They rule the world,they are the leaders,anything done by woman is to satisfy them,we bath in the day and paint our face with many things to appeal to them, wear nice cloth and in the night we spray the most nicest perfume, on their side they don?t have to overdress to appeal to us,they don?t go the extra mile to draw our attention, after the days work they just approach us any how, no perfume no anything to make them sexy, just like that ,and if they want they can marry as many as four, they women will fight and scream sometimes to the extent of inflicting injury upon their selves, just because of man, and having four wives will not make him abandon girlfriends outside, he can still go out with who ever he likes, play with his secretary at office, shake hands with different women sumtimes with even a smile on huis face, yet the woman will not complain if she said something is considered as jeolousy, yet if they want to speak they will say women did this and that ,can I ever believe that a womana can destroy a man?s life just like that? Can I ever believe tha t she can be cruel to a man with out a coursr, but yet men can abandon disgrace and even maltreated woman for no reason just because they ar etired with her , she no longer have what they want, Men u rule the world though I didn?t envy u
Toh ya za mu yi, ai ba mu muka yi kanmu ba?? 8) 8) 8)
Allah ya ba bada hakuru, Amin :D
Quote from: "kitkat"Toh ya za mu yi, ai ba mu muka yi kanmu ba?? 8) 8) 8)
Allah ya ba bada hakuru, Amin :D
Amin.Toh muma mu muka yi kanmu?Ai da hakan ne da na zo as namiji.Kai kuma na mai da kai mace ka ji indan da dadi shan wahala all for men.And the men really never aprreciate anything.Well maybe they only appreciate women when they are playing hard to get,but definitely not when they are in their homes.
Girls come on. Being a woman is a beautiful thing. I definitely don't ever wish I was a man. And precious, just because you are born a woman doesnt mean that you are born to suffer especially not for a man!!! Infact if you are doing something for your man and it feels like 'suffering' then why do it?
well. women take enough shit from men. its not like the women enjoy it, but wat else can they do?????????
Here we go AGAIN!
Men have been superior in some cases, dat we all know, we also all know dat women are more superior in some cases even if all of us might not want to agree despite the knoledge. A womans value is very different from that of a mans in different perspectives and standards...I mean issues.
There is a book I've heard of that makes a woman feel like a lord after reading it because of the overall explanation of thier previledges and all in all, what a woman is. I reccomend it to all of u women coz I feel its our culture or society that drags u down into a feeling of inferiority, but know wat u r and ur place, ur previledges and duties... u`ll understand that this world is ours... not just 4 a gender. I hope yo`ll understand
I was reading this thread and I remember a while back there was an article that pass my way and I really think it goes with this, therefore enjoy
Saturday, July 19, 2003
Hausa women claw back for being branded the worst!Recently, we carried a letter in which a reader reacted to a poem, "Hausa Woman", by a lady who painted the picture of marriage of Muslim women in Hausa land as one of victimisation. The reader, Muhammad Suleiman Anka, a Ph.D. student, stated that Hausa women are, among other things, arrogant, lukewarm and unproductive. One of his charges went like this: "In the area of respect and obedience to command and instruction, Hausa women are the worst; they view it as failure to themselves to give due respect to their husbands; they so much cherish a situation whereby they become the masters and their husbands slaves."As to be expected, the piece would not go down well with many women. Some of them have reacted. Below we carry two of such reactions.We?re not that badDear Malam Muhammad Suleiman Anka,It is really disheartening to hear a fellow Hausa brother selling out his sisters thus. Haba malam! How could you say that Hausa women are the worst just because you happened to witness a few limited, isolated cases of some women squandering and diverting their husbands?s goods? Or rather some arrogant wives disrepecting their spouses? Don?t you think that the husbands, rather than exposing their wives to sound education, jealously or wickedly have them locked away from school and decent work to make them thus?So, brother, I suggest you shouldn?t go on such an insultive, sweeping generalization by tagging Hausa women as the worst in the soceity. Thank God, you are post-B.Sc. I believe if you really move around you will find out that Hausa women are not bad at all if you make comparisons with others, where the wives? siblings, parents and all move into her matrimonial home or in some dirty cases the wife does not even divert the husband?s funds to her family but to the welfare of her "kwarto" (i.e. secret lover). Allah ya kiyaye (may God protect us).Hauwa Muhammad, Area 1, Garki, Abuja. (hauwamuhammad@yahoo.com)
TOU..TO ALL THE MEN OUT THERE!!
DUK NAMIJIN DABAI NUTSU YAKULA DA MATARSA DATAKE
TRYING SO HARD TO PLEASE HIM, TO ALLAH YA SAKAMATA!!!
DONKAN BAKUSAN WAHALAR DA MATA SUKESHA EMOTIONALY SABODA KU BA,
YOU REALLY CARE NOT, WITH EXCEPTION OF FEW.
DUK NAMIJIN DABAI SUNKUYAR DA KANSA KASA YAKALLI
MATARSABA YAKUMA YABAMATA SANNAN YAKARE HAKINTA
WHEN HE IS OUT TO ALLAH YA NUNA MISHI.
AND TO ALL MY SISTERS OUT THERE DO NOT TAKE TOO MUCH.
Granted it said this world belong to men, but I certainly feel that more often than not women tend to forget the priveleges they enjoy. It is not as if women are saints. I have known some men who go through hell (literaly speaking) in the hands of their women on a daily basis. I don't want to sound cynical but the hausa man is one of the most "disadvantaged" husbands in the country. You certainly can't compare the type of devotion, hardwork and unselfishness a yoruba or Igbo or other southern ladies put in their marriages.
Having said that, I also believe the hausa man "yana yi wa aure rikon sakainar k*shi". Kowa da nasa laifin. So my dear sister, count your blessing and thank Allah da ya yiwo ki mace. Mu ma maza mu gode masa. Kowa da inda Allah ya aje shi.
I think a wannan zamanuin mata are trying their possible best to please their hubbies,yet the men are looking the other way,well is their time and they were created as such,we will always try and do the best we can and leave the rest to our mahalicciiiiiiii
Key de kilishi just do ur part but lotsa peeps out there still dont know wat they want. And have "dream" plans for thiers lives that keeps fluctuat`n, and before they know it, d short thing is all over... the next life begins
Do men actually rule this world? I came across this quote and while it may not be totally correct, it certainly gives room for reflection:
"The most powerful thing in this world is fashion. Because fashion rule the women who rule the men that rule the world". :wink:
It's a mans world 8)
I love this quote:'a successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.A successful woman is one who gets such a man'. :lol:
Men you surely rule the world,Imagine somebody with his family and children who d4oesnt even take care of the family properly,ya barsu yaje ya karawa kansa wani responsibility,he was on posting from lagos to abujaa=zuwan sa Abuja ya bar matansa da yara shida,ya sake aure,not that the man is not free to kara aure ,but you will think he will get those young flashy beautiful and hadaddun sisi gaye,no the man married a woman with four children the woman is a widow,and the other one a divorcee with two kids,that lives the man with twelve children,the always insisted on joining him but he kept saying ba accommodation,at last tired with all the wahala she decided to join him saying koda a tit yake kwana zasu kwana anan,she took two of her children to the man for her to go and meet full house ,two wives with six children.
If it is the other way round what do you expect :( :(
Ai haka sunna ta koyar.
This kind hearted, God fearing gentleman should be praised for his selfless sacrifice. The poor chap was probably thinking of the welfare of the widow and her kids(Allah sarki!)
If he had married hadaddiyar babe sai a ce shegen ruwan ido ne.
We just cant win with you women. Why dont you put yourself in the poor widows shoes. Do you know the number of desperate girls literally hunting us poor menfolk out there? Yet wannan bawan Allahn ya kauda ido ya dauko marayu??
KAI!!! WOMEN SHA :? :? :?
Quote from: "gogannaka"It's a mans world 8)
I love this quote:'a successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.A successful woman is one who gets such a man'. :lol:
yah man that is it...................
Toh su kitkat masu raya sunnah. wato yayi daidai ke nan da yasar da uwar 'ya'yansa da 'ya'yan,ko?
Shi yasa matan basu son kishiya,saboda wulakancin da maza ke yi wa matan,ko da kan biyo bayan shigowar wata.
Da mazan suna yin auren su yi yadda Annabi yace ai da ba a yi wani tashin hankali ba.
Quote from: "gogannaka"It's a mans world 8)
I love this quote:'a successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.A successful woman is one who gets such a man'. :lol:
Ashe dai ba successful men dai a duniyar yanzu
Quote from: "precious"Toh su kitkat masu raya sunnah. wato yayi daidai ke nan da yasar da uwar 'ya'yansa da 'ya'yan,ko?
Shi yasa matan basu son kishiya,saboda wulakancin da maza ke yi wa matan,ko da kan biyo bayan shigowar wata.
Da mazan suna yin auren su yi yadda Annabi yace ai da ba a yi wani tashin hankali ba.[/quote
Wadanda suke ke kamanta na Annabin ma basu tsira ba ai. Im not advocating for anyone to abandon his responsibilities ko ya wulakanta uwar gida amma the biggest hassle is shegen kishi na ba gaira ba dalili which even the Prophet recognised and labelled a disease of the heart.
The moment you talk about a second marriage the 1st wife refers you to struggling days, when you didnt have nothin and you suffered together blah blah blah.... to shi ke nan mutum in ya samu sukuni ba zai kara ba ya taimaki alumma??
No matter how fair you try to be you can never escape the wrath of uwargida, sai dai kadan masu hankali da jin wa'azin gaskiya.
Do you guys know that in Tunisia a predominatly moslem country, polygamy is a crime punishable with a jail term??
Precious sai ki lallaba maigida ku koma can da zama kawai, sai dai ya yi ta kallon larabawa amma ba yanda ya iya :D :D
I fully support mata suyi kishi.Haka kawai da mutum ya ga matar tashi ta dan kwana biyu sai yace zai yi amarya wai ta taya ta zama.
Wani abu da maza ba sa ganewa shine,har abada ba za ka taba iya yin adalci tsakanin mata biyu ba.Dole ka dinga cin zali ko ka sani ko baka sani ba.
Kuma ya kamata mutane duka maza da mata su sani cewa fa wallahi babu abun da Allah yake bin hakki tun a duniya kamar zaluncin aure.
Kuma ku duba ku gani,mutum nawa ne ka/ki ka sani da ya/ta yi zalunci a kan rayuwar aure?Za ku ga cewa wanda yayi zalunicin baya mutuwa ba tare da Allah ya saka wa wanda aka zalunta ba kuma Allah sai ya tona asiri.
Don haka ba cewa na yi kada a yi wa mata kishiyoyi ba amma fa kowaye yayi zalunci a rayuwar aure (ko mace ko namiji) to wallahi Allah sai ya bi hakkin wanda aka zalunta.
Gogan,Allah ya saka maka da alkhairi,kuma Allah ya sa kayi adalcin indan kayi naka auren,ko kayi ne bamu sani ba?
To you, mr kitkat,thanks for the tip,bari na je naga yanda zamu koma dundundun zaman tunisian. :lol:
Quote from: "Lady"TOU..TO ALL THE MEN OUT THERE!!
DUK NAMIJIN DABAI NUTSU YAKULA DA MATARSA DATAKE
TRYING SO HARD TO PLEASE HIM, TO ALLAH YA SAKAMATA!!!
DONKAN BAKUSAN WAHALAR DA MATA SUKESHA EMOTIONALY SABODA KU BA,
YOU REALLY CARE NOT, WITH EXCEPTION OF FEW.
DUK NAMIJIN DABAI SUNKUYAR DA KANSA KASA YAKALLI
MATARSABA YAKUMA YABAMATA SANNAN YAKARE HAKINTA
WHEN HE IS OUT TO ALLAH YA NUNA MISHI.
AND TO ALL MY SISTERS OUT THERE DO NOT TAKE TOO MUCH.
Allah ya na tare da maigaskiya, so ku chigabada hakuri. ama kowa ma yana da laifi, tellin her not to take 2 much is like given a man with out teeths, bones. life is not a bed of roses................
lallai mata na hakuri da halayen maza nesa ba kusa ba,ku duba kuga yadda namiji zai zage iya karfin sa ya doki matarsa son ransa,sannan in tayi magana ace tayi hakuri,and by the time watarana ta gaji da hakan maybe ta mare shi,shi kenana ta zamo abin kallo don me ta mari mijin ta har nuna ta za ayi a ce tana dukar mijin ta,whhhhhhhhhhhhhhhyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy,hmmmm men rule the world
Quote from: "kilishi"...ku duba kuga yadda namiji zai zage iya karfin sa ya doki matarsa son ransa,...
:lol: :lol: Har kin bani dariya. Ai an daina yayin dukan mata. Sai dai sakaran namiji. Just out of curiosity, would you rather be a man?
Quote from: "kilishi"lallai mata na hakuri da halayen maza nesa ba kusa ba,ku duba kuga yadda namiji zai zage iya karfin sa ya doki matarsa son ransa,sannan in tayi magana ace tayi hakuri,and by the time watarana ta gaji da hakan maybe ta mare shi,shi kenana ta zamo abin kallo don me ta mari mijin ta har nuna ta za ayi a ce tana dukar mijin ta,whhhhhhhhhhhhhhhyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy,hmmmm men rule the world
Ke yaruwa, honest to God NO MAN! NO MAN will lay his filthy hand on my spotless and flawless body mhmmmmmmmm :evil: .......Wai tsaya, there is a certain way a woman of high dignity and pride can carry herself in a particular way giving no man the audacity to even have the idea running in his mind to lay upon a fist even when provoked. Besides, now any man who hits upon or curses a woman he is no man at all. RELIGION AND MORALITY both does not suport that! Sister Kilishi di day wey ordinary man go carry hand raise above me........ befo ehn land for my body he go dey head ehn grave hole :roll:
ONLY CAVE MEN WHO ARE FULL OF IDIOCYNCRASIES HIT. KUMA BERA KNOW THERE IS A DIFFERENCE WITHIN THE FINE QUALITIES OF A WOMAN AND A DONKEY :evil: Kinsan wasu mazan mentality ne da frustration ke saka su suyi unleashing upon innocent souls who have kept warm their foods on table...........
Men rule the world hmmmmm (hiss) ko dai we rule it because naso follow follow dey dey follow so so we bi their leaders :twisted:
OYA NOBI SEXISM I DEY POTRAY NA PURE TRUEEEEEEEEE. ABI SISTAS I LIE?