All of u gather around lets converse!!!

[Anonymous]

:'( :'( :'( :'( :'(OH!my sisiter i have pitied your situation infact i even imagined how u felt,how lonely and deserted u might be,for somebody that sacrificed his happiness for the sake of his brothers happinees,that man surely deserved sympathy,he deserved love.but the only person to show him that love and care is u,well i think try and convince your parents and husband point to himm the closeness of 2 of u,show him that he needs u there,not in form of lover but as his favourite sister,tell them u didn't find it easy to stay whiloe he was in hospital,i think since everybody knows 'ur closeness they will reason with u,then after he recover u can find a beeter way to get out of that mess,but dont relent on prayer,let God remove that love from your heart that u just stay as normal brother and sister,encourage him to marry.Allah will surely see u through,i wish u success

[Anonymous]

??? ??? :'(Oh you are really in a great dilemma,i agree with maryam that prayer is the greatest weopon,please pray and go close to your parent may be they will advice u on the next linme of action

[gogannaka]

i CaN see ppl with multiple personalities here....i hope the story's not fabricated too :P

[Fulanizzle]

SALAM

SORRY TO SAY BUTTA IZ THIS FOR REAL? COZ ?THIS KINNDA THING DON EVEN HAPPEN In SPANISH SOAP OPERAZ !

[Fulanizzle]

WELL JUST INCASE 'this is tru' just wanna say sum....

First of all.....gurl just wanna say I feel yah!

And u know I have sum couple of advices for yah

1- u know u mentioning the kind of family u are from and even giving names of people....and ur description of things.....honey u are giving away too much...what if somebody that knows u reads this and ?it reaches ur hubbyz earz?

2- u might think ur a victim but the biggest victim here is than man u married. He doesnt even have a clue whats going on behind him...

3- U and mustafa both made mistakes.... when his brother asked for ur hand in marriege...U SHOULD have told him u luv someone else and vice versa for MUstafa....

4- And another thing I want young ladies to note is that NEVER marry someone u dont truely luv coz all sorts of ish are alwayz bound to cum up. Not especially if he is the brother of the one u luv.... u feel me?

5- Honey all is over and done u cant turn the hands of time....this is how Allah drew ur life....so u might as well accept it. kiyi hakuri.

6- ?You ahve to move on...u have a baby...for the baby's sake....concentrate on his father! coz if ur cover is blown imagine how its gonna affect ur son when he grows up.

7- ?AND as a married woman...ur heart is yearning for another man , this can get u out of Islam and Allah yayi punishing naki....May Allah forbid Amen!

Sister I do feel sorrry for everything and I pray Allah shines his rainbow over you and your family...

They say "A WOMAN IS WHAT KEEPS THE FAMILY TOGETHER"
Suga....as a daughter,wife and mother u have to be strong to keep your family together! May Allah be with u ....God bless

PeAcE!

[Anonymous]

Hahaha!!!!!! Kina shige kuwa da ranarsa, Unknown, Na'ime, Maryam, wannan irin kintsa labari ke kadai, sannan kin kuma dawo kina ba kanki amsa haka :o
WOW!!! Lallai ppl like U son san yadda zasuyi amfani da internat.
Amma baki ganin cewa kina toshewa ppl with geniun problem kofar samun shawara??
FALANICIOUS Don't mind her, Itakadaice take kidanta kuma
take rawarta.
Kin tuna labarin ta a baya inda take cewa wai she is in Love with her husband brother? Well she is still the same person changin stories and also replying to herself :o
Check her email Add and u will see what i mean

[dfynest]

SORRY TO SAY BUTTA IZ THIS FOR REAL? COZ ?THIS KINNDA THING DON EVEN HAPPEN In SPANISH SOAP OPERAZ !

my thoughts exactly!

[dfynest]

5- Honey all is over and done u cant turn the hands of time....this is how Allah drew ur life....so u might as well accept it. kiyi hakuri.
PeAcE!

Amma Fula you get sense no be small ;)

[Anonymous]

Hahaha!!!!!! Kina shige kuwa da ranarsa, Unknown, Na'ime, Maryam, wannan irin kintsa labari ke kadai, sannan kin kuma dawo kina ba kanki amsa haka :o
WOW!!! Lallai ppl like U son san yadda zasuyi amfani da internat.
Amma baki ganin cewa kina toshewa ppl with geniun problem kofar samun shawara??
FALANICIOUS Don't mind her, Itakadaice take kidanta kuma
take rawarta.
Kin tuna labarin ta a baya inda take cewa wai she is in Love with her husband brother? Well she is still the same person changin stories and also replying to herself :o
Check her email Add and u will see what i mean

Well u may be right,but one thing i want u to understand is this person could be one two or three,what i mean it could be different people,but i don't know this is all assumption,and i first agree with hb but later change my mind when something happen,duk wanda yake amfani da net ko kuma yake kokarin yin reply a wannan forum din idan yazo typing address zai ga so many mail addresses,so ba lallai ne mutum ya typing nasa ba especially in yana so yayi covering kansa,so is possible an samu co-incedence ne wurin amfani da mail adresses iri daya,don nima nayi bincike kuma naga wasu wadanda suka yi amfani da address daya wannan forum amma different name su meyasa ba muce musu mutum daya bane,irin wanna we just reply or keep queit 'cos zato zunubi,and we are all unknown here.

[Anonymous]

sorry i mean defynest not hb 8)

[dfynest]

sorry i mean defynest not hb 8)

I am lost.............. what did I say? ???

[Anonymous]

To jama'a as everybody in this forum knows me except for the JJC's ;D. I have one advise for the lady in trouble. Ke! any time you gat tears in those eyes. Come to papi ;) Am the man!

Anyway everyone knows how I joke around, wasa nake miki NA'IME. I read your story but all I can say is Allah knows best. Just make du'a. God will be your guide.

Madam Hafsy you will never stay out of trouble. This time aljannu ke damunki>>> To!!! babban magana :o

Good lord I missed this place. I missed the whole family ;)

[Anonymous]

It really amazed me to see people i expected to be civilized and highly educated turn othrwise, :-[ :-[how on earth can u claim that such things never happened?don't u know that the world is becoming a global village,and the essence of the net is to share ideas,learn from  people and get imformation,at least if u cant reply just keep quit amma is not good to just start accusing people of wruting or fabricating lies,for what gain ?if i may ask,why is only naimes message that is recieving a knock on the head? :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(ok guys just face the reality,i dont say u should believe with all rubbish but at least u cant justify that its a lie,what am i to gain by fabricating stories?is it a writing or story telling competition? :) :) ??? ???so please take it or leave it,thanks fulanicious u can advise as well as anyother person wishing to do so,Our prophet said"duk wanda ya yaye wa wani mutum musulmi dan uwan sa bakin cikin duniya to Allah zai yaye masa bakin cikin sa na lahira"don haka ku taimaka :-/

[ummita]

Salam,
Naime am sure they didnt really mean it in a bad way, but all d same we du apologise. And as u can c.....Fulanicious has said it all...........
I will drop a few line...juss keep ur faith & religion close 2 ur heart. May Allahs blessings b upon u, & d guy that was ill....Allah ya bashi lafiya. But lady.......save ur marriage & dignity & stick 2 d father of ur children.

[Anonymous]

It really amazed me to see people i expected to be civilized and highly educated turn othrwise, :-[ :-[how on earth can u claim that such things never reality

Are u stiil discussing with them?ban san me kike nema ba