirl was due back from Sunday church and we gave a message to the maigaurd that she has 3wks off and she could come to my house to get some spending fee. I packed from my neices house and from a wk my niece ended spending 4wks. Her husby was told and he also said he faced some strange things too but he was always praying in the house. But that he will not put his dear beloved wife back at that house since she has no peace of minf but will move to one of his houses, which my niece is so inlove with the house.
So I dont know if I should believe that I saw something, or not to believe that what that Malam Idi said was true or should I say I was imaging what I saw, if I do, what of what my niece and hubby and Malam Idi said to have seen? Anyway since that day, I have not stepped that street.
AS FOR THE HOUSE, I HEAR ITS UP IN THE MARKET. ANYONE INTERESTED? ITS WELL BUILT AND BEAUTIFUL
Hafsy_Lady,
Wow - Very interesting and gripping true life Story. Let?s have some more...
QuoteAS FOR THE HOUSE, I HEAR ITS UP IN THE MARKET. ANYONE INTERESTED? ITS WELL BUILT AND BEAUTIFUL
. . .
Where and how much?
Quote from: "sdanyaro"Hafsy_Lady,
Wow - Very interesting and gripping true life Story. Let?s have some more...
QuoteAS FOR THE HOUSE, I HEAR ITS UP IN THE MARKET. ANYONE INTERESTED? ITS WELL BUILT AND BEAUTIFUL
. . . Where and how much?
Oh..the name of the movie shud be adventuresof Oga admin..i was :shock: :shock: @ you asking ''where & how much''..well,good luck with ur new house if but it. :wink:
:shock: :shock: :shock: Hafcy,I don't know what to call it..a story or an experince? u sure it's not dejavu as u mentioned earlier? one thing's for sure though:CREEPY ..in my own words..i've always hear about 'people's of people' at boarding schools,newly built houses and all..but i've been close to anything near them*bless me* :lol:
and oooh,why do the weirdest things keep going on way?
Sounds like a poltergeist haunting. No one understands these things but there are plenty of examples of these from all around the world. They are different from ghosts as they move things and make noise. They very often stop as suddenly as they started. Some of them have been wicked and violent. Classic study of this phenomena has been done by Colin Wilson who has written many books on ghosts, hauntings, poltergeists and the occult. Don't read them when you're alone at night!
I suspect these prove conclusively the existence of a spirit world beyond this world and that here are evil spirits as well as good ones.
Further to my last post there is a lot of information about poltergeists on the web.
There is no common theory about what these manifestations are but some scientists think that the disturbances are caused by troubled mental states of people in the house becoming physical in nature.
Others beleive that the negative electrical enenrgy than emanates from people in troubled or worried mental state can be utilised by other world spirits to cause the actual physical disturbances.
Others again feel that the manifestations are entirely paraphysical and emanate directly from spirits that may be of deceased persons or devils.
These things undoubtedly happen, however.
Look up
"POPPER THE POLTERGEIST" at www.prairieghosts.com
or
POLTERGEISTS at www.zerotime.com/ghosts/polter.htm
or
POLTERGEIST
at www.unexplained-mysteries.com/article poltergeists.shtml
C'mmon Dave dont talk as ip u dont know Hafsy again!
Quote from: "sdanyaro"Hafsy_Lady,
QuoteAS FOR THE HOUSE, I HEAR ITS UP IN THE MARKET. ANYONE INTERESTED? ITS WELL BUILT AND BEAUTIFUL
. . . Where and how much?
IS THAT A CONSIDERATION.........FOR PURCHASE? :shock: [/b]
Yes ummita. THIS IS A CONSIDERATION FOR PURCHASE.... Just Where and how much? Let Hafsy_Lady tell us.
La la la laaaaaa! Har Da kai ma?
8) funny, I miss all of this so much. God bless u for keeping this place alive ya'll. I love u...
EID IS ROUND THE CONER, IT CATAPULTED ME TO WRITE UP A SPOOKY EXPERIENCE I HAD.
I always used to tell my relative, make d less privileged happy.....this eid....go out there find some1 who is in deep desperation n do something good 4 him/her. Juss once on dat special day, raise their spirits up, n let dem know dey not neglected n d only ONE dey serve n worship hasn't deserted dem. Then u can go bck home & sleep n sleep n sleep. Dats how I get-by Eid. Juss get a random person on d street pull dem aside giv dem some fresh cloth, food or money n walk away........ This was how my "mother theresa" ways, got me in this............
Ehem but b careful, d last time I tried doing this, I got some girl running off high-pitched & screaming "JAMA'A GA WANI MATA ZATA KAMANI, YER YANKA KAI A MOTA ME BAKAR GILES" Naceh, toh, innalillahi and before you could say sprint, I have been circled by some muscles supposedly meant to be the district guards aka: area boys. I had 2 explain & was eventually understood and Gawd, they can look!!!!! Kai!!! Anyway I was cursing at the back of my breath, damn little bratty dense girl, thinking I was some human slayer when I was only trying to help. I couldn't help being cynical to myself: "Oh I didn't know I was this evil looking". I ended up giving my little gesture to some old woman, who cried, hugged me and sanctified me with prayers, never minding how she baptized me with saliva from her toothless oranged/redish mouth consequential from eating goro I suppose.
Story 2: For some absurd reason, I grew fond this old woman and within weeks I made a habit formation of visiting her during my stay. Every time I was in town I was eager to see her but always apprehensive for fear that she might change her sitting place. However, my fears are put to rest once I spot her sitting next under a tree next to a little shop and positioned as an armrest is her big freight tied in a rugged scarf, which is observably heavy-looking. I came along this time with a new bag because I took notice of her tied miscellaneous but she told me she didn't like the bag but favored her things just as they where (nimah dai, sabi over sabi). I was abit irate but taught rational about it, sentimental attachment, she likes her clothes/accessories tied up as it is. I am known for y sentimental attachments on things too. She calls me baturiya, a name I never liked but owned up to it because of the respect I have for her. Alternatively, I call her Adda. I asked her name and she told me I should call her what ever I desire. Anway, on my subsequent visit, I decided to arrange her stuff and as I was rummaging through it, there was all sorts. Empty match box, spoon, tooth paste, this little skirt with a zipper in front which has old coins and even corals, torchlight batteries, one pair of slippers, lamp burner and the whole cloth smelt of kerosene including new items from me. She could be frustratingly stubborn and funny. I once managed to convince her to sew only one wrapper and she wont allow me to remove the label for her. And she knows exactly the contents of her tied items. I surreptitiously hid d empty matchbox, the battery that has started leaking due to heat, watching her closely just incase she saw me. She caught me off guard when she said "baturiya maida min kaya na". I got really scared because she wasn't even looking at me. I made asinine excuses and left. I didn't visit her again till after 2wks, because I was really petrified and she had this power aura that will incarcerate you have to visiting her again and again. Counting on, I visted this woman more than 22 times, that am very sure. On no account did I mind how dirty she looked, or her bad breath or her wrinkly her hands rested on my careful manicured, smooth hands (she laffs). Ok, ok, in any case I was not even moved by the astonishment on faces of onlookers who seem to constantly stare and stare. I didn't care; I was there to see my friend. Story had it, that Adda is survived by no1. No mother, no father, no children or grand children and has no siblings at all. D only sibling she had died 8yrs back from unknown causes or so she told people. I taught she might have and designed and fashioned her story because no one even knows of her origin. I once asked her but she refused confirming. She also has this rampant personality transformation. One minute she is very snobbish, arrogant and rude to me next minute she is all hay and mellow. She sometimes says the nastiest that makes you wanna pull her onto the road and drive over her till she becomes puree :-\ and before you know it she is back being sweet. Yay! No, trust me I taught of that too but no, she does not suffer from any mental disorders, no split personality disorders, no depression, no dementia or psychosis. She is sane.
I asked her where she sleeps at night but she would never answer and I told her if she wanted a home but she simply told me to mind my business insisting she has a territory and has made her mark there. I could not help but wonder if that territory was safe and conducive for her and whether it offered sufficient protection. I don't even understand what she meant by making a mark in her zone! I took my cousin on one of my visits and immediately my cousin saw her, she said there was something she didn't like about the woman and she gives her an eerie feeling. I paid my cousin no mind, as she was known to be superbly exaggerative and a drama queen. On reaching under the tree. She looked at me and said "baturiya, kice mah yar uwa naki bana duka" I just felt sick and felt like throwing up because I really got frightened and nervous. Again, I tried to keep myself calm and serene but felt weak at knees and ended up making excuses to leave. I decided not to ever see her, but after 3 days I found myself heading to her "zone". She started buying me a tin of fried groundnut, even though I hate G'nuts I still collected it, and could not but get my act on: my art of pretentious appreciation. Something very disturbing was once d magrib prayer calls, she gets really discourteous and arrogant and will pester me to leave as she does not welcome my presence anymore and if I destest I should never come to see her again nace meh yayi zafi koh! She will only relax and plaster this sheepish smile if she sees me driving off. I drive off hissing and cursing about how ungrateful she was. I have a mother and grandmum just because I took a little liking of you does not certify you to drive me away! You know, that part of being human, makes you think and say all sorts. Distance was my only problem; I went to see her couple of months ago and was so eager to introduce her to someone who I certainly know will like her too but all I felt was not heartwarming. Something was amiss. I taught my prediction came true, she has finally moved places. There was only one person to ask, someone who also liked the woman. I asked for the man who had the little shop but was told to wait five minutes that he was observing his magrib prayer. After cordiality I explained and he said to remember me as the one who visits an old lady months back. I got excited, eager to show her off, and then something hit me hard. All I heard was "Allay yeryi mata rasuwa", she died four months bck after magrib prayer but she mentioned twice of you, malama some time back. He said he took care of her burial rights, as she had nobody. I asked if she died due to illness, but he told me she was hale and hearty but died under her tree. This time I could not even look toward the tree but held tight to my company and I felt teary. The man told me not to cry but added that in the process of her burial, they kept digging out kola nuts and the soil very damp and moist. My tummy churned, I felt sick and suffocated. I didn't know if it was fear that got me into a panic attack or simply because she passed away? I wasn't crying but I turned just numb and fixated, no emotions at all. I didn't even know how we drove back home or the conversation going on around; I just wanted to go to bed. I was sick for 3 days. After 2months, I only had a flash back of her once. Then lately, when my cousin said...."ummita wey dat your weird unconnected n unrelated granmama that you were slaving for", I smiled & said "Allah sarki wallah har na fara manta da ita" and went back on what I was eating. I didn't sleep well that night. I started having strange dreams, not scary but abit unpleasant and she was the lead role who featured in my dreams. Don't laugh, seriously! I discussed it with the person who was meant to meet her, but only thanked God for not meeting her. And my cousin said perhaps I had to start regular visits to, and before she could say another word, I ran off screaming out of my room.
I cant help but marvel over: who is she? I also had a strange encounter few year back when I went to paid homage to the holy land and till present I cant understand who I met. I don't know, but Lord knows, am not at ease giving out any charity again especially to strangers.
Quote from: Hafsy_Lady on January 26, 2006, 10:52:52 PM
UMMITA GIDANKUUUUUUUUUUUU KINJI KO :twisted:
THANKS
Quote from: Hafsy_Lady on January 26, 2006, 10:52:52 PM
I was going to play some Tracy Chapman but I taught otherwise, so I picked up my Sudais and was heart reciting Suratul Ammah.
You? Hafsy, Na lie! Am ninety nine point nine one and a quarter percent sure no b Sudais u put.......since when u turn holy?
Quote from: Hafsy_Lady on January 26, 2006, 10:52:52 PM
She now asked what I was on about, so I said to her am on about the milk she spilled last night. My cousin said what millk, I was begigining to get upset and curse myself for comming to my nieces. Anyway she completely denied it and made me look stupid and I taught, probably I was having a dejavu. I
Omo, meyyynnn..........ba wani dejavu.....u don begin 2 loose it upstairs!!!
Quote from: Hafsy_Lady on January 26, 2006, 10:52:52 PM
Sheeeeesh, now I was getting panicky and scared and this was so weird to happen and my instincts gave me this pooky vibe. So I started reciting a du'a grabbed the door knob and pulled hard and it opened.
Am in stitches........lol, lol, lol. I wish I was there, just 2 c how ur face lukd! Dang!!!! Lol lol lol
But I heard that the house was demolished and the area will resurface as a primary school. Is dat correct? :-\
Whoa spooky stories, ummita your story reminds me of my encounter of an old lady
at my time spent in nija, but i dint get to know her well to find out whether she was spooky, i just use to call her hajiya.
She always was in this lungu sitting there with her kulle kulle takarkachen ta,i cant rememba whether she was blind or deaf but she did have one of theses disabilities.
next time i go naija i'll check up on her thats if tanana da ranta.
Talking of spooky... an old lady who happened to be a friend of a relative of mine came to visit my relative one day. Unknown to me, this woman was possessed by benign aljannu, even though they sometimes lied to her. Anyway, the day I first saw her, she made a horrendous prediction that someone was going to pass away in our house. We were all shocked to say the least, but managed to throw our suspicions as to whom she meant out of our minds bcos we didnt want to remember that there was illness in the house. Then about 3 weeks later, one of my best friends died, and then I thought to myself, that's whom she must have meant or so I thought. But then my friend didnt live in our house. After about three months, a very very close member of the house died, but it wasnt the one everyone thought was so obviously going to pass away, so the association with her prediction didnt come to mind and by then, I'd completely forgotten about that horrid prophesy and the old lady as well.
Eight days after the death, she came to pay her condolences, crying softly. The moment I saw her, I felt as if someone had punched a hole in my stomach, because it all came rushing back and I felt like OMG!!!..I didnt let it show though. I had to receive her, bcos my relative was not there. Said the usual things and accepted the condolences etc. Later she said that she was leaving so I escorted her to the door and as she was leaving, she asked me about one of my kids and my heart went right through the floor. Immediately she said to me
' Oh no! no! no! no! dont be scared!'
and I hadnt said a word to her or betrayed anything by an action. It was just the adrenaline that rushed through me!!.. Gosh was I glad to see the back of her!! I havent seen her since, thank God!
Spooky...Husnaa don't ever believe in abubuwan da irin wadannan mutanen ke fadi....They'll make you paranoid.
@Ummita, u try o!
Goga, If you do not believe in spooky things, like ajannu and others, then please do. It is true and even the Prophet himself has done Rukiyya on people afflicted by the jins and it cured them. The jinns are everywhere and living within and out of humans. May Allahu SWT protect and defend us against them, amen.
I think GGNK does believe in Jinns, after all there is a surah called Al Jinn in the holy Qur'an. What I think GGNK meant was that one shouldnt believe in what ppl possessed of these kind of spirits say to one and one should certainly not act upon their words.
The story I told above is just a small section of a bigger picture, or the ending of the whole picture, which I didnt go into and it includes why I also agree with GGNK as to why one shouldnt believe irin abubuwan da mutanennan suke fada.
Its like this:
One day, a woman who was related to me by marriage sent me an urgent message that she wanted to see me. She gave me a date and a venue to meet her somewhere. I was quite intrigued and everything sounded so clandestine that I decided to honor the request. Not that I would have refused to see her cos I really liked this woman, despite her penchant for visiting malamai and masu dubiya.
On the date appointed, I went to see her at the meeting place. What she told me was that there was a mayya stalking my son and that she wanted me to have a talk with some woman who was a cowrie thrower. I must say that I took her words very seriously. The reason for this was because previously, about a yr or so, I'd had a nanny whom I caught saying to my seven yr old son that she will eat his kurwa! I was just entering the room when I heard her utter the words. I didnt freak out, but needless to say, I sent her packing. Then after her, I got another nanny, a nice old lady who also seemed to have had a brush with mayu and was forever telling stories about the dream fights between a maye and the one whom he/she wanted to consume. Still after she left ( I was sorry to see her go, she was so trustworthy and good at keeping her word, but prickly as a porcupine as well) I got another nanny who swore that some of her relatives were mayu. (this one still lives with me despite her mayu relatives...going on 11 yrs kenan, because we seemed to have gelled nearly perfectly...well kowa na hakuri da kowa actually).
Well anyway, at the time of my being told that a mayya was stalking my fat plump handsome little boy, I grew very apprehensive having listened to these tales of mayu and heard someone threatening my son. So I agreed to see the cowrie thrower. She told me that one of my sons was sick and that a mayya was out to get him....At this point in time, this nice but prickly old lady was living with me in her capacity as nanny. So when I got home, very sick and worried myself, I told her what transpired. She said to me look what you should do is get some water in a cup and recite La Haula wa la Kuwwata illa billah in the cup of water, as many times as you wish, give it to yr son to drink, rub the dregs of the water over him and teach him to recite La Haula wala Kuwwata illa billahi as well. The relief that washed over me at her words was enormous, because the soothsayer had told me to do something which entailed doing shirk and I told her I'd think about it. So I did exactly as my nan told me almost every day until gradually the apprehension left me and I never went back to that woman again.
Anyway, that wasnt the end of it. U c when the soothsayer finished telling me about my son, she looked at me in a critical way and said that I had two light complexioned women who were my friends but that I should be careful with them because they didnt like me. I was flabbergasted to say the least! Indeed I had two friends who were both half cast. I was very good friends with them and liked them enormously and I knew without a doubt that none of them was a two faced friend to me. But I knew something else: they didnt really like each other. I couldnt and never believed what this cowrie thrower told me, because my relationship with each was such that each of them would bare her heart out to me, tell me what was troubling her, her marital problems, and I would do vice versa. I mean I remember a time when one of them was telling me something that happened between her and her spouse and she was weeping. So how could it be that a person who could open up to one that much be an enemy? So I said to myself privately, that that couldnt be right. However ofcourse I couldnt rid my mind of what she said but I still didnt believe her.
Then it dawned on me. The previous day the day before I went to see the cowrie thrower, I was talking to another woman who was also related to me through marriage and whom I knew disliked me intensely and I mean intensely, although she wasnt the kind that would opt for an open confrontation. Her sort was a covert kind of dislike and doing things behind one's back and that kind of thing but up front, everything looked fine and dandy. Knowing that she really didnt like me that much, I pretty much never have much to do with her, except if its really necessary. So for the life of me, I dont know what got us into a convivial conversation to the extent that I told her about these two erstwhile friends of mine who couldnt get along with each other and how I was feeling kind of in the middle of it and not very comfortable with the situation.
So I reckoned that aljannun wannan mai cowries din must have picked up on the vibes coming off from that woman whom I didnt get on well with, and pretty much mixed it up with the conversation about my two friends that I had with her and the fact that they didnt get along with each other and turned it around, so that instead of she - related to me through marriage - being the one who disliked me, it was my two really wonderful friends who were supposed to dislike me....
That is why the words of those soothsayers should be just left where they were picked up.
That old woman who predicted a death in the house? The first day she saw me, before she made her prediction, she said to me: ur son is sick and a mayya is stalking him. Exactly what that cowrie thrower had told me previously; she even went further to tell me where the mayya lived. Her own solution to the problem was more, much more drastic than the cowrie throwers. Indeed I recoiled with revulsion inwardly when I heard her say what she would do if I gave her leave to do it. Alhamdu lillahi I was on La Haula wa la kuwwata illa billah and everything worked out.
Still after her the death, she came to condole, and that was when she asked about my son, that particular one and my heart went right through the floor as I said previously and immediately she said:
"Oh no! no! no! dont be scared... !"
horror of horrors!
To Hajaj Allah dai ya karemu daga wadan nan mutanen
Ameen.
I shouldnt have read this, this night. I keep looking at my window and checking under my bed. Honestly, am reciting ayat Kursiy now. Am not going to lie about it but am spooked.
Quote from: amira on December 18, 2007, 06:58:50 PM
To Hajaj Allah dai ya karemu daga wadan nan mutanen
Ameen.
Ameen Ameen Amira ;D
Quote from: ummita on December 19, 2007, 04:21:18 AM
I shouldnt have read this, this night. I keep looking at my window and checking under my bed. Honestly, am reciting ayat Kursiy now. Am not going to lie about it but am spooked.
Sorry to spoil yr night Ummita ! ;D
Dan ma ban bada labarin the time I had an encounter with an aljanni ba...? I couldnt see it, but I could see the bolt to my door being moved up and down by something invisible....... true true honestly ba karya ba....
A'a aunty Husnaa....this is not a horror thread o! Please o! kin san an ce yawan maganar su yana janwo su.
Allah ya kare mu daga sharrin duk wani abu mai sharri.
I always admire the love mothers have over their children.One cannot repay them in anyway.
Kada ki yi wasa da addu'oin da Annabi ya bayar na kariya ga yara.
Ayatul kursiyy before they sleep.
Surah's Ikhlas,Falak and Nas...recite 3X and blow on the palms them rub your palms all over the child's body.
A'udhu bi kalimatillahit taammat min sharri ma khalaq 3 or 7X.
There are a lot of preventive measures that Islam provides against the affliction of evils and wallahi they are very effective.
You can find lots of them in the small book Hisnul Muslim.
Quote from: gogannaka on December 20, 2007, 12:52:11 AM
A'a aunty Husnaa....this is not a horror thread o! Please o! kin san an ce yawan maganar su yana janwo su. Allah ya kare mu daga sharrin duk wani abu mai sharri.
Lol! even talking about them in cyberspace? hahahahaha. Wallahi na fi jin tsoron sharrin dan Adam da na aljani. Anyway, Allah ya kare mu daga sharrin duk wani abu mai sharri. Ameen ameen.
Quote from: gogannaka on December 20, 2007, 12:52:11 AMKada ki yi wasa da addu'oin da Annabi ya bayar na kariya ga yara.
Ayatul kursiyy before they sleep.
Surah's Ikhlas,Falak and Nas...recite 3X and blow on the palms them rub your palms all over the child's body.
A'udhu bi kalimatillahit taammat min sharri ma khalaq 3 or 7X.
There are a lot of preventive measures that Islam provides against the affliction of evils and wallahi they are very effective.
You can find lots of them in the small book Hisnul Muslim.
Thanks for the duas.
WARNING VERY LONG.....................
I arrive with another platter of story & worrisome one this time. Am at the edge of my seat, so if anyone can help with an honest, matured and focused advice, please dish it out. Hafsy and the entourage of male opponents take note: No gender politics on this one. Ladies, its man problem again wo!
I want to give a brief scenario so that you guys can have a clear idea of how I am caught it the middle of a triangle. 8 childhood friends, all honest and clear-cut to a point. Being among and actually related to 5 of the girls, of the remaining two, it was just pure fate that brought us together. We all went to different institutions except 4 2 of d girls and we undertook different programs for our undergrads and postgrads & luckily this time one of the girls and myself ended up doing the same postgrad course and in d same class. Years went by, 3 of d girls got married and started a family, now mothers, they named their daughters after two of my freinds and the other who gave birth to male twins named one after my fathers name and made the other freind a namesake to dads. One of the girls completed her undergrads but refused to carry on, instead got married to someone old enough to be our granddad (but we simply supported her because that was what she wants, and so long it makes her happy, so be it). The other got married, husband murdered and now a widow. And so stories went for the rest three girls too. Of course our characters differed: we had the chatterbox, the hot tempered & obnoxious, the quite, nonchalant and very deep, the mrs big moma who played mother to all of us, our crazy mrs anteteh who just believes she is Igbo and related to Nnamdi Azikwe, our timid freind who has a soft spot for anything, and lastly our dearest, funniest, craziest, illest and most adored person who brings life to a dull house! We were all very bonded and recognized and this chain of bond transferred to another level: our mothers, fathers and relatives all bonded too. We maintained our little circle based on respect for one another, never dipping fingers into things that were meant to be private any one of us, gossiping was not a thing for us either. Friendship based on mutual fidelity and respect and not some crappy sorority sisterhood. We were and still is bonafide. We knew each other very well and were so used to each other to a point that we can interact and pass messages by just glancing at each other and we know exactly what we are on about. So most of our plans always worked. We could simply walk into a hospital bearing either a Mrs Abubakar or Mrs Ibrahim and the nurses wouldn't even know and so twice we all went for one of the babies first immunization and when a Mrs Abubakar was called, we all rose, nurses had to ask who the real mother of the baby was. And we did let our childish parts get the best of us & it was fun! Anyway, I think you have an idea it was more than just friends, but better sisters. You with me? Now here's the bugger!!!!...........
Last year August, I visited the "hot-tempered & obnoxious" friend who was expecting a baby. We chatted, lunched and in process a phone call came through and it was my friends her elder sister who was sending a new house help for my friend because she was not fit to do house chores for the time being. I couldn't help cracking up when I heard my friend telling her older sister to ensure that the house help is 'yar mummuna' and also she don't like any 'cutesy'. She ended her call and turned to me saying 'haka kawai ummita, yarinya tazo tayi min roundabout da maigida'. How she don't want no fine house girl, before she takes up the adjacent room. I was laughing and thinking she is still the same ol in I always knew but told her that beauty was skin deep. Anyway Around magrib time, this young girl was brought over as the new house-help and behold, it was just what my friend wanted. So we sat to talked business, telling her she could do anything was to feel free because she will be treated part and parcel like a family and not a maid. She had a comfortable room and she can do whatever she feel liked except that she should NEVER, EVER step near her husbands room". I quickly grew fond of the girl because she was so modest and looked very religious. But watching the whole thing unfold in amusement between my friend and her new help was all too funny to bear. Anyway that ended.
It was time for me to go before I got in trouble. So I said my goodbyes and left. As I drove out I remembered, and screamed at my friend, ki gaishe da maigidanki and she replied "u gone off yah head, so its now you asking after my husband? Well he traveled". Laughing and feeling abit shameful for not asking, I waved but told me to stop, reminding me that we would be visiting another friend because her little girl was having a birthday party. I had so much to do, and trying to see if I can pick up some plantain on my way home because that was the only thing I wanted to eat that night but proceeded to a gift shop intending to pick up a birthday present Funny enough, I spotted my friends husbands car, whose house I have just left. I taught, stupid liar, told me her husband out of town, second taughts, and might be the driver. Oh well, I had task to complete before I called it a day.. I ducked my head beneath d steering wheel searching for my other shoe and contemplating whether to just run out bare foot, pick and pay for what I want and look like a complete toss or just make life easier for myself and just switch the courtesy light n look for my other shoe. I was just about to do so, when my eye zoomed into an identified human. I was shocked to bones! So it's true, men could do such!!!! A living witness and through my rear screen, I watched My friends husband who was supposedly meant to be on a trip was walking towards the parking lot with some young girl and they were holding hands.. I didn't know why, why, why and I am still cursing myself and regretting: but all I did was duck low and pulled myself low, feeling squeezed beneath the footrest and the steering wheel. I don't know why I did that, hiding for no crime committed!!!! I was so shocked and end of my little plantain and gift hunting. I was in an anti-freeze state until his car drove out of the parking lot. I didn't know what I was supposed to do. Drive after him and stop him and call him a traitor or call my friend. All I kept muttering on my drive home was: he said her he traveled, how could he? I was just silently praying, Ya Allah, tell me its just his look-alike.It can't be him. But hell, whom was I fooling, it was him!!!
I came home silently shocked & all night I kept thinking on how my friend always praised her husband and truly I also knew he was kind at heart and he adored my friend. What I didn't know was that he was a damn alley cat who was out crawling! And I still couldn't comprehend: for the love of God; wat was he thinking? What does he find appealing in those small secondary "buy me school provision" girls? Or has he seriously lost it upstairs? I refused to call my friend and tell her. I didn't know whom to tell but I was very tempted on telling but to whom? I didn't know if I should call any of the girls. I don't know what my friends reaction would be if I tell her knowing she has a bad venom for rage! One things for sure, she will definitely go Ape! And with an ill temper she could do worse. More so, I don't like dipping my fingers in things that concerns me not, especially issues regarding family because I find the idea of being a causative factor to a marital breakdown apalling. However, I don't want my friend being played out right a fool! There she was at home breeding his offspring and out he was playing home and away.
After marinating over to tell or not to tell for many days, I made a strong-will and kept shut. Now it was my conscious that was on brawl, thinking: is this me betraying or simply doing what I think I should do for the benefit of both parties but to the detriment of one?
Now I taught I had everything behind. I thanked God, no drama, even though the curtains came down after weeks.
Then comes 26th January 2008, my little cousin was staying over holidays and asked me if she it was alright if she two of her friends came by, certainly I didn't mind especially if they were decent girls because the last time, I had this bad/illest girl around, she was teaching my lil cousin some raunchy dance called dutty wine and tutoring her how to use ghetto Ajegunle English to insult people! Uhn, uhn not having that! So her friends arrived smiling, I inspected their decency and modesty, well trained I taught. Big tick! I was bringing out my grinded timatir to make a big pot of stew (ok, for the ajebos....tomarro puree), when this girl walked in and said to me ina wuni? Billion things were fighting up my brains. I know this girl somewhere........and ding! I remembered, my grinded tomato bowl gave way and marked from floors, to the walls, to the cabinets, to our clothes, tomato everywhere! I could not even answer this girls greetings.. It was that girl!!!!! That girl!!!!! That very girl I saw at the shops with my friend's husband. Unknown to me, she attends the same secondary school with my cousin. I didn't know which would be better, pull out my visible bread knife hanging on its rail and dice that girl into chucks or simply tell her to leave or, or, or, all these going through my head, I finally replied: yawwa sannunki, a very cold reply, sannunki and well done for being his new Briefcase! My cousin nor the girl had no idea why I acted like I'd seen a ghoul. There they were all in the living room and chatting happily away. That stupid girl on my sofa looking all innocent and quite, when she was all over the arms of another married man. Small but mighty! I don't know why and I had no reason to but I just don't want her around my cousin at all. The way she was acting, even 60yr women cannot (come see romance). Small girls with prowling eyes set on men with big pockets. I simply don't want her around my cousin. Told my cousin to serve them with whatever as I was going to catch a nap. Did one or two things and didn't know why, I kept pacing up and down the room thinking what kind of bloody coincidence is this ehn? Does a concurrence have to be so bloody in people's faces like this? In my territory! I rang my "hot-tempered and intolerable" friend intended to tell her, but liver failed me. I asked if she had garin kunun na tsamiyah. See foolishness!!!! Friend told me she was feeling sickly and that her husband was on business trip. I felt really sorry for my girl but abit relaxed, atleast the fugitive is here with me then it struck me her hubby could be with any other. Not that he was a Casanova, but hey I have every reason to be suspicious.
Back at mine my cousin came up to tell me her friends were going and I didn't even feel like saying bye. Initially, I have three bags each with stuffs that would appeal to all these secondary school girls & told my cousin to give them one each. I wanted to refuse giving that very girl but I taught my cousin the smart pants will pick the vibe and will haunt and taunt me for answers and so I went fair. Many weeks passed, and I got over dwelling in worry and acting like a suspect for no crime committed.
Finally, on one random afternoon my friend called me and said she felt really sad and moody. I allowed her moan overrit and at last she said "ummita you didn't even ask me whats up"? Apologetically I said to her that she should let it all out and because I know how short her temper gets, her new developing mood swings, I dont want to say boo before she goes bunkers on me. She said to me she went to her husband's room, got a dining chair stationed it on the bed, climbed on it, opened a drawer, where she pulled out her his briefcase. I asked her why she did so & she told me, she knows her husband and it is actually the first time he kept his briefcase up far and something told her: dodgy business!!!! She said to have fumbled with the numbers and after two hours succeeded in getting the numbers right and opened the briefcase. She flipped and dug into files and folders and documents and as she was about to give up, she noticed a zipper under the edge of the case, she pulled open and dragged out a neat envelope. Inside that envelope was 5 photo's of some girl she told me. Knowing her, she didn't even cry but said her husband better prepare her a divorce when he gets back. I told her such decisions are uncalled for but she should put her baby's interest at large and try to take things easy. And it was actually improper to go snooping about now she's found a big piss takes! She said she was going to call the two other girls who lived very close by and I didn't say anything but just wished it was not only myself who spotted her husband elsewhere. The guilt of not telling her eating me so raw, that I finally excused myself to go and pray. After an hour or so, I called to check up on her, and her nerve was calmed abit but she was still on fire. She was just saying 'Ummita I am just waiting for him to return but told me she texted him something along these lines: "those pictures of that girl in your briefcase are nice and so when is she finally moving into the compound" I told her to calm her nerves. So she told me she was going to ring her hubby and she did for some funny but obvious reason, he failed to pick her calls and from what she told me all 20 phone calls went unanswered.
Later that night, she instructed that I check my emails asap! I did and behold.............it was two pictures of that girl!!!!!!!!!! That one girl!!!!!!!!!
Am in a catch twenty-two here. Keeping shut could be ill spilling the beans could be unhealthy. Am just confused. I don't even know what is right anymore, should I let the other in on it or better yet, just keep it to myself? Am caught in a triangle. Feeling guilty, due to pretence: not knowing the face in the picture, whilst I saw spotted them once. Breach the mutual trust and keep quite, or tell my friend and cause havoc? If I told her infact the girl came to my hose, mehhhnnnn she will go cold turkey on me! Or get both husband and wife together and speak my mind and give my conscious an air out? I personally want to keep it hush hush!!! But am wrestling over mere duties and obligations of friendship and wanting keep my toes dry and out of the muddle! What if things spiraled on a bad level and I was silence all along? Or should I tell other friends or just keep it low keyed? Its really eating me up. And I don't want that girl jumping up my face like a rabbit from a magician's hat anywhere in life my life again. So what is a woman supposed to do? Whats meh got 2 do den?
Any suggestions? Sisterly recognition, up close n personal!!!!!!!!!!
Lol Ummita that was a nice long read..
Actually u are not in a dilemma at all if u ask me. U felt guilty that yr friend's husband was having an affair and u found out and couldnt do anything for fear of wreaking havoc. But now that yr friend has got to know about it on her own, u have absolutely no need to tell her that u ever ever saw her husband with that girl, because she knows now without yr informing her..so Allah Ya Dauke miki wannan nauyin. The spot of bother is the fact that the other girl is a friend of yr cousin. Now in this case she has come to yr house once and you recognized her. If she'd never come to yr house, you can sit back and just give ur friend a lot of emotional support and guide her out of the potentially suicidal route (with respect to her marriage) that she is bent on taking, and never let out to ANY ONE that you'd seen the husband and the girl together. If she did not send u the photos of the girl, you could fake ignorance as well cos technically speaking, you dont know what she looks like since u havent seen the photos so it could be any one, and if one day she saw the girl in the company of yr cousin and accuses you of double crossing her, u could get out of it by asking her how u are supposed to know that that was the girl? But as she has sent u the photos, u need to do something about it... something delicate that wont upset the balance of yr relationship with yr friend and neither raise the suspicions of yr cousin or her friend that u know before hand that the friend was the gf of yr friends husband. Now that one is what I am at a loss at what u should do. The reason being that since you have seen the girl at yr house and yr friend has sent u pics of her afterwards, you cant just not tell yr friend about having seen the girl before, because if she found out that the girl had been to yr house before she sent u the pics and u didnt say anything about it, it would raise her suspicions that u know something and u are holding back.
You know something Ummita? i wish yr friend had never decided to poke at her husband's briefcase to see what's in there. Sometimes women have to just pretend that they dont know what their husband's are up to behind their backs. This is because the very fact that they hide their shenanigans from their wives means that they do have some regards for the wives. Now that she knows, ya fara wulakanta ta, by not answering her calls because he knows what they entail. Kuma if he decides not to stop seeing the girl yaya za ta yi? The fact that he knows that she knows about the girl and he refuses to stop seeing her adds to her own humiliation. She is the one left with all the worries and the nail bitings.
In the end I think what u should do is get yr friend to have a serious but non combative talk with her husband about his intentions regarding this girl, now that she knows about it. In zai kawo ta ya kawo ta in ba zai kawo ta ba ya rabu da ita. Bayan haka ta fita daga harkar sa, ta nuna masa abin bai dame ta ba. Its done and over with. Shi da kansa zai maganin abin.
If u wish u can come clean and tell yr friend that u have seen the girl before, just so that u are up front and honest with her, but dont let ur self be dragged into confronting the girl or letting yr friend confront her since it will be very easy to have yr cousin over with the girl in tow. That would be very demeaning for both you and yr friend.
I dont knowoooo there is really no easy solution..to this. Just make sure that yr friend doesnt give her self enough rope to hang herself figuratively speaking....
PPS that's a real cute little gentleman sitting on that sofa... tell him make him wait for me...oooo I go marry am ooo when he grows up!!!!! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Ummitah that really is something. However I feel u should have let urself be seen day 1 when u first saw them together. It'll drive his guilt(if he has any) to make ammends, maybe by even contacting u. That way, u could've helped ur friend without hurting her. Secondly, when she showed up on ur door step, thats ur friend again, begging u to help her silently. Besides, u didnt want her with ur cousin and all, you shoulda dragged her and ur cousin in confidence to a private room and discussed this. I'm sure u r older and persuasive. You can talk sence into thier heads. If she misbehaves, as smart as u said ur cousin is, she'll see her true colors and keep a safe distance.
Another thing. Marriage is a ritual which is better in fewer numbers. I really wouldn't advice u to head out to ur friend with such news. But both u and ur friend needs to understand he is probably interested in marrying her, since she is the only and same girl everywhere. What then? Despite ur friends nature she best relaxes herself, keep herself and her baby healthy. No shouting or fighting, or even threats will solve any of this. If she pushes him, like I already think she's doing, things can only go worse.
Point of advice....Many people know when thier partners are cheating on them, some just suck it in, pretend it doesnt happen, others simply burst it open. Niether of them wants to know or wants anyone else to know. When ever they do, they wish they hadn't. For the safety of the marriage, ur concern for ur friend and your Iman, do not tell her....do not tell them. Do what u think u can without hurting them. I'd say talk to the girl, make her aware of what she is doing to another family, if she would like that upon herself someday....which she will. And I'm sure u are smart enuff not to throw threats at her or insulting comments. I know u can appeal to her reasoning...if thier intentions are marriage, different story there.
Like Husanaa was saying, there really isn't an easy solution and there isnt much that she can do. Maganar masifa bata taso ba.
I'm sorry for your friend, and her husband, and the lives of men and women who get into all this in this era. I'm sorry for u too Ummitah, for having to face such dillema.
.........And Allah knows best
May Safety and Peace be with u
As far as my opinion is concern the gentleman has done nothing
wrong in whatever direction or angle you might look at it.
1. Your friend's husband has every right to acquire, get, interract
or befriend a girl in so far his intentions is to bring her into a
matrimonial home.
2. Your friend's husband in his desire to fulfil (1) above maintains
every right to see his girl friend at any time and manner including
telling his wife lies in order to cover up and to avoid untimely
creation of trouble in his house over his ambition to add another
wife.
3. Your friend's husband in his capacity as the girl's fiancee is given
all priviledges as given to other fiancee including collecting her
photographs and keeping them in such safe places as he deems
fit necessary, including his briefcase, suit pockets, office drawers
car glove compartments etc.
4. Your friend's husband in his capacity as the husband after receiving
a surprise text message from his wife is entitle by law to not reply
the text and refuse to pick any of her calls until and after he is ready
and adequate time be given to him to address the issue and defend
himself appropriately.
5. Your friend's action is in contrary to the rules of secrecy, as she further
went beyond her jurisdiction in opening his briefcase in search of fishy
results which amounts to violation of private affairs and encroachment
on his private life.
6. Your friend is expected to act wild upon her new discovery, the law
permits her, except that it is just for a brief moments and should not
be transgressed.
7. You Ummita have no right whatsoever to mention, narrate, inform, relate
or transmitt in any form the hallucination that you went under while trying
to buy plantain in any pretext, for it will amount to breach of security peace
and in this case, withholding of virtual information is highly preached.
8. You Ummita wether in company of your friends or alone should as from this
incidence preach the gospel of polygamy to your friend while you also watch
your back as it is a second skin to Dan-Arewa even after returning from London.
9. You Ummita should endeavour never to speak to the young beautiful lady (your
cousin's friend) on any matter relating to this and accept this as a blessing to
your friend's family while praying same to come your way.
10. So I advice above.
Husna, thank you. I was just about 2 exhale thinking I should stick to my guts and keep shut but your last paragraph got me back on double take again! Though it seems you gave stronger grounds for me to maintain my silence, which is really my interest at heart. Thnks 'n' much appreciated. Muah, muah!!
Ibro, my thankfulness to you too, and you right on point but I tell you, I don't want drama so confronting that girl is a no, no for me. Na daya, kaseni wasu ba hankali gere su ba. Biyu be shafeni ba Ibro, uku like you also said (shhhh) & muahhhh 2 u too.
Dan-Borno, pls let me make this clear, I witnessed ish and ish and was contemplating on what stand to take. If it was just a random "anyone" ba abun da ya shafeh ni kam, but this is someone very close to me. Main point, I have no going against my friend's husband seeing another girl. Its more to do with me telling my part of the story or just being a mere spectator, just plain battle on my conscious and moral justifications. I am not against any married man who falls back in another courtship game. In every respect, what I find COMPLETELY WRONG is the way he is going on about it. Let me point out his little, little misdemeanors.
1. If he wants an extra wife, he should have an atom of regard and let his wife know.
2. Why lie about being on a trip? Face up and look up!
3. Am sure every father n mother wouldn't find the notion of their LITTLE and VERY young daughter out and about frolicking in another mans arm funny!!! And if I was her mother, I will give her a whooping up her backside. Call me uncivilized but if man wants my daughter even if it is just a dating game, come home to my living room. I am this civil! I have restrictions set in motion and therefore, liberation of modern day courtship should not be taken to the point of ridiculousness!
This brings me to say, there is a member here, who is an author too, greatest respects to her/him. In one of her/his books delivered to me, it touched on the accordance and righteous ways you men should go about courtship and marriage. Well written in this members book, supports the belief that a man can marry up to four but there that there are strict rules on how to go about it. In his/her book, even pointed on the acceptability or non-acceptability of a man chatting with his girlfriend in a car! Whether religion frowns upon it or not. Anyway, excellent book & excellently written. And I totally see eye to eye. I would have sent you my copy but no need, I know u have your many kinds stacked up.
Thanks too..............yeah, concluded to keep what I know in the the dark!
Quote from: HUSNAA on January 31, 2008, 01:22:04 PM
tell him make him wait for me...oooo I go marry am ooo when he grows up!!!!! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
& oh by the way Husna, let me know how your culture observe marriage preparation so that we can start sending our kayan wushi wushi boxes or it is you that will send us the 'na gani ina so' boxes? :-\ If its us, then let us know your shoe sizes, sizes of essentials and your taste for fashion. ;D
On the face of it, thanx guys, my mind is finally at rest!
That is a sticky situation, but glad your mind's at rest.
From your side keeping silent is the best option, sa ido kawai
ki observing wats to happen next, like you said wasu ba hankali
ne dasu ba. Wani gyaran kan zamo barna, jeki ki sha ruwan sanyi ki
huta, but continue giving your friend good advice ta kwantar da hankalinta
especially that shes pregnant.
Hope things work out well inshaallah.
Quote from: ummita on January 31, 2008, 08:03:33 PM
Husna, thank you. I was just about 2 exhale thinking I should stick to my guts and keep shut but your last paragraph got me back on double take again! Though it seems you gave stronger grounds for me to maintain my silence, which is really my interest at heart. Thnks 'n' much appreciated. Muah, muah!!
Actually I dont mean that u should tell her that u once saw the girl with her husband. No. What I mean is that since the girl has been to yr house, she's bound to show some form of recognition towards you one day if you happen to bump into each other. This is more so as she is a friend of yr cousin as well and you have treated her well at yr place despite a few cold shoulders. If u happened to be with
yr friend both of you will recognize her. Chances are that she will also recognize both of you since yr friend's husband has probably shown her a pic of what his wife looks like, or maybe the girl knows her from some previous obscure association. Therefore its bound to look and be awkward for all of u. One thing though is that if she sees u in the company of yr friend and she already knows that she is the wife of the guy she's going out with, she may not come near you there and then and maybe ever, which works out well for you, cos then you will avoid the embarrassment of having to explain yr prior knowledge of the girl. On the other hand, if the girl sees u on yr own, although you are in company of yr friend who happens not to be around at that moment, lets say, she goes into a shop to buy something while u wait for her, or u both go in to the shop and split ur selves in diff directions and then u happen to meet this girl on yr own. Or another scenario, a much more likely one is that u and yr friend happen to be at a function together but she is not at yr side at that moment, for some reason or other, and this girl sees u accidentally, and then comes over, or she is with yr cousin and they both come over to say hi and at that moment or moments later, yr friend comes back when you are least aware and sees u with yr cousin and her friend. Now if she sees ur cousin together with the girl, then this could go a long way to explaining the girl's presence there. But if the girl is on her own... ahem!! the fat would be in the fire!! So to avoid that scenario, u could gently apprise yr friend that the girl is a friend of y cousin and as you said, a bad influence, so u will talk to yr cousin about the girl. That's all.
Quote from: ummita on January 31, 2008, 08:03:33 PM
Quote from: HUSNAA on January 31, 2008, 01:22:04 PM
tell him make him wait for me...oooo I go marry am ooo when he grows up!!!!! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
& oh by the way Husna, let me know how your culture observe marriage preparation so that we can start sending our kayan wushi wushi boxes or it is you that will send us the 'na gani ina so' boxes? :-\ If its us, then let us know your shoe sizes, sizes of essentials and your taste for fashion. ;D
na me de see am, so na me go bring di boxes na gani ina so ko? ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
where da lil tot nema? bring him back!! ;D ;D ;D ;D
Quote from: HUSNAA on January 31, 2008, 01:22:04 PM
PPS that's a real cute little gentleman sitting on that sofa... tell him make him wait for me...oooo I go marry am ooo when he grows up!!!!! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Ummita dont mind this old woman, i get better babe
(chasis) for
my house way go fit this cuty.
see me see jealosi!!! >:( Na riga ka!!! go and give ur chassis to a deserving motor mechanic! >:(
Quote from: Dan-Borno on January 31, 2008, 04:54:39 PM
As far as my opinion is concern the gentleman has done nothing
wrong in whatever direction or angle you might look at it.
1. Your friend's husband has every right to acquire, get, interract
or befriend a girl in so far his intentions is to bring her into a
matrimonial home.
2. Your friend's husband in his desire to fulfil (1) above maintains
every right to see his girl friend at any time and manner including
telling his wife lies in order to cover up and to avoid untimely
creation of trouble in his house over his ambition to add another
wife.
3. Your friend's husband in his capacity as the girl's fiancee is given
all priviledges as given to other fiancee including collecting her
photographs and keeping them in such safe places as he deems
fit necessary, including his briefcase, suit pockets, office drawers
car glove compartments etc.
4. Your friend's husband in his capacity as the husband after receiving
a surprise text message from his wife is entitle by law to not reply
the text and refuse to pick any of her calls until and after he is ready
and adequate time be given to him to address the issue and defend
himself appropriately.
5. Your friend's action is in contrary to the rules of secrecy, as she further
went beyond her jurisdiction in opening his briefcase in search of fishy
results which amounts to violation of private affairs and encroachment
on his private life.
6. Your friend is expected to act wild upon her new discovery, the law
permits her, except that it is just for a brief moments and should not
be transgressed.
7. You Ummita have no right whatsoever to mention, narrate, inform, relate
or transmitt in any form the hallucination that you went under while trying
to buy plantain in any pretext, for it will amount to breach of security peace
and in this case, withholding of virtual information is highly preached.
8. You Ummita wether in company of your friends or alone should as from this
incidence preach the gospel of polygamy to your friend while you also watch
your back as it is a second skin to Dan-Arewa even after returning from London.
9. You Ummita should endeavour never to speak to the young beautiful lady (your
cousin's friend) on any matter relating to this and accept this as a blessing to
your friend's family while praying same to come your way.
10. So I advice above.
LMAO...lol oh my God, you guys will not kill me in this site, DB you are one heedful polygamous ambassador, God i cant believe this is happening...lol!
Quote from: HUSNAA on February 01, 2008, 08:36:18 AM
This is more so as she is a friend of yr cousin as well and you have treated her well at yr place despite a few cold shoulders.
At this point, i have to ask, is it also natural for a woman to feel jalous if her husbands friend is playing around? I mean why do they have to go to the point of giving cold shoulders?
Quote from: Dan-Borno on February 01, 2008, 03:54:06 PM
Quote from: HUSNAA on January 31, 2008, 01:22:04 PM
PPS that's a real cute little gentleman sitting on that sofa... tell him make him wait for me...oooo I go marry am ooo when he grows up!!!!! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Ummita dont mind this old woman, i get better babe (chasis) for
my house way go fit this cuty.
LOL, toh, Dan-Borno, kaganni beiwar Allah nan ter riga ka fah. Fairness deserves a first come first serve! However, only if Husna agrees, maybe your chasis ter zama ta biyu.
Quote from: HUSNAA on February 01, 2008, 06:39:22 PMsee me see jealosi!!! >:( Na riga ka!!! go and give ur chassis to a deserving motor mechanic! >:(
LOL, but Husna everything works well 4 u. I hav no objection cuz judging from d looks of it, u suffice d marriage material criteria because I draw my verdict only from two criteria's, which is kindness & addini. And frm my vry honest conclusions u do sound like a very nice lady wit good religious nurture.
We await, kayan auren, which of course wouldn't burn a whole in ur pocket, just baby wipes, diapers & stuffed toys. However, we are open to abit of luxury if u desire ;D ;D. Allah baku zaman lafyah! Plssssssssssssss, if I may ask, wat is the amount of our dowry? ;D
Amman fa, da only one problem is......as per a minor, his age of consent to the marriage is my worry :-\ plus kada abaki a maida bawan Allah mai wanke undies! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D :-\
PS: Dan-Borno, if a woman aint reached 60 yet she still in her prime.....kasan ance life begins @ 60, so don't mind him Husna, u still a chasis!!!!..... ;D
Quote from: amira on January 31, 2008, 09:12:41 PM
From your side keeping silent is the best option, sa ido kawai
ki observing wats to happen next,............
jeki ki sha ruwan sanyi ki,.............
Hope things work out well inshaallah.
Mhmmm Amira, seriously I don't even want to saka ido. I don't want to witness any mischief again. The way mind was playing roller coasters was abit disturbing thinking whose interest should I put first? My friends, her hubby's, the little girls or mine? So uhn, uhn!!!! Advice/shawara is something we all mostly find ourselves giving out. And just recently I gave someone what I taught was a fair advice, only for her to turn round piping me up and down and asking me on whose side was I on? Her's or her amaryas? Even when truthfully my friend was at fault, so you see!!!! Truth is bitter & it hurts & we don't like hearing it! So best for me to :-X
Ruwan sanyi na har da kankarah! ;D U a star! Thnx
lol I just wanna comment on Husnaa and her new catch. I wanna see em live happily ever after, however, did anyone ask the kid? ko auren dole za a yi mashi? did anyone even consider human rights violation...the kid is under aged isnt he?. me I dey eye a much older girl... she is over 60 so u may say life has "started for her"
Quote from: ummita on February 02, 2008, 03:35:27 PM
Quote from: Dan-Borno on February 01, 2008, 03:54:06 PM
Quote from: HUSNAA on January 31, 2008, 01:22:04 PM
PPS that's a real cute little gentleman sitting on that sofa... tell him make him wait for me...oooo I go marry am ooo when he grows up!!!!! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Ummita dont mind this old woman, i get better babe (chasis) for
my house way go fit this cuty.
LOL, toh, Dan-Borno, kaganni beiwar Allah nan ter riga ka fah. Fairness deserves a first come first
serve! However, only if Husna agrees, maybe your chasis ter zama ta biyu.
Ta zama ta biyu? Lallai ashe za tazama a real chassis kenan!! don a cikin bonnet din mota za a aza ta!! Dakin ta kenan!! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Quote from: ummita on February 02, 2008, 03:35:27 PMQuote from: HUSNAA on February 01, 2008, 06:39:22 PMsee me see jealosi!!! >:( Na riga ka!!! go and give ur chassis to a deserving motor mechanic! >:(
LOL, but Husna everything works well 4 u. I hav no objection cuz judging from d looks of it, u suffice d marriage material criteria because I draw my verdict only from two criteria's, which is kindness & addini. And frm my vry honest conclusions u do sound like a very nice lady wit good religious nurture.
Thank u for that vote of confidence!! ;D
Quote from: ummita on February 02, 2008, 03:35:27 PMWe await, kayan auren, which of course wouldn't burn a whole in ur pocket, just baby wipes, diapers & stuffed toys. However, we are open to abit of luxury if u desire ;D ;D. Allah baku zaman lafyah! Plssssssssssssss, if I may ask, wat is the amount of our dowry? ;D
Lol! only the best will do! Open to a bit of luxury ko? Designer Huggies and co here we come!! and as for dowry lol! Never mind its affordable... remember ni ke nema!!! I wont price myself out of the market...hahahahaha!
Quote from: ummita on February 02, 2008, 03:35:27 PMAmman fa, da only one problem is......as per a minor, his age of consent to the marriage is my worry :-\ plus kada abaki a maida bawan Allah mai wanke undies! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D :-\
Wanke undies? nah nah its cuddles all the way..
Quote from: ummita on February 02, 2008, 03:35:27 PMPS: Dan-Borno, if a woman aint reached 60 yet she still in her prime.....kasan ance life begins @ 60, so don't mind him Husna, u still a chasis!!!!..... ;D[/color]
Dont worry about DB, so yake ya kashe min kasuwa with my cutie, shi yasa. Ko da yake Dan Borno a ka rika aika yana raban kaurin suna lokacin da aka haife ni... ;D ;D. That is why he seems to 'know' all about me... :P
:-\ guess i'll catch up later gudnyt
Quote from: ummita on February 02, 2008, 03:35:27 PM
LOL, toh, Dan-Borno, kaganni beiwar Allah nan ter riga ka fah. Fairness deserves a first come first serve! However, only if Husna agrees, maybe your chasis ter zama ta biyu.
this is what we term as 'unfairness at its highest point'
we are suppose to allow the big-boy grab his choice and
no more imposition.
(DB whispering to Ummita) send me your bank details, I
am transfering some hot currencies to start with.
action speaks louder than voice.
La tajassasu...kada ku bincika
Generally in life,whenever you start looking for a fault you'll definitely find one.
She searched for a fault and got a dear one.
Had she not climbed that stool(with her weight ma) and nosedived into his briefcase she wouldn't have found those pictures....binkicen ta ya jawo mata.
Nevertheless,the guy went too far by cuddling/holding the girl,worse still in public.That is absolutely wrong.
Some people forget that such acts are contrary to the teachings of islam.In fact it is Haram....ba wani zancen romance ko wayewa...da haka da haka sai kaji yarinya ta lalace.
He also was wrong by lying to the girl that he was travelling....shi ma dai bai hadu ba.
There are far better lies he would have concocted.
Haba GGNK, ciwon da namiji ai na da namiji ne!!!!
I dont understand how you castigate the actions
of this man.
Though contrary to the teachings of Islam but
sometimes we find ourselves carried away and
act contrary to religion but not with an intention
to betray Islam or culture and in this case one is
easily forgiven if he asked for it. Ai ba sana'ar sa
bace kama yan'mata, it was just a mistake, irin
ka gane ai ko ;)
Let us give the man a benefit of doubt concerning
the issue of travelling. Even Ummita the reporter
of the story can not really say wether the guy is
about to travel or just arriving into town - she just
saw him like that, there is no conclusive evidence.
Quote from: Dan-Borno on February 05, 2008, 01:46:06 PM
Though contrary to the teachings of Islam but
sometimes we find ourselves carried away and
act contrary to religion but not with an intention
to betray Islam or culture and in this case one is
easily forgiven if he asked for it. Ai ba sana'ar sa
bace kama yan'mata, it was just a mistake, irin
ka gane ai ko ;)
:o
which part of my statement shocked you
yaron aunty?