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Gaskiya bansan meyasa matan-hausa a duniyar nan ta yanzu, ba abinda sukeso kamar---- sai naje jami'a(university), sai nayi aiki a rayuwa ta, sai nayi kaza-nayi-kaza................ tunibibi dai gashi ba wanda basa yi.

To a ganina, bai kamata ba yadda ake barin 'ya'yan mu na hausa, suke barin gidan iyayensu ba tare da muharraminsu ba su tafi wani garin karatu. (HARAMUN). Irin abubuwan da suke faruwa, abin ba'a cewa komai, sai gyaran Mamallaki.

Ina so naji ra'ayin wasunku game da irin wadannan matsaloli da muke fuskanta...

Ewoooooo what kind of pole is this? One click tin don reach 100% sef :? .

Man, first I just wanted to carry on go do my surutu comot. But make I stop here yan smo. Ba'are incase bakasaniba, ko annabi yace mata su nemi ilimi.  Tsaya what is the problem of a female doctor working? And infact one of the advantages of female docs is to reduce female check-ups for females by males ba? So you are indirectly saying......idan ni likitace ce, bazan maje uni na nmei qualification din zama likita ba sai da mijin aure, even if I do I no go siddown hoffice saidai da shi. No worry in my office I will get another official sit for my maigida :evil:  I dont know why some hausa men are so narrow minded on girls getting education. Jahiliyya era don pass. Make wuna wake up smell fresh air!!! And I dont know, if a girl wants to go to uni or work she can. WE KNOW THAT GIRLS IN UNI ARE POSING A THREAT TO U GUYS KUNA GANIN IDAN MACE TAYI ILIMI SHE GO PREDOMINATE. KU SAKA RANKU A INUWA, DUK MACE TA GARI ZATA BAKU RESPECT TA KUMA MUTUNTAKU. (mhmmmm har kitkat har ijiyan zuciya :roll: ) hehehe go rest jo! Am one of dem uni girls so what are you trying to say? ALLL MUST MUST MARRY OR BE MARRIED BEFORE GOING TO UNI?  :evil: Allah yasan zuciyar ko wace mace mai zuwa makaranta, kuma yasan dalilin da take zuwa, kuma yana kallon duk abunda take yi whether is in accordance with islam or not! So  Kinikon? wetin bi di wahala? Beta worry dey sef, instead of putting eye on university girls (Yan sa ido).
Listen it all boils down to irin tarbiyan da aka ba ma yarinya. Like me, I know my mum & dad have don a fantastic job and a job well done. Am not fooling my mouth but anywhere I go am being talked of my good behaviour :lol:  XCEPT THE FAMILY IN THIS FORUM WEY SABI CRUCIFY ME (eg:ZEEZEEZEE :roll: ). So for all I care, I have a way of carrying myself around the uni. I hold myself with HIGH PRESTIGE, VERY ELEGANT, IF YOU KNOW WORRA I MEAN (LOL) (Kai before wuna chop me raw na play play) No seriously nasan mutuncin kaina, I know about respect and self respect. I know what my religion says (do's & donts) and what my parents tell me keeps ringing in my ears day and night. So I go to uni with no muharaam. Am there for one reasons which I will inshallah achieve. SO wetin bi di wahala? Talking about wani gari, that one I leave it for the rest of the onliner. (wallahi bari yan yankee su gani za su hau kanka)....Ohhhh gel Gimbiya come see sontin here?

THE WHOLE THING IS THE TYPE OF PARENTAL TRAINING A GIRL GETS AND IF SHE KEEPS TO IT. NOTHING TO DO WITH UNIVERSITY AND GIRLS GOING THERE UNMARRIED. THATS YOUR POINT EXACTLY WHICH IS ABSOLUTELY SILLY. IF GEL ONE HUSSLE NA HER WAHALA. IF GEL WAN BE HOLY DAT HER NA HER RELIGION POLICY. IF GEL WAN BE BORN AGAIN HOLY LIKE (MEE) :roll:  NO QUALMS! NOTHING WRONG WITH GOING TO UNIVERSITY UNMARRIEDDDDDDDDDDDDDD.

OYA MAKE I CALL MY MAA TELL HER SAY I DON READYYYYY. MAKE I CALL MY BOO TELL HIM SAY MAKE EHN BRING RING. GUYS (SAY WETIN) TABDIJAN! AM GETTING MARRIED RIGHT NOW, CUS TOMORROW I HAVE TEST. :roll:

(LAUGHING EVIL) UMMITA YOUR OWN DON FINISH! I GO FONE YOUR GOGGO TELL HER SAY MAKE SHE BLESS YOU AND GBENGA IN HOLY MATRIMONY IF NOT YOU NO GO FIT GO UNI AGAIN. DAMN THAT OLD WOMAN WILL BE OVER THE MOON. ANYWAY NO BIGGIE CUS U KNOW WHASAP :wink: , MUDAI BARI MUYI KO MAJE MAKARANTA. OMO GEL WHASAP? TWO DAYS? I HEARD YOUR VOICEMAIL.......AND I GOT ONE ANSWER (GIDANKU! UWAKI! SAU DARI)LOL

GIMBIYA, FATEEZ, STRAIGHTALKIN,TWINKLE, FULANIZZLE,BEAUTILICOUS (dama ke u don already put aure in consideration to give up physics) oh gel you don drink palmieee too much anyway all the ladiz......committed or single kunji....ko kuyi aure ko ba uni don haramun ne! Mi I don follow berrilicious footstep. KILISHI u no get wahala you fit go uni cus you are married.

EVERYTHING WOMAN DIS OR THAT, AI ITS PART OF YOUR TRADITION, TO KEEP CRUCIFYING WOMEN. IF WUNA NO DO, I GO NAK CHEST SAY NA LIEEEE MEN DEY EXIST! SOOO ITS ALRIGHT MAKE WUNA CARRY PROCEED!

Naaa if we no waka go uni, dem go dey talk say we bi ILLITRATES........DONKEY BRAINS. Some go even talk say dey no go marry girl wey no fit spell "GO"...

Naaa if we go uni on di oda hand naso DEM GO DEY POSE, DE GO DE DEGEN DEGEN, DE GO DE POSE WITH US! :evil:

Chiaaaaaa...chineke, if wish na blessing I for carry GUN, FIRE every single male specie for this world including male animals but starting with the humans most preferably :roll:  :evil: [/b]

Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"Ba'are incase bakasaniba, ko annabi yace mata su nemi ilimi.  Tsaya what is the problem of a female doctor working? And infact one of the advantages of female docs is to reduce female check-ups for females by males ba? So you are indirectly saying......idan ni likitace ce, bazan maje uni na nmei qualification din zama likita ba sai da mijin aure, even if I do I no go siddown hoffice saidai da shi. No worry in my office I will get another official sit for my maigida :evil:  I dont know why some hausa men are so narrow minded on girls getting education. Jahiliyya era don pass. Make wuna wake up smell fresh air!!!

1.)  Ke yanzu hafsy, yadda ake neman illimi haka annabi yace mata ku nema? Musulunci yace mana mu aurar daku a lokacin da kuka balaga (Maturity). A duk lokacin da mai-gida ya bari 'yarsa har tayi jinin haila  (Period) a gidansa, to fa akwai alhaki a kansa. "Yanzu iyaye da dama basa tunanin wannan, sai ayi ta barin 'ya'ya mata sakaka suna yadda suka ga dama".


2.)  I agree the fact that ya kamata mata su koyi aikin likita (Doctors & nurses) but apart from that, wane irin aiki ne kuma ku mata kukeso da dole sai kunyi a rayuwarsu? Others suna karanta Business studies, Accounting, LAW.........


3.)  Duk abinda nake fada a nan shine; "Abinda Ubangiji yace ne mu musulmai mu dinga yi, Kada mu sake mu barka a cikin gidanjenmu har kuyi (Period) dinku twice.

4.)  Idan in su iyayen naku ne suka manta da fadar Allah, aikinku ne ku tunatar dasu abinda Allah ya fada "Dasu aurar daku da wuri dinnan ba sai lokacin dasuka ga dama ba". Idan kuma ba haka  ba, to daku dasu duka zaku gamu da ubangijinku.

Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"Naaa if we no waka go uni, dem go dey talk say we bi ILLITRATES........DONKEY BRAINS. Some go even talk say dey no go marry girl wey no fit spell "GO"...

Naaa if we go uni on di oda hand naso DEM GO DEY POSE, DE GO DE DEGEN DEGEN, DE GO DE POSE WITH US! :evil:

Chiaaaaaa...chineke, if wish na blessing I for carry GUN, FIRE every single male specie for this world including male animals but starting with the humans most preferably :roll:  :evil: [/b]

Please grow UP!
Dont be fooled by what others are doing, just do the things that are good to you and your people. Shine kibi yadda addininki yace kiyi.

Understand this (I'm not against Matan aure) I'm against wadanda basu da aure & their parents who let such things happen. Is lyk the parents idanunsu a rufe yake ne ko kuma me? da har suka yada Addininsu domin fifita neman zaman duniya!

So do you mean that university lifestyle of unmaried women is bad or what?

cool down guys,ba'are i undrestand your point,kuma any sane person will pity the situation of girls in higher institution of learning,abun ba a cewa komai,is very pathetic,though as hafsy sited not all,but almost any body that enters uni will be like i have freedom now i can do what i like,about religious implications of that is if girls can dress decntly without any provocation to the opposite sex,then i think they are safe and if they can also try and study course which is relevant,i mean which will benefit women and islamic society then i think is ok,but the environment doesn't permit such,we are face with a situation whereby you only study what you get not only what you applied for.
   Another point is that with due apologies to the girls i mean one million apology :oops:  :cry:  :!: ,is that lack of husband or kwadayin a samu miji hadadde push the parents to send their wards to uni,wani lokacin ba mijin don haka instead of keeping her at home they send her to uni,kar in cika ku da surutu i will be back.
  Hafsy kar a hau kaina nasan na tabo ku :shock:

cool down guys,ba'are i undrestand your point,kuma any sane person will pity the situation of girls in higher institution of learning,abun ba a cewa komai,is very pathetic,though as hafsy sited not all,but almost any body that enters uni will be like i have freedom now i can do what i like,about religious implications of that is if girls can dress decntly without any provocation to the opposite sex,then i think they are safe and if they can also try and study course which is relevant,i mean which will benefit women and islamic society then i think is ok,but the environment doesn't permit such,we are face with a situation whereby you only study what you get not only what you applied for.
Another point is that with due apologies to the girls i mean one million apology    ,is that lack of husband or kwadayin a samu miji hadadde push the parents to send their wards to uni,wani lokacin ba mijin don haka instead of keeping her at home they send her to uni,kar in cika ku da surutu i will be back.
Hafsy kar a hau kaina nasan na tabo ku

Quote from: "Anonymous"So do you mean that university lifestyle of unmaried women is bad or what?

In most cases it is. Because one way or the other, they do alot of things that are out of our tradition & religion.

I THINK THIS GUY NEED A LIFE?????

INA JIN DAI BA;AARE  YOU ARE STILL IN THE DARK AGES,AND PERSONALY I THINK YOU NEED TO GO BACK TO MAKARANTA.AND I THINK YOU HAVE TO EVALUATE YOURSELF,FOR THAT COMMENT

Please grow UP!
Dont be fooled by what others are doing, just do the things that are good to you and your people. Shine kibi yadda addininki yace kiyi.

Understand this (I'm not against Matan aure) I'm against wadanda basu da aure & their parents who let such things happen. Is lyk the parents idanunsu a rufe yake ne ko kuma me? da har suka yada Addininsu domin fifita neman zaman duniya!


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man why should gurl not go to da uni, a zai zama chuta ka hana su zuwa. they do some things which os not right yes but any thing that has a disadvantage must ve an advantage. n in this case the advantage is more,
mazan yanzu na wulakanta mata n education is their only help u know wat i mean, use arewa 4 an example see how  mata r been treted by thier husbands. i dont like talkin bout this cos it pains me more. ba harrm bane a bi zamani, i agree they over do. this is notr somethin we should ague bout...................

Malam bari na dan maka wata tambaya. Babarka tayi makaranta?

Quote from: "Malam Nasidi"Malam bari na dan maka wata tambaya. Babarka tayi makaranta?

i am very happy to say tayi and she really thught me well cos i leant most things frm her.

One thing about hausawa is that they always like to hide behind religion. which is Okay; but my only 2cents that I will put here going to school it's not every human being ideal way of life... regardless you are male or female. and all this talk about how females are acting in school I guess males just show up go to classes and stay at masjid all day huh??? I'm so disgusted by such thing I am even speechless.


Wow!!! there's nothing I can say Ba'are, but I really feel sorry for your society. I don't mean the whole northern Nigeria your little la-la Land.


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Quote from: "Anonymous"So do you mean that university lifestyle of unmaried women is bad or what?

Go to B.U.K or Uni gwags at night and see for yourself what 'ya'yan musulmai mata are up to  :oops:

The thing is just so.......

Quote from: "Malam Nasidi"Malam bari na dan maka wata tambaya. Babarka tayi makaranta?

eeehh, babata ni kam tayi makaranta. domin har yanzu tana koyarda karatu a makarantar framare ta kananan dalibai a jihar kano.

amma su yadda iyayensu suka tarbiyyantar dasu, shine daidai ga 'ya'yan musulmai. amma idan ka duba yadda iyaye na wannan zamani suke sakaka ga 'ya'yansu, abin sai lahaula.

Where is everybody? this just typical discussion, dont just read the topic without saying anything, post your views on the matter

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Quote from: "Malam Nasidi"Malam bari na dan maka wata tambaya. Babarka tayi makaranta?

eeehh, babata ni kam tayi makaranta. domin har yanzu tana koyarda karatu a makarantar framare ta kananan dalibai a jihar kano.

YOU TELL HIM LIKE IT IS!!!! Gayamishi!

Nnaaayi.... you can stop your fellow female generation and descendants from going to MAKARANTAAAAA, it is that simple!

Yet the most ironic thing Ba'are  :? , you have failed to give me a concrete, solidified, genuine, legitimate & the ultimate reason why women should not go to unifasiti :roll:  Biko......ow ELABORATE on the kind of problems women face!

(pokes zeezee in his rib cage, whispers silently)....you wait & listen, it all comes down to what women wear in unis....

Quote from: "Ba'are X"

Quote from: "Hafsy_Lady"Ba'are incase bakasaniba, ko annabi yace mata su nemi ilimi.  

1.)  Ke yanzu hafsy, yadda ake neman illimi haka annabi yace mata ku nema? Musulunci yace mana mu aurar daku a lokacin da kuka balaga (Maturity). A duk lokacin da mai-gida ya bari 'yarsa har tayi jinin haila  (Period) a gidansa, to fa akwai alhaki a kansa. "Yanzu iyaye da dama basa tunanin wannan, sai ayi ta barin 'ya'ya mata sakaka suna yadda suka ga dama".


2.)  I agree the fact that ya kamata mata su koyi aikin likita (Doctors & nurses) but apart from that, wane irin aiki ne kuma ku mata kukeso da dole sai kunyi a rayuwarsu? Others suna karanta Business studies, Accounting, LAW.........


3.)  Duk abinda nake fada a nan shine; "Abinda Ubangiji yace ne mu musulmai mu dinga yi, Kada mu sake mu barka a cikin gidanjenmu har kuyi (Period) dinku twice.

4.)  Idan in su iyayen naku ne suka manta da fadar Allah, aikinku ne ku tunatar dasu abinda Allah ya fada "Dasu aurar daku da wuri dinnan ba sai lokacin dasuka ga dama ba". Idan kuma ba haka  ba, to daku dasu duka zaku gamu da ubangijinku.

*Coughs* Brother Ba'are maganan namu ai baiyi nisa haka ba, we all know about growing up and parenting. I took this topic very lightly and jokingly in a way but now I was reading old topics and I taught GOD HELP YOUR FEMALE CHILDREN COS THE WAY YOU GOING ON, I DONT KNOW WHAT THEY MAY THINK OF DEY DHADDI! Anyway abun danake son ka gane shi, yadda kake debo maganganu kake zubawa ba tare da duba su sosai ba shine kawai ka kwaba confusion ta tafi abunka ka bar irinmu thinking whats up with this man? In response to your four rather mind confusing points, I lay mine:

1.Women should not reach age of maturity at home. Kuma she should never look for ilimi till she is married. Ko Jahiliya period bantaba jin haka ba. Now don Allah how does it relate to Uni? So as long as she gets married zata iya zuwa uni? Tambaya numba one!

2. A'a let me give you a sense of reasoning. There is something called CHOICE! I for one told my parents pop & clear with the greatest respect, that if I want to study I will and if I dont they shouldnt bother preparing me for it so ba dole muke neman aiki ba. Mind you akwai difference din JOB AND PROFESSION. You gatta qualify to get paid as a doc! And apparently you are saying a woman should under no circumstances choose a field of qualification only that of a medical practioner. With all due respect and with all my might I beg to differ here, what makes a doctors proffession differ from another feild? The only difference is a female doc to check a female patient. Now what is wrong with having a female mediator to help restore marriage on the brink of divorce? Is that not a profession? I do not go further because I would end up writing long. To cut short. In the Qur'an a wace surah, wace ayah Ubangiji mai girma yace kada mace ta nemi ilimi kowace iri so long it is not haram sai dai NA LIKITA kawai. Ina tambayanka yallabai?

3. A'a yau munga abun ji. La haula laku wata inna lilah....what kind of man are you? Ranka yadade, kasan akwai hadisin da yace do what concern you and leave what does not. Na daya am not your daugther and you may have a daugther my age (Kai! which I very much doubt) or not. Yanzu ina ruwanka da yayan wasu, tarbiyantar da naka. Give them your best and your reward God shall not deprive you. Na tabbatar har ga Allah watakila you have cousins maybe neice or nephews or even SISTERS per se wanda are adults and are not wedded, so idan zaka ma fara ganar damu fara da naka mana. You have to understand dan adam tara yake bai cika goma ba. Kuma a kullum kowa yana neman gafara a inda muka saba ma Allah, kuma nayi imani Allah will not send us straight to hell just because we are adults and not married. KO KASAN KOMAI DA LOKACINSHI! How many zillions of you'ngins do we have today not married. Allah has his time, besides he gave us time to DO WHAT WE WANT TO DO. MUNA NEMAN ABUN DA YACE MU TASHI MU NEMA. YACE MU NEMA ABUN HANNUNMU KADA MUSA IDO A NAWASU. YACE MU NEMI CI DA SHA. YACE MU NEMI ILIMIIIIIIIIIIII. So idan an nemi ilimi lefine Malam Ba'are? Ai ba zaman BANZA MATA KEYI BA. Idan ma kace haka, wasu mazan me sukeyi if not likewise!

4. Aiko duk wanda ya manta fadan Allah to zamanshi na duniya masifane. MY OWN PARENTS HAVE SPOKE GODS WORDS RIGHT FROM THE DAY I WAS BORN IN MY EARS AND TILL PRESENT. WANNAN BA BARAZANA BANE BA KUMA SHOW OFF BANE BUT ALHAMDULILAH MY PARENTS GAVE ME THE BEST TARBIYYAH EVER AND AM FOREVER GLAD. I WAS BROUGHT UP AND TAUGHT ABOUT RIGHTEOUSNESS, I WAS BROUGHT UP AND TAUGHT TO BELIEVE, TO HAVE FAITH, TO PRAY AND BE SAVED, TO DO AWAY EVIL & DISBELIVE EVIL, TO HAVE IMAN & the wholeeeeeeee...........So you just cant come up saying idan iyayenmu sun manta and so on zamu gamu da Allah. Ko kasan Allah mai yanda yaso ne. Yana yafewa bayinshi laifuka iri iri. Sai naga an yafe wa MACE MAI ZAMAN BANZA AMMAN TABA KARE RUWA TA SHIGA JANNAH! To what makes you believe that we gonna go meet him, sai kace you are some sort of future teller, ko su kansu batatune balle kai dan adam!

INSTEAD INASON IN GAYAMAKA THAT KA TABBATAR ABUN DA KAKE FADA DAI DAI NE KADA KA KAJE KAYI SABO KA GAMU DA ALLAH!

Finally.....I cant seem to rationalise with any of your points. First you said women should not attend uni cus of the way they dressed. Secondly you said once she is matured she sould be married and our parents will meet God......A'a where are we going here cus I really wanna know?