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Started by ummita, May 05, 2003, 01:26:58 PM
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QuoteI am of the opinion that beating a child will only help issues on a short-term basis. You beat a child all it's life, you are going to end up with a really messed up adult. The beaten child will directly or indirectly end up with enough psychological trauma to last a lifetime. And nobody will notice it till when it's usually too late. So many of people's psychological or mental problems are linked greatly with what happened to them as children. What I endeavour to do is talk to the child, it's not a brainless animal, you just have to know how to communicate effectively with it.
Quote from: Bashir Ahmad on January 13, 2010, 02:10:21 PMNidai kan ban yarda a daki yara ba idan sunyi laifi. Amma idan sunki yin sallah akan lokaci to a dake su amma ba sosai ba.
Quote from: IBB on January 13, 2010, 03:29:07 PMQuote from: Bashir Ahmad on January 13, 2010, 02:10:21 PMNidai kan ban yarda a daki yara ba idan sunyi laifi. Amma idan sunki yin sallah akan lokaci to a dake su amma ba sosai ba.Allah ko? When I was young I use to received beating that you cant imagine. I lost my finger nail due to beating I was about 7 years old.I and my sister have contemplate running away. Little things as small as gagagin-barci when ask leave the sitting room and go to our room to sleep. If gagagin-barci made you come back or forget to go and pee before going to bed, the beating is only Allah that could come to our rescure.Who could remember electric kettle code the ones in the 80s or radio code those things finish in our bodies. one time they have to get me a new school uniform, because my white Magwan special primary school uniform was socked in blood and torn all from beating. Guess what I did? I lied to save myself because i was going thru interogation of why i am told to go to sleep but i came back and sleep on the sofa.Why I lied is becaused I was so little that I dont know what gagagin-barci is, so i said 'ba komai' (no reason). What my parent hate to hear. Beating start i cant say ba komai again i have to say this lie and that lie to save myself to no avail.However I still believe beating children could be necessarry sometimes. Because I,am happy of the man I become today. However I could not beat my children that bad. There should be limit
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