By MATTHEW DIKE
Thursday, February 14, 2008
Lagos State Commissioner of Police, Mohammed Abubakar appears to have kicked against the saying that love is blind as he urged policewomen to keep their eyes wide open when going into marriage.
Abubakar, who spoke during a tour of Police Area Command Headquarters, told policewomen not to marry poor people like carpenters, bricklayers and mechanics.
He argued that it is not good for policewomen to marry below their status, because it could worsen their financial situation.
Policewomen, who spoke with Daily Sun, however, saw things differently. Most of them believe that marriage has a lot to do with destiny, as they argued that it is not a crime to marry a poor man.
A corporal at Area 'B' police headquarters said: "Are we going to marry ourselves? If we see rich civilians, we'll marry them. We want to be happy for the rest of our lives. We want rich people, but some will come and promise Eldorado and after making love to you, they will abandon you and run away.
"We know the crown of a woman is her husband and her joy, the children. Those carpenters, bricklayers and mechanics show more love than the money bags. Afterall, they will be proud that they have policewomen as wives."
Speaking on condition of anonymity, one policewoman said civilians don't trust policewomen. "They believe we are wicked and intimidating."
Another policewoman said her colleagues who marry poor artisans deserved what they get because they can not eat their cakes and have it.
She said: "Most policewomen enjoy life, forgetting that beauty fades. When age now tells on them, they will be forced to accept whoever wants to marry them."
A woman constable said: "the CP has done well to give us that fatherly advise, but where are the husbands? Men usually feel intimidated and threatened to have us as wives. They think they cannot control us, but we're as obedient as every other civilian woman."
A sergeant at Area "D" headquarters, Mushin had this to say: "Civilians will feel that a policeman would cheat on them, using her job to cover up. But human beings are the same."
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See me see trouble, wetin concern the police officer
wether they marry poor pesin or rich pesin, after all
the officers na love den dey find no be money.
where the bachelors for this house, dis one na kiliya
invitation to patronise this police female officers, this
also includes prison wardens, traffic officers, customs,
immigration, hisbah girls and civil defence of recent.
DB baka da dama!!! ;D ;D
Duk lokacin da ka tsokane mu da strictly fr the bachelor crap, to in sha Allah sai munga abin da ya ture wa buzu nadi!!! ;D ;D ;D
Una de talk of police women .. abi na different species ne su from spinsters and other women that we women cannot talk about them?
a to dama dai bature yace
when poverty knocks at the door, love flies out of the window... tru tru.
madam wetin carry ur finger type inside
this thread, abi u nefa go skool, ebin the
almajiri can read the notice wey i place
for above "strictly for bacherlors" make
i write am por hausa language ko?
oya unless u wan talk on behalf of ur
brothers wey they wait for ur beautiful
pickin. ;D ;D
??? ::) :P :-[ are u mind u se on the fingu why process wait until :-*get things on ur way
Quote from: Sulaiman on February 18, 2008, 05:23:44 PM
??? ::) :P :-[ are u mind u se on the fingu why process wait until :-*get things on ur way
Mallam Sule I dont understand jiberish, try Hausa or English, I'm sure u'll be appreciated.
Husnaa, as always...
Jama'a, The prophet (S.A.W) already mentioned this will happen. Truthhfully, any man whom so wishes to get married now will have a wife. Its not so easy with our sisters though. Yet, dear sisters(as Lady Husnaa has made the thread hetrosexual) its not every man that is worthy of marriage. Just as much as its not every woman we should marry... At any rate, we pray Allah fixes us up wid the right partners, Amen.
Safety and Peace
Quote from: Ibro2g on February 18, 2008, 08:42:12 PM
Jama'a, The prophet (S.A.W) already mentioned this will happen. Truthhfully, any man whom so wishes to get married now will have a wife. Its not so easy with our sisters though. [/color]
Yet they front like cars...lol!
Quote from: *~MuDa~* on February 19, 2008, 06:02:20 PM
Quote from: Ibro2g on February 18, 2008, 08:42:12 PM
Jama'a, The prophet (S.A.W) already mentioned this will happen. Truthhfully, any man whom so wishes to get married now will have a wife. Its not so easy with our sisters though. [/color]
Yet they front like cars...lol!
Muda what does that mean?
Ladies...I'm a "suitor". I'm available for some "suitable" amount of money. I'm sure we can work out something! ::) :P :D ;) ;D :-*
I know a person that is married to a police officer(woman). Abin mamaki,she dey fear the husband well well.Kuma in size she is bigger than him.
she might be stronger during the day, may be becayse of
her uniform, however weakness and fear will overshadow
her during the night time when the husband will be stronger
and stronger for over over 12 hours.
Quote from: gogannaka on May 14, 2008, 08:21:02 AM
I know a person that is married to a police officer(woman). Abin mamaki,she dey fear the husband well well.Kuma in size she is bigger than him.
ha ha ha ha ha.......................he lafffsss.............goganaka ko kaima policewoman zaka aure ne....................................... but plz get ur own size.................lol lol lol lol lol lol
Quote from: jewel(abdulgee22) on June 01, 2008, 12:29:18 PM
Quote from: gogannaka on May 14, 2008, 08:21:02 AM
I know a person that is married to a police officer(woman). Abin mamaki,she dey fear the husband well well.Kuma in size she is bigger than him.
ha ha ha ha ha.......................he lafffsss.............goganaka ko kaima policewoman zaka aure ne....................................... but plz get ur own size.................lol lol lol lol lol lol
LOL wa ya sani ne jewel,
Kaga idan irin ku suka yi min laifi kawai sai na tura madam to deal with you :P
Gaskiya rannan na ga wata police din kuma ba laifi,sai dai kuma kar a ce DPO ma yana ciki,mutum ya sha sharri.
Quote from: gogannaka on June 01, 2008, 04:36:50 PM
LOL wa ya sani ne jewel,
Kaga idan irin ku suka yi min laifi kawai sai na tura madam to deal with you :P
Gaskiya rannan na ga wata police din kuma ba laifi,sai dai kuma kar a ce DPO ma yana ciki,mutum ya sha sharri.
Aha. Kayi tawa kenan. Wallahi nima na so I come see one wey fine. But fear com catch me, say if na DPO girlfriend dem fit com arrest you on some trumped up charges. ;D Haka na hakura.
LOL,
Su sha zaman su ko?
Wallahi su sha zamansu!.................wasun kuma sunanan zaune........ TUZURAI & CO.!!!!!.......
Tanks to my hausa dictionary, very handy!........Just knew what bachelors are called in hausa few days ago! ;D
Quote from: Bakan~Gizo on June 02, 2008, 11:25:56 AM
Quote from: gogannaka on June 01, 2008, 04:36:50 PM
LOL wa ya sani ne jewel,
Kaga idan irin ku suka yi min laifi kawai sai na tura madam to deal with you :P
Gaskiya rannan na ga wata police din kuma ba laifi,sai dai kuma kar a ce DPO ma yana ciki,mutum ya sha sharri.
Aha. Kayi tawa kenan. Wallahi nima na so I come see one wey fine. But fear com catch me, say if na DPO girlfriend dem fit com arrest you on some trumped up charges. ;D Haka na hakura.
lol.............haba bakan gizo...................a kawai lets have a free Police Band in ur weddin. We will deal with DPO later....................kai jamaar nan.............lolllllllllllllllllll
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