I know we r nice people and after staying with other people i love hausa people more, but what do you hate about our hausa people, wetin i mean is that attitudes, culture, tradition, eating, laugher, waliking..........etc. Abeg tell us make see, if there r things we r doing and need to change them (if we can) Make i start:
"My people u know, when a hausa man wan piss, toh fa immediately he see a buta, and any corner, na
there he will zuge tazugen shi, and tsula fitsari a wurin".
whos.........next?
What about durkusawa gaisuwa
and boye sunan dan fari.
I dont really have prob with durkusawa. I want us to express our love for our parent, children, brothers or sisters properly. I notice we are shy. Have u ever heard ur parent said they love u, i know they do,they can tell others but not u in ur face. I notice our culture is respect oriented not love oriented. we show too much respect, m not saying is wrong but is too much, some children are scared of their parent or elder once to the core, they cant even move or make a noice when an elder is around, u cant be urself. I think thats y some children are so loose when they are out of sight. I think if they can do wat they do out of sight in the presence of an elder, they can be easily corrected in a friendly manner without somebody comin to tell you, and some parent hardly believe such stories. Correction in none harsh manner last forever.
M tryin to encourage us youth to show our affection towards our kids n da junior once, shake their hands, hug them, keeep remindin them you love them they will love u too, be their friend. When they are in trouble or need your advise they will be able to discuss with u freely. It will really help us build a loving and happy community.
Quote from: Myself on May 08, 2007, 09:40:00 PM
What about durkusawa gaisuwa
and boye sunan dan fari.
I don't see anything wrong with durkusawa to greet elders. I think it
should even be encouraged. Look at it this way Myself, it could have
been worse...imagine if you had to press-up to greet. :-\ :-\ :-\ :-\
Yes 'dogbale' as the Yoruba's call it.
One of the things i dislike about the Hausa people (and fulani too) is almajiranchi da kuma bala'in son haihuwa kuma babu halin bawa yaran tarbiyya.
I visited a friend watarana in one place called Gwammaja in Kano.
I went there around 11am and i noticed alot( i mean ALOT) of small small children roaming the streets (not tarred streets o,lungu ne sosai). Lokacin da na je kuma the schools were in session so i asked him why the children are roaming about instead of being in school. He confessed that most of the parents don't put the children in school because they cannot afford.
Kuma idan kuka ji ashar a bakin yaran sai kun yi mamaki.
The situation is so bad that some of the children are given money for food because at times it is cheaper for the parents :'(.
Haka kuma zaka je da tsakar rana ko goshin maghrib sai ka ga yara suna ta wasa abin su a waje wanda Annabi ya gargadi iyaye da su tabbatar yayansu suna cikin gida a lokutan nan domin a lokacin ne Aljanu da shaidane suke fitowa harkokin su.Toh,yaran sun yi yawa bama a ganewa ko suna ina.
Kai wani sa'in ma fa su iyayen da kansu suke cewa yaran su fita su je suyi wasa saboda su ma iyayen su dan sami privacy a gidan.
Yet with all this they tell you Allah provides and that the Prophet SAW encouraged his Ummah to give birth so much such that zai sami abun alfahari rannar gobe kiyama.To shin Annabi zai yi Alfahari da Mazinachi ne ko kuwa zai yi alfahari da dan-daba ko barawo?
Hausawa sun ce da Haihuwar yuyuyu,gwara daya kwakkwara.
Allah ya taimake mu.
I know what you mean GGNK. I once was travelling along BUK road on a thursday morning around 11 am also, and i looked across to where the NEPA yard was, and I saw children lots and lots of them playing football. I wondered what they were doing not going to boko at least since i knew on thursday babu islamiyyah. I became quite scared cos i was thinking in a few yrs these kids will become adolescents and young adults and they will have so much time on their hands with nothing to do with it. They will probably end up as social misfits. I became very worried honestly.
Nima that hakikancewa by Hausawa that Annabi SAW zaiyi alfahari that alummar sa tafi ta kowa yawa rannar tashi Kiyama which encourages Hausawa to procreate like rabbits or mice, makes me sceptical. I mean when ppl tell me that, I say well why dont we try and convert the ppl that are already in the world? If they became muslims, that will also swell the ranks of the ummah ranar Kiyama abi?
Quote from: HUSNAA on May 21, 2007, 04:50:56 AM
I know what you mean GGNK. I once was travelling along BUK road on a thursday morning around 11 am also, and i looked across to where the NEPA yard was, and I saw children lots and lots of them playing football. I wondered what they were doing not going to boko at least since i knew on thursday babu islamiyyah. I became quite scared cos i was thinking in a few yrs these kids will become adolescents and young adults and they will have so much time on their hands with nothing to do with it. They will probably end up as social misfits. I became very worried honestly.
Nima that hakikancewa by Hausawa that Annabi SAW zaiyi alfahari that alummar sa tafi ta kowa yawa rannar tashi Kiyama which encourages Hausawa to procreate like rabbits or mice, makes me sceptical. I mean when ppl tell me that, I say well why dont we try and convert the ppl that are already in the world? If they became muslims, that will also swell the ranks of the ummah ranar Kiyama abi?
Toh wallahi ranki yadade, make i give u a scenario, do see that Kofar Dan agundi, some years back (i dont know now,i have not been to BUK road for quite sometime) there is one small rumfa (gogannaka if u might have notice) a wurin, that some boys sale petrol for cuwa cuwa (make i no judge them , bt they seems yan daba ne). I have a frnd that was from inside dan agundi, infact for the 5yrs i spend in BUK, he told us that those boys have been sittin in that rumfa (well atleast business dey.....selling petrol......amma future fa.......babu! ).
I cant just imagine those guys (what r we producin?), becus those guys i dnt think they have any islamic education balle kuma na Bature. When u talk..... some times people will say ai we don become turawa. If u can manage alot of kids, then do yourself a favour 2, 3,4 and u say Allah ya sa musu Albarka. But rather people will keep producing children without proper care.
As u guys said then sai a ce annabi yace atara mishi alúma (u wan gather Arm Robbers, Yan Mata masu Talla..another worst way a girl can easily spoil, ya daba) and u think SAW will be happy. Hmmm not the prophet (SAW) i know.
who start dis topic in first place and why? we hausa people have noting to dislike about our people or culture. de only thing we dislike is de culture of others we have adapt into our nice culture. we used to be one of the most peaceful people in the middle-belt of the world. before, even in the 80's its very difficult to see a hausa person who is doing 419 but with sertain people and culture mix-up these days you see our people being involved in all these acts. its a crazy world we are being forced to turn into. i think its time we shud realise wat and were we are heading to ??? ??? ???
Hausa people have the worst food in the world!!
Quote from: neozizo on May 23, 2007, 05:57:26 PM
Hausa people have the worst food in the world!!
well i think u should have been specific.......something like MIYAR KUKA(nevr like it and will never miss it in a million years).......men......thats oen of the worst food in the collection of hausa foods, but amma when u talk something like Waina (Masa inji yan Bauchi).....thats a Very Good hausa food u can serve to Foriegn Guest.
Kai haba Miyar kuka na dadi mana, tunba in an sa mata man-shanu da naman dan-shila ba. Have u tried miyar kuka with beans inside ko in da morning (dimamen safe)
Quote from: neozizo on May 23, 2007, 05:57:26 PM
Hausa people have the worst food in the world!!
You have no idea!!! >:(
Quote from: MC-HAMA on May 23, 2007, 11:10:15 AM
who start dis topic in first place and why? we hausa people have noting to dislike about our people or culture. de only thing we dislike is de culture of others we have adapt into our nice culture. we used to be one of the most peaceful people in the middle-belt of the world. before, even in the 80's its very difficult to see a hausa person who is doing 419 but with sertain people and culture mix-up these days you see our people being involved in all these acts. its a crazy world we are being forced to turn into. i think its time we shud realise wat and were we are heading to ??? ??? ???
MC-Hamma...where d hell did u sprung from? How can you say sumthin like that? You think we are perfect right? Weel i guess your patriotism is blindfolding you to some extent.
I got things to say also, i dislike the habbit of we hausawa of 'going to mallamai for Dubiya', wut the heck? Almost every family have women who are responsible for carrying this unlawful acts, its so prominent among us, why do we have to go and see a mallam for soothsaying? or better still to do asiri for us just to accomplish our selfish end? I know about wut am saying cause i have been seeing it and was many times a victim by close relation.[/color]
Quote from: *~MuDaCriS~* on May 27, 2007, 09:35:08 AM
Quote from: MC-HAMA on May 23, 2007, 11:10:15 AM
who start dis topic in first place and why? we hausa people have noting to dislike about our people or culture. de only thing we dislike is de culture of others we have adapt into our nice culture. we used to be one of the most peaceful people in the middle-belt of the world. before, even in the 80's its very difficult to see a hausa person who is doing 419 but with sertain people and culture mix-up these days you see our people being involved in all these acts. its a crazy world we are being forced to turn into. i think its time we shud realise wat and were we are heading to ??? ??? ???
MC-Hamma...where d hell did u sprung from? How can you say sumthin like that? You think we are perfect right? Weel i guess your patriotism is blindfolding you to some extent.
I got things to say also, i dislike the habbit of we hausawa of 'going to mallamai for Dubiya', wut the heck? Almost every family have women who are responsible for carrying this unlawful acts, its so prominent among us, why do we have to go and see a mallam for soothsaying? or better still to do asiri for us just to accomplish our selfish end? I know about wut am saying cause i have been seeing it and was many times a victim by close relation.[/color]
lol mallam muda,
well make tell u their new name....is no more mallamai...............u can go for a better name
CONSULTANTS lol lol lol lol ;D Allah i laf my ass off the 1st time i heard that name
CONSULTANTS amma fa na dubu da kuma asiri.
Amma Allah in a seriuos issue that thing is destroying our people...but i think educating ppl through addini will help, the really malamai should be taking about it and its implications in islam.........may be Allah zai fahimtar da wasu. Allah ya gaira amin
Quote from: *~MuDaCriS~* on May 27, 2007, 09:35:08 AM
I got things to say also, i dislike the habbit of we hausawa of 'going to mallamai for Dubiya', wut the heck? Almost every family have women who are responsible for carrying this unlawful acts, its so prominent among us, why do we have to go and see a mallam for soothsaying? or better still to do asiri for us just to accomplish our selfish end? I know about wut am saying cause i have been seeing it and was many times a victim by close relation.[/color]
Hey, Muda and IBB, you should be careful and explanatory whenever
you are pointing accusing fingers on visiting malamai or consultants
as IBB refer to them.
In all spheres of life, you must have the dubious type and the genuine
ones. What is wrong in visiting a Malami for a consultation?
Even the Duba you guys are talking about, there are of different
categories, its not all duba that is wrong.
Please take note.
Quote from: neozizo on May 23, 2007, 05:57:26 PM
Hausa people have the worst food in the world!!
Well, may be not the worst, but certainly our food culture leaves a lot to be desired. :(
Quote from: Dan-Borno on May 28, 2007, 09:35:25 AM
Quote from: *~MuDaCriS~* on May 27, 2007, 09:35:08 AM
I got things to say also, i dislike the habbit of we hausawa of 'going to mallamai for Dubiya', wut the heck? Almost every family have women who are responsible for carrying this unlawful acts, its so prominent among us, why do we have to go and see a mallam for soothsaying? or better still to do asiri for us just to accomplish our selfish end? I know about wut am saying cause i have been seeing it and was many times a victim by close relation.[/color]
Hey, Muda and IBB, you should be careful and explanatory whenever
you are pointing accusing fingers on visiting malamai or consultants
as IBB refer to them.
In all spheres of life, you must have the dubious type and the genuine
ones. What is wrong in visiting a Malami for a consultation?
Even the Duba you guys are talking about, there are of different
categories, its not all duba that is wrong.
Please take note.
kai Dan Brono, kile wa sile, a ina who ever tell u say Duba has Categori , Duba is Duba, ko is all SHIRK wetin u wan see , why do u want to see it. Annabi dai yace kayi ISTAHARAH domin Allah should guide on the right path. besides that, wetin u say. No offence wer all learners,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,amma if u educate us with the CATEGORY OF DUBA we will be delight to know. lol lol
ko dai kai ma CONSULTANT ne ..... ;D ;D , just jokin.
First of all i love our hausa culture and all that, but what i'm seeing these days is that our young ppl are taking the lifestyle of the western world like the dressing and the general way of life, which is very dangerous and the fact that those ppl in the western world lack any self respect for themselves. i think we need to educate and encourage our youngsters to be proud of where they come from and embrace their culture and heritage.
Quote from: mufi on June 02, 2007, 02:37:47 AM
First of all i love our hausa culture and all that, but what i'm seeing these days is that our young ppl are taking the lifestyle of the western world like the dressing and the general way of life, which is very dangerous and the fact that those ppl in the western world lack any self respect for themselves. i think we need to educate and encourage our youngsters to be proud of where they come from and embrace their culture and heritage.
bikinis and miniskirtss,
IBB wai don Allah wetin bi the name of BIRASIYA ne in hausa i mean the real hausa mean, wallaho even d english spellin i nl knw...............lol ;D
Quote from: Dan-Borno on May 28, 2007, 09:35:25 AM
Quote from: *~MuDaCriS~* on May 27, 2007, 09:35:08 AM
I got things to say also, i dislike the habbit of we hausawa of 'going to mallamai for Dubiya', wut the heck? Almost every family have women who are responsible for carrying this unlawful acts, its so prominent among us, why do we have to go and see a mallam for soothsaying? or better still to do asiri for us just to accomplish our selfish end? I know about wut am saying cause i have been seeing it and was many times a victim by close relation.[/color]
Hey, Muda and IBB, you should be careful and explanatory whenever
you are pointing accusing fingers on visiting malamai or consultants
as IBB refer to them.
In all spheres of life, you must have the dubious type and the genuine
ones. What is wrong in visiting a Malami for a consultation?
Even the Duba you guys are talking about, there are of different
categories, its not all duba that is wrong.
Please take note.
Dan-Borno...in case i dont know...may i be comprehended by YOU on which sort of dubia that is not HARRAM? Cause i can remember that Dubia was once use against the Prophet when he hid in a cave along his way to maddina from the meccans!
Dan barno is saying something fa.
Duba kala kala ce and not all is regarded as haram.
Ku je kuyi bimcike sosai ko ya ka ce dan borno?
LOL@jewel.I suggest you forward your word translation request to the word translation thread.
All form of dubiya is haram in Islam. Some ppl mistakenly give dubiya the name istihara, as when someone yaje wajan malami don yayi masa istihara. What the malam does is not istihara but dubiya. Some dubiya I think use the ilmin awfaku; anyway it is a very contentious subject, bcos some really well respected muallims do it as well in some ways or other like with carbi. Some kuma use kasa, which is one of the disallowed forms but which has some strong allusions to awfaku. So the whole thing is really confusing.
What I (and u all) know is that istihara is a special addua, the result of which is that u begin to have an inclination towards whatever of the choices that u placed before Allah is good for you since you 've asked Allah to be the Chooser for you.
What I really really dislike about Hausa culture is that sai a fada wa mutum bakar magana ana wasa da dariya, and the bakar magana is really meant at the time it was told in jest. I absolutely hate that attitude. I cant do it. If I have something against a person, I either comeout straight and say it, or keep quiet and try to forget it if I cant say it. But I wont insult a person, muna wasa da dariya. To me if I am able to hold a pleasant conversation with someone, it is because I like them. I can never hold a well meant conversation with someone I dont like. I usually avoid ppl I dont like (thankfully they are few)
Quote from: HUSNAA on June 04, 2007, 09:09:46 AM
What I really really dislike about Hausa culture is that sai a fada wa mutum bakar magana ana wasa da dariya, and the bakar magana is really meant at the time it was told in jest. I absolutely hate that attitude. I cant do it. If I have something against a person, I either comeout straight and say it, or keep quiet and try to forget it if I cant say it. But I wont insult a person, muna wasa da dariya. To me if I am able to hold a pleasant conversation with someone, it is because I like them. I can never hold a well meant conversation with someone I dont like. I usually avoid ppl I dont like (thankfully they are few)
i have some examples:
*by young women to their friends* "
au baza ki rana ki ba? ke Yar iska ce wallahi"...(and Giggles).
*still by young women to their friends*
"Haba dan Allah? da gaske? Sheeeeeeegiya!!!"*by young men to their colleauges*
"kai dan iska ne wallahi"i cud go on and on but i shudnt be too explicit cause it could get uglier..trust me!
Lol Muda not that kind though I cant address a friend in that way, not being used to that. I mean real bakar magana; sometimes the meaning evades one until one is chewing the conversation over then one realizes what is meant by a phrase or so.
another thing that annoys me is the passivity of talakawan mu. Ko mai sai kaji wai sun hakura sun hakura sun hakura, while Allah SWT Ya ce ba zai canza situation din dan adam ba sai ya nemi ya canza shi himself. Sai a kashe ma mutum da sai ya ki karbar blood money, while Allah Ya Halatta masa, kokuwa ya sami azzalumin shugaba wai sai yace ba zai mishi tutsun jaki ba, wai sabur sabur sabur. Ana sabur in mutum ya duba gabas da yamma kudu da arewa ba mafita u are caged or surrounded or totally emasculated. To a lokacin sai mutum yace Fallilahil Hamd Tawakkaltu Alallahi. amma talaka dan arewa............!
Quote from: HUSNAA on June 04, 2007, 09:09:46 AM
What I really really dislike about Hausa culture is that sai a fada wa mutum bakar magana ana wasa da dariya, and the bakar magana is really meant at the time it was told in jest. I absolutely hate that attitude. I cant do it. If I have something against a person, I either comeout straight and say it, or keep quiet and try to forget it if I cant say it. But I wont insult a person, muna wasa da dariya. To me if I am able to hold a pleasant conversation with someone, it is because I like them. I can never hold a well meant conversation with someone I dont like. I usually avoid ppl I dont like (thankfully they are few)
I know what you mean, because i have a hard time gaya ma mutum bakar magana, amma mutane sai ana magana baka san hawa ba balle sauka sai a gaya maka magana cikin wasa da dariya, you would not realize until later when one is going back to the conversation, that really sucked >:(
Quote from: jewel(abdulgee22) on June 02, 2007, 09:15:23 PM
Quote from: mufi on June 02, 2007, 02:37:47 AM
First of all i love our hausa culture and all that, but what i'm seeing these days is that our young ppl are taking the lifestyle of the western world like the dressing and the general way of life, which is very dangerous and the fact that those ppl in the western world lack any self respect for themselves. i think we need to educate and encourage our youngsters to be proud of where they come from and embrace their culture and heritage.
bikinis and miniskirtss,
IBB wai don Allah wetin bi the name of BIRASIYA ne in hausa i mean the real hausa mean, wallaho even d english spellin i nl knw...............lol ;D
Kai Jewel this ur question na abominaton for this place woh. But i will whisper the answer 2 you just you Rigar-nono.
Back to the topic. Are you guys having problem identifying bakar-magana from joke. This the solution fire the person back if na joke he/she go take am so if is bakar-magana he/she go take am too. E.g Sheeeeeeeege Muda. U say back Sheeeeege-Dan-iska IBB
IBB, thx for za infor.
But gogannaka , ai i doesnt make any harm if u can tell us the types of DUBA, neither u noe DAN BORNO that started the whole did not talk.......................plz make ur selfs clear.
A gaskiya this is the first time i heard that some Dubia r legal in islam (hope i quote u guys right)..
ayi mana bayani.............. ???
Quote from: Myself on May 08, 2007, 09:40:00 PM
What about durkusawa gaisuwa
and boye sunan dan fari.
You can do it or dont do it.babu lafi wajen ubangijie.
Quote from: HUSNAA on June 04, 2007, 08:26:12 PM
another thing that annoys me is the passivity of talakawan mu. Ko mai sai kaji wai sun hakura sun hakura sun hakura, while Allah SWT Ya ce ba zai canza situation din dan adam ba sai ya nemi ya canza shi himself. Sai a kashe ma mutum da sai ya ki karbar blood money, while Allah Ya Halatta masa, kokuwa ya sami azzalumin shugaba wai sai yace ba zai mishi tutsun jaki ba, wai sabur sabur sabur. Ana sabur in mutum ya duba gabas da yamma kudu da arewa ba mafita u are caged or surrounded or totally emasculated. To a lokacin sai mutum yace Fallilahil Hamd Tawakkaltu Alallahi. amma talaka dan arewa............!
Ashe kin gane. Nima wannan abu yana damu na. DOn Allah dubi yadda akayi "Robbery" a wannan (s)election din na kwanannan, amma wai mutanenmu cewa suke yi ayi hakuri, kaddara ce, haka Allah ya so, bla bla bla. Mu kullum sai a cuccemu, amma sai mu rungume hannun mu muce mun barwa Allah. Amma ai Allah ma Ya ce ka tashi ka kwaci kanka daga zalunchi. Baza mu taba fita daga matsala ba da irin wannan hali :(
Gaskiya kam BK, if you dont stand up for your rights, to kaga abun haushi kala kala.
But for this to take affect you need many ppl to stand up so that they can be heard amma its useless
in having a few ppl when you can have a party of ppl, don mutane su san da gaske ake and also they need to continuously make their complaints to whom this may concern. Allah dai yace tashi in taimake ka.
Quote from: jewel(abdulgee22) on May 08, 2007, 08:33:29 PM
but what do you hate about our hausa people,
Meynnnn.............THATS TRIBALISM TO THA CORE!!! (ok jokes).....but its true!
Quote from: jewel(abdulgee22) on May 08, 2007, 08:33:29 PMAbeg tell us make see, if there r things we r doing and need to change them (if we can) Make i start:,
No you didnt! :o......Among the 10 commandments of a traveller......that is: When in Rome, do like d Romans.........I mean u just cant walk into a Hindu temple and ask them why are they worshipin cows.............you just take on board, adjust and strap in...................and am saying u step up hausa land, do like the hausas........a cardinal wrong would be for you to ask them to change their principles......
Anyway let the hausas answer you (*chuckles*)
salam
I dislike the way the hausa man deals with his woman and hides under the umbrella of religion and still gets away with it when it is more of 'tradition and culture'.I dislike that with a passion....
lol Ummitah
Finally, a great topic...thanks Abdull
The hausa are proud people and patriots, I'm sure Abdull meant no harm in this, just that we aren't perfect and there are things about us that needs...considerations.
First of all, the Hausa man is a very lazy man. And no it was'nt a developed habbit. Traditionally, we were known to be farmers, off season we just sit at home and eat of what we harvests. We spend most of our days under the tree(doing God knows what) and the younger ones on dakali imitating thier parents. WE were never known for developement or striving for it. We have done little to change the conditions which we live, or help a latter generation to do that (mythical joke accusation: hence there are no forrests in the north cuz no one cares to plant a tree). Even today, the most difficult jobs, even in our side of the world are done by non-Hausa people. We complain of unemployment but we are just too lazy to work and we think things will always work out. The world is leaving us behind I'm sorry to say. Well this brings about mostly, the beggers on the street, the underdevelopement of our cities and the so called unemployment, although the factors are more. Check it, when u go to a place the youth hang out...say snooker joint, 70 percent of the people u see there are hausa people who dont do thier assingnments from school, 10% do, and 5% are the igbo's who own the joint and getting money outta the wasteful hausa.
Another thing is ignorance, like Mc Hammer tried to deny, we are not perfect. Matter of fact, we are not and think so much that we are God sent. We think we can get away with anything in life cuz nothng matters. our ignorance caused our lack of education, our underdevelopement and our arrogance. Check this, in southern markets....say Balogun, Lagos. As a customer, the shop owner will see to all ur needs, even buy u food (yes, 4 free). He'll market all that he has and listen to what u need, then provide u with offers and alternatives...now coming back home, just try buying yadi. The Alhaji sitting there (seeing he is now an alhaji) will call one price for u, will even hesitate to bring the product thinking u might not buy, and will put no effort to persuade u. infact he will tell u that if u wont buy, move along. our attitude of arrogance have totally hindered our market skills, even in large farms, the Hausa man never makes it in marketting.
Yes, degrading the female... I could go on with alotta things but I have to go now. I must say that I am proud of who and what I am, but there are things that are naturally hausa that I'm not proud of.
peace be upon you!
Quote from: ummita on September 12, 2007, 02:09:21 AM
Quote from: jewel(abdulgee22) on May 08, 2007, 08:33:29 PM
but what do you hate about our hausa people,
Meynnnn.............THATS TRIBALISM TO THA CORE!!! (ok jokes).....but its true!
Quote from: jewel(abdulgee22) on May 08, 2007, 08:33:29 PMAbeg tell us make see, if there r things we r doing and need to change them (if we can) Make i start:,
No you didnt! :o......Among the 10 commandments of a traveller......that is: When in Rome, do like d Romans.........I mean u just cant walk into a Hindu temple and ask them why are they worshipin cows.............you just take on board, adjust and strap in...................and am saying u step up hausa land, do like the hausas........a cardinal wrong would be for you to ask them to change their principles......
Anyway let the hausas answer you (*chuckles*)
I meant no offence to any1 (hausa or no hausa) all i was tryin to do was just to share things that we think our ppl
r doing (so i guess bringing the topic was a wrong doing from my side. If by any way u r offened.........TO ALLAH
YABAKI HAKURI). ???
Quote from: Bee on October 24, 2007, 11:10:17 PM
salam
I dislike the way the hausa man deals with his woman and hides under the umbrella of religion and still gets away with it when it is more of 'tradition and culture'.I dislike that with a passion....
Hear! hear!
Seconded without compunction!