Y is it zat kano babes r always materialistic? It is bery bery embarrasing when u brag 2 ozas about ur babes n zey lauph u n say ur babes r materialistic, zis habe haffen 2 me many tyms....i dont know y zis bad labell has been link with our babes..ko kuma abun da gaske ne...Onliners? there is no smoke without a pire!
I sink u r right! did u hear the latest now...a guy cannot affroach a girl conpidently unless he has what they termed as minimum requirment. Meaning wai ko da er starlet ce.
one lady was bitterly complaining - wa zai yi ta fama da shiga motar haya :o
but zaya are some I know wanda sam zeya water is not zaya at all. weza u have money or not ze will like u like zat.
hey ma men!! kwana 2...it looks like u have been up to some research and wanted to know HOW FAR. right?
GIRLS.....
lol
wat a topic!!
see, mallam muda, not only kano girls r money mongers, they r evenly spread all across the globe.. i bet even in heavens if girls wld be able to see other guys' cribs, they wil practice the trend. lol, thank God, that will b impossible. ?;D
the main reason why girls are attracted to money is that they feel it goes together with power and fame (most of the time). They unconciously think that these guys are more intelligent, more interestin, have more fun, and most of all, CAN GIVE DEM DA LIFESTYLE, mamen!! ?:D. u see, right from time, they (hunnies), have been buildin up embedded fantasies that they want to actualize at the first opportunity that surfaces...and with the boxed-up homie that shows up, only means its practicals time...hehe ?;D (sorry ladies)..
hey, k-online babes, u dnt have to feel bad, cos we know u aint anythin like this...... is that not so k-onliners??
but man, not all girls r that way, there will always be the good ones out there.... plus if u can learn to get a girls attention, and then give her the feelings that she wants, she will treat u like the rich n famous as well. so just restructure ur style kawai!!! ?8)
Really they are materialistic. I couldn't imagine how this is happening in our midst. antecedently, our elders have not experieced such kind of things, ?conferred to our present situation everything change from good to bad. kwadayi, girman kai da rashin kunya shine babban aikin yanmata. Allah ya gyara.
Wato zere is somesing i recently pound out about kano babes...in Kano ip ur criffled (No Ride), deap n dumb (No GSM)...zen porget about habing a babe...esfecially in BUK.
SU hafsa ban ce ku fara surutu!
;) ;D ;Dlol lol lol ;D of the topic is so funny......................nway i am not from kano tho i was born there but dai i think yes mata now a days are materialistic but not only mata kawai ai ko maza yanzu they dont marry a girl that is not from a rich family................. now a days hardly ake aure coz of love sai dai coz of the chada........... a girl dont have to be pretty just once ur from a rich family too ur sorted and done......... ;D ;) ;)
could kano guys be responsible for this dilemma? it takes two you know. if truth be told most kano guys believe the only way to a girls heart is through maximum showmanship. all kinds of tools are employed from the right pair of Russel and Bromley sandals to the latest Nokia handset. As far back as 15 years ago i have heard stories (unconfirmed) of places in kano where one can hire a full wardrobe including a Rolex watch and even a bundle of mint notes to adorn the front pocket.
With this kind of strategy the average kano babe may know no other approach her expectations are for every toaster to be one up on the last guy, and thus the struggle continues...
Allah ya s su gane.
Kitkat...tell me tsakaninki da Allah... how many times habe u cn a beautifull babe walking haffilly as in lobe with a guy n ze guy looks unloaded in Kano?
Muda ;)whats the story behind this post? ? ?
wace ce tayi maka haka? tell us and we'll.......................ka gane dai ko ;)
And goga u we'll..........What?
com'on guy K'aya mata za su ci? every1 goes 4 his/her class wat r u sayin, if u c a higher class thats wat u will aim 4. if m a gal when i c a guy wit cheda n i like him y wouldn't i go 4 him be honest who dont like better life. u tend 2 live long when u r livin good
MHMMMMMHHHHHHHHH IF HE DOESNT HAVE A CONDO BY THE BEACH, A CHINESE COOK MAKING ME HOME MAID DISHES, MY OWN PRIVATE BUTLER, A 30.5 BENTLEY MODEL, ALL LATEST DESIGNER GEARS, IF I AM NOT HIS SUPPLIMENTARY CARD HOLDER TO HIS CREDIT CARD ACCOUNTS....IF HE DOESNT OWN A MONEY PRITING MACHINE, THEN HE BERRA FORGET IT..............HE HAS TO BE THE ONLY RICHEST MAN IN THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE ;D 8) ;D
MHMMMM ON A SERIOUS NOTE; RICH OR POOR WHO CARES!!!!! ALL THAT MATTERS IS YOU ARE ALIVE, WHAT EVER STANDARD A PERSON IS HE SHOULD SAY ALHAMDULILAH. HISS PEOPLE EVEN HAVE THE TIME TO CATEGORIES BETWEEN RICH AND POOR....ABEG WHO CARES ABOUT THAT LETS JUST BLEND IN AS HUMAN BEINGS NOT WHAT YOU HAVE AND WHAT I DONT, OR NOT WHAT YOU WILL OFFER. HISS AM NOT RICH AND I DONT CARE JUST GLAD TO BE ALIVE ZANCE KA KARE
kano gurlzzz....hehe......i will not say anything herre bcoz i personally know just 1 girl from kano that isnt like that. for that girl i can stand in court and defend her.....shes really different.
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Y is it zat kano babes r always materialistic? It is bery bery embarrasing when u brag 2 ozas about ur babes n zey lauph u n say ur babes r materialistic, zis habe haffen 2 me many tyms....i dont know y zis bad labell has been link with our babes..ko kuma abun da gaske ne...Onliners? there is no smoke without a pire!
Mutumina r u sure no be one babe shone u? any way ai kune zasu yi ma. Kaga mu muna nesa.
And I think that is one of the reason why Dante want to marry gurl from Zaria. LoL
;D ;DANY HAUSA GYALS IN LONDON SHOULD HOLLA AT ME I STUDIED IN CRESCENT INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL,KANO..MANY RICH GIRLS CAME TO CRESCENT BUT WHO CARES WE JUST IGNORED THEM TOO HELL WITH THEIR MONEY SELF ITS ALL ABOUT THE LOVE THING U GET ME!!
AND ALL U HAUSA BROVAZ GO FIX UP UR SPEECH N SPELL PROPERLY NOT FROFALY HAHAHHAHA
ANY HAUSA OR FULANI GIRL COMING TO LONDON FOR HOLIDAY OR STAY COME VISIT ME WE CAN GO CLUBBIN THATS IF UR DADDY ALLOW U HAHAHA :-*
AND ANY CRESCENT STUDENT SHOULD PLEASE CONTACT ME ...REMEMBER ODILI EMEKA GARBA AND THE REST HOLLA ;D 8)
Quote from: "Nura_Dari"Quote
Y is it zat kano babes r always materialistic? It is bery bery embarrasing when u brag 2 ozas about ur babes n zey lauph u n say ur babes r materialistic, zis habe haffen 2 me many tyms....i dont know y zis bad labell has been link with our babes..ko kuma abun da gaske ne...Onliners? there is no smoke without a pire!
Mutumina r u sure no be one babe shone u? any way ai kune zasu yi ma. Kaga mu muna nesa.
And I think that is one of the reason why Dante want to marry gurl from Zaria. LoL
Hahahahahaha,
I've been to zaria neman aure twice, amma
kaga har yanzu allah baisa an dace ba! kasan
zazzawa have beautiful gurls & well talented...
Mudacris, i think you better cruise round zazzau
town to wash your eyes. Visit places like: unguwar
sarki.... one advise, BECAREFUL if you go to A.B.U
kodayake dai ba sai na gaya maka ba!
Hausanicious would be there to tell you about the......
Quote from: "Garba_serkik";D ;DANY HAUSA GYALS IN LONDON SHOULD HOLLA AT ME I STUDIED IN CRESCENT INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL,KANO..MANY RICH GIRLS CAME TO CRESCENT BUT WHO CARES WE JUST IGNORED THEM TOO HELL WITH THEIR MONEY SELF ITS ALL ABOUT THE LOVE THING U GET ME!!
AND ALL U HAUSA BROVAZ GO FIX UP UR SPEECH N SPELL PROPERLY NOT FROFALY HAHAHHAHA
ANY HAUSA OR FULANI GIRL COMING TO LONDON FOR HOLIDAY OR STAY COME VISIT ME WE CAN GO CLUBBIN THATS IF UR DADDY ALLOW U HAHAHA :-*
AND ANY CRESCENT STUDENT SHOULD PLEASE CONTACT ME ...REMEMBER ODILI EMEKA GARBA AND THE REST HOLLA ;D 8)
Hey , U get eye froblem? Abi u neba chof pood zis morning ne? Ze tofic is not frogrammed por adbatising about lobe connections ...instead op u 2 tell us about RUNS in London..(as u claimed) u r beating tha bush about CRESENT students....ip u want 2 introduce urselp in kanoonline...zen go back 2 ze JJC sekshion n do it oppicially...ka gane ko? Kanoonline is not por Londoners alone...remember! b more tradishional! anyway ur welkom in2 za pamily zat is ip u behabe well...coz i got mah cane behind me!
salaam, ai wannan kadan da aikin 'yan matan kano............they have catogarised men as:
1. ready made :shock:
2. the struggling 8)
3. no hope :(
so if one is not in catogary 1..........better forget having a Kano babe...
No wonder zese our kanoonline gurls habe been keefing quit oba ze issue since!
Af! aiko sa'a ne bakuyi ba. Amman duk yer kano, ta cika ya mace. Waima, su tu tuntubi yan fillo kuga yadda suke cike da girman kai.
Yan matan Kaduna kuwa yan sai munga naira.
Yan matan Zaria, yan boko da Allo, komai ilimin namiji sai sun nuna sunfi
Amman matan kano, akwai su da ladabi da biyyaya, akwai hankali, akwai rike alkawari ba ace maka sunayi ba amman daga baya aji gobe aurenta da wani. Idan ana neman karin bayani, most especially wanda ya rasa aure a zaria sau auko azo Galanci............zaka bar unguwar da mata Goma inda dai hali. Abu daya yan matan Galadanci basu son YAN NIGGA KO YAN NAZO TURAI :D
Quote from: "thegood"salaam, ai wannan kadan da aikin 'yan matan kano............they have catogarised men as:
1. ready made :shock:
2. the struggling 8)
3. no hope :(
so if one is not in catogary 1..........better forget having a Kano babe...
Ai thegood,wani sabon abu ma shi ne sun yi breaking category 1(ready made) as:
1.Qualified
2.Qualifided
Allah shi gyara :( :roll:
Ai abun juyi juyi ne, kuma maza that is almost the same thing you do.
If a girl is not fair in complexion, with long hair, who is from a high status family, who is studying abroad, sai kawai ku saka birki ai. Kuyine suma suyi muku. Kwazo kuna kawo kukanku. :?
Quote from: "madori"Quote from: "thegood"salaam, ai wannan kadan da aikin 'yan matan kano............they have catogarised men as:
1. ready made :shock:
2. the struggling 8)
3. no hope :(
so if one is not in catogary 1..........better forget having a Kano babe...
Ai thegood,wani sabon abu ma shi ne sun yi breaking category 1(ready made) as:
1.Qualified
2.Qualifided
Allah shi gyara :( :roll:
Gaskiya a category 1 shine kana da MOTA? kana da GSM? indan ko babu to DISQUALIFIDED, 'yan matan kano ayi hattara garin daga Aji Ajin yake tsinkewa, mudai muna tudun mun tsira. Allah yayi mana jagora, Amin summa Amin
:) ya sarkin g wat do u have 2 say about this [ali g]but me i think its true cos i once dated a kano girl and she waz like i need money 2 do dis do dat inshort all girls ar dsame ya umita wat do u have 2 say for da babes[/quote]
emmm...Guyz, U know it wudn't hurt
if u just add da word "some" to ur posts, rite?
cos only "some" Kano gals truly act like dat
Quote from: "moha":) inshort all girls ar dsame ya umita wat do u have 2 say for da babes
First issue: do I look like your sista? Do we have the same behaviour or characters? If ur ansa is no, then every single girl in this world is not the same. Listen even wit identical twins there muss b "that sumthin" dat differenciates dem. So not all guls r d same but every gul is different in their own way.
Secondly, in relation 2 kano babes, I havnt paid attention 2 learnin bout their choice in men. However, I hav come 2 d know alot by readin dis thread (not 2 mention very funni). I did pity the men at first, but I taut "hang on why shud I"? Yes every gul wud lyk a man who can fully provide 4 her daily needs. But in mah own reasonins as long as he can provide a three square meal, a shelter ova her head & a cloth 2 cova then she needs no more.
On d whole,
I do not blame d women @ all. Why because? D Kano r @ fault & 2 b blamed. They think that having a girlfreind is all bout showing her what they hav. The house, the cars, trend in style and a mobile fone (xcuse meh its only a fone!) Men you give these girls impression that dey stinking rich. Ok no problem with being rich. The first time Kano man ceez a gul & he falls 4 her. FIRST day, dey will lavish her wit so..so thousand naira. Second day, dey will buy her wat kano ppl loveeeeeeeeee (a cell fone). Third day, clothes jewelries. Fourth day shoppin spreez and the beat goes onnnnnnnn. So now u tell meh, what will do u expect? She becomes very demanding. Afta d gentleman has worn her over with money thinkin he has worn her luv & he stops givin her she finally gets fed up & moves on 2 d nxt victim. Already she is spoilt rotten wit luxuries. If d nxt guy subsequently doesnt provide more than d first man she moves 2 d nxt. Now y wnt these guls b afta rich men? Why wnt dey deman things from u? Why wnt dey b classyfin u guys in categories?
On d oda hand, its such a shame some guls induldge in things like this. I mean stoop so low beggy beggy!!!. A gul shud show some respect and decency. They shudnt b always afta wat d dude gat in his wallet or his acount. I mean a guy works his sweat out juss 4 a gul to keep askin. Thats no fair game! Yes some men r generous, when dey give a gul sumthin if she likes she can accept odawise decline d offer. Declining somestimes makes a man respect a woman d more. A'a before he give u he hav already made a grab 4 it. Haba!!! Kano chika "catch head". A lady shud get full credit of her dignity & pride. She shud get credit 4 humbleness, keepin her self where God has nto taken her. She shud learn neva 2 set eyes on things dat oas hav. She shud learn that money, luxury or d richness does not grant eternal bliss & happiness. What eva dey posses & wat eva dey give u will b left behind. If a gul wants a guy & is in a relationship she shud like his for who he is and not for what he is worth!!!
Mohaaaaaaaaa u heard mah comments..........mhmmmm see how I DEY preach. Abeg make I go attend 2 my Money makin, Bentley drivin boo.......and drive dat biycle boi away
Quote from: "Anonymous"Quote from: "moha":) inshort all girls ar dsame ya umita wat do u have 2 say for da babes
First issue: do I look like your sista? Do we have the same behaviour or characters? If ur ansa is no, then every single girl in this world is not the same. Listen even wit identical twins there muss b "that sumthin" dat differenciates dem. So not all guls r d same but every gul is different in their own way.
Secondly, in relation 2 kano babes, I havnt paid attention 2 learnin bout their choice in men. However, I hav come 2 d know alot by readin dis thread (not 2 mention very funni). I can see that alot are complainin bout kano guls. I did pity the men at first, but I taut "hang on why shud I"? I do not blame d women @ all. Why because? D Kano r @ fault & 2 b blamed. They think that having a girlfreind is all bout showing her what they hav. The house, the cars, trend in style and a mobile fone (xcuse meh its only a fone!) Men you give these girls impression that dey stinking rich. Ok no problem with being rich. The first time Kano man ceez a gul & he falls 4 her. FIRST day, dey will lavish her wit so..so thousand naira. Second day, dey will buy her wat kano ppl loveeeeeeeeee (a cell fone). Third day, clothes jewelries. Fourth day shoppin spreez and the beat goes onnnnnnnn. So now u tell meh, what will do u expect? She becomes very demanding. Afta d gentleman has worn her over with money thinkin he has worn her luv & he stops givin her she finally gets fed up & moves on 2 d nxt victim. Already she is spoilt rotten wit luxuries. If d nxt guy subsequently doesnt provide more than d first man she moves 2 d nxt. Now y wnt these guls b afta rich men? Why wnt dey deman things from u? Why wnt dey b classyfin u guys in categories?
On d oda hand, its such a shame some guls induldge in things like this. I mean stoop so low beggy beggy!!!. A gul shud show some respect and decency. They shudnt b always afta wat d dude gat in his wallet or his acount. I mean a guy works his sweat out juss 4 a gul to keep askin. Thats no fair game! Yes some men r generous, when dey give a gul sumthin if she likes she can accept odawise decline d offer. Declining somestimes makes a man respect a woman d more. A'a before he give u he hav already made a grab 4 it. Haba!!! Kano chika "catch head". A lady shud get full credit of her dignity & pride. She shud get credit 4 humbleness, keepin her self where God has nto taken her. She shud learn neva 2 set eyes on things dat oas hav. She shud learn that money, luxury or d richness does not grant eternal bliss & happiness. What eva dey posses & wat eva dey give u will b left behind. If a gul wants a guy & is in a relationship she shud like his for who he is and not for what he is worth!!!
..........mhmmmm see how I DEY preach. Abeg make I go attend 2 my Money makin, Bentley drivin boo.......and drive dat biycle boi away
POST ONE, POST DOUBLE QUOTE AND DI TIN GET LIVER TO REMOVE MAH NAME..NAWAAAA........
Anyways ..........dats all meh can sayyyyyyy. I pity men......but search urselves first b/4 u complain. Deal wit d key issues first. Some ya'all spoil rotten Maami'z wit money & luxuries & ya'alll here complainin. Learn 2 appreacite women 4 who dey truly r & not by wat u give dem. Relationships shudnt depend on money & luxuries, it depends on what mattaz from d inside.
*sniff*sniff awwwwwww am almost in tears (she laffs). EHN MEN SHUD LEARN THEIR LESSONS KAWAI :
Quote from: "Fateez"emmm...Guyz, U know it wudn't hurt
if u just add da word "some" to ur posts, rite?
Dnt mynd dem, & sum1 even has d shinin armour 2 say all guls r d same :roll: His mouth like thesame..........
Quote from: "Surayya Galadanci"Af! aiko sa'a ne bakuyi ba. Amman duk yer kano, ta cika ya mace. Waima, su tu tuntubi yan fillo kuga yadda suke cike da girman kai.
Yan matan Kaduna kuwa yan sai munga naira.
Yan matan Zaria, yan boko da Allo, komai ilimin namiji sai sun nuna sunfi
Amman matan kano, akwai su da ladabi da biyyaya, akwai hankali, akwai rike alkawari ba ace maka sunayi ba amman daga baya aji gobe aurenta da wani. Idan ana neman karin bayani, most especially wanda ya rasa aure a zaria sau auko azo Galanci............zaka bar unguwar da mata Goma inda dai hali. Abu daya yan matan Galadanci basu son YAN NIGGA KO YAN NAZO TURAI :D
Which galadanci would that be? ? ? An ce yan galadancin kano ba sa bawa talaka ko mai karamin karfi ya'yan su?What would u say to that :?: [/size]
Quote from: "Anonymous"Quote from: "moha":) inshort all girls ar dsame ya umita wat do u have 2 say for da babes
see how I DEY preach. Abeg make I go attend 2 my Money makin, Bentley drivin boo.......and drive dat biycle boi away
Lai Lai, no gree. Ogini Ummita??? :o Who dash you bicycle boi or bentley guy, dey don pass yuwa power. Wa ya baki ?:roll: Stick to dat yuwa palm wine tappers son: Gbenga Ogechukwu. I hear say he is now verrrry rishhhhhhhhh now. He is now into bush meat business & ummita no lieeeeeeeeeeee I saw you together 4mnths ago.
As for me Ikenna has just bought me my first petroleum gelly (vaseline cream). I will share it with you when you come to visit me. His father is almost dying whcih means Ikenna will inherit his fathers bicycle :).
As for kano girls if their boo no get wetin my boyfreind buy me or will soon inherit, dey neva rish at all. Sam! Sam!
Dont hate the playa, hate the game
Quote from: "Anonymous"Quote from: "moha":) inshort all girls ar dsame ya umita wat do u have 2 say for da babes
First issue: do I look like your sista? Do we have the same behaviour or characters? If ur ansa is no, then every single girl in this world is not the same. Listen even wit identical twins there muss b "that sumthin" dat differenciates dem. So not all guls r d same but every gul is different in their own way.
Secondly, in relation 2 kano babes, I havnt paid attention 2 learnin bout their choice in men. However, I hav come 2 d know alot by readin dis thread (not 2 mention very funni). I did pity the men at first, but I taut "hang on why shud I"? Yes every gul wud lyk a man who can fully provide 4 her daily needs. But in mah own reasonins as long as he can provide a three square meal, a shelter ova her head & a cloth 2 cova then she needs no more.
On d whole, I do not blame d women @ all. Why because? D Kano r @ fault & 2 b blamed. They think that having a girlfreind is all bout showing her what they hav. The house, the cars, trend in style and a mobile fone (xcuse meh its only a fone!) Men you give these girls impression that dey stinking rich. Ok no problem with being rich. The first time Kano man ceez a gul & he falls 4 her. FIRST day, dey will lavish her wit so..so thousand naira. Second day, dey will buy her wat kano ppl loveeeeeeeeee (a cell fone). Third day, clothes jewelries. Fourth day shoppin spreez and the beat goes onnnnnnnn. So now u tell meh, what will do u expect? She becomes very demanding. Afta d gentleman has worn her over with money thinkin he has worn her luv & he stops givin her she finally gets fed up & moves on 2 d nxt victim. Already she is spoilt rotten wit luxuries. If d nxt guy subsequently doesnt provide more than d first man she moves 2 d nxt. Now y wnt these guls b afta rich men? Why wnt dey deman things from u? Why wnt dey b classyfin u guys in categories?
On d oda hand, its such a shame some guls induldge in things like this. I mean stoop so low beggy beggy!!!. A gul shud show some respect and decency. They shudnt b always afta wat d dude gat in his wallet or his acount. I mean a guy works his sweat out juss 4 a gul to keep askin. Thats no fair game! Yes some men r generous, when dey give a gul sumthin if she likes she can accept odawise decline d offer. Declining somestimes makes a man respect a woman d more. A'a before he give u he hav already made a grab 4 it. Haba!!! Kano chika "catch head". A lady shud get full credit of her dignity & pride. She shud get credit 4 humbleness, keepin her self where God has nto taken her. She shud learn neva 2 set eyes on things dat oas hav. She shud learn that money, luxury or d richness does not grant eternal bliss & happiness. What eva dey posses & wat eva dey give u will b left behind. If a gul wants a guy & is in a relationship she shud like his for who he is and not for what he is worth!!!
Mohaaaaaaaaa u heard mah comments..........mhmmmm see how I DEY preach. Abeg make I go attend 2 my Money makin, Bentley drivin boo.......and drive dat biycle boi away
Total dissagreement yarinya, it is not zat ebery man or guy in kano is rich, wut r u talkin about? Here is kano, n we r talkin about KANO babes, but here such iz not za case, we habe so many foor youths in Kano, who r still students, or habe somehow managed 2 pinish skull, u 'll pind out zat zis set op feofle must habe been in some sort op a relashionshif with some Kano gurl in ze same bicinity, n he may b suffortin her n her farents both mentally n pinancially but when it comes 2
Daurin Aure Issue, Aaaah! she becomes a
crouching tiger n hidden dragon, n mah guy man go just colapse like a tortured pick pocketer, zis is haffening live @ kano, so u dont know hell about kano babes n MOney, take a look at zis, do u sink if am a man ready 4 marriage n scoutin 4 mah Julliet, n if i meet the Julliet, do u sink am gonna shower her with Money 2 win her heart? HELL NO! Zose dat shower gurls with money r FLAYERS seekin 4 "PUN"..............(eh...u know wut i'm sayin'), so ze will do anything in zeir FOWER 2 acquire, own, buy n order 4 it! So ur mistakin by sayin zat it is ze guys dat shower gurls wit money in ze pirst flace, i cant shower money 2 mah Libetime woman, saboda me? Ta guje ni kenan idan kudin suka kare...Allah ya kiyaye! :roll: So mah dear, dont make zat mistake, just like u said not all gurls r da same, not all guys r also da same 2, Besides, majority r foor in kano...i dont know about abj. Peace!
MHMMMM MONEY OR NO MONEY, ALLAH HAS ALREADY PLANNED WHICH CHIKA WILL MARRY WHICH EVA MAN. TORI DON FINISH ASLO NOT ALL KANO GULS BEHAVE THAT WAY. WHY WONT WE TALK ABOUT WOMEN IN GENERAL AND "SOME" WOMEN THAT IS!
Well honestly speaking Hausa girls are hard to get i dont really know the reason for that maybe some of them can help hafsy lady and ummi what do tou have to say
Quote from: "mudacris"Wato zere is somesing i recently pound out about kano babes...in Kano ip ur criffled (No Ride), deap n dumb (No GSM)...zen porget about habing a babe...esfecially in BUK.
SU hafsa ban ce ku fara surutu!
dats very tru my brova,lol. :D i cant help but laff out loud,infact u've said all i wanted 2 say as if u're in ma shoes..dats absolutely tru...lol once mo :D
Wao,i had no idea that there were so many narrow minded freaks in kano,is this what you useless creaps think about kano babes?well all i can say is that maybe its not the girls that are materialistic but rather you guys are obsessed with trying to proove to the chicks that you are part of the 'in crowd' that you'll try anything including lie and cheat to get into the heart of a babe.O.k you had a few bad experiences ,who gives a damn, there are women all over ,get your pick,or are you scared of what we call interracial or even intertribal marriage,[oops, there might be this slight problem that mummy wouldn't let her wheeny boy try that ,huh]well what ever the case that's your problem,try being a little honest to the babes once in a while,mayde someone might be crazy or stupid enough to get hitched to such a bunch of low lifes as yourselves.As for justifying what we kano chicks do[as you put it] we ain't got no time to do that,every individual is entitled to his/her opinion,get that into your thick schulls. ::
sun baka wahala nee?
Quote from: "Surayya Galadima"Ai abun juyi juyi ne, kuma maza that is almost the same thing you do.
If a girl is not fair in complexion, with long hair, who is from a high status family, who is studying abroad, sai kawai ku saka birki ai. Kuyine suma suyi muku. Kwazo kuna kawo kukanku. :?
Wannan kawai kin fadi abin da ya yi maki dadi a ranki. Amma ai gaskiyar magana shi ne Jan ajin ku yayi yawa. sai dai muce Allah ya kyauta.
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Which galadanci would that be? ? ? An ce yan galadancin kano ba sa bawa talaka ko mai karamin karfi ya'yan su?What would u say to that :?: [/size][/quote]
Babu shakka ya kamata a baka amsa danuwa.
Dang!
LEAVVE KKANNO GGELLS ALLONNEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. LET THEM BREATH MANA.
Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"Quote from: "dan kauye"now i've got lyk 1,2,3,4...yeah lyk 4 chiks all 2 my only self(lol)....kano chikc will be d last i'll date
*(BIG SNEEZE)* kai some pipul..sha, VILLAGE PIPUL CAN BOOSTY BOOSTY! PROBABLY NA KANO GEL YOU DEY DATE PRESENTLY. STOP FOOLING YOUR MOUTH. YOU DONT KNOW IF GOD WILL JOIN YOU IN HOLY MATRIMONY WITH A KANO CHIKA SEF!:P Anyway I have nothing to do for now so let me help you count the remnant of your gels 5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14,15,16,17,18,19,20,22,23,24,25,26,27,28,29,30....BRODA BIA NE BAAAH......NOW WHO ON EARTH TELL YOU SAY HAVING MANY GELFREINZ NA SONTIN WEY MAN FIT TAKE BOOST/ SHOW PRIDE? IF NOT MORE EXPENSE THAT (SHE ...PARDON ME I MEAN THEYYYYY) WILL DRAW, WHERE YOU GO FIT CARRY FOUR KANO CHIKAS GO AS YOU DEY COMPLAIN OF KANO GIRLS. TOH KUDAI YAN KANO NA WUNA PALAVA!:P THE DAY KANO GIRLS WITH GET TO READ THIS TOPIC. DUKANKU ZAKUSHIGA TROUBLE.
BUT SERIOUSLY, STOP SHAIDE KANO GIRLS IN DARK COLOURS AND BEGIN TO SHAIDE THEIR BRIGHT SIDES. ALOT OF THEM ARE KIND HEARTED GENEROUS AND NICE SINCERE AND WELL MANNERED.
OYA WHAT ABOUT SOME OF THE HAUSA BOYS THAT ARE FREE LOADING OFF THESE KANO GIRLS LIKE WE DID NOT KNOW ABOUT THAT!!! :roll: SOME OF THE BOYS ARE EATING OFF FROM THE GIRLS POCKETS JARE!
clear her throat (ehem ehem) Broda I like di style wey you take advertise yourself :P :P Oya KANO GELS ON YOUR MARKS GET SET (run off to DAN KAUYES VILLAGE HE WILL BE PLEASED TO HAVE ADDITIONALS)
Quote from: "Nuruddeen"]
Which galadanci would that be? ? ? An ce yan galadancin kano ba sa bawa talaka ko mai karamin karfi ya'yan su?What would u say to that :?: [/size]Babu shakka ya kamata a baka amsa danuwa.
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haka ne- nothing wrong with that. abi????
ana ce wa- cut your coat according to ur size.
talaka ya auri talaka, mai kudi ya auri mai kudi.
kaa san yan galadancin kano ba talakawa ba ne.... mutane ne masu asali masu arziki!!!!!!
Yan galadanci always marry each other. Its always one cousin marrying another. Havent you heard of inbreeding. The last 2 generations all look alike especially the nose. Anyone thinking of dating a galadnci babe better check her out. She may have webbed feet!
well....y do u guys keep blamıng the girls???
u know the guys ın kano r also materıalistics and they also prefer marrying gurls from the upper class.....plus they come to a gurls houz with benz in the morning.....XLK in the afternoon, and jaguar at night....
even if he doesnt have much....he still spends like hell to his gurl, and even borrow dough just to proove that he has a fat pocket! Oh well i have cousins in kano...they fill me in.... :D .....
and as for dem kanonian gurlz....hehehhe (yo, should i b defendin the gurlz or not?)....well i have relatives that r kanonianz....not saying nuthin....
Quote from: "guest1"Yan galadanci always marry each other. Its always one cousin marrying another. Havent you heard of inbreeding. The last 2 generations all look alike especially the nose. Anyone thinking of dating a galadnci babe better check her out. She may have webbed feet!
hah, u only need to meet a few galadanchirians to know that all that scientific nonesense about inbreeding causing genetic deformity is false!!! the thing is there is so much beauty and genius in that family that they need not look any further. Its been done for generations and so far so good!!!
believe me lady I know a few! I dont know about the genius bit but i,ll have to concede the babes are fineeeee! However you guys should lighten up and marry out for crissakes. inbreeding is a scientific fact. And why does everybody have to be married inside zubairiya hall or whatever its called? Are you married? are you lined up for a galadanci cousin? don,t you want to see how the other half lives
LOL LOL LOL
well which question do u want answered first? To begin with Zubair is the name of he who arguably began the family tree- the link between the different families. The Zubairiyya hall is where they have family meetings and gatherings and there is also a school on the premiss. Its a sort of institution if u know what i mean.
Believe me there is genius in the family- you name it-we got it. doctors, lawyers, engineers, etc.
As for the whether I'm married or not bit, i prefer not to say. But i can tell you there is nothing wrong with keeping it in the famil- You are almost guaranteed a solid foundation and the chances of divorce are very slim....
See what i mean. , arranged weddings,Family meetings, your very own galadanci school. Sounds like a mafia kinda thing. So what happens if an "outsider" or some poor mere mortal who has no descendants from the "tree" happens to see a galadanci babe and develops serious thoughts. Is there an indocrination ritual for the hapless commoner?
What if you(supposing youre not married) happen to fall for a plain ol Mr non galadanci? Wll there be an emergency meeting in zubairiya to discuss your abominable choice?
Seriously i just heard of a galadanci wedding on saturday at "you know where" but i dont know the details.
who knows, maybe it,s you.
Hi again guest1. why dont u register and then i can answer ur questions in your private message box cos i don't think anyone cares to know about the galadanci's and besides the topic is 'kano babes' and not 'galadanci babes'. so since this has turned into a private conversation u either leave your contact details (email add) in my pm box or.... but i think u have to register to be able to access it, i'm not sure.
however, if you are in the situation that i think that u are in then don't distress there may still be hope for you..... sometimes we allow 'mere mortals', 'outsiders' and some unsophisticated species into the web..... 8)
salam.....okay.... lol ı dont know who yall be talkıng bout.... but as far as ı am concerned ıt ıs halal to marry cousıns and so on.... but ıntermarrıage had nothıng to do wıth mutatıon (lol webbed feet!). anywayzzz the only thıng ıs that there ıs more chance of gettıng dıseases wıthın the famılly....bcoz the genes keep....blah blah..ı dont need to be all scıentıfıc..ı am sure yall get me...
but hey ıf they r happy...... forget everythıng else!
hmmmm, some ya'all r makin this Kano guls issue sound bad, y u guys wanna turn it like a burial mourning. I mean wen a gul wants 2 ride on a rich mans tail coat & eat from his gold plates let her do as she pleases if a man can cope is willin 2 cope & is able 2 cope!
Truss meh if a gul wants 2 parlay----u know---- she wants 2 chill on d highest level on a guys dosh & if he wants 2 spend like whoa! on her so b it!
We also hav false playaz on d increase everyday, showin off, tryna woe a chika wit dosh, now why not turn ur cursin fingaz on dem? Dey r d sort of real fake brothas dat wear their credentials on their foreheads. First thin dey do wen dey meet a sista is tell her which xpensive condo he resides in, wat he does 4 a livin (dats if a gul is lucky dat he aint no hard core crook) how many tyms he been abroad or proceeds 2 tell her dat hes d chairman or board director of so so bank or is d son of so so minister or he hold a degree or Phd in so so & d best interlect eva & will soon qualify as d toppest paid in kano. Or he will juss lauch a conversation tellin u wat kind of assets he possess blah blah blah I can go on & on (Fat hiss). Therefore puhleeeeeeez fellas dnt juss vent on Kano guls, Quite ryt some women not ONLY kano guls r afta wats in a dudes pocket. Sum women push d right buttons dat only women can 2 get men of sucessfully fat pockets & dey equally lavish d guls (she laffs)! But wen d table turns round men start 2 holla. Some men r d perfect cause 4 such situations dat some of u here r sulkin bout & blamin kano guls. Let dem b jare
But soul sistas listen 2 dis: A woman of worth knows wats shes worth. A woman of worth dnt hav 2 bcum a "Destiny's Childs" but she adopts their advice & bcums INDEPENDENT!!!. Some women dnt need no mans riches 2 keep her goin. I personally dnt & inshallah wnt. A chika can eat from her parents pocket if dey can afford but if dey cnt den let her manage wit God sent. Or betta still get a job, get paid & do wat she feels like. Why wait 4 a man 2 pass on his benjgys $$$..............I mean get urs honee child!
Quote from: "ummita"
We also hav false playaz on d increase everyday, showin off, tryna woe a chika wit dosh, now why not turn ur cursin fingaz on dem? Dey r d sort of real fake brothas dat wear their credentials on their foreheads.
THAT IS SOOOOOOOOOO VERY TRUE THANKS FOR POINTING THAT OUT AND I JUST HOPE THE DUDES STICK THAT IN THE BACK OF THE HEADS & ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT ANYTTIME THEY BEGIN TO FRET ABOUT *KANO GULS BEING FREELOADERS*.Boi ohhhhh boi (he he he) I just LOVEEEEEEE THE LAST PARAGRAPH. Advice to the honeezzzzzzzz :D
Lemme lip sing a line *play :arrow:
The shoes on my feet
I've got it
The clothes I'm wearin
I've got it
The rock I'm rockin
I've got it
'Cause I depend on me
If I wanted
The watch you're wearin
I'll buy it
The house I live in
I've got it
The car I'm drivin
I've bought it
I depend on me
(I depend on me)
All the women who are independent
Throw your hands up at me
All the honeys who makin money
Throw your hands up at me
All the mommas who profit dollas
Throw your hands up at me
All the ladies who truly feel me
Throw your hands up at me
Hey am just having a good time got alot of time to spare in kanoonline today.
Girl I didn't know you could get down like that
Charlie, how your Angels get down like that
Girl I didn't know you could get down like that
Charlie, how your Angels get down like that
Tell me how you feel about this
Who would I want if I would wanna live
I worked hard and sacrificed to get what I get
Ladies, it ain't easy bein' independent
Question: How'd you like this knowledge that I brought
Braggin' on that cash that he gave you is to front
If you're gonna brag make sure it's your money you flaunt
Depend on noone else to give you what you want
Hehehe! Twinkle u've diverted dis topic into a destiny's child class!
dat song really says a lot, u know.
Ummita it is so true. Da way da world is 2day, I think women really
shud become independent. It's quite annoying when u see some people
depending completely on their husbands for every single thing
{Kudin chefane, bla bla...}. It's not a secure thing 2 do. At least get a
small asusu and slip in at least 10naira a day, or even enter Adashe,
it's much better :) :) :) :)
Quote from: "ummita"hmmmm, some ya'all r makin this Kano guls issue sound bad, y u guys wanna turn it like a burial mourning. I mean wen a gul wants 2 ride on a rich mans tail coat & eat from his gold plates let her do as she pleases if a man can cope is willin 2 cope & is able 2 cope!
Truss meh if a gul wants 2 parlay----u know---- she wants 2 chill on d highest level on a guys dosh & if he wants 2 spend like whoa! on her so b it!
YOU ARE CORRECT RIGHT THERE BROWN SUGARHHHHH.
If some girls are after men that speak in money and she feels thats what she wants and they wanna supply. Then why not go ahead, so if a guy feels he cant cope with a girl who is too demanding and he aint the HUGE money making type. HELL YAH DUMP HER AND MOVE ON! A brother should not let a sister make him feel low if he aint got bills, he can pick up another who will cherish him for what he really is. Personally any girl who dates a guy just for his money. Honey one day he is gonna get up and leave and I rest assure a sister that he will be hooking himself up with another gul using the same systematic money style to get with a her. Why? because indirectly he has purchased you just like purchasing a commodity in a market because the only way he can keep you is by giving you money money money & all the luxuries you want. So he is just buying a sister. On her side and in the real sense, she doesnt love him, she loves the money. Thus making him look foolish in the eyes of her freinds & making her too stupid because she is one of the sister that is spoiling images of other sistas as "money mongas". Cus I seen lots of guls big mouthing that dey cheating on a daddy cause he gat fat wallet. But heyyyy there are guls that have rich boyfreinds or men and it is so ok if they have & real love does exist. Hey its like a game 50-50. Like Ummita said some men to be blamed!
FATEEZ & TWINKLE :wink: TELL 'EM GULS
uhmmm....dis place oozes feminity....gurl talk...can i take part...kai spooky vibe...
kwa gaya musu. Allah ya hada ku da shegun birni in ga ta destinys child!
LOL @ FATEEZ & TWINKLE (I feel alot of gurl powa vibe PLUS energy in u two let me help pass the microphone?) & GUEST1 U R HILARIOUS.
I SECOND UR STATEMENT FATEEZ, SUM WOMEN SHUD LEARN TO SAVE THEIR OWN THATS THE REAL RIGHT THERE!!!!
This is gr8..women being independent implies that men will be independent also....ma huta wallahi........
Ina fa ka ga hutu Alhaj!
They'll simply eat their cake and want to have it too. Womens lib, girl power, independence. Theres always a new concept to work on your mind and make you feel guilty. They are the weaker sex when they want to be pampered and protected, they can be all girl power and bootiliciously independent when it suits their fancy and you're left confused, wondering what mode they're in so you can adapt appropriatley.
Quote from: "kitkat"Ina fa ka ga hutu Alhaj!
They'll simply eat their cake and want to have it too. Womens lib, girl power, independence. Theres always a new concept to work on your mind and make you feel guilty. They are the weaker sex when they want to be pampered and protected, they can be all girl power and bootiliciously independent when it suits their fancy and you're left confused, wondering what mode they're in so you can adapt appropriatley.
You have revealed a secret most women will find offensive but its true.
Honestly speakin, I`m scared of kano gurlz so ama just leave this conversation here b4 I start having nightmares
Quote from: "zezezee"hey ma men!! kwana 2...it looks like u have been up to some research and wanted to know HOW FAR. right?
GIRLS.....
lol
wat a topic!!
see, mallam muda, not only kano girls r money mongers, they r evenly spread all across the globe.. i bet even in heavens if girls wld be able to see other guys' cribs, they wil practice the trend. lol, thank God, that will b impossible. ?;D
the main reason why girls are attracted to money is that they feel it goes together with power and fame (most of the time). They unconciously think that these guys are more intelligent, more interestin, have more fun, and most of all, CAN GIVE DEM DA LIFESTYLE, mamen!! ?:D. u see, right from time, they (hunnies), have been buildin up embedded fantasies that they want to actualize at the first opportunity that surfaces...and with the boxed-up homie that shows up, only means its practicals time...hehe ?;D (sorry ladies)..
hey, k-online babes, u dnt have to feel bad, cos we know u aint anythin like this...... is that not so k-onliners??
but man, not all girls r that way, there will always be the good ones out there.... plus if u can learn to get a girls attention, and then give her the feelings that she wants, she will treat u like the rich n famous as well. so just restructure ur style kawai!!! ?8)
zezezeze!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
wato topic in kun ya samu ko. ma gee masy be we go ask mr ADMIN to make u COUNSELLOR ip i sifel it correct.
you can become trhe shrink of the net.
THESE GIRLS ARE ALL THE SAME.
CHECK MY POST ON
THE CHEMISTRY OF GIRLS(NOT WOMEN),
JEWEL (GARUS)
Quote from: "Fateez"emmm...Guyz, U know it wudn't hurt
if u just add da word "some" to ur posts, rite?
cos only "some" Kano gals truly act like dat
YEAR RIGHT..............
Quote from: "guest"Quote from: "madori"Quote from: "thegood"salaam, ai wannan kadan da aikin 'yan matan kano............they have catogarised men as:
1. ready made :shock:
2. the struggling 8)
3. no hope :(
so if one is not in catogary 1..........better forget having a Kano babe...
Ai thegood,wani sabon abu ma shi ne sun yi breaking category 1(ready made) as:
1.Qualified
2.Qualifided
Allah shi gyara :( :roll:
Gaskiya a category 1 shine kana da MOTA? kana da GSM? indan ko babu to DISQUALIFIDED, 'yan matan kano ayi hattara garin daga Aji Ajin yake tsinkewa, mudai muna tudun mun tsira. Allah yayi mana jagora, Amin summa Amin
CATEGORY A: IGNORE THEM
B:GO TO BAUCHI (GA BEAUTY GA ARHA) SORRY NO OFFENCE TO ANY BAUCHIAN......
C: IF U R WITH THEM , BECOME THE SPY WHO LOVES ME
i.e NAMU NAMU NE......
Quote from: "straightalkin"Hi again guest1. why dont u register and then i can answer ur questions in your private message box cos i don't think anyone cares to know about the galadanci's and besides the topic is 'kano babes' and not 'galadanci babes'. so since this has turned into a private conversation u either leave your contact details (email add) in my pm box or.... but i think u have to register to be able to access it, i'm not sure.
however, if you are in the situation that i think that u are in then don't distress there may still be hope for you..... sometimes we allow 'mere mortals', 'outsiders' and some unsophisticated species into the web..... 8)
IS EITHER THE STRIKER OR THE BALL. MEN U R A GOOD DEFENDER.YOU NO DEY SEE ,YOU NO DEY LEAVE........
Quote from: "jewel(abdulgee22)"IS EITHER THE STRIKER OR THE BALL. MEN U R A GOOD DEFENDER.[/b]
YOU NO DEY SEE ,YOU NO DEY LEAVE........
u want to pick a fight????
(Jumpin in xcitement) Is there gonna b a fyt 4 real? Woohooooooo..........EIGHTY THOUSAND NAIRA cash down on d table!!!!!........(am puttin mah money & bet on Straighttalkin)............
Its one on one straightalkin vs jewel.
Let me run off & grab a cool drink & mah best comfy rest chair
Quote from: "ummita"(Jumpin in xcitement) Is there gonna b a fyt 4 real? Woohooooooo..........EIGHTY THOUSAND NAIRA cash down on d table!!!!!........(am puttin mah money & bet on Straighttalkin)............
Its one on one straightalkin vs jewel.
Let me run off & grab a cool drink & mah best comfy rest chair
LOL :lol: OYA ummita since u really like to see a fight- why dont u be the referee- i've got my boxing gloves and ready to rumble!
MALLAM KA ZAGE KA NEMI KUDI.! THAT'S THE SOLUTION BROTHER!
Quote from: "mlbash"MALLAM KA ZAGE KA NEMI KUDI.! THAT'S THE SOLUTION BROTHER!
hahaah! MLBASH,ashe kagane!...jus recently i saw the-then-apple-of -my eye( coz now she's d spike of my eye) waving invitingly @ me,guess itz bcoz she saw me cruzin in d latest-wonda -on -wheelz( it aint even mine)..but again gurlz will olweiz be gurlz(or @least som or @ least som kano chicks) and i dnt mean to spark up a fresh dispute...
and uhmm JEWEL.....which part of bauchi r u talking bout?? sounds like one shud giv it try(no joke)...heard YOLA CHICKS r olso pretty n eeezygoing(phew!) but 1 get 1 free(laughsss) amma dai ...(lotta apologies ladiez)
Quote from: "dan kauye"Quote from: "mlbash"MALLAM KA ZAGE KA NEMI KUDI.! THAT'S THE SOLUTION BROTHER!
hahaah! MLBASH,ashe kagane!...jus recently i saw the-then-apple-of -my eye( coz now she's d spike of my eye) waving invitingly @ me,guess itz bcoz she saw me cruzin in d latest-wonda -on -wheelz( it aint even mine)..but again gurlz will olweiz be gurlz(or @least som or @ least som kano chicks) and i dnt mean to spark up a fresh dispute...
and uhmm JEWEL.....which part of bauchi r u talking bout?? sounds like one shud giv it try(no joke)...heard YOLA CHICKS r olso pretty n eeezygoing(phew!) but 1 get 1 free(laughsss) amma dai ...(lotta apologies ladiez)
yaushe dan kauye ya iya tuki balantana ya ari mota? :roll: ...kuma ina ji that spike in ur eye is blinding u.... cos ni bana zuwa kauye balantana ka ce ma ka ganni!
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yaushe dan kauye ya iya tuki balantana ya ari mota? :roll: ...kuma ina ji that spike in ur eye is blinding u.... cos ni bana zuwa kauye balantana ka ce ma ka ganni![/quote]
OUCHHH!!!
Quote from: "ummita"(Jumpin in xcitement) Is there gonna b a fyt 4 real? Woohooooooo..........EIGHTY THOUSAND NAIRA cash down on d table!!!!!........(am puttin mah money & bet on Straighttalkin)............
Its one on one straightalkin vs jewel.
Let me run off & grab a cool drink & mah best comfy rest chair
ok to hada mu, u can be a REF . by the site of the RING.
Quote from: "dan kauye"Quote from: "mlbash"MALLAM KA ZAGE KA NEMI KUDI.! THAT'S THE SOLUTION BROTHER!
hahaah! MLBASH,ashe kagane!...jus recently i saw the-then-apple-of -my eye( coz now she's d spike of my eye) waving invitingly @ me,guess itz bcoz she saw me cruzin in d latest-wonda -on -wheelz( it aint even mine)..but again gurlz will olweiz be gurlz(or @least som or @ least som kano chicks) and i dnt mean to spark up a fresh dispute...
and uhmm JEWEL.....which part of bauchi r u talking bout?? sounds like one shud giv it try(no joke)...heard YOLA CHICKS r olso pretty n eeezygoing(phew!) but 1 get 1 free(laughsss) amma dai ...(lotta apologies ladiez)
MAN MI DEY FINE, AND NO STRESS. STILL MOI SINCERE APOLOGY TO ANY BAUCHIAN, I THINK IS A GOOD RECOMMENDATION. TRY THE AREA MAY U GO HIT 2 BIRDS WITH ONE STONE.
HOOOOLD UP...WAIT A MINUTE...
OKAY WEVE HEARD ENOUGH OF KANO GURLZ....WHAT OF KANO GUYZ?
AAHH!
Where have u been?
Kina ina su hafsy su ke gurguramma kano guys a forum dinnan at every opportunity and in every thread.
E neva do una abi?
Quote from: "Fulanizzle"HOOOOLD UP...WAIT A MINUTE...
OKAY WEVE HEARD ENOUGH OF KANO GURLZ....WHAT OF KANO GUYZ?
RED ALERT SOMEONE IS ASKING INNA KUKE ? MAKE UNA SHOW YUR................... KAI.
A DUE.
Quote from: "Fulanizzle"HOOOOLD UP...WAIT A MINUTE...
OKAY WEVE HEARD ENOUGH OF KANO GURLZ....WHAT OF KANO GUYZ?
Madam u can tell berra...kema kin san bambanci
Kano Guys r Brabe Simfle, we sfeak our minds, unlike Kano gurls, zey fretend not to be interested in a guy while inside zey r dead in lobe with ze Mugu!
Dats not all...more reasons behind!
Quote from: "zezezee"hey ma men!! kwana 2...it looks like u have been up to some research and wanted to know HOW FAR. right?
GIRLS.....
lol
wat a topic!!
see, mallam muda, not only kano girls r money mongers, they r evenly spread all across the globe.. i bet even in heavens if girls wld be able to see other guys' cribs, they wil practice the trend. lol, thank God, that will b impossible. ?;D
the main reason why girls are attracted to money is that they feel it goes together with power and fame (most of the time). They unconciously think that these guys are more intelligent, more interestin, have more fun, and most of all, CAN GIVE DEM DA LIFESTYLE, mamen!! ?:D. u see, right from time, they (hunnies), have been buildin up embedded fantasies that they want to actualize at the first opportunity that surfaces...and with the boxed-up homie that shows up, only means its practicals time...hehe ?;D (sorry ladies)..
hey, k-online babes, u dnt have to feel bad, cos we know u aint anythin like this...... is that not so k-onliners??
but man, not all girls r that way, there will always be the good ones out there.... plus if u can learn to get a girls attention, and then give her the feelings that she wants, she will treat u like the rich n famous as well. so just restructure ur style kawai!!! ?8)
zezezeee wato mammen , ko a lahira ma dai baza su chanza ba!! lol
let me tell all you men somthing!
i am a hausa girl, and i can say that your right! some hausa girls are stuck up. i dont blame then at all. you know why? its you men whom feel you have every right over a woman, its you men who feel that your superior over evey woman, and its you men whom get angry when u see a woman accompolish more than you do. so why wouldnt a woman do shakara to you? there is no way that i will sit and have a man tell me like he think it is and no react to him. so before you go and start blaming woman, saying that hausa girls think they are all that and so on and so fourth, look at yourself and see what you are doing before you go blaming anyone.
another thing.
not all woman are like that. there are high status girls in kano whom dont show off. its depends the woman so dont go on and say that we think were all that, and if u know you only have 20naira in your pocket, then dont bother yourself to go look for a girl who walks around with 20,000naira daily. im not trying to sound mean but stay in your place. if you know that these girls act this whay, why go there. then if she says somthing to you that you dont want to hear, then your going to go and curse her to people and spoil her name, but its not her fault, it is your fault.
so analyse yourelf before you go and blame us hausa girls for your petty mistakes.
salam
naijagal
Quote from: "naijagal"
And if u know you only have 20naira in your pocket, then dont bother yourself to go look for a girl who walks around with 20,000naira daily. im not trying to sound mean but stay in your place.
U r a real Naijagal, u r now telling me zat ip por examfle; my hearts sees a girl... (and Allah ya dora mun son ta a zuciya ta) i shudnt peel pree to affroach her because am not uf to her class eben ip am a human being? Haba yarinya?
no dont take what i said the worng way, im saying if you know that some girls would look down on you because you are lower than them, then hay go to the extent to try to talk with them, if you already know the outcome. well me im not like that at all, im nice and i wouldnt turn a man down because he dosent have anything, love dosent rely on materialistic things but on the true feelings one has for another. especially when im in kano, men seem to look down on me bacause i have money and so on. but i dont discriminate if your good to me than i am good to you!
naijagal speaks
salam
Quote from: "naijagal"im saying if you know that some girls would look down on you because you are lower than them, then hay go to the extent to try to talk with them, if you already know the outcome. well me im not like that at all, im nice and i wouldnt turn a man down because he dosent have anything, love dosent rely on materialistic things but on the true feelings one has for another
:? Well i guess sometimes u wudn't know the outcome untill u meet a person.Besides if we take ur advice of not 'tryn to talk' to girls/guys that r 'higher' than us then we wud have to miss-out on 'nice' people like urself. :wink:
Quote from: "naijagal"especially when im in kano, men seem to look down on me bacause i have money and so on. but i dont discriminate if your good to me than i am good to you!
Really?I've never known (kano) men to look down on rich women.
zizo email me at naijagal@hotmail.com
Desferado kenan... zats z sfirit!
Quote from: "zezezee"hey ma men!! kwana 2...it looks like u have been up to some research and wanted to know HOW FAR. right?
GIRLS.....
lol
wat a topic!!
see, mallam muda, not only kano girls r money mongers, they r evenly spread all across the globe.. i bet even in heavens if girls wld be able to see other guys' cribs, they wil practice the trend. lol, thank God, that will b impossible. ?;D
the main reason why girls are attracted to money is that they feel it goes together with power and fame (most of the time). They unconciously think that these guys are more intelligent, more interestin, have more fun, and most of all, CAN GIVE DEM DA LIFESTYLE, mamen!! ?:D. u see, right from time, they (hunnies), have been buildin up embedded fantasies that they want to actualize at the first opportunity that surfaces...and with the boxed-up homie that shows up, only means its practicals time...hehe ?;D (sorry ladies)..
hey, k-online babes, u dnt have to feel bad, cos we know u aint anythin like this...... is that not so k-onliners??
but man, not all girls r that way, there will always be the good ones out there.... plus if u can learn to get a girls attention, and then give her the feelings that she wants, she will treat u like the rich n famous as well. so just restructure ur style kawai!!! ?8)
madam i think u r so wrong cos it happens mostly in nigeria and mostly in the north. there run us down so much, chicks r so hard to predict
My feolfe... Can sumbody tell me Y liber dey pail ip u want 2 affroach a gurl?
Quote from: "mudacris"My feolfe... Can sumbody tell me Y liber dey pail ip u want 2 affroach a gurl?
Fear of the unknown, may be? As in you don't know whether your 'application' will be accepted or rejected. :lol:
Quote from: "Bakan~Gizo"Quote from: "mudacris"My feolfe... Can sumbody tell me Y liber dey pail ip u want 2 affroach a gurl?
Fear of the unknown, may be? As in you don't know whether your 'application' will be accepted or rejected. :lol:
MR MUDA
IT IS NOT A MATTER OF LIBER DEY FAIL , IS D HUMAN NATURE WHEN U R EXPECTING AN OUTCOME
I BET U IF GIRLS WHERE D ONES ASKING GUYS OUT , 99.9% WILL NEVER HAVE DATES.
It amazes me zat zere r gurls zat no matter how strong n real zeir lobe 4 a guy z...zey can neber oen up 2 zem, not really saying it ofen but gibin "Authentic Greenlight" ip u understand wut i mean! Zey rather go back 2 zeir room n keef pantansizing instead su sawake wa kansu!
*streches* ..me im loving this life..wow! it mustav been centuries..but im back..back for good im.uda u sure keeping this place hyped up..hit me on PM we got gist..i'd be back soon!
Quote from: "dan kauye"*streches* ..me im loving this life..wow! it mustav been centuries..but im back..back for good im.uda u sure keeping this place hyped up..hit me on PM we got gist..i'd be back soon!
Ya? Ko kayi "new Catch" ne daga kauye? ka Tuna da matanka fa?
Kano girls this... kano girls that...
Hey lets face the FACT! ALL women have alot in common... Most of them dont know what they want. Most say they want a nice guy (could be rich, religious, educated).............. but they end up going out with a bad guy (psyco, illitrate, serial killer, thief...) no one knows. It all depends on the persons aproach & character.
It does'nt matter if you are this or that, all that matters is if you are the being yourself as a man (confident, strenght, honest, dominant).
I dont think its their fault, coz even in the olden days when if ur a strong guy, women tend to like you coz they know you can hunt food & protect them.
Quote from: "mudacris"My feolfe... Can sumbody tell me Y liber dey pail ip u want 2 affroach a gurl?
Even is she rides a gold plated rollsa... and u felt u wanna know her, just do u'r thang. what r u afraid of? even if she is the daughter of king whoeva.... just be U.
Mamen, having liber is just part of every guy. Is just that some guys forget they r guys and forget that liber is inside them.
Just remember that SHE might like u or dislike u for some reason... (not her type stuff) its a normal thing for any guy.
- she might also be dumb... playing HTG (hard-to-get) and u got pissed off, or she already have her man somewhere.
dante za LOVE DOCTOR ..................................... man i like ur style , but let me think for a second . when was za last time u came to kano or 9ja in all. Man this ppl are getting greedy day by day .........................i have told u guys make za money zen by da stuff .........................women like to be bought thats that.........................kayar da ko kar kayar da.
There is sense in what u r saying jewel.....
SANK U ZIZO.....................
Quote from: "jewel(abdulgee22)"..................................... man i like ur style , but let me think for a second . when was za last time u came to kano or 9ja in all. Man this ppl are getting greedy day by day .........................i have told u guys make za money zen by da stuff .........................women like to be bought thats that.........................kayar da ko kar kayar da[/color].[/b]
A friend whom i joke with... was telling me about the minimun requirements of a normal guy in naija. Like he must have a nice ride(with a.c) at least honda 98, prefferably "end of discussions or wat..." but she can manage him if he rides a civic... The way i see this is just like any other guys choice of gurls. Some dont go out with gurls who dont have this or that... u know. some dont care whateva u have, only thing they after is if she's white & have long hair (as most women these days predict kano guys).
So its the other way round i think.
How many white long haired chicks do we habe in Kano? Besides...we dont get to see zeir hair por zey cober it n some tend to fut attachments. Kenan da ba an hakura da neman su ba?
no all girls are like that! the reason why some girls are like that is, they want a guy that will give them wat they need, i mean it's every girls dream to have a guy that is able and well off to provide her all the necessary things a girl will need and ask 4.even though money isn't everything.there both rich and poors guys have their advantage and disadvantage.to me it doesn't matter how or wat the guy is like, as long as he loves me 4 me, not 4 wat i have or who i am..thats all.
Quote from: "gimbiya_khady"...to me it doesn't matter how or wat the guy is like, as long as he loves me 4 me, not 4 wat i have or who i am..thats all.
They all say that, until... :roll:
until wat?
Until a guy with money comes along. Then the sincere, nice, long-standing boyfriend is forgotten or jilted.
Quote from: "Bakan-Gizo"Until a guy with money comes along. Then the sincere, nice, long-standing boyfriend is forgotten or jilted.
Tru talk my bro.Well said.
Women never really know what they want....they r emotionalists,they act on impulse.
You can impress a woman even if you are poor & my brown sugah, Ummita is an example. Her man rides a bicycle, owns two rented rows in a farm planting shrubs and yam. He bought her a vaseline petroleum jelly, & got her two agege bread last year. Now who can top that? And Gbenga loves her. Tell ?em Buttah, tell ?em if it aint true. (pokes Ummita with a knife).
To, ku saurara! Ku bani kunnuwanku kuji hadda wani wai zizo, I didnt even know new members got bucked up in here. To sannunka malam antropologist, mai emotion, wanda yasan abin da yake so! All I know is like or no like, na woman you go end up with. Abi :D ? To, ina yan samarin nan, let me break it down to your level, tunda ance muku wasu matan ba haka suke ba, anyi shiru sai adding more pepper to the injury kukeyi.
Ok, we all living in a material world, where diamonds are gals b/friend & a pretty betty boo kinda girl is a prospective wifey for a guy naso abi nobiso? From some womens point of view, a man with no money stands no chance only money maker does. My problem is, if you think the right reason a girl is chasing another is because his pockets has a little something more than yours, why cant you go make your own too? But fact is, some men are just dead beat lazy who cant get up off their behinds & provide. But when the next willing provider comes along they satart to de holla. The just plain lazy men we have, the lenient hearted chikah we are, will still scoop your low status and fall in luv whicchu thinking in a nick of time luck will befall you and by working yourself hard, you will elevate your poor behind up, but giving you the benefit of doubt in years to come, your big fat lazy self is still pocket empty! So ???..shhhshhhh go rest and let soul sistahs live largeeeeeeeeee. Please try and rationalise mana lol, If a guy is stupid enough not to provide, well I am cleaver enough to hunt a good provider/caretaker! (Hiss.) Dan-Kauye take note, the marriage b/w you and my granddaugther is off!
Issue number two is, a garinku, ba'a kyauta? Ina tambayarku? Ko kafin iyayenmu suyi aure,na tabbata suna ma mummy?s dinmu a little kyauta. If wuna no gree go home & ask your beloved mothers. Apart fromt that, kyauta is part of islam. Being stingy aint even right! Even the prophet (P.B.U.H) when he goes to visit Khajidah he normally buys her favourite fruities. So what is wrong if we dont like grapes or dates but we prefare A CAR just for the sake of it. Or maybe I already got one, I am just selfish to tell my HIGH FLYER that I need another car. When he gives me, I end up giving it to that (little-on the side- when- necessary- to ?use- boyfreind) Wani dadin ba daku akeci ba? Some of you encourage your girls to get hooked to a rich dude, so ya'all can freeload. Like we dont know asirinku :lol: CHEAP :
Issue number two, Just because some of you are financially challenged, doesn?t gurantee you the right to classify kano chicks as freeloaders or generalise it to include all girls cus am definitely a minus but since you cant get it right, to ai shikenan. Women of substance & high class move with men of our type! So stop di complaining. Or because you cant match up to another rich bro is that why you are all making noise here lol. Wuna no fit afford, why make noise? :P :twisted: .
I will be realistic, of?coz some women out there would never hook up witah poor brother but some of these men will not marry a girl eitherway untill they are sure that her father is well-loaded. That way he can gain financial assistance. My fellow brother here, so you wont disagree if I say some men are conniving goldiggers aswell. If a Kano girl no dey dig you just because your bank account doesn?t match her shopping budget, you wouldn?t want her anyway. So the next lucky Gusto, who has money playing safe on his side would want an expensive girl and to me that is what I call fair play. This idea of kano girls wanting chedahz to be spent on them is pre-dated so why blame girls? Blame society because along with the idea of chivalry comes the assumption dat man go dey provide for woman. Fred Flinstones leaves ehn house to go work for Mr.Slate and comes home to the dinner dat Wilma has prepared adorning her with rocky necklaces and so who are you to complain when it is yourselves that started this, showing love and affection with luxury but as wise as we can be, we show you affection that wont make a hole in our pockets. Idan muka buga muku miyan kuka da kashi kuka zauna kuka lashe ai shikenan. A?a ku, wuna wan be MR IMPRESS! As I said the norm of men spending is passed throuhh generations & even though some chikahs are independent, who wouldn?t want a little EXTRA? :D Don?t forget we are also self-sfufficient & are just much in force & threfore no longer need to depend on a specie called ?man? to bring home the fillet. But yama muku dole, Allah yace mu zauna a gida ku fita ku nemo. To, kafin ayi aure, dan kun nemo kun bamu so what? :roll: So zizo,Bakan gizo, kitkat,Mudacris,Dante, Figorms, Jewel & the rest of your kind should RELAX?..and pocket your smo smo change (hiss) because we are just as powerful and financially capable but that doesn?t mean we are willing to spend on you because it doesn?t flow with the norms, rather you spend on us lol.
And Bakan-Gizo, you are on about, when a guy comes along, the former one will be dumped. God if you guys have any idea, how hard it is for a girl when it comes to making a crucial decision in keeping a poor dude who lacks funds or discarding him is, then you wont be saying none because it will be so ludacrious to tag along with poor pockets wen fat pocket dey grease. (am I being sarcastic or realistic?laughing evil)
Not even that, its a catch twenty-two situation here, you are all here throwing groupie mouthing at soul sistahs wey dey grease luxurious when am sure you all went to school and you know what FREEDOM means, so if a girl doesn?t dig you anymore and prefares che-chengs that is what you simply call ?CHOICE? in English. There?s plenty and more reasons why sometimes we drop all these young'unz and move on.
1. sometimes ya'all too immatured
2. sometimes ku kanku baku gama iya lura da kanku ba amman sai ku dakko ma kanku rikici, sai kaga wani ko dan degree din bai gama hadawa ba, sannan aiki yanzo ya dan fara tasowa amman yace yanson yarinya da aure. Forgetting even tutuition fee, na Daddy wey dey still pay! Abi na lie? Ba?a biyanmuku kudin makaranta? Idan ko anayi ashe barazanar air kawai kuke yi.
3. God said you should marry a person for their education,physical features and WEALTHHH. Use a bud & remove the wax in your ears, God say marry RISHHHH PESSIN :lol:
4. Most times, da tsunmanku muke auranku, ba sai mun aureku ba kuke fara saka yar senegalise, ku dan tara gemu, ku kuma fara fitowa da dan Naira forgetting that Arzikin namiji na bayar matarsa.
Women this, women that. To tun kan a haife ku muke jin hakan. Yanzu yan matasa daku kunzo da yar surutun ku. What ever a girl feel like adding in her collection of rich possession, if her man can afford it so be it. Kudai kuna jin haushi ne kawai big men na kwace muku yanmata. well booo hooo! Flipping a coin, some men also like their girl phat! Tyt, with good brains & cute face. The way you guys want a BROWN SUGAH, its the same way some girls wants a RICH PAPITOH TO DIP HIS HANDS INTO HIS POCKITTO AND SPLASH WHAT HE GAT FOR HIS CHIQUITOH......WE ALSO PUT LOOKS INTO CONSIDERATION (dat one very important?.you want offsprings cute)
Dama even before I got well engaged to my hubby, I made sure he pushes the latest whip & I made sure his garrage got the sickest rides. I made sure he can handle me proper. I made sure my house will be ice. I made sure my food is tight. I made sure he can afford me some high taste, like for me to dress to impress AND I MADE SURE I GOT RID OF THAT GOOD FOR NOTHING PEST THAT CALLS HIMSELF MY FUTURE HUSBY WHO COULDNT GIMME JACK!!! So.............make wuna burn!!!!!!, ME ZA'AYI DA SMO SMO SHILLINGS DINKU, BEFORE YOU GOT NERVE TO CATER FOR US, OUR PARENTS DID PLUS TWO HANDS, TWO LEGS, I CAN WELL LABOUR FOR MY OWN CHEDAZ. So for such and such reasons, Omo, kano girls ROCK ON AND ROLL WITH THE SHOOTAHZ!
and bois all have a drink or two of cold water & just chill, wuna no fit speady spendings so move aside and give the floor to those with OSIMIYATATA's to move fast!
POOR MEN DONT EVEN STAND A CHANCE.....IN MY BOOKS & TO WIN LOVE, YOU GOTTAH SWEAT A LITTLE:roll: lol (maybe am still old fashioned, but my husby still likes it like that, so other peoples opinion doesnt matter). Infact I am putting a normal request. Tonight when I speak to my husby who has gone to Tokyo to get me some few custom made Gucci's and some Milanos & Anna sui's so that I will look sheek as I sashy around in my new Versace Fur clinging my Tod bag and slapping my Prada shades I will also ask him to drop by Beijing & employ me some chefs. :roll: :D
Now I aint sayin his a gold diggah (When I'm Need)
But I aint messin wit no broke niggaz
(He did me wrong)
Now I aint sayin his a gold digger (When I'm need)
but I aint messin wit no broke niggaz
get down boi go head get down (I gotta leave)
Ooopssss am sawrryy, I was just singing my own version!
lallai yarinyar nan ta gama jarabawa, tana zaman kashe wando.
Oya guys! begin de ansa her sharp sharp, ni dai na tafi neman na Gucci :D :D
Iyyeeeeeeeee! Oh gurl u don Chof pood oh! Baki da kunya ko, na US u dey lash like dat? Wato islamiya tought u zat u shoud FOCKET HUNT guys wit money? Kano! U c...zat is exactly ze foint i'm stressing! Watch zat ur mouth O! U r comfaring our tsopapi iyaye zat zey were lyk dat too.
Ze froblem with gurls in kano or all gurls in nija is dat eben ip zey get zeir dream guy, zey dont eben know how to flease him, it is agreed zat a little gipt attracts a lot, ko irin dan gipt din nan, ko dan socks, ko kuma da singlet, ko kuma dan Kwalabe (sfiders) bobo ya dan kashe a ido yana burga cewa eh seniorita din sa ce ta bashi as a gibt bakuwa yi. zat is ze most annoying thing. idan mutum yana da kudi ai ya fi karfin kwalabe dai ko? ko ba haka ba? but a little sumtin increase ze lobe in existance u know wut i mean. u r damn too lucky zat i'm peeling so sleefy...da kin gane kuranki, Ke? Lallai ma u don chof pood. i will still get u.
And Kanye West wrote zat song in idea of Kano gurls...fut zat at ze back op ur mind!
Toh Mutane baku ganin halin da jamar nijeriya ke ciki? Dole matan kano su bi maza masu Kudi. Matsalar shi ne Talauci yayi yawa..Ya bi ya mamaye kasar tamu. kuma a Gida iyaye basu ma san yaran su na fita wajan aiki. toh ai kaga dole su jira samarin su su basu dan abin hannu tunda iyayansu basu iya basu. kuluyaumin kuma... kowa fa na san shanawa yanzu.toh aikaga dole su bi mai saa su su shana
Quote from: "Yarkwaye ce"Toh Mutane baku ganin halin da jamar nijeriya ke ciki? Dole matan kano su bi maza masu Kudi. Matsalar shi ne Talauci yayi yawa..Ya bi ya mamaye kasar tamu. kuma a Gida iyaye basu ma san yaran su na fita wajan aiki. toh ai kaga dole su jira samarin su su basu dan abin hannu tunda iyayansu basu iya basu. kuluyaumin kuma... kowa fa na san shanawa yanzu.toh aikaga dole su bi mai saa su su shana
there's something about you..i dunno but i'll get it figured! :?
Quote from: "dan kauye"
there's something about you..i dunno but i'll get it figured! :?
May be the "Got Suya" in her sig? :? Do I detect a relationship btw that sig and the title of this thread? :? :shock:
Dan allah ku fada min wanda bai san suya? a kassar turawa suna tallan ce wa mutane su sha madara "Got Milk?" toh mu mutanan Naija mun fi gane Nama... idan kuma ya sha kulikuli sai a ce "suya" toh saboda tsabar san suya shine fa nake sa "GoT SuYa?" idan akwai sarkin nama a kusa ya sannar da ni. :P
Quote from: "Yarkwaye ce"Dan allah ku fada min wanda bai san suya? a kassar turawa suna tallan ce wa mutane su sha madara "Got Milk?" toh mu mutanan Naija mun fi gane Nama... idan kuma ya sha kulikuli sai a ce "suya" toh saboda tsabar san suya shine fa nake sa "GoT SuYa?" idan akwai sarkin nama a kusa ya sannar da ni. :P
Why not "Got Fura"? Zat's a good one though, but let me refly u, babu ruwan kasa da neman kudi agurin yanmata, so wut will u say about chicks zat zeir farents are stinking rich but zey only want to hang out wit ze rich n pamous? Ehn?
N by ze way, wut do u mean by "Yarkwaya Ce"?
Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"........
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The topic's name is "Kano Girls Nawa'wo" not "GUYZ NAWAWO"...
U kinda make sense in something u said but u shuld remember that in every guys life is WHAT U C IS WHAT U MIGHT NOT GET. Meaning alot of things that only we guys understand. right guys?
Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"
s.) Dan-Kauye take note, the marriage b/w you and my granddaugther is off!
I no gree with this sam-sam... dankauye yace idan ba itaba fa sai rijiya.
Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"To, ku saurara! Ku bani kunnuwanku kuji hadda wani wai zizo, I didnt even know new members got bucked up in here. To sannunka malam antropologist, mai emotion, wanda yasan abin da yake so! All I know is like or no like, na woman you go end up with. Abi ? To, ina yan samarin nan, let me break it down to your level, tunda ance muku wasu matan ba haka suke ba, anyi shiru sai adding more pepper to the injury kukeyi.
Sorry,
ranki shiyadede,madam hafsy lady,I apologise for over steping my place as a new member(i noticed you joined just a few months before me).I was not aware that when older/senior members are chattering and giberring about a general issues us simplings are not expected to venture an opinion.
Don Allah
kiyi hakuri.
My crime apparently was lamenting the fact that some women(genrally, and not just Kano women) don't give a second thought to dumping their boyfriends as soon as a richer fellow shows intrest in them....i want to point out to your highness that i am of the opinion that NOT all women are materialistic.pls re-read all my posts again....with objectivity.....and without emotion.
I am not an an antropologist,i don't always know what i want,im just sayin women more than men always allow their emotions to cloud there minds and take control of their actions,this is understandable when you consider their ordeal with PMS,pregnancy mood swings etc.(no offence intended here
ranku yadedes :? :oops:
Unfortunately Hafsy,u are right,"like or no like" i have to end up with an "African Queen"...so i'll keep on praying and hoping she does exist
Quote from: "Hafsy lady"Ok, we all living in a material world, where diamonds are gals b/friend & a pretty betty boo kinda girl is a prospective wifey for a guy naso abi nobiso? From some womens point of view, a man with no money stands no chance only money maker does. My problem is, if you think the right reason a girl is chasing another is because his pockets has a little something more than yours, why cant you go make your own too? But fact is, some men are just dead beat lazy who cant get up off their behinds & provide. But when the next willing provider comes along they satart to de holla. The just plain lazy men we have, the lenient hearted chikah we are, will still scoop your low status and fall in luv whicchu thinking in a nick of time luck will befall you and by working yourself hard, you will elevate your poor behind up, but giving you the benefit of doubt in years to come, your big fat lazy self is still pocket empty! So ???..shhhshhhh go rest and let soul sistahs live largeeeeeeeeee. Please try and rationalise mana lol, If a guy is stupid enough not to provide, well I am cleaver enough to hunt a good provider/caretaker! (Hiss.) Dan-Kauye take note, the marriage b/w you and my granddaugther is off!
Yeah its a really scary world we are living in when a poor hard working guy who is honest and upright has to work for over 12hrs a day everyday and earns peanuts for his efforts but is called lazy,uncaring and (among other things)unromantic while a corrupt politician who makes (illegal millions) by doing nothing is the one the ladies rush for and praise as the hardworking,honest romantic fellow.
Hafsy im not against women going after the pomp and gliter of this world but id point out that its a fact and has happened more alot of times where a guy working-class type doesn't make enough to provide for his basics(u know how nigeria is) but is truly doing his best to please the love of his life when along comes this guy-a spoilt brat/son of a rich politician,a rich politician- and lures the girl away....
Its great and commendable that some the 'lenient hearted chikah(s)' are willing to "scoop (to)our low status and fall in luv whicchu(us)thinking in a nick of time luck will befall you and by working yourself hard, you will elevate your poor behind up, but giving you the benefit of doubt in years to come, your big fat lazy self is still pocket empty".My dear lady, in the nigerian set-up the honest hardworking guy almost always ends his days with his "pockets empty" so its either you girls go for the sure-rich-dishonest or rare-rich-and-honest guy if you are loking for status and material security but forget about the poor-honest-guy or the poor-hopfuly-will-get-rich-guy and ofcorse the poor lazy guy.
But i always thought true love meant for beter or for worse-for richer or......but then im new here,i don't know anything
On your 1st Issue number two-the one about kyauta, id say this:first of all as youv mentioned the Prophet's(PBUH) idea of a gift ranged from half a date,fruits,even a smile to whatever a chap can CONVINIENTLY AFFORD...afterall isn't it the thougt that counts?It can be recalled that when the Prophet's wives (our mothers RAH) tasked Him to improve their material status and condition, He gave them an ulimatum to choose betwwen Him and material world....and guess what they chose....u all ladies could do good by borrowing a leaf from this event.
So pls dont dump a guy who truly cares for you just cos he wont go beyond his capabilities just to satisfy your trivial desires(or doesn't know the way to Tokyo or know what a Versace Fur is let alone be able to emplot a chinese chefs)...even if it is gettin a car for your on-the-side boyfriend.
On issue number two number two,like i've mentioned, i truly don't think all you are the same.....this is why i have been patiently waiting and searching for the exceptional gal.......though im begining to have doubts that they exist.
Quote from: "hafsy lady". This idea of kano girls wanting chedahz to be spent on them is pre-dated so why blame girls? Blame society because along with the idea of chivalry comes the assumption dat man go dey provide for woman. Fred Flinstones leaves ehn house to go work for Mr.Slate and comes home to the dinner dat Wilma has prepared adorning her with rocky necklaces and so who are you to complain when it is yourselves that started this, showing love and affection with luxury but as wise as we can be, we show you affection that wont make a hole in our pockets.............. A?a ku, wuna wan be MR IMPRESS! As I said the norm of men spending is passed throuhh generations & even though some chikahs are independent, who wouldn?t want a little EXTRA?....
Yeah i agree the trends of society is a factor for things turning out this way ...but to imply men are originally and directly responsible...hmmmm....thats debateable.
In conbclusion,id have to say that although you insist to be of the rare non-materialistic kinda gal,im having a hard time being convinced cos im not sure if you are really being sarcastic or not..............
i guess your just being EMOTIONAL.
Yor post seems emotionally charged :) :lol: :D :) :lol: 8)
Quote from: "zizo"
In conbclusion,id have to say that although you insist to be of the rare non-materialistic kinda gal,im having a hard time being convinced cos im not sure if you are really being sarcastic or not..............
i guess your just being EMOTIONAL.
Yor post seems emotionally charged :) :lol: :D :) :lol: 8)
Yeah hommie, Tell Zem sumthin, u habe sfoken my mind already, so i got nothin more to say xceft to comment. Zey pail 2 understand...i dont know y, may b bcoz zey know zat wut we r arguing about has sense..."zere is no smoke without a pire", Kano Gurls Na Wa Wo!
Hafsy..fls dis ain't no beef, dis is reality, we know our gurls, we r ze ones dat go out zere, we r ze bictims here, so we are ze one zat can clearly fortray ze ficture op wut our gurls in kano do
Weldone zizo. When I saw that voluminous 'handout' released by Hafsy_Lady, I could not even find the time to go thru it. :D
Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"
1. sometimes ya'all too immatured
2. sometimes ku kanku baku gama iya lura da kanku ba amman sai ku dakko ma kanku rikici,
3. God said you should marry a person for tWEALTHHH. Use a bud & remove the wax in your ears, God say marry RISHHHH PESSIN :lol:
4. Most times, da tsunmanku muke auranku, ba sai mun aureku ba kuke fara saka yar senegalise, ku dan tara gemu, ku kuma fara fitowa da dan Naira forgetting that Arzikin namiji na bayar matarsa.
Like we dont know asirinku......................
Wuna no fit afford, why make noise?....................
Now I aint sayin his a gold diggah (When I'm Need)
But I aint messin wit no broke niggaz
(He did me wrong)
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:lol: :D OH MAH GOD!(she laffs) lolz, Awww Hafsy baki der kirki fah. Dis gurl is so razzzzzzzz wit wat she wants. lols. Wallah u illest fa'real.....(I havnt laffed dis baddddddddd in ages). Got tears in my eyes. lol lol lol. Awwww lord.....u guys r listenin 2 hafsy makin a at ur expense. Where is Zeezee......... :shock: no u didnt say dat.....wat was dat in number 1?.....lol lol lol lol lol.........La'ilah.......my tummy hurts....
A'a haba, leave Zizo & the rest alone. Dont mind Hafsy jare.....she is juss whindin u guys up wit her usual ways......ku battah fah, tanayin tsokanan ku ne kawai but.........Gud Lawdddd.....I had a gud laff
To add my 2cents, its very true some guls likewise men hav a fetish for riches but some have other considerations........(just ask Hafsy, who I visited yrs bck, having a huge Tyrese potrait up her walls...)(she laffs).
Brothas...........(http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/23/23_1_104.gif)
Many ppl in the world today wan2 b inluv with somebody. Howevah too many of you ppl hav lost focus on wat it takes to stay there. Especially men!!!!!! Dey hav lost focus on reaching out 2 really see wat women really want. Dey even forget dat afta d physical attractions 2 d face, hair, skin, eyes & bodies of their poential mates, which is number one most d guls go 4....... Next is, they evaluate ur intelligence, creativity, spirit, self respect & then economic stature??BUT ECONOMICIALLY SPEAKIN IN TERMS OF HUMAN PROGRESSION AND NOT JUST SIMPLY YOUR CAPITAL GAIN![/u]
Plz, put dat in d bck of ur brains & use it as a checklist ...........
Quote from: "ummita"
Many ppl in the world today wan2 b inluv with somebody.
Wut op u?
Quote from: "ummita"
Howevah too many of you ppl hav lost focus on wat it takes to stay there. Especially men!!!!!!
Habe u eber stof to look at d reasons why majority op ze hausa women use to become
KWANTAI in zeir homes?
QuoteQuoteummita wrote:
Many ppl in the world today wan2 b inluv with somebody.
Wut op u?
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Quote from: "ummita"To add my 2cents, its very true some guls likewise men hav a fetish for riches but some have other considerations........(just ask Hafsy, who I visited yrs bck, having a huge Tyrese potrait up her walls...)(she laffs).
A'an chei, why you wan embarass pessin like so :evil: That was years back, when pessin be only 12yrs jo.!!!
Sho! my dear Abs and Biceps must be ripped out to perfection just like Tyrese's. Haka kawai, which gel wan carry boo wey look like ehn never chop protein or carbohydrate. I no wan pessin wey dey suffer from anorexia? & most of all these kano men wallahi dey scare the living day light out of me they are all TOO SKINNY. After looks comes tha MON-NEY(che-ching, che-ching, che-ching).!!!!!!
Zizo I will get right back at your comment in due course
Quote from: "Bakan~Gizo"Weldone zizo. When I saw that voluminous 'handout' released by Hafsy_Lady, I could not even find the time to go thru it. :D
YOU BEST DO THAT OR ELSE :evil:[/b]
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Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"...& most of all these kano men wallahi dey scare the living day light out of me they are all TOO SKINNY.
Now I got you figured out! 8) So you prefer those Alhajis masu katon tumbi. Chei :shock:
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YOU BEST DO THAT OR ELSE :twisted:
Careful with that gun o! Ba'a wasa da bindiga. Or I report to...
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YOU BEST DO THAT OR ELSE :twisted:
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Quote from: "Bakan~Gizo"Careful with that gun o! Ba'a wasa da bindiga.
2006, some people have resorted to violence :roll: Bakan-Gizo.....my advice is stay on guard.
& did she say at age 12..........Tyrese on her walls? Age 12????????? :shock:
Quote from: "lionger"QuoteQuoteummita wrote:
Many ppl in the world today wan2 b inluv with somebody.
Wut op u?
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
A precious metal ring encrusted with a diamond in the middle, worn on the base of my fourth finger on my left hand proving a marriage life span of 15yrs with seven adorable children is no joke. :roll:
I knew it!!! Someone had to pick on that line!........
Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"
A'an chei, why you wan embarass pessin like so :evil: That was years back, when pessin be only 12yrs jo.!!!
:shock: :shock: :shock: I knew it,..it all makes sense now..this girl been rakashewa since a toddler! Y'all shud give it up to her. :lol:
One Thing...(am not Amerie) zat still bapples me is zat, zose kano gurls, majority op zem comes prom bery rich pamilies, "iyayen su Dons ne". But zey only want to hang out with ze rich, some not just because op ze money fart but just because op ze name op ze pamily op ze guy, his background, feofle shoud be saying zat she is hanging out with HIM. Chei!
Quote from: "Hafsy-Lady"Now I aint sayin his a gold diggah (When I'm Need)
But I aint messin wit no broke niggaz
(He did me wrong)
Now I aint sayin his a gold digger (When I'm need)
but I aint messin wit no broke niggaz
get down boi go head get down (I gotta leave)
Ooopssss am sawrryy, I was just singing my own version!
Love the kanye West version better....definately...agree with it too.Heard a rumor that the song was inspired by his experience with a kano babe.
Quote from: "Hafsy-lady"Zizo I will get right back at your comment in due course
A promise or a threat? Youv got me shakin',i find it really hard to sleep at night now. :(
Na daga farar tutaKano babes are really not materialitic in fact they are very ascetic,they are the best.Pls Hasfy,
ki mayar da takobinki.
Abeg people make una help me beg am
Quote from: "zizo"ki mayar da takobinki.
Abeg people make una help me beg am
Kai, ita fa ba da takobi take fada ba.
Bindiga!
In any case, she's threatening to get back at
your comment[/i], not you.
TRUST ME, I WILL GET BACK TO HIM. ZAKA SANI :evil:
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:lol: :lol: :lol: omg can't stop laughting
Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"TRUST ME, I WILL GET BACK TO HIM. ZAKA SANI :evil:
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i can see some people have resorted to hand-held improvised killing devices....hmmm, na wa ohhhhh :shock:
Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"TRUST ME, I WILL GET BACK TO HIM. ZAKA SANI :evil:
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And this will be awaiting you. Ko ya kace zizo :lol:
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Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"TRUST ME, I WILL GET BACK TO HIM. ZAKA SANI :evil:
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Hafsy zat was mean, zis is suffose 2 be a discussion Porum, not an abode or abenue por members who r auditioning por ze next Halloween:H20 mobie! Be carepul pa, babu ruwa na O! Eberybody, dont come looking por Muda zat am resfonsible ip we begin to pind members in pools op blood tight uf dead in ze bathrooms.
Hey pellas, i just heard a guy describing Some Kano babes as Poison Ivys, zat zey look quite fretty, irresistable, but once u affroache zem, u will pind out zat they sting!
i guess you beta watch out 8)
Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"
You can impress a woman even if you are poor & my brown sugah, Ummita is an example. Her man rides a bicycle, owns two rented rows in a farm planting shrubs and yam. He bought her a vaseline petroleum jelly, & got her two agege bread last year. Now who can top that? And Gbenga loves her. Tell ?em Buttah, tell ?em if it aint true. (pokes Ummita with a knife).
Do I hav a right 2 privacy? :evil:
Quote from: "ummita"Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"
You can impress a woman even if you are poor & my brown sugah, Ummita is an example. Her man rides a bicycle, owns two rented rows in a farm planting shrubs and yam. He bought her a vaseline petroleum jelly, & got her two agege bread last year. Now who can top that? And Gbenga loves her. Tell ?em Buttah, tell ?em if it aint true. (pokes Ummita with a knife).
Do I hav a right 2 privacy? :evil:
My only
Foxy Sistahs...Only God knows wut u r uf to!
Quote from: "*~MuDaCriS~*"Hey pellas, i just heard a guy describing Some Kano babes as Poison Ivys, zat zey look quite fretty, irresistable, but once u affroache zem, u will pind out zat they sting!
Dude, if 'yan matan kano are really giving you a hard time you can
always look to another place. Nobody said u have to limit urself to
kano...tunda ka ce yan matan sun fi karfin ka ai ga Zaria ga Kaduna.
Kodayake, yanzu tunda Naijagal ta taka maka burki you havent
commented on this topic. :P :P
You people dat are complainig about Kano girls being too materialistic,
havent any of you people seen the Will Smith movie HiTcH?
"Any guy can sweep any girl off her feet, he just needs the right broom."
Oky, so you think she won't like you for your "financial broom",
you could always use another one. I mean wealth is not only measured
by money, there is richness in many other aspects. Ever tried using ur
charm-broom? your intellect broom? your ustaz broom? your Mr-nice-guy
broom? your artistic broom? not even your sweet-talking broom? Just
anything, i mean there must be one special thing that an individual is
good at. Once you've found it and you've found da right person, ur
problem is solved.
Hehe, More Hitch
Alex Hitchens - "Basic Principles - no woman wakes up saying
"God, I hope I don't get swept off my feet today!" Now, she might
say "This is a really bad time for me," or something like "I just need
some space," or my personal favorite "I'm really into my career right
now." You believe that? Neither does she. You know why? 'Cause she's
lying to you, that's why. You understand me? Lying! It's not a bad time for
her. She doesn't need any space. And she may be into her career, but
what she's really saying is "Uh, get away from me now," or possibly "Try
harder, stupid," but which one is it? 60% of all human communication is
nonverbal, body language; 30% is your tone, so that means 90% of what
you're saying ain't coming out of your mouth. Of course she's going to lie
to you! She's a nice person! She doesn't want to hurt your feelings! What
else she going to say? She doesn't even know you... yet. Luckily, the fact
is that just like the rest of us, even a beautiful woman doesn't know what
she wants until she sees it, and that's where I come in. My job is to open
her eyes. Basic Principles - no matter what, no matter when, no matter
who... any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet; he just
needs the right broom.
thats it fateez, u've done n dusted it for them, now its up to d guys to choose the rite broom and the rite lady and get to work :lol:
Quote from: "amira"thats it fateez, u've done n dusted it for them, now its up to d guys to choose the rite broom and the rite lady and get to work :lol:
Rite broom rite lady...lol. They will sweep her off her feet...and into a rubbish tip!!! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: (with their false promises)
Quote from: "HUSNAA"Quote from: "amira"thats it fateez, u've done n dusted it for them, now its up to d guys to choose the rite broom and the rite lady and get to work :lol:
Rite broom rite lady...lol. They will sweep her off her feet...and into a rubbish tip!!! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: (with their false promises)
:lol: :lol: :lol: allah sarki.
Quote from: "HUSNAA"..thats it fateez, u've done Rite broom rite lady...lol. They will sweep her off her feet...and into a rubbish tip!!! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: (with their false promises)
Probably after sweeping her off, da ya kwashe sai ya ga ashe shara ce. Sai dust bin. Know what I mean?
I rather use a strong broom and smack ze pace op such material Committed girls. Tizzle u know, Girls in Kano rather loose ze quality guy as long as he is not as pinancially ufgraded as zey want. So seriously which eber broom u use wouldn't jinx zem, execft may be ip ze broom was recommended by Filius Flitwick...lol!
Whose been reading Harry Potter then eh Muda :wink:
Or whose ever broom was recommended by flitwick also has platinum credit cards with Gringots bank ko?
Quote from: "HUSNAA"Whose been reading Harry Potter then eh Muda :wink:
Or whose ever broom was recommended by flitwick also has platinum credit cards with Gringots bank ko?
Its not like zat Husnaa, i thought using ze right broom is all about "Charm", zat is what i meant, by ze way dats wut all'yall Kanobabes dream op habing...Frince Charmin'....LOL but punny enoup Frince Charmin' rides on horse not some truck with gold flated grills on ze wheels.
Quote from: "HUSNAA"Quote from: "amira"thats it fateez, u've done n dusted it for them, now its up to d guys to choose the rite broom and the rite lady and get to work :lol:
Rite broom rite lady...lol. They will sweep her off her feet...and into a rubbish tip!!! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: (with their false promises)
Hehe, spoken like a true cynic. U r right though, it's totally up to him on
what happens next. but everyone definitely has a chance to make her fall
4 him no matter what.
Quote from: "*~[iMuDaCriS~*"]I rather use a strong broom and smack ze pace op such material Committed girls. Tizzle u know, Girls in Kano rather loose ze quality guy as long as he is not as pinancially ufgraded as zey want. So seriously which eber broom u use wouldn't jinx zem, execft may be ip ze broom was recommended by Filius Flitwick...lol!
Hehe, Muda, u r beginning to sound like those
"I failed my exam because the teacher hates me" attitude.
What I'm saying is sure some girls might like money, for whatever
reason, but the thing is maybe it's not only the money they are after.
maybe they also want someone who is charming for instance, so they
asked for loaded and they got charming and loaded. Of course they'd
think "what have we got to lose?"
Say maybe i offer you $10m, you would accept it ba? Ok what if i then
offer you $10m and a 3-bedroom house. Which would you prefer??? It is
only natural for you to accept the house and the money because the
world is in such a state that money = security and comfort.
What if i then offer you only $500 with an English Neo-Renaissance
Victorian style 20 bedroom mansion (Which by da way, is worth a fortune
but you cannot sell). U have to pick one from either the $10m, the $10m
& house or the $500 and mansion. Which would you pick? tsakani da Allah.
The money represents the wealth and the house represents character.
What I'm saying here is, if da character is good enough, even da lady
that has declared "in ba Bill Gates ba sai rijiya" cannot resist. Don't blame
da girls being materialistic for your "lack of game". U think a girl is frontin
for you, then check youself. Are you da one asking for it?
It's really sad that money is synonymous to influence. But i tell you,
Humility, Dignity and self respect is better than money. So respect urself,
so that u may be respected. :!: :!:
As for using a broom to hit her face, tun kafin ka ma auro ta har ka
fara domestic violence? Hitting da face of some1 u like, boy u do have a
funny way of showing affection! While u r at it with Flitwick, how about
cooking up a polyjuice potion to look like Bill Gates or put her under the
imperius curse to make fall in love with ya! :roll: :roll: :roll:
U see u got it all wrong or u just fretendin' to fick on me...am not talkin' about lack op game, damn im talkin' about pellas who got game but lack cheddar, how many guys habe started steamin' relationshifs wit some girls por real but as soon as anoda gameless guy wit flenty cheddar stefs uf on ze girls pront door ze relationshif hits ze rock? U know wut i mean dont u?? Ko karya nake Husnaa? I dont really trabel much but i know zat in Kano...GIRLS WILL KILL to go out wit ze gameless but rich guys. i know zat to court a girl u depinately need to pinancialised ze relationshif to some extent but eben wit zat it doesnt work in kano when za gameless rich comes interruftin', Ushud c how girls in BUK 4 examfle go mushy at ze site op zeir priend's gameless rich dude during a bisit. I will fersonally only tolerate zat ip ze gys game aint tight, ehen...but ip ur game is tight and ur girls dumfs u because some gameless rich guy who is a somebody or who's dad is a somebody zen u shudnt be surfrised coz u r in Kano.
And as por ze Folyjuice fotion...u sound like u r in suffort op "yan Karya"...ip u dont know wut ze term means just holla i will break it donw por u. Capiche? Lol!
Muda u dey talk like say u don loose to one rich guy?
Quote from: "gogannaka"Muda u dey talk like say u don loose to one rich guy?
LOL that is hitting below the belt!!! :lol:
Quote from: "[color=redMuda"]how many guys habe started steamin' relationshifs wit some girls por real but as soon as anoda gameless guy wit flenty cheddar stefs uf on ze girls pront door ze relationshif hits ze rock? U know wut i mean dont u?? Ko karya nake Husnaa??[/color]
Muda how I go know now? Abi that one no be my game. :lol:
But I can tell u this, u are absolutely right. However what was good for the goose was also good for the gander. So it works both ways. Kano guys are as bad in trying to milk rich girls. There are many sons of Alhazan birni together with their dads who will only marry names attached to money and local reknown.
I knew i was sfeaking some sense...zis is a pact op libe, at lest am not just making it uf, it haffens in Kano!
This does not only happen in kano it happens everywhere. In this world we are living money seems to be everything nowadays.The prophet while discussing with some sahaba's said that normally people wed women due to one of four reasons.
1.Due to the womans wealth
2.Due to her beauty
3.Due to her family ties
4.Due to her religion
He advised to wed a woman due to her religion.U can see that the issue has been in existence since.
Allahu Akbar...G-naka has spoken. But i think there shud be a pemale bersion op zis ahadith...wut do u think?
Love for Allah's sake.But I have never heard where its haram to also love for all the other reasons.
Come.From my point of view I sometimes cant say I blame the girls.Common look at the way marriages and relationships are turning into these days.A guy comes tiryan tiryan da dadin baki daga shi sai slippers,she marries him for "love" and they stay thru dusa da dawa.Later he 'makes it' and voila! new babes.
Toh o.k another girl gets a rich guy and marries him,check the marriage .Its probably an unhappy one.He leaves her home, unfulfilled, and has a fine time all over the world.Cos lets face it mazan hausawa haka suke,they just think da sun aure ki shikenan ke kuma baki da wata bukata a rayuwa illa ki zauna gida don kin samu miji,thats it.
So girls say lets get us rich guys,where they fail we can do a little shopping,or set up a little biz so that whatever happens we have something to fall back on.
Whats wrong with that?
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So girls say lets get us rich guys,where they fail we can do a little shopping,or set up a little biz so that whatever happens we have something to fall back on.
Whats wrong with that?
That's a confirmation of the materialism of our gals under debate here.
Quote from: "precious"So girls say lets get us rich guys,where they fail we can do a little shopping,or set up a little biz so that whatever happens we have something to fall back on.
Whats wrong with that?
Nothing what soever!!
Quote from: "Bakan~Gizo"That's a confirmation of the materialism of our gals under debate here.
Niko ina mamakin wani abu. Ko da yake Hausawa kan ce 'laifi tudu ne. Sai Ka taka naka ka hango na wani'.
In ana zancen materialism, I think men should not even lift up their heads because of the magnitude of their materialistic nature. Men love money more than women do, because they kill for it. I havent heard women killing for money; only marrying for it. So who is worse abi?
Haba Yaya Husna :!: . How comes :idea: ? Haven't you heard when a woman sold her born baby for money in southern Nigeria? I heard this story genuinly in Freedom radio some months ago. And this is one.
Secondly, you yourself had said you married because of money. Yes, isn't that killing oneself? Whatever is built upon a bad foundation must oneday one time collapse. To me, marrying 'cuz of money is as worst as killing that you pointed-out men do 'cuz of money. Isn't it? :roll:
A woman belives to even sits without having anything pass throght her lips but to sends the money given to her for chefane to Gidan Dashi for saving. What can you about this also? What that signifies, isn't that a materialism? LOL :lol:
Quote from: "Muhsin"
Secondly, you yourself had said you married because of money. Yes, isn't that killing oneself? Whatever is built upon a bad foundation must oneday one time collapse. To me, marrying 'cuz of money is as worst as killing that you pointed-out men do 'cuz of money. Isn't it? :roll: [/size][/color]
Dear Dear Me that is a very serious allegation Muhsin. Now be so kind as to show me where I made that statement of marrying for money.. I think I am going to faint.........swoon!!( falls to the ground)
WHOA!!! Its gettin HOT in here. This topic has brought on the heat
Precious i agree with you on wat your sayin, mallam bahaushe ai sai shi da wannan aiki.
but if your lucky a mazan hausawa akwai kwarori masu tunawa da Allah, tausai da sannin yakamata, that would not dare do that to their wifey as they have seen the wahala they both went through at the start to the point they started making $$$$ from d slippers he was wearn as you said :lol: to d point that aka fara fesa D&G etc.
Quote from: "HUSNAA"Quote from: "Muhsin"
Secondly, you yourself had said you married because of money. Yes, isn't that killing oneself? Whatever is built upon a bad foundation must oneday one time collapse. To me, marrying 'cuz of money is as worst as killing that you pointed-out men do 'cuz of money. Isn't it? :roll: [/size][/color]
Dear Dear Me that is a very serious allegation Muhsin. Now be so kind as to show me where I made that statement of marrying for money.. I think I am going to faint.........swoon!!( falls to the ground)
A'a'a'a! I today commited a severe crime? Where can I put myself? Where can I go to extricate? :(
If you really didn't mean that in your post that preceded mine on the list, I must have miscalculated you Husna. By the way, isn't that true that a woman marries because of money? Just forget about who said it but answer my question yaya Husna :?:
U havent extricated yr self from yr 'severe' crime, yet Muhsin little bro!!
So oya explain yrself :evil: where did i write i married for doughnuts? :twisted:
Quote from: "HUSNAA"
Dear Dear Me that is a very serious allegation Muhsin. Now be so kind as to show me where I made that statement of marrying for money.. I think I am going to faint.........swoon!!( falls to the ground)
By agreeing with what
precious posted regarding marrying the rich as a sort of 'back-up' :wink:
Wo! Zis is getting sirous uf in here! You women are just beating about ze bush now and sfilling ze beans small small.
Outsfoken little Precious just admitted and conpirmed our sfeculations and tofic op debate by saying zat a girl shoud marry ze rich so dat she can "go por shoffing" and "set uf a biz".
And Deef Thinking Senior Sistah Husnaa outwardly boiced zat "zere is nothing wrong in it". Haah! I couldnt beliebe what i was Reading!
How can a woman who beliebes in lobe, droffs her piancee or her puture piancee coz op some one minute rich dude came around to sfray money? I mean dont you eber consider your feace op minds and your pshycological balance? Am not saying zat u shud marry Oliver Twist, but kano girls will always choose to marry ze most rich among her suitors, now why should zat be ze pirst criteria to be considered when ur farents ask u to choose a husband out ur suitors? Ehn?
Kano babes na wa really oh!
Quote from: "Bakan~Gizo"Quote from: "HUSNAA"
Dear Dear Me that is a very serious allegation Muhsin. Now be so kind as to show me where I made that statement of marrying for money.. I think I am going to faint.........swoon!!( falls to the ground)
By agreeing with what precious posted regarding marrying the rich as a sort of 'back-up' :wink:
That is a
non sequitur This conclusion does not follow from
that premise (of agreeing with Precious) :roll: .
Anyway enough of that. All the men gassing and howling and protesting are doing so cos they dont have the readies to attract a girl. If they did, they'd be so smug and full of themselves, you wont hear a single complaint out of them.
Here are some samplers on what the reality in relatonships is really like:
'When Poverty knocks on the door, love flies out of the window'. That's an old english adage or saying or whatever.....
There is also an old track I used to listen to, the opening lyrics of which say it all:
The good things in life are free
But you can give it to the birds and the bees
I want money/lots of money. :P And then there is Gwen Guthrie's track
Aint nothing going on but the rent:No Romance without finance
No Romance without finance
Boy, nothing in life is free
That's why I'm asking you, what can you do for me?
I've got responsibilities
So I'm looking for a man who's got some money in his hand
Cause nothing from nothin'
Leaves a nothin'
You've got to have somethin'
If you want to be with me
Oh, life is just serious
Love's too mysterious
A fly girl like me needs security
Chorus:
Cause ain't nothin' goin' on but the rent
You've got to have a J.O.B. if you want to be with me
Chorus
No Romance without finance
No Romance without finance
Boy, your silky words are sweet
But we're only wasting time if your pockets are empty
I got lots of love to give
But I will have to avoid you if you're unemployed
Cause nothing from nothin'
Leaves a nothin'
You've got to have somethin'
If you want to be with me
Oh, life is just serious
Love's too mysterious
A fly girl like me needs security
Chorus(repeat)
No Romance without finance
No Romance without finance
Ain't nothin' goin' on but the rent
You've got to have a J.O.B. if you wannaSo who's talking aout Kano Babes? These are American Babes!! All U guys out there gear up!! The message is universal!
No Romance without Finance!!!! :P :P :P :P :P :P :P :P :P :P :P :P :P
Aah! The post above by Husnaa is threatening o!
It might likely incite some second thoughts amongsts the ladies here.
Even though the song's lyrics are quite reasonable and true.That is in America.
Quote from: "gogannaka"Aah! The post above by Husnaa is threatening o!
It might likely incite some second thoughts amongsts the ladies here.
Even though the song's lyrics are quite reasonable and true.That is in America.
You have talked true goga... :roll:
Beside, Husna's effort is sincerely a remarkable one; fighting with so many men? Lets us say Husna is the hereion. :!:
Quote from: "HUSNAA"
And then there is Gwen Guthrie's trackAint nothing going on but the rent:
Cause nothing from nothin'
Leaves a nothin'
You've got to have somethin'
If you want to be with me
Oh, life is just serious
Love's too mysterious
A fly girl like me needs security
Ain't nothin' goin' on but the rent
You've got to have a J.O.B. if you wanna
O'course Husnaa dont you see zat eben Guthrie admitted zat u need to habe AT LEAST sumthin', you need to habe a job and all zat? Zat is exactly ze foints am stressing, ze song doesnt say zat one must only and i refeat only marry some pilthy rich guy, all its saying is a girl shud marry a resfonsible dude with some security.
In my understanding, a guy with a security is a guy who fosses at least a Bungalow op his own, a honda accord, and a job probably civil servant. But kano babes....lol zey dont want zat, zey habe a whole dipperent idea op security: Mansions, pleet op jeeps, companies...haba? Lets be realistic too mana!
I will tell u something Muda, the girl who wants it all, has never been in love in her life. So take heart. :)
Quote from: "HUSNAA"
Anyway enough of that. All the men gassing and howling and protesting are doing so cos they dont have the readies to attract a girl. If they did, they'd be so smug and full of themselves, you wont hear a single complaint out of them.
Wato kina nufin ba mu da kudi kenan? Mun gode. :roll: Mu talakawa ko?
Quote from: "HUSNAA"
There is also an old track I used to listen to, the opening lyrics of which say it all:
The good things in life are free
But you can give it to the birds and the bees
I want money/lots of money. :P ...
So who's talking aout Kano Babes? These are American Babes!! All U guys out there gear up!! The message is universal! No Romance without Finance!!!!
So? That doesn't make it
unversally right, does it? :wink: I also know a track thus;
She's Dangerous~~
Super Bad
Better Watch Out~~
She'll take The Cash
She's a Gooold Digger~~
Gooold Digger :oops: :oops:
Quote from: "Muhsin"
Beside, Husna's effort is sincerely a remarkable one; fighting with so many men?
Muhsin, u really like putting yr foot where yr mouth is or should be... :roll: these gaffes u come up with!!!. fighting with so many men indeed. :? After BK came to yr rescue and I forgave u, now u've gone and done it again!! :shock:
Quote from: "HUSNAA"Quote from: "Muhsin"
Beside, Husna's effort is sincerely a remarkable one; fighting with so many men?
Muhsin, u really like putting yr foot where yr mouth is or should be... :roll: these gaffes u come up with!!!. fighting with so many men indeed. :? After BK came to yr rescue and I forgave u, now u've gone and done it again!! :shock:
A,a,a,a! I vow that I'll say no more. Cool down.
Quote from: "HUSNAA"Quote from: "Muhsin"
Beside, Husna's effort is sincerely a remarkable one; fighting with so many men?
Muhsin, u really like putting yr foot where yr mouth is or should be... :roll: these gaffes u come up with!!!. fighting with so many men indeed. :? After BK came to yr rescue and I forgave u, now u've gone and done it again!! :shock:
Yeah zat is right, lemme eben put down ze whole lyrics por your better understanding op kano babes whom should be better reffered to as called Gold Diggers.
[Chorus: Bobby v]
She's dangerous,(Uh huh) super bad. (OK)
Better watch out she'll take ya cash.
She's a gold... digger. [x2]
She's dangerous (alright) super bad (uh huh)
Better watch out she'll take ya cash.
She's a gold... digger [x2]
[Ludacris]
Yeah, shes a money magnet, smell a dollar bill in ya clothes.
Gold digger style from her head to her toes
You here me saying no don't mess with the stress
She's out to get ya dough none more none less
Shes lookin' for a prize, man you killing me
Acting like you don't see the dollar signs in her eyes
She wants her nails done, and her hair too
Plus a diamond necklace, thats all on you
You still can't see it, yeah you a sucka
If you do it homeboy man i couldn't be it
Hypnotised by her goodlooks?
Yeah maybe, but a victim for a good crook? Nope not me!
Consider yourself worn so you can stay.
Or you can stick to my rhyme and get the heck away!
Either way, go figure, shes a gold digger.
Gettin' close as your bank row grows bigger
[chorus]
[Lil' Fate]
You gotcha way witha beauty
A treat with a brain
When she look at you she only see "ching-ching"
Mil around your neck, mil around your arms
A championship ring, she must be a bowla hard
She turns on the leader, as soon as you need her
Once you bite the bait, you look mighty thico
When money talks she ticks like F.B.I
Ready to handcuff the right guy
Look you in the eye, and tell a boldface lie.
Scheming on the way to money yo, well ya tried
Guess its a game now, gotta watch who you trust
Like her because, its only out for your books
Ye sir, shes all about being paid
At the end of everyday its a fine new grade,
What more can i say? But the wires up front
Better watch out, she'll leave yah with insuffiant
[Chorus X2]
[Bobby V]
She's so physical.
I say movie stars you better watch your back
She'll be spending up your cheque
Oh yeah. For the growin... just won't stop
Will be rotting in your eyes
She's a...Gold digga, gold digga, gold digga yeah.
[Luda]
She's dreaming scheming on a way to get your dough
She hit the lottery now hit the flow, you just don't know
because you got got and thats for show
[Lil' Fate]
Oh eyah she's a superstar chick
But don't fool with her unless you got miles of risk
She's a pimpstress runnin' more game than the Olympics
to cease your assests like the I.R.S
Aha uh uh huh
[Chorus (Repeat till fade)]
I do not even know where to start.Allah the words are tripping all over each other in ma head.
Firstly 'little' Muda Precious aint 'little'.Thats YAYA Precious for you. :D
O.k where do I start.Who do I address.
Look ,Guys and guyses,we are not saying Kano girls or all of them just want to marry for money or marry a rich guy.Every girl wants to love and be loved.I myself am a firm believer in that( I wouldnt mind all that M&B romance be showered upon my precious self).What I am trying to point out is that a zamanin yanzu auren is just not what it should be.Men just dont think much of it and so in the end its the women who fall victims to all the unfairness,humiliation,and what have you that is happening all over.Lets face it, as we have read in some other thread, Hausa men just arent romantic(but I beg to differ slightly).They are not romantic to their wives.Because its the same hausa man that will go out leaving his wife behind at home yet will be romancing one inyamurah or gwari or who ever,as long as dai ba matar bace.Kuma daAllah kada a ce ba haka bane,don ko gashi nan muna ganin yadda ku ke yi a ko ina.Any way back to ... ,gashi nan ma na fara karkacewa,the words are just
sommersaulting in my head.Where was I?
Yes.So with all this uncertainty what in God's name is wrong with a woman wanting to secure something for herself in case things just dont work out the way they should?Why is that a crime?Dont men these days rush to marry ministers' daughters or some other top shots or rich guys' daughters?Just so that they can get something out of the marriage?Is that not the same thing or even worse?
The way I see it,its a man's world.You marry a girl,dump her at home and you want her to produce children.Which she does and you think ta tsufa.You forget that itama tana da needs just like you.Ka manta ita dan romance dinnan dai ta ma fi ka son shi don karance karancen M&B din da tayi ko yanzu wadannan hausa books din,(I think na soyayya ne,ko?)sai kawai ka watsar da ita ka fice.So what has she got?Kids,T.V,what?
But if she has some money takaicin ya dan ragu.I know money cant buy you love or happiness but it sure reduces takaici.
Have to go make myself a hot cuppa tea.Will continue later.
Quote from: "precious"
So with all this uncertainty what in God's name is wrong with a woman wanting to secure something for herself in case things just dont work out the way they should?Why is that a crime?
It is a crime because it is kwadayi, share longer throat (nijama's language), why cant we be more honest and aboid futting ourselbes in shoes dat are not meant por us, Just like Eminem said.."Cuz you never know when the shoe could end up on the other foot and it backfires on you"...am sure you can pigure out ze sense in zat.
And por ze "little" earlier...well i didnt know, zat is online por u!
Quote from: "*~MuDaCriS~*"Quote from: "precious"
So with all this uncertainty what in God's name is wrong with a woman wanting to secure something for herself in case things just dont work out the way they should?Why is that a crime?
It is a crime because it is kwadayi, share longer throat (nijama's language), why cant we be more honest and aboid futting ourselbes in shoes dat are not meant por us
Mudacris, i dont agree with that! who said kwadayi is a crime? LOL.
I think Its just a matter of choice!!! whoeva the gurl wants to go out with, wether rich or poor or watever. Likewise we guys have that SAME choice and more advantage to go out with all the rich, poor, royalty gurls we get. Besides, we are entitled to four of them. Ai, its fair for both to choose or for the parents to choose for them.
Am sure that there are still some gurls who prefer guys without a penny in their pockets b'cos thats what they want.
(Big sigh)
At last; a masculine voice of REASON...hear hear Dante
QuoteAt last; a masculine voice of REASON...hear hear Dante
In ka ji mata na yabon namiji, to zasu cuceshi kenan.
Ashe dai ka gane. Ai babbar abinda ya saka nake yarda da kai BK shine ka na da ganewa. E be like say u dey por my mind!
Quote from: "Bakan~Gizo"QuoteAt last; a masculine voice of REASON...hear hear Dante
In ka ji mata na yabon namiji, to zasu cuceshi kenan.
:arrow: LoL
GUys i saw this hausa movie, "Komai Dozen" a few days back, i cudnt help laghing and remebering this post, a good depiction of the hoausa courtship relations in kano and the other parts of northern nigeria. Daso is in the movie two. Pls Husnaa i strongly recommend it for watching just for the fun of it!
In sha Allah zan kalli majigin, Muda. ;D
Why are babes materialistic? Let me tell u sometin now, Guys are materialist too, they go for rich daddy's gals, sugar mumies do u know the latest one ONLINE DATING, dating white gals around the world to send them money or plane ticket get them visa citizenship abroad guess wat all they need is the money nothin else get the money and run away or divoce the gal.
Am not saying there are no material gals. but why date them, u realise she's the greedy type leave her alone. Oh I C, the gal wouldnt give you attention cos you dont have nice car, thats cool look for your class. Annabi ma yace to avoid the tension of society gap marry ur type so u dont have to stress yourself.
You can upgrade ur local chick, they are easier to maintain. Cant you see Arsenal's manager; he buys local boys and upgrade. U bid according to ur pocket.
Quote from: IBB on May 09, 2007, 09:03:05 AM
You can upgrade ur local chick, they are easier to maintain. Cant you see Arsenal's manager; he buys local boys and upgrade. U bid according to ur pocket.
Lol Yanzu yan matan ma are equated with footballs and their players! Cabdi! to Allah Ya Kyauta Ameen ;D ;D ;D
Quote from: HUSNAA on May 09, 2007, 06:41:40 PM
Quote from: IBB on May 09, 2007, 09:03:05 AM
You can upgrade ur local chick, they are easier to maintain. Cant you see Arsenal's manager; he buys local boys and upgrade. U bid according to ur pocket.
Lol Yanzu yan matan ma are equated with footballs and their players! Cabdi! to Allah Ya Kyauta Ameen ;D ;D ;D
He was just making it easy for you to comprehend the language...!
Hmmmm....I like the word "upgrade", sounds like some kind of hardware, but I guess its 'software'....right? ;D
intresting topic, two more days to finish reading the thread.
Quote from: MC-HAMA on May 23, 2007, 11:44:59 AM
intresting topic, two more days to finish reading the thread.
Cabdi! You get time on yr hands..... plenty. Hala strike din ASUU ya shafe ka, kai ma?
Quote from: HusnaaCabdi! You get time on yr hands..... plenty. Hala strike din ASUU ya shafe ka, kai ma?
LOLOLOL!
Quote from: IBBYou can upgrade ur local chick, they are easier to maintain. Cant you see Arsenal's manager; he buys local boys and upgrade. U bid according to ur pocket.
Sometimes '
if e no be panadol,e no fit be like panadol'.
Quote from: Janwuya on May 22, 2007, 08:48:59 PM
Hmmmm....I like the word "upgrade", sounds like some kind of hardware, but I guess its 'software'....right? ;D
No dont use that word. or else they would turn the sofware to hardware, u know u cant upgrade hardware but replace it. consider replacement cost. Be a good manager
Quote from: IBB on May 23, 2007, 10:54:50 PM
No dont use that word. or else they would turn the sofware to hardware, u know u cant upgrade hardware but replace it. consider replacement cost. Be a good manager
LOL...men dats so right, u know women are so good at revenge! *still laffs*
Malam Muda kenan, its seems you have special
interest on this topic. Oya tell me ur tory, any
experience in the past?
I had quite an experience Dan Borno, many at times you meet a girl, you seem to get along fine, infact sometimes you get the feeling that she is bringing you in, you get interested and then after a while you introduce your undiluted intentions to the girl who then calls you a bluff, she be makes you realize that you must be out of your mind or you are simply kidding, before you know she becomes a different person to you, some might even stop talking to you just because you tell them how you truly fell about them? I mean why should there be such lack of considereation of heart? Is it because the guys are not capable or just because like a robot a woman is programmed to abscond you feelings the moment you unmask them towards her?
And to tell you the truth, this unwanted attitude is really like a communicable disease you know...its contagious and infectious, polluting the minds, psyche and civilisation of the non-Kano based girls who came to school in kano or to live with some guardian there by having strong relationship with the already Kano mind polluted girls, before you say jack, she has malformed into their exact behaviour.
You know, quite recently i came to realise that most Kano Girls generally take men for granted, and very soon they will realise that it is even better to hand on to a man in order not to be swept away by the wave of singlehood. I tell yah!
Muda, kindly lets know how the minds of kano girls are polluted. In case of an incasity, one will better be armed before any showdown. Danborno, ko ba haka ba? ;D ;D
Quote from: waduz on January 21, 2008, 09:54:10 AM
Muda, kindly lets know how the minds of kano girls are polluted. In case of an incasity, one will better be armed before any showdown. Danborno, ko ba haka ba? ;D ;D
Ko kaima kana shirin yin ta
DB ne?
the allegations by mr. moderator should be looked into
with a serious need for solutions. from all indication
moderator is speaking from his personal observations
and even termed it a contagious disease.
waduz, we need someone from inside tha kano "walls"
who knows about kano babes 3 well to make more high
light on this discussion, maybe we should invite the most
Reverend Husnaa, i think she will do justice to the
yan matan kano.
Yaron Aunty: is there any problem if moderator will be
taking my footsteps?
Auntyn Muhsin we need you here to solve this issue very
quickly
Quote from: Dan-Borno on January 21, 2008, 01:53:47 PM
waduz, we need someone from inside tha kano "walls"
who knows about kano babes 3 well to make more high
light on this discussion, maybe we should invite the most
Reverend Husnaa, i think she will do justice to the
yan matan kano.
Ai kaima ka sansu, ko bahaka bane? Since...you know the rest of the story.
QuoteYaron Aunty: is there any problem if moderator will be
taking my footsteps?
Didn't say there is any. Just asked, huh?
Muda i doubt if this problem is only peculiar with Kano babes.
Kusan duk mata haka suke fa especially at a young age.
I believe every girl has a right to choose who she wants as a partner and it is not mandatory she accepts whoever asks her out.
So if you toast a babe and she says she isn't ready for you then don't blame her or Kano girls.
Get someone...ka su nan baja baja.... ;D
can you please expantiate on what you mean by the
term 'baja baja'?
Well said, Gogannaka. Yi masa shiru! :P
LOL Muhsin DB zai wullo maka wata yasin mai lauje fa.....ba ruwana.
DB 'baja baja' kamar jamfa a jos.
;D ;D tabdi jam, yanzu irin tulin gwanjo da nagani a jos
haka mata suka zama? lallai anyi arha butu bulus.
Yasin mai lauje? tun yaushe aka daina amfani da wannan,
yanzu ai yasin mai bluetooth ake amfani dashi - direct to
receiver no mistake.
This DB will kill me wiz lapta ;D
If we want to blame "Kano Babes" for being "Aloof" then we should also blame the Kano guys for the "undue attention" they give them.
What do you expect from a babe who who keeps men waiting at the door in the cold just for a few moments of chat.
Then if you go for "Hira" without dropping "Kudin Hira" then epect a gloomy f ace tommorow.
Ba laifi su bane, Mun mai dasu "Diamond"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Quote from: Muhsin on January 21, 2008, 02:06:31 PM
Quote from: Dan-Borno on January 21, 2008, 01:53:47 PM
waduz, we need someone from inside tha kano "walls"
who knows about kano babes 3 well to make more high
light on this discussion, maybe we should invite the most
Reverend Husnaa, i think she will do justice to the
yan matan kano.
I think kano girls might be classy because of the kano's serenity
and wealthy nature. But is it true that kano girls only marry kano
guys and hardly like to leave the confine of the kano walls.?
DBN, ;D ;D ;D Reverend Husna???????? ;D ;D ;D A man bayani da gaugawa, ka ji?
Quote from: Dan-Borno on January 21, 2008, 01:53:47 PM
the allegations by mr. moderator should be looked into
with a serious need for solutions. from all indication
moderator is speaking from his personal observations
and even termed it a contagious disease.
waduz, we need someone from inside tha kano "walls"
who knows about kano babes 3 well to make more high
light on this discussion, maybe we should invite the most
Reverend Husnaa, i think she will do justice to the
yan matan kano.
Lol at DB! Ni? U are asking me to explain the minds of over a million babes? that is a tuff order. I cant do it DB. Bani da wannan sihirin ;D also u are talking about at least 2 generations of girls after me!! so times have changed u know.... amma kuma duk da haka, there may be commonalities of behavior along the line tunda i am always advocating that human nature never changes.
When I was sixteen yrs old, I remember my dad threw a walima for some mss guys who'd graduated with honors from BUK. When they'd finished eating in my dad's sitting room, my sister and I were ordered to bring them tea things and left them to serve themselves. Quite unbeknownst to me one of them had taken a massive fancy to me. He promptly asked my dad permission to pay his addresses to me. My dad gave it. So the next thing I knew was that after the walima, this guy stayed behind and I was called and introductions were made all round. I got to know his intentions straight away. Now I was sixteen yrs old, it was the second time I'd laid eyes on him (first when I took the tea things to them) and frankly speaking, I felt like a bird caught in a cage. I felt so claustrophobic that I immediately took a dislike to him because of that. He kept coming to visit me and I didnt like it so I did mistreat him to say the least. I told my dad that I didnt like the attentions that the guy was paying me, and my dad said that I should tell him then. So I thought the best way to do so was write a letter. So I wrote the letter and gave it to my dad to read. He read it and said, 'kai kai kai... go and tone it down this is an absolute slap in the face!' I think I wrote in the letter that: 'I dont love you and I dont think I ever will!!' (hahahahahaha!). So I went and wrote something like I am not ready for commitment...must face my studies blah blah blah... I gave it to my dad for a second read and he said that's OK.
So the next time the guy came, ( it was azumi time actually and he'd come to break fast at our house) I handed him the letter and he read it straight away (not in my presence, cos I went right out of the room after giving it to him). Poor guy! breakfast din da baiyi ba kenan. He left the house immediately.
To yaya aka iya? Nevertheless, he still went on hoping against hope that I'd give in or somehow feel for him. He wrote me tons and tons of letters none of which I replied or maybe I did reply to some telling him to stop writing I dont remember. In retrospect, I wish I hadnt rebuffed him so harshly and handled him more subtly, but diplomacy was not one of my strong points when it comes to telling guys that i dont want their attentions, cos I remembered I dealt a similar blow to someone yrs later.
So yes, I think that I do agree that some girls (me inclusive) are somewhat harsh to guys when they dont want them to drool all over them. In hindsight, I think it comes with inexperience of how to handle unwanted attention, especially when u think that it could end up in some thing that u may not like. What scared me at the time was that I may end up marrying someone whom I couldnt grow to love bcos I didnt have any feelings for them at the time. So not mincing words was the best way to squash any potential disasters.
So guys when girls are hostile towards you bcos u have shown yr true feelings towards them, dont take it too much to heart, its the reaction of the moment or the period of time. The moment the girls know that u dont fancy them anymore, they will feel less threatened and more inclined to behave normally and less hostilely towards you. Take heart.
PS Muda, if a girl whom you've been very friendly with becomes hostile because u'd shown how u felt towards her, I think it must be yr fault. If the girl liked u enough to talk with you and be platonic friends, then the first time u tell her how your feelings have changed towards her, she wont turn round and become hostile the very next minute or overnight. She will tell you maybe in words or gestures that she doesnt share the same feelings, but she wont do so in a way that will be heartless or unfeeling so that u feel humiliated. This can only come about if u didnt DROP the matter, but PERSISTED in making known yr intentions even when u know that they are not welcomed.
Quote from: waduz on January 22, 2008, 09:49:29 AM
I think kano girls might be classy because of the kano's serenity
and wealthy nature. But is it true that kano girls only marry kano
guys and hardly like to leave the confine of the kano walls.?
DBN, ;D ;D ;D Reverend Husna???????? ;D ;D ;D A man bayani da gaugawa, ka ji?
Ka manta Dan Borno, yaje ya auro Bakanuwa kwanakin baya kuma ya dire ta a Maiduguri? Ko baka sani ba? ;D
Aunty Husnaa ashe ke ma kin taba ;D
So conclusively we can say that the attitude can be attributed to the age of the girl.
Quote from: gogannaka on January 22, 2008, 10:50:16 AM
Aunty Husnaa ashe ke ma kin taba ;D
So conclusively we can say that the attitude can be attributed to the age of the girl.
Ina! It is their
default setting, young or old.
Quote from: Bakan~Gizo on January 22, 2008, 11:44:25 AM
Quote from: gogannaka on January 22, 2008, 10:50:16 AM
Aunty Husnaa ashe ke ma kin taba ;D
So conclusively we can say that the attitude can be attributed to the age of the girl.
Ina! It is their default setting, young or old.
Lol ka sami a similar experience ne with a mature chic (bazawara) that u make that categorical statement?
PS default setting.. ?? >:( u make us sound like some
hardware... we r
software ;D ;D ;D
Quote from: gogannaka on January 22, 2008, 10:50:16 AM
Aunty Husnaa ashe ke ma kin taba ;D
So conclusively we can say that the attitude can be attributed to the age of the girl.
I think so GGNK. At least in my case, I think it was because I didnt know the guy at all when I developed the instantaneous dislike for him and it was really a protective armor against what I thought was an inevitable eventuality.. since he'd had my dad's blessings....
Quote from: HUSNAA on January 22, 2008, 06:21:25 PM
PS default setting.. ?? >:( u make us sound like some hardware... we r software ;D ;D ;D
lol Syntax error...
Safety and peace
I think my reference to Auntyn Muhsin has achieved
its aim and Moderator should applaud me helping him.
Quote from: HUSNAA on January 22, 2008, 10:24:44 AM
Ka manta Dan Borno, yaje ya auro Bakanuwa kwanakin baya kuma ya dire ta a Maiduguri? Ko baka sani ba? ;D
Kwaras kuwa, infact har mun yi mata zanen barebari ;D 8)
A bar ta makaho, a kama mai ido! Ni kam baa bani amsa na ba fa. Kuma na ga an shigan ma ta Danborno! Goga bismillah, wai shin da gaske ne yan matan kano sun fi auren na gida? In haka ne, to me ya jawo haka? In ba haka ba kuwa, to a ban daya!!!!!!! ;D ;D ;D
Waduz, me kake ci na baka na zuba ne? ga zahiri karara.
Do you need any confirmation than a first hand experience?
Dont worry, ai na samu kan matan Kano, just PM me your
official application and I will give you the 'war strategy'.
however, be ready to personally witness not less than 3
hawan sallah praising Ado Bayero, if not, dont even think
of taking Kano beb.
Quote from: HUSNAA on January 22, 2008, 06:21:25 PM
Quote from: Bakan~Gizo on January 22, 2008, 11:44:25 AM
Quote from: gogannaka on January 22, 2008, 10:50:16 AM
Aunty Husnaa ashe ke ma kin taba ;D
So conclusively we can say that the attitude can be attributed to the age of the girl.
Ina! It is their default setting, young or old.
Lol ka sami a similar experience ne with a mature chic (bazawara) that u make that categorical statement?
PS default setting.. ?? >:( u make us sound like some hardware... we r software ;D ;D ;D
Yeah, I had similar experience. But not with bazawara ;D It was at the Uni. And believe me the gal was as matured as can be at that time. My age, nonetheless. She later regretted it and was trying to do a "
Return Of the Mack". But by then na riga na canja sheka ;D
In your own case, I think I understand where you're coming from. I don't blame you kind of. A young, innocent girl. Kwatsam sai wani ba sallama ba shiri ya ce yana son serious relationship with you. Its like being 'jumped' unexpectedly. In my opinion, that is precisely why most auren zumunci gets off to a bad start. I mean the boy/girl was not allowed to develop his/her interest in the other party naturally. Sai kawai daga sama a ce za'a hada ka/ki da wane ko wance. It is very easy to automatically release those defensive mechanisms, even if subconciously. Balle ma abu ya hado da mata, su da yake duk inda akayi da su sai sun nemi sun baude.
Quote from: HUSNAA on January 22, 2008, 10:18:34 AM
Quote from: Dan-Borno on January 21, 2008, 01:53:47 PM
the allegations by mr. moderator should be looked into
with a serious need for solutions. from all indication
moderator is speaking from his personal observations
and even termed it a contagious disease.
waduz, we need someone from inside tha kano "walls"
who knows about kano babes 3 well to make more high
light on this discussion, maybe we should invite the most
Reverend Husnaa, i think she will do justice to the
yan matan kano.
Lol at DB! Ni? U are asking me to explain the minds of over a million babes? that is a tuff order. I cant do it DB. Bani da wannan sihirin ;D also u are talking about at least 2 generations of girls after me!! so times have changed u know.... amma kuma duk da haka, there may be commonalities of behavior along the line tunda i am always advocating that human nature never changes.
When I was sixteen yrs old, I remember my dad threw a walima for some mss guys who'd graduated with honors from BUK. When they'd finished eating in my dad's sitting room, my sister and I were ordered to bring them tea things and left them to serve themselves. Quite unbeknownst to me one of them had taken a massive fancy to me. He promptly asked my dad permission to pay his addresses to me. My dad gave it. So the next thing I knew was that after the walima, this guy stayed behind and I was called and introductions were made all round. I got to know his intentions straight away. Now I was sixteen yrs old, it was the second time I'd laid eyes on him (first when I took the tea things to them) and frankly speaking, I felt like a bird caught in a cage. I felt so claustrophobic that I immediately took a dislike to him because of that. He kept coming to visit me and I didnt like it so I did mistreat him to say the least. I told my dad that I didnt like the attentions that the guy was paying me, and my dad said that I should tell him then. So I thought the best way to do so was write a letter. So I wrote the letter and gave it to my dad to read. He read it and said, 'kai kai kai... go and tone it down this is an absolute slap in the face!' I think I wrote in the letter that: 'I dont love you and I dont think I ever will!!' (hahahahahaha!). So I went and wrote something like I am not ready for commitment...must face my studies blah blah blah... I gave it to my dad for a second read and he said that's OK.
So the next time the guy came, ( it was azumi time actually and he'd come to break fast at our house) I handed him the letter and he read it straight away (not in my presence, cos I went right out of the room after giving it to him). Poor guy! breakfast din da baiyi ba kenan. He left the house immediately.
To yaya aka iya? Nevertheless, he still went on hoping against hope that I'd give in or somehow feel for him. He wrote me tons and tons of letters none of which I replied or maybe I did reply to some telling him to stop writing I dont remember. In retrospect, I wish I hadnt rebuffed him so harshly and handled him more subtly, but diplomacy was not one of my strong points when it comes to telling guys that i dont want their attentions, cos I remembered I dealt a similar blow to someone yrs later.
So yes, I think that I do agree that some girls (me inclusive) are somewhat harsh to guys when they dont want them to drool all over them. In hindsight, I think it comes with inexperience of how to handle unwanted attention, especially when u think that it could end up in some thing that u may not like. What scared me at the time was that I may end up marrying someone whom I couldnt grow to love bcos I didnt have any feelings for them at the time. So not mincing words was the best way to squash any potential disasters.
So guys when girls are hostile towards you bcos u have shown yr true feelings towards them, dont take it too much to heart, its the reaction of the moment or the period of time. The moment the girls know that u dont fancy them anymore, they will feel less threatened and more inclined to behave normally and less hostilely towards you. Take heart.
PS Muda, if a girl whom you've been very friendly with becomes hostile because u'd shown how u felt towards her, I think it must be yr fault. If the girl liked u enough to talk with you and be platonic friends, then the first time u tell her how your feelings have changed towards her, she wont turn round and become hostile the very next minute or overnight. She will tell you maybe in words or gestures that she doesnt share the same feelings, but she wont do so in a way that will be heartless or unfeeling so that u feel humiliated. This can only come about if u didnt DROP the matter, but PERSISTED in making known yr intentions even when u know that they are not welcomed.
Women...you are all the same, what was i thinking sharing this here?
Anyway, i want you women to put yourself in the guys shoes, how will youfeel if you are really truly into a guy that you have known and he treats you this way? Will you just give up like that and blame yourself, in instances like this, defeinately one has to open up, if not the relationships will not even exist, naturally the girls keep numb about their feelings towards guys, the guys kuma are loud in in exposing how they feel towards the girls, why the blame then, what if naturally the tables were turn what then would have happened?
Muda go and zazzage fushin ka a kan cikar da tabaka gora... dont offload on me lol! I got nothing to do with yr angst!! >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:(
DB No more agony aunting from meooooooooooooo!!!!!!!
So make una get the current chics who are more upto date than me!!!! I am not up to parlaying with angry jilted :-X :-X :-X :-X >:(
;D ;D ;D ;D Kano Babes na Wa O!
DB, in kasan "bada gora" to wannan shine! Ina fata dai goshinka bai yi jini ba! Kangale kano kwariya!!!! ;D
Quote from: HUSNAA on January 23, 2008, 07:47:52 PM
So make una get the current chics who are more upto date than me!!!!
So, so my dear; so, so ;D.....................
And talking about Men leeches, who dnt undrstnd d word "I aint interested".........*signs* mhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. :-X
See Dan-Borno at his best!!!! ;D Anything dat says woman............. Wetin den do u ne? ;D Tuff tyms koh? :P
Dukah dei wasu matan sunyi muku shiru kuna tah surutu naku dai.
Muda wacece ne?
Tell me sai mu ga yadda za'ayi.
Kilode
The female folk in their entirety are a complication.
Quote from: gogannaka on January 28, 2008, 02:39:22 PM
The female folk in their entirety are a complication.
Cafdi! Wani kaya sai amale..............manya abaku naku daban! ;D ;D ;D
Quote from: gogannaka on January 28, 2008, 02:39:22 PM
The female folk in their entirety are a complication.
I am surprised no one attacked you on this statement!!!!!
ko dai ka gano bakin zaren ne?
DBN, waya isa yayi attack? Kila mutumin namu yana da kariya ta musumman! ;D
GGNK, don't think they won't, basu zo bane kawai!
Kun ga za ku zuzuta abun.
I'm just being honest. Mata are so complicated that if you try understanding them you'll grow old without success.
Misali: Their
1. Yes = No
2. No = Yes
3. Maybe = No
4. We need = I want
5. I am sorry = you'll be sorry
6. We need to talk = you're in trouble
7. Sure, go ahead = you better not
8. Do what you want = you will pay for this later
9. I am not upset = of course I am upset, you moron!
Quote from: gogannaka on January 30, 2008, 11:49:16 AM
...you'll grow old without success.
LOL ;D Just like this expression.
gaskiya goggs kayi kokari. Even this which u have learnt is an achievement...of a lifetime perhaps
May safety and peace be with u
Quote from: gogannaka on January 30, 2008, 11:49:16 AM
Kun ga za ku zuzuta abun.
I'm just being honest. Mata are so complicated that if you try understanding them you'll grow old without success.
Misali: Their
1. Yes = No
2. No = Yes
3. Maybe = No
4. We need = I want
5. I am sorry = you'll be sorry
6. We need to talk = you're in trouble
7. Sure, go ahead = you better not
8. Do what you want = you will pay for this later
9. I am not upset = of course I am upset, you moron!
Yep! Frankly speaking you wont understand most women. Thats why "we" women need to start producing your types with instructions manual on how to understand and know the difference between a simple YES and a simple NO. Moreso, one can imagine the frustration when I say: "Mr, you have annoyed me enough today and I want to be left alone, come 900 hours later he will still be following the trails of your tail asking
"have I done anything wrong??????"And that is why God said: I can do much better after creating man! ;D
Quote from: Dan-Borno on January 29, 2008, 10:40:05 PM
Quote from: gogannaka on January 28, 2008, 02:39:22 PM
The female folk in their entirety are a complication.
I am surprised no one attacked you on this statement!!!!!
ko dai ka gano bakin zaren ne?
Su wanga, anan ka fi auki, na lura you will go extreme lenghts as to instigate. ;D
Kodai yaya...........DOLENKA ka dakko daya ka ajiye gida, idan you already done that, DOLE azauna da ita kuma DOLE ka goyi bayan abarka. Amman sai kazo ziyarmu mu online ka dinga ciccika baki wai kai namiji, kana zuga abokan tarayyan ka su tsokani mata. Kila ma a cikin gida, idan tace maka: oya jump, cewa kake how high madam? Mallam kawai kayi shiru. ;D :P Ai tsokana yafi dadi idan baka da mace a hannun damanka, otherwise you dey mock yasef aswell. ;D
Quote from: HUSNAA on January 22, 2008, 10:18:34 AM
I told my dad that I didnt like the attentions that the guy was paying me, and my dad said that I should tell him then. So I thought the best way to do so was write a letter. So I wrote the letter and gave it to my dad to read. He read it and said, 'kai kai kai... go and tone it down this is an absolute slap in the face!' I think I wrote in the letter that: 'I dont love you and I dont think I ever will!!' (hahahahahaha!). So I went and wrote something like I am not ready for commitment...must face my studies blah blah blah... I gave it to my dad for a second read and he said that's OK.
Keeeeeeeeee, omo, :o come wo, you sure serious? Da gaske? :o
;D ;D but, anyway no comments! :-X :-X :-X
Quote from: Hafsy_Lady on January 30, 2008, 02:11:52 PM
Su wanga, anan ka fi auki, na lura you will go extreme lenghts as to instigate. ;D
Kodai yaya...........DOLENKA ka dakko daya ka ajiye gida, idan you already done that, DOLE azauna da ita kuma DOLE ka goyi bayan abarka. Amman sai kazo ziyarmu mu online ka dinga ciccika baki wai kai namiji, kana zuga abokan tarayyan ka su tsokani mata. Kila ma a cikin gida, idan tace maka: oya jump, cewa kake how high madam? Mallam kawai kayi shiru. ;D :P Ai tsokana yafi dadi idan baka da mace a hannun damanka, otherwise you dey mock yasef aswell. ;D
Ince duk wannan surutun bani ake yi wa ba?
Quote from: Hafsy_Lady on January 30, 2008, 02:30:20 PM
Quote from: HUSNAA on January 22, 2008, 10:18:34 AM
I told my dad that I didnt like the attentions that the guy was paying me, and my dad said that I should tell him then. So I thought the best way to do so was write a letter. So I wrote the letter and gave it to my dad to read. He read it and said, 'kai kai kai... go and tone it down this is an absolute slap in the face!' I think I wrote in the letter that: 'I dont love you and I dont think I ever will!!' (hahahahahaha!). So I went and wrote something like I am not ready for commitment...must face my studies blah blah blah... I gave it to my dad for a second read and he said that's OK.
Keeeeeeeeee, omo, :o come wo, you sure serious? Da gaske? :o
;D ;D but, anyway no comments! :-X :-X :-X
Lol hafsy u dont believe it ne?? Cabdi! Dan ma ban bada labarin inyamurin da ya yi promising my dad that zai musulunta if. i will have him...hehehe only problem was he was over 40yrs at the time and had a nice round belle which I couldnt reconcile myself with...hehehehehe!!! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D and my dad called me and apprised me of it and said to... yaya kika gani??? ;D ;D ;D of course ban gani ba!!!!! hahahahaha
Kin san what surprises me ne Auntyn Muhsin, its that
relationship between you and your dad. Puting your
age into consideration and comparing it with the present
day fathers plus the traditional nigerian father, i am
left with no option than to conclude that the Oldman
is truely a father and a Consultant on family affairs.
Those of us growing as fathers to daughters need to
emulate him.
I stand in respect. Extend my salute.
Quote from: gogannaka on January 28, 2008, 02:39:22 PM
The female folk in their entirety are a complication.
Af! Kai da sai yanzu ka sani? Lokacin da na ce maka
Default Setting din su ne complication da murdewar lamura, ba ka yadda bane?
Quote from: Hafsy_Lady on January 30, 2008, 02:11:52 PM
Kodai yaya...........DOLENKA ka dakko daya ka ajiye gida, idan you already done that, DOLE azauna da ita kuma DOLE ka goyi bayan abarka. ;D[/color]
Eh. To. Though I remember a lecture of mine calling it necessary evil. :o ;D I won't go as far as that, but...
Quote from: HUSNAA on January 30, 2008, 05:58:03 PM
............only problem was he was over 40yrs at the time and had a nice round belle which I couldnt reconcile myself with...hehehehehe!!! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ......... yaya kika gani??? ;D ;D ;D
Lol My God, now thats comedy.
This whole thread is hilarious, I was told matan Katsinawa nada tsiwa but with this, I must say they are very subtle creatures. Kano babes.....I love u
Safety and peace
Tsiwa? ibro?? ....nah nah this is not tsiwa... unless u mean rashin kunya and there is nothing aji kunya anan... :) Just a little history from my life.... that's all
haba ba a taru an zama daya ba ai. tabbas akwai mata masu son kudi kuma su na da yawa haka zalika akwai maza masu kwadayi. :D
kuma arziki ai na Allah ne sai ta ce sai mai kudi to in Allah ya karbi kayan shi fa? kuma ai akwai abubuwa hudu da yasa ake auren mutum amma wanda da yafi shine a duba hali da addinin mutum.
Allah Ya ganar da mu amin
Gaskiya ne abida. Barkan ki da zuwa forum.
Quote from: abeeda on February 04, 2008, 07:56:49 PM
akwai maza masu kwadayi. :D
Abeeda ko? amma ai statistically, you cant compare
kwadayin mata da na maza ba, kamar akwai da babu ne.
Quote from: Dan-Borno on February 05, 2008, 01:54:03 PM
Quote from: abeeda on February 04, 2008, 07:56:49 PM
akwai maza masu kwadayi. :D
Abeeda ko? amma ai statistically, you cant compare
kwadayin mata da na maza ba, kamar akwai da babu ne.
To fa, DB versus Newbei. ;D
Abeeda, welcome aboared and never mind
Dan-Barno. So he specializes at whenever a new member steps his/her feet here.
But however, realistically speaking, what you said isn't on a good track. As he said, statistically mata sunfi maza kwadayi nesa ba kusa ba. As they say; adin ba gwaji. LOL ;D
idan namiji yana kwadayin kudi
to yana yin haka ne domin ya
samo kan babe(budurwar) da
yake so.
duk kudin mutum ai don wata
yake nema (ON MOST CASES)
Quote from: arubuta on February 05, 2008, 11:57:28 PM
idan namiji yana kwadayin kudi
to yana yin haka ne domin ya
samo kan babe(budurwar) da
yake so.
duk kudin mutum ai don wata
yake nema (ON MOST CASES)
Ka matukar bani dariya,
arubuta.
Hehe, Yanda yan mazan Kano suke bashing yan matan Kano you'd think they
themselves are perfect men! hmmmmm, I don't think so. As they say, remove
the log in your eye before you remove the speck from somebody else's.
I won't mention any names – but remember when Gogannaka mentioned the
family that gave that unbelievably large gara, how did yan mazan forum dinnan
act? Didn't they get all excited and started asking ko tana da kanwa? Sannan
kuma ku zo nan ku ce yan matan Kano suna da kwadayi? ku yan mazan fa?
Wai kura ce za ta ce da kare maye? Puhleeeez!
Quote from: Muhsin on February 06, 2008, 01:02:01 PM
Quote from: arubuta on February 05, 2008, 11:57:28 PM
idan namiji yana kwadayin kudi
to yana yin haka ne domin ya
samo kan babe(budurwar) da
yake so.
duk kudin mutum ai don wata
yake nema (ON MOST CASES)
Ka matukar bani dariya, arubuta.
to meye abin ban dariya a ciki? na true i talk
fateez kinga ni i'm against that large (ko huge zance ne) gara
amma to tell the truth ai suna son
kudin, u xclusive 8)
ai ba a tari an zama daya ba !
Shi ne na ke cewa yawancin
Majority mazan suna nemo kudin ne don mata!!
Ko ba haka ba?
in ba rami me ya kawo zancen rami... in ji makaho
in ba kudi me ya kawo zancen kudi....in ji yan maza
yan matan ne suka
Karkata ga kudin. Period.
Fateez xclusive 8)
da na fadi karin magana
sai na tina da dayan karin maganar
da ta shafi makaho.
wai makaho ne ya sayar da sandar sa ya sai madubicheer up Kano Babes ;)
Go on, suck up to them >:(
Ke kuma 'hehe' Fateez, who got excited about large gara? You no no joke?
Quote from: Fateez on February 07, 2008, 06:21:46 PM
remember when Gogannaka mentioned the
family that gave that unbelievably large gara, how did yan mazan forum dinnan
act? Didn't they get all excited and started asking ko tana da kanwa?
Fateeeeez, fateeeeez, fateeeeeeeeeez? How many times did i call your name? Three ba? To becareful, thy lies shall repercuse on you!
Quote from: *~MuDa~* on February 08, 2008, 08:23:09 PM
Fateeeeez, fateeeeez, fateeeeeeeeeez? How many times did i call your name? Three ba? To becareful, thy lies shall repercuse on you!
Lol Muda Guilty conscience.....
....Bakan Gizo....Snr Chief Instigator
May Safety and peace be with u
Quote from: Bakan~Gizo on February 08, 2008, 09:24:00 AM
Go on, suck up to them >:(
Ke kuma 'hehe' Fateez, who got excited about large gara? You no no joke?
LOL ka hakura kenan...har nayi wa kanwar magana fa.
Here is one of the latest from Kano Babes:
A guy's conversation with the girl he intends marrying:
Guy: Kin san fa ina gini har an kai roofing.
Girl: Thats good,Chinese roofing kake saka wa?
Guy: A'a.
Girl: A ina gidan yake? GRA ne?
Guy: Umm a kofar so and so (inside the old kano city)
Girl: Lalala, wannan wajen kusa da gidan sarki, mai hayaniya.
Gaskiya bana so!
Karshen story: They are no longer engaged.
LMAO...very funny indeed, and it happens in the city,
its just so ridiculous!
Quote from: gogannaka on February 12, 2008, 01:36:11 PM
Quote from: Bakan~Gizo on February 08, 2008, 09:24:00 AM
Go on, suck up to them >:(
Ke kuma 'hehe' Fateez, who got excited about large gara? You no no joke?
LOL ka hakura kenan...har nayi wa kanwar magana fa.
A'a ba wai na hakura bane. Amma ai kasan taura biyu ba ta taunuwa a lokaci daya ;)
You guys are so damn funny, i just heard a true story, i will post it soon, i have somewhere that i have to go...its so hilarious
Be quicky, muda!!!!!!! ;D
Quote from: *~MuDa~* on February 27, 2008, 09:23:35 AM
You guys are so damn funny, i just heard a true story, i will post it soon, i have somewhere that i have to go...its so hilarious
Where's the story ne?
Matan Kano akwai rowa.
Matan Katsina akwai tsiwa.
Matan Jos akwai wauta.
Matan Okene akwai bauta.
Matan Niger akwai maita.
Quote from: gogannaka on March 05, 2008, 12:46:37 PM
Matan Kano akwai rowa.
Matan Katsina akwai tsiwa.
Matan Jos akwai wauta.
Matan Okene akwai bauta.
Matan Niger akwai maita.
A ina kaji wannan kuma? ;D
Lallai kam, where did you get this from?
Goga, ya ya banga na matan Borno ba? Ko kana so Danborno ya yi fushi ne? ;D
Quote from: gogannaka on March 05, 2008, 12:46:37 PM
Matan Kano akwai rowa.
Matan Katsina akwai tsiwa.
Matan Jos akwai wauta.
Matan Okene akwai bauta.
Matan Niger akwai maita.
Assalamu alaikum,
Lalle mutumin nan akwai ilimi- how do you come about this research.
Kun manta cewa goga is in the process of neman aure. He must have done lots of research.
LOL ai ba sai anyi research ba,
Matan Kano kowa ya san akwai su da rowar tsiya and they always expect from you. Too materialistic. Idan kana da mota ko Lifan(Muhsin gaskiya ne ai ko?) to lamarin ka zan zan.
Katsinawa tun muna yara nake ji ana cewa akwai tsiwa da shan taba.Outgoing personality.And sun iya soyayya.
Okene(igbira) kuwa gani nayi da idanuwa na yadda suke bauta wa mazajen su.Amma fa akwai zuciya da kishi.
Yan matan Jos ina da first hand experience.Wautar bala'i. Amman kuma they are down to earth. A Jos ne za ka fita da yarinya sai dukkannin ku ku shiga bus(kiya kiya) idan ma tana son ka sosai sai ta biya muku kudin mota. Ba su da raini sam sam.Ga su bakake kyawawa wallahi.
Niger kuma sun fi ko ina mayu a duniyar Nigeriya.
Waduz,ai DB muna maganar sirri da shi so i,for the mean time, won't make reference to Borno babes.
Assalamu alaikum,
Kai Goga........... lalle ka zama 'Goga-kasan-hanya'
1. Yanzu Kanawa sun waye sun fimu Katsinawa shan taba,
2. Nufawa kam suna alfahari da Maita,
A ko ina a ko yaushe ana samun na kirki da akasin haka- Allah (SWT) ya sanya mu cikin mutanen kwarai-amiyn.
3. Kanuri kuma sai 'Dumas', ko, Dan-barno?
Kwana baya naji kaje Jos..ko akwai wani shiri da akene? Allah (SWT) ya bada sa'a.
Quote from: *~MuDa~* on February 08, 2008, 08:23:09 PM
Quote from: Fateez on February 07, 2008, 06:21:46 PM
remember when Gogannaka mentioned the
family that gave that unbelievably large gara, how did yan mazan forum dinnan
act? Didn't they get all excited and started asking ko tana da kanwa?
Fateeeeez, fateeeeez, fateeeeeeeeeez? How many times did i call your name? Three ba? To becareful, thy lies shall repercuse on you!
Abeg Mudacris free me jare! No be truth i talk? which kind lies? It's just a matter
of putting 2 and2 together. I was just pointing out the obvious abi you too guilty
conscience don they worry you? Kwa fada ai!
Quote from: gogannaka on March 08, 2008, 08:45:22 AM
LOL ai ba sai anyi research ba,
Matan Kano kowa ya san akwai su da rowar tsiya and they always expect from you. Too materialistic. Idan kana da mota ko Lifan(Muhsin gaskiya ne ai ko?) to lamarin ka zan zan.
Katsinawa tun muna yara nake ji ana cewa akwai tsiwa da shan taba.Outgoing personality.And sun iya soyayya.
Okene(igbira) kuwa gani nayi da idanuwa na yadda suke bauta wa mazajen su.Amma fa akwai zuciya da kishi.
Yan matan Jos ina da first hand experience.Wautar bala'i. Amman kuma they are down to earth. A Jos ne za ka fita da yarinya sai dukkannin ku ku shiga bus(kiya kiya) idan ma tana son ka sosai sai ta biya muku kudin mota. Ba su da raini sam sam.Ga su bakake kyawawa wallahi.
Niger kuma sun fi ko ina mayu a duniyar Nigeriya.
Waduz,ai DB muna maganar sirri da shi so i,for the mean time, won't make reference to Borno babes.
*Innocently asking* *Clearing throat* Uhumm, uhmmm, Gogannaka those girls wey get double one's sliced on their chicks nko? Whats their theory. Yen matan Borno? ;D
LOL!!!
Tough question cos i don't want to offend my oga.
However in all sincerity,i know they smell pleasant.Very good with turare.
Infact when they are getting married they spend like a week or two 'scenting' (if that word exists) themselves such that their body smells nice even when they don't apply the turare.
Again i learnt that the wicked ones possess their husbands to the extent that the husband's manhood never works unless with the wife.Wai dan kishi ma,if she dies na so the husbands manhood go die.
NB:these are just rumours from the streets.
GGNK, our contract is still in force, dont allow these
girls to push you, December is getting closer, abi you
wan make i tell Engineer and Ummita what we have
been discussing and arranging?
Quote from: gogannaka on April 10, 2008, 04:15:01 PM
LOL!!!
Tough question cos i don't want to offend my oga.
Kawai just say it. Are you under his undue influence? If so, will seek Waduz assitance to protect you.
Is that so!!!!..................also heard they carry knives under their geles. As for the perfume part even arabs do it so dey just stole that art! >:( Plus their wedding is soooooo expensive, they are next in line after Kano women when it comes to materialiasm. So, so they say!!!!!!!
Thats why "exageratively" I stopped my older cousin brother's marriage from taking place!! Nah, things just didnt work out well. That chadian/Borno girl is plain evil and is only after money, money, money and physical attributes! And "us" culture and "dem" culture no dey blend well-well. ;D I remember one time, we went to visit her and before my eyes she was lacing his drink with some powdered "ish". I told her I saw what she did and she begged and begged and begged me not to tell my brother. Till this day I havent. Though he is married, wife the best woman ever, but she passed away. Issues? Yep. One little girl, called Ummita too. I adore her.
But Kanuri girls are really friendly......
Quote from: Dan-Borno on April 10, 2008, 04:36:33 PM
GGNK, our contract is still in force, dont allow these
girls to push you, December is getting closer, abi you
wan make i tell Engineer and Ummita what we have
been discussing and arranging?
SEE BRIBERY, INTIMIDATION AND ENTICEMENET IN ACTION!!! Dan-Borno!!! .....this was how you went benchmarking against my "to be" inlaw Husna, to me . ;D Goggz in your best interest void that contract.....I see unjust enrichment on Dan-Bornos part. If Goggz equitable interest is not under the umbrella of your 419 attempt on him ;D.......then you shouldnt try to conceal an already publicised contractual agreement!
Who is with me?
Quote from: ummita on April 10, 2008, 04:51:15 PM
Who is with me? [/color]
on behalf of all the board members (maigemu inclusive)
no one is with you - carry ur wahala go.
Na wo send? Allow them to speak for theirselves. Freedom of speech is excercised here. Bana son Ajayi fa! >:(
Quote from: gogannaka on April 10, 2008, 04:15:01 PM
Again i learnt that the wicked ones possess their husbands to the extent that the husband's manhood never works unless with the wife.Wai dan kishi ma,if she dies na so the husbands manhood go die.
Aaah! Are you serious? Dan-Borno is that through? So one cannot marry two wives kenan, lallai, i never heard of this in my entire life.
Quote from: ummita on April 10, 2008, 04:41:23 PM
also heard they carry knives under their geles.
Ah, that one is a sure thing from our Chadien sisters, look angelic from the outside but devlish from the in. it is not surprising in Chad for an Alicia Keys looking young girl to conceal a 6 inches long blade in her waist or arm beneath that lafayya. So beware!
Me I dey fear borno babes, no be small. Dem fine for face, dem com get one kind orishirishi bodi, we go make u go meleeeeeeee wen u look dem. But if dem no kil u for poket, dem go kil u for magani or knife. Ah! Me I no dey diya ooo.
Quote from: Bakan~Gizo on April 15, 2008, 12:40:10 PM
Me I dey fear borno babes, no be small. Dem fine for face, dem com get one kind orishirishi bodi, we go make u go meleeeeeeee wen u look dem. But if dem no kil u for poket, dem go kil u for magani or knife. Ah! Me I no dey diya ooo.
LOL, kai gaskiya fa kuna chashe wa mutumina fa.
DB me i no dey inside wo!
Infact i consider dem Maiduguri babes as grade A,limited edition.
GGNK make you no mind them, the blind man talk sey
eye de smell no be small that is why he doesnt want
eye.
GGNK, by the time whey then start to cook karal basna
and butulbutul make u no invite anybody - only Husnaa.
Quote from: gogannaka on April 21, 2008, 12:23:44 PM
Infact i consider dem Maiduguri babes as grade A,limited edition.
Exactly, until you mishandle them and they begin to malfunction...na then you go know! ;D
lol. No comment
Quote from: Fateez on April 09, 2008, 10:17:38 AM
Abeg Mudacris free me jare! No be truth i talk? which kind lies? It's just a matter
of putting 2 and2 together. I was just pointing out the obvious abi you too guilty
conscience don they worry you? Kwa fada ai!
Hell no! And quit giving me that look.
LOL...muda!
Db wanne ne kuma butul butul...kar fa ya hana mutum barci in the night.
The latest in Kano now is that the guys with Lifans are making waves.
The Kano babes have realised that those guys with Lifan kind motorcycles
are quite rich and since the bike consumes so little fuel the guys have some
extra cash to spend.
Don haka yanzu if you have a car and a lifan rider approaches the girl then
sorry,za ka sha mamaki.
The bike's name is now 'tsuntsun soyayya'
GUYS BEWARE
Muhahahahahahahahahahahaha this story ought to have been
posted at the "forgoten" make me laugh thread. hahahahahaha
i cant stop laughing - wai tsuntsun soyayya.
If we add up this your story with what happened to Yaron Aunty
we can easily conclude the case of yaron Aunty last two weeks,
watakila ya kwace wa wani mai mota yarinya ne?
yaron aunty, how many tsuntsaye ka kama with your LIFAN?
Lol....[laughing my a** off] ..DB, i i trust you ai, you always have something to say to your claim, it could be true o, watakila the mai mota was adamant and purposely hit Muhsin cause he stole his girlfriends heart away, may be na student self, kai ma dai ka san BUK...lol!
Ku ci abincin ku guys! Where was I when this was happening, huh? Well...don't have that much time to reply to you accordingly but...
Ok...let me tell y'all some thing; I had once been in love but I never will again be in unless I become I, inshaAllah. Why...hahahaha. It tastes bitter, terribly bitter guys. Ban taba baku labari ba?
Quote from: Muhsin on April 28, 2008, 04:43:02 PM
Ok...let me tell y'all some thing; I had once been in love but I never will again be in unless I become I, inshaAllah. Why...hahahaha. It tastes bitter, terribly bitter guys. Ban taba baku labari ba?
Lol...Mushin my guy...hahahaha...abeg dont kill me o...LMAO! I trust you now lol.
To kai ya ka gani, Muda? Ku dai kuyi watakila ka ga da riba ni kam babu!
Ayi you have to keep trying Muhsin, you might be lucky this time around, there is no going back ai tinda akwai aure in veiw.
Gaskiya Muhsin you are trying to become a pessimist. A'a.
Don't you know that your thoughts become your words
your words become action
your action becomes your habit
and your habit becomes your character.
You better let this age thing past you ko mu gaya wa antin ka >:(
his Aunty has forsaken him since end of last semester.
Everybody has a reason or a justification for what they do, based on their individual differences. Weather it's right or wrong is of little, as far as they solely believe, consequences. What's right and wrong varies from person to person and from time to time or condition. There isn't a common invariable standard to judge rectitude. A Wierd Hope, an unpublished novel by MMI.
So, GGNK, don't think otherwise. As I told you once, I've a reason and this can be explained by I. But its, in some ways, self explanatory. Further, that has no relation with my always claiming of being young and so on. Rather I said I was once in love and I never will again be unless I become I. LOL ;D ;D ;D
Kai kuma DB, wa ya gaya maka?
Quote from: Dan-Borno on May 07, 2008, 12:46:55 PM
his Aunty has forsaken him since end of last semester.
LOl...kai Allah ya sawake kanoonline, wato if you in another persons trouble in this site your own don finish, haba DB, give the boy some breathing space mana...lol!
Muhsin wannan excuse din naka na yi rejecting din shi outright.
Haba mallam ga ka da lifan,sannan kuma fa kasan cewa kai author ne na litattafen soyayya so you must be a master of soyayya.
Abeg kada ka bamu kunya.Just because wata yarinya guda daya ta wahal da kai ba abin ja da baya bane.
Idan kana son sirrin ka sami maza,yan barno,ko kuma gayu irin su muda ko kuma ustazai irin su engineer su baka sirrin.
Ba ja da baya.
Muahahahahahahahahahahahahahah amma GGNK
baka da dama, however, if you have forsaken the
"shuwa arab" girl i reserved for you i can equally
transfer it to the young novelist, yaron aunty and the
only heir to the throne of the Admin.
Haba aboki na kada muyi haka da kai ;)
Quote from: gogannaka on May 10, 2008, 08:39:08 PM
Muhsin wannan excuse din naka na yi rejecting din shi outright.
Haba mallam ga ka da lifan,sannan kuma fa kasan cewa kai author ne na litattafen soyayya so you must be a master of soyayya.
Abeg kada ka bamu kunya.Just because wata yarinya guda daya ta wahal da kai ba abin ja da baya bane.
Idan kana son sirrin ka sami maza,yan barno,ko kuma gayu irin su muda ko kuma ustazai irin su engineer su baka sirrin.
Ba ja da baya.
Its through fa, do you know i have never really analise the fact that he is a
LOVE NOVELIST? LOL!
GGNK what do you mean by GAYU irin su Muda? What about you?
Quote from: Dan-Borno on May 19, 2008, 09:10:44 AM
Muahahahahahahahahahahahahahah amma GGNK
baka da dama, however, if you have forsaken the
"shuwa arab" girl i reserved for you i can equally
transfer it to the young novelist, yaron aunty and the
only heir to the throne of the Admin.
Quote from: gogannaka on May 19, 2008, 11:36:28 AM
Haba aboki na kada muyi haka da kai ;)
kai do not be stingy, ba abokin ka bane? sai me idan ka bashi chick?
Quote from: *~MuDa~* on May 26, 2008, 08:31:53 PM
kai do not be stingy, ba abokin ka bane? sai me idan ka bashi chick?
I can dash him a chick amma ba wadda Aboki na yayi min alkawari ba.
Auntin shi tace za ta samo mishi mai dan dama dama,amman sai ya dawo daga NYSC.
Kuma shi Muhsin ma ga babes nan rututu a makarantar su.Farare,bakake,dogaye,gajeru
kai har da wadanda if they wound instead of blood gushing out you'll see milk.
Muhsin just consult with the experts i mentioned earlier and you'll see wonders.
Quote from: gogannaka on May 28, 2008, 08:46:09 AM
I can dash him a chick amma ba wadda Aboki na yayi min alkawari ba.
Auntin shi tace za ta samo mishi mai dan dama dama,amman sai ya dawo daga NYSC.
Kuma shi Muhsin ma ga babes nan rututu a makarantar su.Farare,bakake,dogaye,gajeru
kai har da wadanda if they wound instead of blood gushing out you'll see milk.
Muhsin just consult with the experts i mentioned earlier and you'll see wonders.
Hear, hear. In kura na maganin zawo... You wey talk say u need wife and we dey give u advice. Na you dey advice somebody how to get babe?
BKGZ no be you give me d tactics,i was just sharing with my buddy.
Na sami wani labari da dumi dumin shi.
Yanzu yan Katsina fa ba dama.
Someone was set on fire by a Katsina Babe because he refused to marry her.
Kawai ta kwankwasa(knock) mai kofa,yana budewa sai ta kwara mai petur ta
cinna mai wuta. The guy was so confused and in pain he dived into a nearby
well. He fractured his neck and got severely burnt,luckily he's alive.
Yan sanda kuma kawai suka saki yarinyar,he later on went and threatened that
tunda an sake ta to he'll take the law into his own hand and take revenge.Haka
dai aka sake kama ta.
So guys beware
GGNK cmi c trouble fromu!! Yaushe mukai da kai zan samo wa Muhsin ceekah? lol!! maza da sake!!
abokina kana ganin laifin yarinyar ne? look bari na
fada maka, most guys take advantage of the word
"I will marry" and lure the lady into either sleeping
with him or remain with him and support him either
throughout the period of his studies or during his
applicantship period, immidiately its over he never
even dares to say "thank you and good bye" but
will disappear into the thin air balle kuma akawo
maganar aure.
in the above case, i recommend the ladies to burn
down his house after roasting him, if not ku bachelors
bazaku shiga taitayinku ba, sai ku sami yarinya tayi
ta debe muku kewa kawai, immediately kun tafi Abuja
kun gano yan mata gandan gandan sai kuce ba haka ba.
Lallai fa i agree with you DB, amma i think roasting the guy is abit extreme for me.
what is so extreme? he roasted the lady first ko?
Quote from: Dan-Borno on June 04, 2008, 06:50:23 PM
what is so extreme? he roasted the lady first ko?
lol at DB ;D ;D
Quite kwarrect DB!! He deserved it ameera!!! ;D ;D ;D He's still alive aint he? Now hin go no how it is to make a dishonest woman out of a lady. :P :P
These Ape banana's, commando styles & Zero tolerance or knot point knot (0.0) rage level against an ex or existing hubby or boyfriend by women is very stupidifying, degressing & appallin 2 me. I simply just cnt understand y women be ventin wen a man says no, y not move d hell on? Besides love na by force? There r many macarel's in the river: woman juss gotta toss her bait in it n catch the right stuff!!! And if one man trashes u, another will treasure u so why worry? Thats why sometimes I "feel" for brothers! Girls be leechin on even when their words r evidently clear "its over" but instead they resort to harmful measures........Brothas.......yer kunka iya fa! Sai hankuri.;D
Tell u a short story............Dis how one of my aunts went on rage along wit her entourage for support. Her hubby was building this beautified condo with two identical self contained apartments and one for him and another 4 d kids. My aunt visited the almost completed building site where the builders & securyt men were howling 'sannu dah zuwah Hajya'. Went straight to a lorry filled with cements, blocks, marbles & all sorts of buidling/capentry stuff; ordered the driver inside to "out" and went straight......ramming it into one of the apartments that was supposedly meant 2 b 4 d amarya. Everyone stood there looking horrified in disbelief. Of couse she sustained minor injuries. She was hailed by yen zuga nata but she got the bad side of it from her parents & elders & made even more enemies from her inlaws people. Her hubby kept mute to the whole drama but marriage to seconder came sharp! sharp! And the funniest part was that the second wife moved into the house first and 8months later my aunt joined in lol. As age-mates I never cease from teasing her! ;D And the funniest part is on one account I visited the house and there was tension in the air and I asked my aunt why she was arguin with her hubby? She said because he was callin her El-rufai............I cudnt stop laffin..............
Again durin ramadan period, one of my uncle was burnt with frying oil dat was supposedly meant to be used in frying abinci shan ruwa juss cus he had plans 2 wed. Luckily the *(beep)* of a woman only managed to fry his ear and his arm......his face was saved. Hamdallah! This my old age, I have seen and heard it all...................Allah yer sawakeh ma wasu matan din dai.
Its pointless attacking men juss cus dey say I no dey feel u again!
Anyway bck on point....I no bi Kano/Kaduna/Katsina or any northern region woman. But come wetin Kano babes do wuna? ;D
Quote from: HUSNAA on June 04, 2008, 01:55:25 PM
GGNK cmi c trouble fromu!! Yaushe mukai da kai zan samo wa Muhsin ceekah? lol!! maza da sake!!
LOL haba antin Muhsin,ke kika ce sai ya girma mana.
Amma kin ga irin halin yaran zamani ko, ya ga hoton BEE kuma ya rikiche.(ko da yake su BKGZ and IBB ma suke rikiche ballantana yaro mai tashe)
Quote from: HUSNAA on June 04, 2008, 07:38:22 PM
Quote from: Dan-Borno on June 04, 2008, 06:50:23 PM
what is so extreme? he roasted the lady first ko?
lol at DB ;D ;D
Quite kwarrect DB!! He deserved it ameera!!! ;D ;D ;D He's still alive aint he? Now hin go no how it is to make a dishonest woman out of a lady. :P :P
Ai aure babu dole fa, i didn't say he slept with the girl o! DB kana ji na?
Infact if we were to actually screen this kind of issues you'll find out
that the cases of women dumping men is actually more rampant than
men dumping women.
Kai kan ka DB you are an example.....yess wannan yar igalan,ko ibira ce
that you dated when u were in school,the one that chopped all the school
fees and finally dumped you.Did you knock on her door and set her on fire?
Ko kuwa shi Muhsin da yarinyar nan ta ce mai a'a zuwa yayi ya kade ta da
lifan.Ko shi bakangizo da wannan tsohuwar budurwar tashi ta yi abandoning
din shi when that rich guy turned up zuwa yayi ya kai ta police station?
Yanzu dai ta rage mai tsada cos he has a patched face.
Allah ya kiyaye amman dai make he take revenge kawai.An eye for an eye.
Make he cut her leg or make he burn her hair make she become mai kwalkwal.
Haba GGNK, are you trying to compare our patience
with the "weaker sex"? except if you can prove to me
that we are the same "emotionally" then your above
example overuled my earlier position.
Kash - i doubt if you can prove, can you remember how
many guys cried in front of their girl-friends? before you
count 10 guys i will count 10,000 girls who have cried
for a simple reason that can be solved in seconds.
so, the shock resistance in me, bakangizo and yaron aunty
is not there in these girls.
Quote from: ummita on June 04, 2008, 09:56:17 PM
These Ape banana's, commando styles & Zero tolerance or knot point knot (0.0) rage level against an ex or existing hubby or boyfriend by women is very stupidifying, degressing & appallin 2 me. I simply just cnt understand y women be ventin wen a man says no, y not move d hell on? Besides love na by force? There r many macarel's in the river: woman juss gotta toss her bait in it n catch the right stuff!!! And if one man trashes u, another will treasure u so why worry? Thats why sometimes I "feel" for brothers! Girls be leechin on even when their words r evidently clear "its over" but instead they resort to harmful measures........Brothas.......yer kunka iya fa! Sai hankuri.;D
Tell u a short story............Dis how one of my aunts went on rage along wit her entourage for support. Her hubby was building this beautified condo with two identical self contained apartments and one for him and another 4 d kids. My aunt visited the almost completed building site where the builders & securyt men were howling 'sannu dah zuwah Hajya'. Went straight to a lorry filled with cements, blocks, marbles & all sorts of buidling/capentry stuff; ordered the driver inside to "out" and went straight......ramming it into one of the apartments that was supposedly meant 2 b 4 d amarya. Everyone stood there looking horrified in disbelief. Of couse she sustained minor injuries. She was hailed by yen zuga nata but she got the bad side of it from her parents & elders & made even more enemies from her inlaws people. Her hubby kept mute to the whole drama but marriage to seconder came sharp! sharp! And the funniest part was that the second wife moved into the house first and 8months later my aunt joined in lol. As age-mates I never cease from teasing her! ;D And the funniest part is on one account I visited the house and there was tension in the air and I asked my aunt why she was arguin with her hubby? She said because he was callin her El-rufai............I cudnt stop laffin..............
Again durin ramadan period, one of my uncle was burnt with frying oil dat was supposedly meant to be used in frying abinci shan ruwa juss cus he had plans 2 wed. Luckily the *(beep)* of a woman only managed to fry his ear and his arm......his face was saved. Hamdallah! This my old age, I have seen and heard it all...................Allah yer sawakeh ma wasu matan din dai.
Its pointless attacking men juss cus dey say I no dey feel u again!
Anyway bck on point....I no bi Kano/Kaduna/Katsina or any northern region woman. But come wetin Kano babes do wuna? ;D
Ummita my inlaw how wuna dey? how my husband dey? I no hear from u two lol!! haka za ayi auren? ;D ;D baji ba gani?
About yr aunt el rufai lol that was funny...hahahaha.. abi di husband build her her own apartment nko? irin wannan instead of going over the top, make she kwace di husband from di second wife throu kissa..
anyway, your aunt's case is different. These are all married women. I understand na jelosi come make them behave like so.
but this one abi. dem neva marry, even tho GGNK say di guy neva touch di girl that way, but me i think DB got it right. if to say na just a case of i love u today i dont love u tomorrow, u know fatar baka kurum, di gal go just waka out of his life no sweat. but he must have done something bad to her to make her lose her senses. these days its easy to get a girl to gree comot hersef for man.. no bi like in my day when if a girl get pregnant by her husband befor she enter his house, dat one na fire for her, talk less of not being his wife...
cei!!
so something serious must have gone.. like he promised to marry her, and then when she lost herself to him, he backed away. a case like this once happened. di boyfriend come talk di girl into losing to him with talk of we are engaged na only di fatiha between us so no worry, i no go back down. But he did just that! Poor girl, his best friend took pity on her and married her instead. needless to say, the husband and the xboyfriend are not on talking terms anymore.
Quote from: HUSNAA on June 05, 2008, 06:12:34 PM
About yr aunt el rufai lol that was funny...hahahaha.. abi di husband build her her own apartment nko? irin wannan instead of going over the top, make she kwace di husband from di second wife throu kissa..
Kedai ki bari kawai. Ni giyamata ma nayi fa............. nace mata, haba kamar ba mace ba! Excellent cooking alone can do the trick. Kinsansu da abinci!!!!!!! ;D
Quote from: HUSNAA on June 05, 2008, 06:12:34 PM
but this one abi. dem neva marry, even tho GGNK say di guy neva touch di girl that way, but me i think DB got it right. if to say na just a case of i love u today i dont love u tomorrow, u know fatar baka kurum, di gal go just waka out of his life no sweat. but he must have done something bad to her to make her lose her senses. these days its easy to get a girl to gree comot hersef for man.. no bi like in my day when if a girl get pregnant by her husband befor she enter his house, dat one na fire for her, talk less of not being his wife...
so something serious must have gone.. like he promised to marry her, and then when she lost herself to him, he backed away
A'a fa Husna, I dont know minkam gaskiya ba haka ina kalla abin ba. My comments might sound cold but common think about it: If a girl at a later stage in her life begins to enter the webs of love triangle wit a man, it does not confer her the right to throw herself callously around just because he promised to marry her. Courtship can go on, promises can be made but falling inlove aint madness let alone believing in conditional promises of only if you gimme urs, will we wed! And this is how some random imbeciles go on messing up and depressing a girls emotional wellbeing.
On the other hand, why blame the guy for dumping her? He wants "out" of the r/ship. Ita, where is her medulla oblongata? Ai girma akeyi ana hankali. Yer kamata tasani if the dude is fa'rreal or just a useless hoodwink! Allah yasa duniya zai bata, she shudnt give in. Like you said its not like before when all hell will let loose if a girl becomes preggy!!! But during my days there are limits, very stricts limits. You are allowed to court but you know your redlights! Anyway bck 2 d future ;D, wat really gets my honks on is this: why? why? why? do girls of nowadays fall so easily for cheap words and women of back in the days mostly didnt? Its like we knew exactly which stones to hop on & which onces to avoid from stumbling. But you get to see nowadays, one word from men knocks these young girls off of their feets. Da yace I love you...shekanan....shes all his! And some of these girls will remain blinded by any occurences that may eventually turn out for the worse and only when the guy finally ditches her, she turns into a right devil!!! A'a wuta ne, a'a ruwan zafi ne, a'a maigyada ne, a'a acid ne, a'a wuka ne, scissors ne & it goes on! No matter how serious ish & ish is Husna, I still dont see why one as a causative factor of her own misfortunes will be so bent on destroying her very partner in crime! A guy shud not be blamed just cause Ladi didnt keep her skirts down even if Danlaado lured her with words.....she bi mumu?......Na wo send?
Love does not come with any gurantees neither does it give assurances that the marriage will be a definite event! Anything can happen. In d end, even if the girl cooks her man and eats him for dinner, it still wont change anything. The pain & anguish she felt & will still be going through is scarred in her for life. So why carry another wahala & get done for GBH or assault? Instead girl should just bear it, pray to God for forgiveness & move on with her life! But I see no reason why a girl in her right mental capacity, knowingly and willingly plunges into that forbidden part permitted only to married couples & then uses her traumatised emotions to fry her lover after she was also an attache' to the consequences of her sole act and we sit and say kudos to her? It simply doesnt make sense Husna. :-\
PS: Ah' Inlaw kinsa inata surutu, ga important issue b.w us. Toh minkam, u showed ur interest & cuz of some of ur very commendable specific attitude, I agreed to the marriage proposition. Anyi magana na dowry sai kuma kinka makale..........Ba gaisuwa ba komai. This our inlawship, am beginin 2 question it...........Ato ki fito kiyi concrete magana yanzu. Kila mah a aiker miki da hotunan na megidan naki. ;D
Quote from: ummita on June 06, 2008, 05:14:19 AM
A'a fa Husna, I dont know minkam gaskiya ba haka ina kalla abin ba. My comments might sound cold but common think about it: If a girl at a later stage in her life begins to enter the webs of love triangle wit a man, it does not confer her the right to throw herself callously around just because he promised to marry her. Courtship can go on, promises can be made but falling inlove aint madness let alone believing in conditional promises of only if you gimme urs, will we wed! And this is how some random imbeciles go on messing up and depressing a girls emotional wellbeing.
On the other hand, why blame the guy for dumping her? He wants "out" of the r/ship. Ita, where is her medulla oblongata? Ai girma akeyi ana hankali. Yer kamata tasani if the dude is fa'rreal or just a useless hoodwink! Allah yasa duniya zai bata, she shudnt give in. Like you said its not like before when all hell will let loose if a girl becomes preggy!!! But during my days there are limits, very stricts limits. You are allowed to court but you know your redlights! Anyway bck 2 d future ;D, wat really gets my honks on is this: why? why? why? do girls of nowadays fall so easily for cheap words and women of back in the days mostly didnt? Its like we knew exactly which stones to hop on & which onces to avoid from stumbling. But you get to see nowadays, one word from men knocks these young girls off of their feets. Da yace I love you...shekanan....shes all his! And some of these girls will remain blinded by any occurences that may eventually turn out for the worse and only when the guy finally ditches her, she turns into a right devil!!! A'a wuta ne, a'a ruwan zafi ne, a'a maigyada ne, a'a acid ne, a'a wuka ne, scissors ne & it goes on! No matter how serious ish & ish is Husna, I still dont see why one as a causative factor of her own misfortunes will be so bent on destroying her very partner in crime! A guy shud not be blamed just cause Ladi didnt keep her skirts down even if Danlaado lured her with words.....she bi mumu?......Na wo send?
Love does not come with any gurantees neither does it give assurances that the marriage will be a definite event! Anything can happen. In d end, even if the girl cooks her man and eats him for dinner, it still wont change anything. The pain & anguish she felt & will still be going through is scarred in her for life. So why carry another wahala & get done for GBH or assault? Instead girl should just bear it, pray to God for forgiveness & move on with her life! But I see no reason why a girl in her right mental capacity, knowingly and willingly plunges into that forbidden part permitted only to married couples & then uses her traumatised emotions to fry her lover after she was also an attache' to the consequences of her sole act and we sit and say kudos to her? It simply doesnt make sense Husna. :-\
PS: Ah' Inlaw kinsa inata surutu, ga important issue b.w us. Toh minkam, u showed ur interest & cuz of some of ur very commendable specific attitude, I agreed to the marriage proposition. Anyi magana na dowry sai kuma kinka makale..........Ba gaisuwa ba komai. This our inlawship, am beginin 2 question it...........Ato ki fito kiyi concrete magana yanzu. Kila mah a aiker miki da hotunan na megidan naki. ;D
Well, what a post! I like ;D Seriously, you speaketh the truth, and this post goes to show what an astute poster you are.
Great post 'meetah.
I'm sure Husnaa was just joking.
Your aunty el rufai was BAD,if i were the husband i'l pack her and
her belongings to the demolished section,let her enjoy herself.
Really jealousy can drive people wee wee. Allah ya kiyaye mu.
Quote from: gogannaka on February 18, 2008, 11:51:37 AM
Here is one of the latest:
A guy's conversation with the girl he intends marrying:
Guy: Kin san fa ina gini har an kai roofing.
Girl: Thats good,Chinese roofing kake saka wa?
Guy: A'a.
Girl: A ina gidan yake? GRA ne?
Guy: Umm a kofar so and so (inside the old kano city)
Girl: Lalala, wannan wajen kusa da gidan sarki, mai hayaniya.
Gaskiya bana so!
Karshen story: They are no longer engaged.
Story number two:
Wannan ma an nuna min yarinyar,yarinya zukekiya,fara,'yar bana
bakwai,chut chut yar kwalisa,yar unibasiti.
Wai ita kuma ta rantse gida idan babu P.O.P baza ta shiga ba.
Haka kuma her leg no go touch d kitchen wey na she go dey cook.
Sai dai a kawo mata 'house-skivvy'.[kin ce na kawo miki abokiyar
zama kenan,ita ta dinga girkin]
Another one ita ma haka,wai fiance din ta heard and saw some pictures
of her at a wedding and she was badly dressed and when he talked to
her about improving her dressing she told him that she can't, its just
impossible.'Ba haka ka ganni ba i cannot change because of you'
That was the end.
GGNK, an ce duniya ta ishi kowa ko? Kowa ya kara da duniya sai dai ta kada shi. sofry sofry, dem go change stand. lol they are young and kai na fizga. beauty de rule di roost in that they think they are simply irresistible to all and sundry. Allah Ya Sawwake kada su je suyi ta yar sarki da sarkin aljannu inda ta je ta auri kai finally... hehehehe!
To me eh, if a girl were to marry a guy, the fact that he said yana gini ma is enough evidence to show me that he is the sort of person who does not wait for someone yayi masa. Imagine, wai ma ba gidan haya za su tare ba, in his own house.. dont know how old he is, but at auren fari for a young guy in this zamani to be able to build his own bukka even a cikin gari shows you a tycoon in the making... a go getter; a can do sort of person wanda ya san inda rayuwar sa ta nufa and certainly all else being equal, some one who can take care of me... after all, who says he also is not dreaming of tarewa a GRA one day? Given how he started out kuma, in Allah bai Sa masa wa'yansu matsaloli which are insurmountable ba, then he will certainly go and live a GRA in a grand style one day. It is only a matter of time and hakuri... and she will be the queen of it all... foolish girl, who ever she is..
The one who didnt dress nicely, well actually she isnt interested in the guy either, cos if she were, she'd certainly would like him to find her attractive. So there.. gara da suka rabu, at least ita baza ta ciza danya tsa ba one day. Besides she is right in a way, haka ya same ta. So its like he is interested in her superficially not what she stands for, or what she is inside.
mutumina dont allow these stories to take you off
the rail, duk barazana ne, if she says POP tell her
that ai an daina yayin POP yanzo wani new technology
ake wai shhi POPS.
If she says GRA, tell her that its a colonial settlement
and there is a better place than GRA, that is where you
are staying.
Let her dress ko tsirarama, after the wedding idan ka
durka mata ciki she will adjust to "maternity dressing"
immediately wallahi.
Quote from: Dan-Borno on June 09, 2008, 12:58:09 PM
Let her dress ko tsirarama, after the wedding idan ka
durka mata ciki she will adjust to "maternity dressing"
immediately wallahi.
An gaishe ka, alan gubro ;D ;D
HABA mudacris ai ba duk aka taru aka bachi ba, kuma i wouldnt kal materialistic if i wer you, da guys tend to do show off wenever dey meet a gal so wat do you expect wen you do dat? wit da all da shits an drama you guys bring to our life kadou sai da haka anyways i hp mud you read diz, its fati former member known as friend
ur welcome friend21, i hope u dont mind if we wall you
abokiyarmu.
mudacris is away and will not come back until next year,
meanwhile he has handed over the affairs of his office
to me pending his return. In view of the above, you can
liaise with me on any confidentiality or clarification,
however, be careful with Bakangizo.
Quote from: friend21 on June 09, 2008, 04:54:55 PM
HABA mudacris ai ba duk aka taru aka bachi ba, kuma i wouldnt kal materialistic if i wer you, da guys tend to do show off wenever dey meet a gal so wat do you expect wen you do dat? wit da all da shits an drama you guys bring to our life kadou sai da haka anyways i hp mud you read diz, its fati former member known as friend
e be like say you and this muda dey jell well-well. Don't worry, muda is on "sabbatical" leave from the forum, as he has to go and iron out a little problem with a Tiv girl in Gboko.
Don't mind ggnk, he's just jealous of me, because everyone here says I'm the good boy.
*Clears throat* serious post...
Generally I think yan matan kano get married a lot earlier than their equals in many parts of the north.
Many of these girls might have chosen (or have been told) not to study further than a certain level, fair
enough. I think it's only natural for a person (regardless of gender) to want financial independence and
since these girls don't have very many prospects, they decide to go for husbands that can cater for their
financial needs. As morally inappropriate as that sounds, i don't think they should be badmouthed. Look
at the condition of our country. Even people with decent paying jobs are struggling to get by. It's like
Husnaa said, duniya ta ishi kowa. Nobody wants to suffer. Everyone will probably crucify me for saying this
but every woman thinks about the future before marriage and when choosing a spouse, she looks for someone
that can be able to take care of her and her children when they come. True not all women choose rich husbands
but I can assure you every (sensible) woman chooses a man with PROSPECTS, a man with promise, a man
with possibilities, a man with drive, a man with a dream, regardless of her upbringing. It's nobody's fault. It's
the condition of our nation. Remember the husband is probably all she's got. She's going to depend on him for
the rest of her life. He wants to be rich, he works for it, he achieves it. She wants to be rich, she can't work for
it so she leans on him to achieve it. I think it's a fair deal.
We all have expectations. Some more than others. They come in different forms and magnitudes depending on
the individual. Some people may put theirs in looks and physical properties, some in financial stability, some in
character e.t.c. No matter where our preferences stand, the truth is we all have expectations, albeit different,
but expectations all the same. So who are we to judge? We think we are better than others when really we are
all the same, just in different forms. So who are we to judge?
When it comes to issues as sensitive choosing a spouse, people are so quick to judge. We are not in their shoes,
we are only looking at it from a distance. Why is it oky to choose a partner based on something as shallow as
lust and yet we tarnish the reputation of the people that choose based on a practical reason like financial security?
True some people overdo it, but I won't blame them. They are only reacting naturally to the forces of the society.
With wisdom and life experience, they'd know where to draw the line.
As for that one that won't live in a house without POP, ta gina da kanta mana. Let her see if it's easy to build a
normal house ma let alone one with lavish finishings. If you notice, most of the girls that make such comments
are young and naive with no life experience whatsoever. With time, their views on life will change and they'll find
the magic word... CONTENTMENT!
So if a girl tells you she won't marry you because your house doesn't have a POP finish, just smile because that's
a sign that she's not yet mentally mature to see beyond her little bubble. With time and patience on your path,
she'll get there, Someday somehow. One day at a time.
*phew* glad I got that out of my chest. Serious thinking cap off!
P.S. At gogannaka's story, hehehe! I'm sure it's just a minority of yan matan kano that have such extreme requests.
Dama wake daya shi ya ke bata gari. That 1% just makes people believe the whole lot are like that. I'm sure we have
lots of good girls in the universities, especially those ones in MSS. We are so quick to point out the bad that we sometimes
overlook the good. So to those devout and patient sisters in Kano, keep up the good work :) :) :) :)
What a good report ma dear sista fateez, nicely put forward what ure saying is definately
true.
this my friend nawa for you, you never comment on
anything these days sai maganan aure, gayan gara
haba, just close your eyes and get married, muma
da haka mukayi nothing is going to change them (women).
Quote from: Dan-Borno on June 16, 2008, 06:15:01 PM
this my friend nawa for you, you never comment on
anything these days sai maganan aure, gayan gara
haba, just close your eyes and get married, muma
da haka mukayi nothing is going to change them (women).
Gaya masa gaskiya dai ya ji.
Quote from: Fateez on June 10, 2008, 03:49:46 PM
Generally I think yan matan kano get married a lot earlier than their equals in many parts of the north.
Many of these girls might have chosen (or have been told) not to study further than a certain level, fair
enough. I think it's only natural for a person (regardless of gender) to want financial independence and
since these girls don't have very many prospects, they decide to go for husbands that can cater for their
financial needs.
Ahem Fateez. Hate to disagree with you, but I vehemently do. Girls of Kano do not marry earlier than their counterparts in other parts of the north. We are talking about girls who have gone to school up to university level. Those are the ones who set their sites on getting the man on the moon, not the one standing next to them. As for lack of prospects lol u do them injustice. Isnt the education suppose to increase their future economic independence? Then they dont need to have to plan for a rich husband because at least they have potential economic value themselves. The girls also dont really choose not to go further. Most of them dont at any rate. The parents decide to pluck them from sch and marry them off. The main problem we face really is the fact that the education is poor in many cases and therefore u get some whom wanda Allah bai baiwa acute intelligence ba, being unable to make use of the education that they acquire inspite of its low quality. And they dont try to better themselves either.
Quote from: Fateez on June 10, 2008, 03:49:46 PM
Nobody wants to suffer.
but every woman thinks about the future before marriage and when choosing a spouse, she looks for someone
that can be able to take care of her and her children when they come. True not all women choose rich husbands
but I can assure you every (sensible) woman chooses a man with PROSPECTS, a man with promise, a man
with possibilities, a man with drive, a man with a dream, regardless of her upbringing. It's nobody's fault.
Haqqun haqqun haqqun. It is only sensible that a woman chooses the best mate for her. After all even the birds do it. I can remember one species of bird the bower bird has to beautify his house and get all sorts of kyale kyale inside the house then await the inspection of the female, who decides if the house is good enough for her to inhabit or not... really its so amazing isnt it?
Quote from: Fateez on June 10, 2008, 03:49:46 PM
the condition of our nation. Remember the husband is probably all she's got. She's going to depend on him for
the rest of her life. He wants to be rich, he works for it, he achieves it. She wants to be rich, she can't work for
it so she leans on him to achieve it. I think it's a fair deal.
Fateez gurl,where u been? Is this what u want for
yrself?
to be totally dependent on the husband.. tut tut not good. Believe me even he will see u as a liability. Lets say that we all want our husbands to be rich because it also reflects off us the wives tunda an ce mace da bazar mijinta take rawa and its still very true. But look for financial independence. U become an asset to him that way. Maza the way they operate is this... sabon kudi, sabon gida, sabuwar amarya... so where will u be in that equation?
Quote from: Fateez on June 10, 2008, 03:49:46 PM
We all have expectations. Some more than others. They come in different forms and magnitudes depending on
the individual. Some people may put theirs in looks and physical properties, some in financial stability, some in
character e.t.c. No matter where our preferences stand, the truth is we all have expectations, albeit different,
but expectations all the same. So who are we to judge? We think we are better than others when really we are
all the same, just in different forms. So who are we to judge?
Yes we all have expectations and they are all different. But lets make them realistic.
Quote from: Fateez on June 10, 2008, 03:49:46 PMWhen it comes to issues as sensitive choosing a spouse, people are so quick to judge. We are not in their shoes,
we are only looking at it from a distance. Why is it oky to choose a partner based on something as shallow as
lust and yet we tarnish the reputation of the people that choose based on a practical reason like financial security?
True some people overdo it, but I won't blame them. They are only reacting naturally to the forces of the society.
With wisdom and life experience, they'd know where to draw the line.
Well if a girl or a man is clearly mercenary, one must disdain it; its a natural reaction, even if covertly, one covets the same inclinations.
Quote from: Fateez on June 10, 2008, 03:49:46 PMAs for that one that won't live in a house without POP, ta gina da kanta mana. Let her see if it's easy to build a
normal house ma let alone one with lavish finishings. If you notice, most of the girls that make such comments
are young and naive with no life experience whatsoever. With time, their views on life will change and they'll find
the magic word... CONTENTMENT!
Tell u what, na daya, if she refuses to marry the guy in the first place cos he hasnt got a POP finished house (btw, what's a POP finished house?) then what happens is that in the future as u said, her views will change, but instead of contentment waiting to be found round the corner, it is regret that she will encounter, because she didnt make the right choice in the beginning.
Quote from: Fateez on June 10, 2008, 03:49:46 PMSo if a girl tells you she won't marry you because your house doesn't have a POP finish, just smile because that's a sign that she's not yet mentally mature to see beyond her little bubble. With time and patience on your path, she'll get there, Someday somehow. One day at a time.
By then its too late for her, cos if she says she wont marry the guy, will she be forced to, so that he has reason to smile at her immaturity and wait for the day that she will realize how wrong she was? She will probably realize it after she has become someone else's wife and sees the man she rejected for not having the abin duniya at one time, become a mini Bill Gates in some sphere of life and realize that she could have been the one take rawa da bazar sa.
Quote from: gogannaka on June 16, 2008, 01:48:47 PM
Kamar yanzu ne a ce Fulani suna da wauta or buzaye.
Definately not all of them are like that but they are known for that character.
Gogannaka e don do you!!!........... YES WO, I HAVE TAKEN IT PERSONAL. ON MY OWN PART & FOR D VERY FIRST TIME IN THIS FORUM, I AM ANGRY. >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( WHICH KINE DEY R KNOWN FOR THAT? EVERY1 GOT A LITTLE SHIRME IN DEM AND IN EVERY TRIBE TOO, WHETHER U R Hausa, Yoruba, Tiv, Kanuri or Igbo.
4 D RECORD. I AM NO MORE TALKING TO YOU AND PLEASE DO NOT TALK TO ME!!!!!! INFACT WHERE IS MY DADDY? >:(
You've just put me off from making my special announcement 2 d members of d forum. Sai na fuce zan dawo!
Quote from: HUSNAA on June 17, 2008, 06:54:58 PM
Quote from: Fateez on June 10, 2008, 03:49:46 PM
the condition of our nation. Remember the husband is probably all she's got. She's going to depend on him for
the rest of her life. He wants to be rich, he works for it, he achieves it. She wants to be rich, she can't work for
it so she leans on him to achieve it. I think it's a fair deal.
Fateez gurl,where u been? Is this what u want for yrself?
to be totally dependent on the husband.. tut tut not good. Believe me even he will see u as a liability. Lets say that we all want our husbands to be rich because it also reflects off us the wives tunda an ce mace da bazar mijinta take rawa and its still very true. But look for financial independence. U become an asset to him that way. Maza the way they operate is this... sabon kudi, sabon gida, sabuwar amarya... so where will u be in that equation?
U might hav gotten her off point & u might not! Despite this, I hav 2 say u r absolutely correct, no objection watsoever. However, adding to ur comment is this: I think a woman should not be independent nor dependent on her hubby but she should remain inter-dependent. That is to say she should not soley rely on her hubby to an extend he feels burdened by her nor should she take full or complete charge of her wellbeing. Islamically, there is a limit for the "so-called female independency and liberation thing" and some women shud avoid havin a "feel" of it or taking it overboard. This is because there is no huge need of it in the first place because Islam has entrusted a right on every married man to fully cater for not only his wife but the family as a whole. And this obviously means as we all know it to be the provision n availability of adequate & basic necessities of life: food, shelter and clothing.
Yet if the hubby is high n might in wealth and the woman prefares to ride on his tail coat, so be it. Here, I could slightly from this vacuum try and draw an understanding from her comment about "leaning" on the hubby to find that spot of financial stability. If he chooses to provide from her toiletries to what she eats, wears & money for spoils, thats fine. But atleast one gets this sense of pride not to have a wait on maigida's monthly housekeeping allowances but that the woman can use her own job earnings or savings: taje kasuwa ta siyah su maggi, su buhu na shinkafa tayi kawo store & maybe even treat the hubby to a nice shirt or anything he likes. And in worst scenarios in the event of a divorce, atleast she can say bring it on.........am not gonna suffer because I hav a little something to depend on and might not be overwhelmed with the insurmountable hurdles most divorced women face. Assuming she waits till he buys even the soap or moisturizer she uses and she doesnt have a little finance of her own yaya kinan in the event of divorce?
At eye level these days, some brothers wont even marry a girl until they see that they are likely to gain lucratively from her family. All the fresh money, fresh house & new everything is not a guranteed enjoyment for the women. 5yrs ago a man of such calibre (you knows those freshers in money) messed up a very close childhood friend of mine. Showed & gave "it" all to her from materialistic rubbish to even a car during their courtship & truly she adored him. I made a visit to her after not seeing her for a couple of years n 2 see the newborn.......lord, I found her in a sad situation and my emotions went really flat. The hubby doesnt give jack to my friend!! His basic obligations to cater for their needs is zero! Only thing I can vouch on is the creche & nursery fees he pays for the kids. Food & clothing had to be sent from home for my friend & lucky her: her parents are well off. If they werent, situation cudha been worse! Her parents havin enough of the demeaning attitudes of the husband to their daugther requested that he divorce her. Still when I think of them, makes me wonder what the hell is he doing and stashing all that money for? Will he live tomorrow to enjoy it? Makes me cement my realisations of ages ago that not all women are so vain on materialistic stuff but some men are just plain and devilishly stingy too!!!!
If a woman thinks she can enjoy a ride on her husbands tail coats, then she might be in for a shock. I think its best off 2 grow in age & wealth together wit a man knowing all that he has suffered for and his accumulative riches, you played that part of being his bedrock & comfort zone. You know I was there for him through the rough times, now its time for me to enjoy without havin a pang of thought......"kada yayi min gori ko wulanci wata rana". Instead of jumping on exquisitive horse & carriages of these "assorted men" sometimes a guys little wagon is far better though far fetched by some of women. Anyway if a man is wealthy & I stress genuinelyyyyyyyyyyyyyy good hearted & he will be a true breadwinner, the woman can cease to work or run a business of her own but siddown chop his dollar.............no qualms!
Quote from: HUSNAA on June 17, 2008, 06:54:58 PM
Fateez gurl,where u been? Is this what u want for yrself?
to be totally dependent on the husband.. tut tut not good. Believe me even he will see u as a liability. Lets say that we all want our husbands to be rich because it also reflects off us the wives tunda an ce mace da bazar mijinta take rawa and its still very true. But look for financial independence. U become an asset to him that way. Maza the way they operate is this... sabon kudi, sabon gida, sabuwar amarya... so where will u be in that equation?
Hehe! HUSNAA you are mistaken. This isn't about ME. I am an avid advocate for women being independent.
Besides, I think I'm in a different situation think. I for one have been allowed a right to education (for which
I'm very grateful, Alhamdulilah). As you mentioned, some of these girls may not have been allowed to get
tertiary education. No woman wants to depend on a man BUT and a very big BUT, my point here is; When
the woman has grown up in poverty, has no tertiary education and hence, no prospects, it is TOTALLY
UNDERSTANDABLE that she'd want a wealthy man so that she can have the life she never had and also
a better life for her children. I'm NOT saying its a good thing, but it is justifiable. True she can start up
her own business, but remember, capital has to come from somewhere. And if she chooses a rich husband
to be her source of financial security, it's HER CHOICE. She has a reason for it. True this is not what I want
for myself but since when have women ever wanted the same thing in a man? Refer to my point on different
expectations.
About the educated girls. Look at the situation in Nigeria. Not everyone that goes to University is guaranteed
a job. Not everyone that gets a job is guaranteed good pay. Not everyone that goes to university is intelligent
enough to survive the workforce. After all this, there's the ultimate right of the Muslim husband to prevent the
wife from working gabadaya. If that is the case she has no option but to depend on her husband at least till she
can figure something out for herself. So if they choose to go for "ready made" men, it's THEIR choice because
quite frankly, for the northern girl education is important and can open doors but it doesn't come with a guarantee
of financial independence.
About being realistic. We are human, we continually strive for perfection. Very often we don't get what we want,
but we hope anyway. We put our wants over what is feasible. Sometimes we get a change of heart before its too
late. Other times we learn the hard way. The case of the university girls may be a case of reaching for the stars.
Some of these girls may begin to rethink their standards when they reach the "kwantai stage". When they see that
landing a millionaire is very unlikely, they'd settle with what they have. Experience they say is the best teacher.
Trouble brings experience, and experience brings wisdom. Let them learn for themselves.
Quote from: amira on June 11, 2008, 07:49:05 PM
What a good report ma dear sista fateez, nicely put forward what ure saying is definately
true.
Amira!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Kwana da yawa! How's it going? :)
Quote from: gogannaka on June 16, 2008, 01:48:47 PM
Nice post Fateez.
Why all these allegations about the Kano babes being materialistic
aroused from the frequent incidences that happened.
I don't think anyone is judging anyone.
Kamar yanzu ne a ce Fulani suna da wauta or buzaye.
Definately not all of them are like that but they are known for that character.
I see your point. But may I ask you a question? Nigerians are known for fraud,
no offence meant Mr. Gogannaka but are you a fraudster? Would you like to be called a fraudster? Answer, imperative.
Heheh! Yeah right! No judgment? Lemme tell ya how this thread operates.
Cycle starts: Someone says something nasty about Kano girls. People dwell, dwell, dwell on it
and put them down. Then a few weeks later, you hear something else "Wai yanzu yan matan
kano kaza kaza kaza..." Once again, everyone starts all over again. 23 pages dedicated to how
ridiculous yan matan kano are. Badmouthing them on a website that usually pops up on the first
page of a Kano google search. All allegations coming from one source: Yan mazan Kano (Hello!
One sidedness!). Little kano girl learning to use the net lands on this page. She's probably going
through her discovery days. Reads this thread, it crushes her self esteem and self respect. She
thinks she can't break the mould. She subconsciously assumes she's supposed to be like the Kano
girls she read about on the net because no matter what she does people are still going to perceive
her as a good for nothing gold digger. So she becomes one of the gold diggers. She makes an
unattainable request. Someone hears it and posts it under Kano Babes Na Wa O... some other girl
comes along..... Do I smell a vicious cycle? Badmouthing these girls is not the way to go. The way
they are portrayed here you'd think they are the cause of Kano's problems. Or you'd think they are
the worst set of people in Kano. A foreigner reading this page will probably think yan matan Kano are
a bunch of Anna Nicole Smiths and Heather Mills that are totally incapable of love.
That friend, that sister, that daughter, that cousin of yours kawai kuna kashe mata kasuwa! If you
seriously don't like yan matan kano then go else where! Ga Zaria, ga DanBatta, ga Kazaure, ga Gwarzo,
ga Bakori, ga Dutse, ga Malumfashi, ga 1 million other places nearby. There are people that have married
yan matan Kano and are living their very own happily ever afters. After all, one man's meat is another
man's poison. Some men are probably over the moon at the fact that they can give the woman all she wants.
The fact that she depends on him just strokes his ginormous ego and he prides himself with the feeling of superiority.
All this brouhaha about yan matan kano, yan mazan Kano fa? Heheh! Don't get me started on that breed of Homo Sapiens!
Quote from: gogannaka on June 16, 2008, 01:48:47 PM
Of course it isn't bad at all when one reviews the future partner before marriage.
But a case where strict conditions are laid before marriage is wrong. Da haka da
haka mazajen za su yi ta guduwa or the girl falls victim to a situation where the
rich husband mistreats her cos ya san she married the money not him.
In your opinion, that is. We shouldn't impose our standards on others. If you think someone is
making a mistake there's nothing wrong with giving advice. It's up to them to take it or leave it.
Let them make their own mistakes and learn from it. That's what life is about.
Haloha, I'll first asked if Muda was strike b4 dis post, then I move forwarded recommending zezezee with the exception of few of her statements during the March 20, 2004 post, its been awhile to dig dis far. Zezezee, power, money and fame control site events, but what true men can give is loyalty, and that command respect even in the graves. I agree with u its now a global issues thanks to the new world order of technology. Again lets not narrow our topic on kano gals thou u started with kano, lets try kaduna... hav u ever had the sentence 'yaro kafi ubanka'. Now let me correct ajingi, thou our elders have not witness such, but then horses where the main rides then. Gogannaka u're spoke quite well trying to know the problem.
Hafsa-lady, I know trying to deny a harmless crime is difficult, simply admitting it wont cus a thing in a situation like this. But try and make men understand the role de play. I know of few guys who have the pledge of married or relationship with the following conditions
1. sai da mato
2. da gida
3. da jari
And moreover y is it guys have treatment level on personality. Cud one not just be himself. Far back then, we kind of the desert, lion of the desert, these are all hero. I agree that honour, men should seek for, but our today problem is that men have lost the path of getting honour. Mistaking oppression for honour has brought the soft heart gals blind. If Asmaa's husband could not buy her lace while badariya husband got her ten lace which she gave two out. How on earth could asmau feel. But bringing to mind fingers are not equal, patience, loyalty and peace shall prevail in that home.
Remember in any action there most be a reaction. Honour has lost its path, oppress once, you shall be oppressed ten times I guess.
I quote my lovely long ' relationship sud not depend on money and luxurie, it depends on what matters from d inside'
Hum basic requirement... dez r all man made problem and can be solve manenically
Let me make one tin clear where problem start is where a lady 4gets her role in the community, I am not saying de r ment to be in the kitchen, no ladys are men helpers, and men should be glad and appreciate them
I bliv if we could be a bit more honest to ourslve we could earn loyalty.
Quote from: ummita on June 18, 2008, 02:51:33 PM
Quote from: gogannaka on June 16, 2008, 01:48:47 PM
Kamar yanzu ne a ce Fulani suna da wauta or buzaye.
Definately not all of them are like that but they are known for that character.
Gogannaka e don do you!!!........... YES WO, I HAVE TAKEN IT PERSONAL. ON MY OWN PART & FOR D VERY FIRST TIME IN THIS FORUM, I AM ANGRY. >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( WHICH KINE DEY R KNOWN FOR THAT? EVERY1 GOT A LITTLE SHIRME IN DEM AND IN EVERY TRIBE TOO, WHETHER U R Hausa, Yoruba, Tiv, Kanuri or Igbo.
4 D RECORD. I AM NO MORE TALKING TO YOU AND PLEASE DO NOT TALK TO ME!!!!!! INFACT WHERE IS MY DADDY? >:(
You've just put me off from making my special announcement 2 d members of d forum. Sai na fuce zan dawo!
Ummita (nice name) make una undastand now.
I have withdrawn that statement. A zauna lafiya.
Aa GGNK they wan chop u raw ne? A lallai 'Babes na Wa o'
Quote from: ummita on June 18, 2008, 02:51:33 PM
Quote from: gogannaka on June 16, 2008, 01:48:47 PM
Kamar yanzu ne a ce Fulani suna da wauta or buzaye.
Definately not all of them are like that but they are known for that character.
Gogannaka e don do you!!!........... YES WO, I HAVE TAKEN IT PERSONAL. ON MY OWN PART & FOR D VERY FIRST TIME IN THIS FORUM, I AM ANGRY. >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( WHICH KINE DEY R KNOWN FOR THAT? EVERY1 GOT A LITTLE SHIRME IN DEM AND IN EVERY TRIBE TOO, WHETHER U R Hausa, Yoruba, Tiv, Kanuri or Igbo.
4 D RECORD. I AM NO MORE TALKING TO YOU AND PLEASE DO NOT TALK TO ME!!!!!! INFACT WHERE IS MY DADDY? >:(
You've just put me off from making my special announcement 2 d members of d forum. Sai na fuce zan dawo!
Somebody is jacking off her club, GGNK take cover.
Quote from: Bilyaminu on June 19, 2008, 10:28:45 PM
Haloha, Ill first asked if Muda was strike b4 dis post, then I move forwarded recommending zezezee with the exception of few of her statements during the March 20, 2004 post, its been awhile to dig dis far.
You have spoken well my broda, its a global thing, but i gotta tell you, i was not striken before i started this topic, i was INSPIRED by what my sight and hearing was witnessing, and one more thing, Zezezee aint a she..lol!
Ihmmm ur talking about Kano babes
u fogot the North East Babes ,
GN, IBB MUDA. In kunje kwa
dawo da baya ask DB he know dem wel
to Rais, munji, bamu labarin ka.
Quote from: Rais on August 06, 2008, 05:43:06 PM
Ihmmm ur talking about Kano babes
u fogot the North East Babes ,
GN, IBB MUDA. In kunje kwa
dawo da baya ask DB he know dem wel
North East, where in particular? Can you be more specific?
Barno, Adamawa. Amma Gombe akwai sauki
So are you saying Gombe babes are 'untapped resourses' should we go and 'explore' them? What are challenges/obstacles we are going to face. WHAT WILL BE THEIR GOMBE BABES NA WA O!
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.........GOMBE or no GOMBE,,,,,, all the babes r the same.
Babu wani sauki a GOMBE,,,,,,,,,,, suma they don spoil. IBB kawai carry wata BATURIYA....
kaga make we come sha biki.,,,,,,,,,,,,,lol
kanoonline guys nawa o!!!!! ::)
IBB don ready comot one babe from niger sha! A friend of mine told me that her colleague went to Niger and after he came back, he come say niger babes na better pass nigerian babes.. and she come disagree. later she went to niger herself and when she came back she said na wa o!!! Na tru talk dis guy dey talk!!
Wacce Niger din?
Nijar ko Niger state?
Idan dai Nijar republic ne to ni ma na yarda.
Sai dai fa akwai zuwa club sosai.Amma generally an ce sun hadu.
I meant Niger Republic.
Haba akwai wanda ya kai 'yan niger state tsami? Did u hear about that Bida muallim with 86 wives? Kuma yana musu da mutane wai sai a nuna masa a cikin Qur'ani inda Allah SWT Ya kayyade wa namiji iyakacin matan da zai aura? Wai kuma malami ne anan har yana da mabiya da matan sa who have no more sense than tumakai!
Subhanallah.
Kai amma dai wasu malamai suna cin karen su ba babbaka. Mata har 86! I've not heard this story.
What on earth is he going to do with 86 wives.The worse is he's giving islam a bad name.
Ko dai boka ne,u know they are also called malamai.
The etsu should see that this guy is incarcerated,da haka da haka mai tatsine ya fara.
Quote from: gogannaka on August 13, 2008, 08:13:13 AM
The etsu should see that this guy is incarcerated,da haka da haka mai tatsine ya fara.
The etsu does not have any power in Niger REPUBLIC
Quote from: *~MuDa~* on August 13, 2008, 02:07:10 PM
Quote from: gogannaka on August 13, 2008, 08:13:13 AM
The etsu should see that this guy is incarcerated,da haka da haka mai tatsine ya fara.
The etsu does not have any power in Niger REPUBLIC
But he has power in Niger
state ko?
Re read my little exchange with GGNK for a better fahimtuwa, Muda
Nijar babes kam ba laifi. Amma fa akwai wauta ;D
Quote from: Bakan~Gizo on August 14, 2008, 02:51:20 PM
Nijar babes kam ba laifi. Amma fa akwai wauta ;D
Aiba Niger babes ka wai yatsaya ba har da
yarubas, Igbo Kai all over the nation
Do you know that a lot of men argues that it is better to have a relationship with a woman from the south than a one from the north? That they really know what it takes to take care of a man than our northern women.
Haka ake cewa, amma ni dai I prefer our women. There are so many avoidable complications that may arise from marrying from the south. I'm not against it, and I don't see anything wrong with it, but I don't see myself deliberately going southward just 'cos I want to shun our own very dear, palatable, beautiful, irresistible babes!!!
Ahem. Now. Could that be because I haven't fallen madly in love with someone from there? Could it?
Quote from: Bakan~Gizo on August 18, 2008, 06:10:28 PM
Haka ake cewa, amma ni dai I prefer our women. There are so many avoidable complications that may arise from marrying from the south. I'm not against it, and I don't see anything wrong with it, but I don't see myself deliberately going southward just 'cos I want to shun our own very dear, palatable, beautiful, irresistible babes!!!
Ahem. Now. Could that be because I haven't fallen madly in love with someone from there? Could it?
It could be. But where do you mean by 'there'? South? :D
Quote from: jewel(abdulgee22) on August 11, 2008, 07:49:55 PM
IBB kawai carry wata BATURIYA....kaga make we come sha biki.,,,,,,,,,,,,,lol
An gama jewel. Ja, fara ko yellow zan samo mana. Ai kaga ma raba iri, kasan mu mazan Kano da son fararen mata kuwa
Quote from: HUSNAA on August 12, 2008, 04:59:04 AM
IBB don ready comot one babe from niger sha!
Aa Auntin Muhsin ya kike tsegunta musu? Abin sirri ne
Quote from: Bakan~Gizo on August 14, 2008, 02:51:20 PM
Nijar babes kam ba laifi. Amma fa akwai wauta ;D
LOL
Quote from: *~MuDa~* on August 18, 2008, 10:15:53 AM
Do you know that a lot of men argues that it is better to have a relationship with a woman from the south than a one from the north? That they really know what it takes to take care of a man than our northern women.
You mean the sisters in the south are more romantic and smart enough to empty ur pockets? Our sisters in the north i feel
some of them are too shy to express their feelings, may be due to our societal lack of affection but i believe deep inside they
want to be sweet (thats y they tend to be annoying when they are trying to be sweet). I came across few sweet ones though.
Quote from: IBB on August 19, 2008, 06:49:37 AM
Quote from: HUSNAA on August 12, 2008, 04:59:04 AM
IBB don ready comot one babe from niger sha!
Aa Auntin Muhsin ya kike tsegunta musu? Abin sirri ne
Sirri... really , ni kuma na dauka public knowledge ne? Oh dear! ;D
Dont feel bad. u know one has to be well prepared b4 he starts blowing his trumpet.
IBB Allah ya tabbatar.
Ke kuma aunty Husnaa ina kika sami wannan labari mai zaki haka.
Muda all that news about the southern grls being better than our own na tory o! No believe am.
Their babes don't believe in commitment at all.And they sleep around alot.
Everywhere sha u go get good and bad ones.
Ya IBB akwai bayani ne a nijar din,niamey ko agadaz ko damagaran.
Nawa yake costing zuwa ne? ;)
Quote from: gogannaka on August 20, 2008, 07:49:37 AM
IBB Allah ya tabbatar.
Ke kuma aunty Husnaa ina kika sami wannan labari mai zaki haka.
I got it from IBB himself.
Quote from: gogannaka on August 20, 2008, 07:49:37 AM
Muda all that news about the southern grls being better than our own na tory o! No believe am.
There babes don't believe in commitment at all.And they sleep around alot.
Everywhere sha u go get good and bad ones.
Naah, i didnt say better, mind you, we have better girls in all sense except the romantice sense, our girls romantic sense is too premitive somewhat, especially those in the city, the locals, the girls in the south's main problem is sleeping around, yeah cause of the religious and cultural background but many have relayed that they are reliable you know, being there for you when you really need them, helping you out on things you might need help, do you know that many dont need your money too? But here it is even customary that the man must provide even during courtship, so you see, the tradition encourages our girls to be more of the collectors than part time providers, if at all a Kano Babe so to say provides for her man then be sure that they are married!
The sleeping around issue is enough a disqualification for them.
About romance kuma,precious once asked the guys of kanoonline what our definition of romance was and only DB gave his own definition.So i guess it depends on your own definition of romance.
I can agree with you that even before marriage the southern babes devote themselves more such that the difference btw the relationship stage and the marriage stage has very little difference.
Ni wani abu da suke birge ni da shi shine how they value the guys. I noticed it among my southern friends that their girlfriends run some important errands for the guys.Like one of my friends from delta was in Jos and he needed some documents from delta min of educ that said English is the language of instruction in the schools,it was the girl that did all the 'ups and downs' and got him the docs and sent them to him. Another one got his girlfriend to process and send his transcript to him.
Anya kuwa namu za su yi maka haka?
Thats exactly what i am saying, they have more regard to their men than our girls do.
Quote from: gogannaka on August 21, 2008, 01:23:37 PM
The sleeping around issue is enough a disqualification for them.
About romance kuma,precious once asked the guys of kanoonline what our definition of romance was and only DB gave his own definition.So i guess it depends on your own definition of romance.
I can agree with you that even before marriage the southern babes devote themselves more such that the difference btw the relationship stage and the marriage stage has very little difference.
Ni wani abu da suke birge ni da shi shine how they value the guys. I noticed it among my southern friends that their girlfriends run some important errands for the guys.Like one of my friends from delta was in Jos and he needed some documents from delta min of educ that said English is the language of instruction in the schools,it was the girl that did all the 'ups and downs' and got him the docs and sent them to him. Another one got his girlfriend to process and send his transcript to him.
Anya kuwa namu za su yi maka haka?
The reason why the southern girls seem to value their guys is because they sleep around so much. Therefore they dont have a strong hold over the guy, becos girls are so available to him. That is why the girls must go the extra mile to
keep the guy by making them (guys)
need them (the girls). Simple.
Because the northern girls dont sleep around and kuma generally it is haram in our religion, so that both guys and girls dont really engage in it especially if the guy is serious about the girl, then the guys go to ashawo but at the same time, they come back to the girl becos they want 'yar mutunci as the mother of their babies. Its not the same with southerners where a girl has to prove her fecundity before marriage.
No more comment.
Aunty'n Muhsin maganar ki dutse
Wannan Sallar an yi dinki kala kala.
Ranar eidi our Imam made mention of some very funny styles that ladies adopted this sallah.
They include:
Zuro hannunka masoyi
Baba na waye
Baka san haka nake ba
A tsokani shari'a.
Gaskiya tarbiyya ta baci.
I saw some very unislamc dresses.
Allah ya shirye mu.
Zuro hannunka masoyi? Where can i get a good tailor for this one m feeling it