MENS WARDROBE (STRICTLY FOR MEN)

[Dan-Borno]

GGNK, let me refer you to the Beijing Declaration Article 32:

Intensify efforts to ensure equal enjoyment of all human rights and fundamental freedoms for all women and girls who face multiple barriers to their empowerment and advancement because of such factors as their race, age, language, ethnicity, culture, religion, or disability, or because they are indigenous people;

So, the 50-50 target for them is for sure.

[gogannaka]

Allah ya basu sa'a.
I am not against women getting the 50-50 they want.
Infact in Nigeria some women have proven that their leadership qualities are far better than the Men, e.g NAFDAC,Okonjo Iweala and co.


Regarding the Time table issue kam Bee has said it all.No addition!

[waduz]

Allah ya basu sa'a.
I am not against women getting the 50-50 they want.
Infact in Nigeria some women have proven that their leadership qualities are far better than the Men, e.g NAFDAC,Okonjo Iweala and co.


Regarding the Time table issue kam Bee has said it all.No addition!

Goga, do you consider okonjo and dora as having achieved anything? These are only pawns being over estimated by the press. There are so many women out there that have not been tested and their capabilities proven. Dora should be relieved of her job now for another women doctor to also head the NAFDAC. 8)

[*~MuDa~*]

First of all i see no reason why this topic was started here in the first place, its rude, dirty and misogynist. The title itself connotes some sort of adult privacy which prevents the women from coming in and discuss. In addition kanoonline is not a mono-gender online community at such, it will not entertain biased and unruly topics. No wonder the quick amounts of replies.

Am sorry Dan-Borno, but this topic should be discussed discritly between a husband and a wife, not in a public gathering where both married and unmarried people are involved. Moreso, i expected that we know there are young people who visit kanoonline, when i say young people i mean youths of age 12 to 13 do visits this community, what example are we exuding? Is it really worth it that we should gather around and discuss sex like football? I know we are mature enough to but this environment is simply not the right place to digress on such dialogues due to the diversity of the kind of people that visit it, and sex is something that we naturaly have the idea of learning or wanting. If at all there was a need to discuss on such issues here then i believe the admin would have created a 'sex' category.

I'm sorry but i've made up my mind that i will scrap this thread as soon as i can in 24 hours, no hard feelings.

[MySeLf]

Honestly kayi gaskiya MuDa....... Get rid of it soon possible!

[gogannaka]

Mr Moderator,you have a right to remove or edit any thread or post you deem unfit for the forum.

For the record though:
1.I see no where where the forum is portrayed as a 'mono-gender online community'
2. The name of the thread might sound 'somehow' but the content is not that rude if you've really gone through it(my belief).
3. Save for one or two posts,i see no where where sex is discussed like football.The near explicit scene was when Bee expressed her view regarding the issue at hand and if read with an open mind,intellectually speaking,she virtually fed everyone with the most logical solution to the problem/concern DB raised.


I'd advise that the Make me laugh thread also be edited and those adult jokes removed.
Recently an onliner complained to me that it is unbecoming the way adult jokes and adult 'things' are posted on a site which bears the name KANOONLINE.That explains the onliner's sudden disappearance from the forum.

So Muda.It's your decision  8)

[HUSNAA]

Ihu bayan hari, Muda.
I tend to agree with GGNK on this issue. Latitude was given for threads like sexual enhancement foods to be posted up and all the men went gaga posting all sorts of old wives' remedies and concoctions. There was no censorship, but that was because the topic was mild  and in the long run, it was not so lurid. That is what led to this thread, I believe. This thread itself is a bit more explicit, so what members should do is to couch their language when talking about co-habitual issues, so that everything appears above board. This is because in reality this issue is something that all married couples must have gone through at a stage in their lives, so there shouldnt be any coyness, although what I truly object is the hypocritical double standards where men can be as lax with the way they express themselves with words while  women have to take the more modest approach. Both should exhibit modesty in speech and expression of language, to make it a truly intellectual exercise.
If there is anything to moderate Muda... MAKE ME LAUGH should be edited. That is where the dirt, rudeness and mysogynism exists but not on this thread which if u look at it is already diluted with general gender issues that have nothing to do with sex itself.

On the subject of 13 and 14 yr old children visiting this site, well one cant help that, but I bet that a 13 or 14 yr old cannot really be interested in what is written because they have to attain a certain level of maturity to appreciate what is written everywhere here. Besides if u think this thread would titillate,  I am sure u are wrong. This is so insipid when compared to other postings elsewhere. So I am not really worried about what 13 and 14 yr olds will get out of this site, certainly sai alheri, as long as u curtail MAKE ME LAUGH....

PS remove the 'strictly for men' extension and then the thread wont appear so intriguing.

[kitkat]

Kit Kat, kar ka manta fa! thats one of the advantages
of marrying more than one wife

When one door is closed - another is open -
where is Nuruddeen Marley's fan?

Wallahi gaskiyarka DB, nima kwanakin baya na koro zan kara amma ina!!!

zancen ya fito yan kinibibi suka cabe maganar har yanzu shiru ka ke ji( i guess this issue alone deserves its own thread)

Kasan mutanen naka, yanzu an bada sanarwar this is a man rhing amma sun shigo kai tsaye sun karkata akalar maganar.

ANd whats up with Muda?? Lighten up man, its only sex :o 
Da haka za ka gane bachelors din forum dinnan ;D ;D ;D

[waduz]

I see this thread like an opening for a debate on the current drive for gender equality. We can also participate here by sampling opinions and making suggestions that will enlighten citizens and make all to understand the topic well. The thing to do by us all, is to avoid harping illicitly so that we can be seen to be rational and matured in our views.
Mr. moderator, could you please allow the topic to continue? You are at liberty to remove any offensive post thereafter.

[*~MuDa~*]

ANd whats up with Muda?? Lighten up man, its only sex :o 
Da haka za ka gane bachelors din forum dinnan ;D ;D ;D

LOl....very funny...Only sex ko? Yeah right i will wisen up!

I dont disagree with you guys at all, i was trying to reminds us that this site is not only visited by married men, i dont care what anybody thinks about whether am married or still a bachelor, this is not about me, this is about the audience, and yet everybody seemed so at home backing it, i did not rebuck it either, i myself will very much love to contribute to this topic, but i just feel like talking about sexual activities isnt just right to be discussed on open grounds like this, of course we learn alot in here, but this is not like a classroom lecture hall where we come and register just for the purpose of sex education, besides most of y'all are married with kids right? So what more do u need to learn again that you dont know?

As for the 'Make Me Laff" thread, i agree with you here again, but i will also want to remind us that, like its called a 'Make Me Laff', then the contents of the threads are all jokes, they are not educational, besides sex is not taught in 'Make Me Laff', and sex is not the main attributes of the contents of 'Make Me Laff' thread, every kind of jokes are welcomed in the thread, and if not for the likes of McEwan who isnt a muslim and such have a higher sense of humour than we do, the thread will not have been an excuse for the critic of this thread in the first place, and funny enough, we all laugh about these jokes, we even contribute to these jokes, but today its a problem, and yet nobody have really reported it to the admin or me apart from Husnaa who had some personal disaproval of McEwan's post in most threads, but do you guys know how many people have so far reported that this topic be scrapped off? A number of people have reported already. So i guess if you people feel like there is a need for such kind of topics to be discussed here then i guess we should request for a category for it.

Before i go let me ask a question, will you honestly be comfortable with your little kids at their tender age reading about just the main post of this thread? Honestly i mean? Think about it!

[Bee]

Salam.
        You have a point there moderator but do forgive me but i think your first approach was kind of wrong.Go through your first posting and the second one za kaga akwai difference and i think it did kind of make some of those who contributed feel kind of dirty (i felt that really that was why i deleted what i have posted) and it is not suppose to be so because there is nothing really kind of alarmingly dirty a ciki.The reason you gave in your second posting is more...reasonable.It was not like an attack or something.I think it is best to give reasons a cikin kwanciyar hankali than strike out and say you are going to do something because you have got the power to do so.I think that way,people will really back you up.Take no offence please.This is just a suggestion.

[HUSNAA]

Before i go let me ask a question, will you honestly be comfortable with your little kids at their tender age reading about just the main post of this thread? Honestly i mean? Think about it![/color]

How tender the age Muda? ;D ;D   Lol Muda. u are brewing a storm in a teacup!!

[gogannaka]

Muda your threats to take action on this topic are absolutely baseless.

The way you responded to the topic and the way you made the contributors feel ashamed demands your apology.
Tell me please what is rude in the topic,including bee's post(which you have now caused her to delete).
How in the world could knowledge be disseminated if things are not discussed?This issue was discussed on the BBC which i believe has much more audience than kanoonline and which cut across more of the 13 and 14 yr olds that visit this forum.

Your absolute blunder came when you graciously approved of sharing rude adult jokes in the 'make me laff' thread while condemning intellectual discourse on this topic.What sense does this make?
Don't the '13-14 year olds' visit the 'make me laff' thread?

In finding more reasons to castigate the thread you made mention that sex is taught in this thread,haba Muda,it is quite disappointing how you could make things up just to justify your assertions.

It is my own belief that what i cannot discuss openly ought not to be discussed at all.I believe munafurci ne to discuss something with someone somewhere and pretend not to be the kind discussing it.

Please read and re-read the enitre thread and you posts in particular.

[sadiq]

C'mon guys. Everyone has made a good point. But we should all remember, this is a forum, where everyone has the right to voice out his mind. Why should it be too personal then? pour out your opinion, without attacking anyone harshly, and wait for people to comment(my opinion). I support the subject should stay(again my opinion), only that we should respond with our heads, not 'hormones' ;D. When we discuss marriage anywhere, sex is inevitable. We can talk about the subject without the 'obscenity'. Dont see any harm in that. The 13 or 14 year old kid you talking about is more bothered about the porno sites than kanoonline. Its sad but true. Besides if something's not of much interest to you, yeah yeah, voice out your mind, but for Gods sake, dont stop the flow!

[Dan-Borno]

There are so many women out there that have not been tested and their capabilities proven. Dora should be relieved of her job now for another women doctor to also head the NAFDAC. 8)

Haba Waduz, but you quite knew that there is great
difference between Dora and Okonjo, Dora has done
this country proud, if at all we can trust all the women
as we  trusted her, i think Nigeria will change for better.
She has sanitized the entire drug system.

@ Bee
Why did you delete your post? I thought its your own
opinion? those that mean you were forced to make such
statement? Haba we are just reaching out.