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chit-chat / Re: Kutufo
« on: February 06, 2009, 09:38:09 PM »
Meye wannan fa? >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( I squeeze time & come in and what do I find? >:(

lol, Husna do me a favour....kindly wake me later for passing this time in sleep... hope you wont follow suit.

« on: January 28, 2009, 06:19:44 PM »
Am really afraid to talk on issues like this. I'm prone to be miscalculated. But I'll, inshaAllah, say more when I get back. Good, Waduz.

Afraid? Wallah kah batah mini raina fa. >:( Kaga, a thing you should learn in life is pay mind to no one. Your opinions are yours and if you fill so strong willed about anything, spit it out and so it shall be! What another party can only do is agree to disagree but it doesnt change your own perspectives on things. Be free to spit things the way you think fits! Enter, spit and out. I have a very nonchalant attitude to things said here because its just a discussion threadddddddddddd. As long as you feel connected to your judgements that all. So what if you are miscalculated? Doesnt change your opinion!

Wallahi shiyasaka suna maka tsokana dayawa. You are just too, too, too innocent and sweet. I think, I need to numb encore you abit ;D!

Yay! bari naje na karya azumi. Lokaci shan ruwa yayi. It felt like forever!!!!

PS: Best wishes to all members for the New Yr. Sorry it was late. :-\

« on: January 28, 2009, 06:00:50 PM »

Ratatap tap! Salamualaikum. Na shigoh Waduz? Zan danyi manganah.

Salamz Wadus & the rest.

1st things is not about the availability of “enough” men but about the availability of “sufficient GOOD” men. Islam consents a man to marry four and so I do not think there is a problem of “enough” men “to go around all the bazawarai”. However, what lies beneath is men are "incapable" of and keeping a wife.

Likewise, it not about “willing potential” men but it’s about “competent” men! Am talking about men that can administer fair treatment to their wives, men that are worthy and trustworthy, men that are honest and humble, a man who really knows what it takes to be a “husband” to his “wife”! Am talking about marriage as a whole! I am talking about companionship and the whole camaraderie that comes in marriage. I am talking about ability to understand your wife, to endure her behaviour misplacements and to accommodate conflicting differences, a man being a husband leader not a forceful dictator, a man who has real merits of submitting his religious marital righteousness to his partner, his virtue for patience and so on and hence forth. Staying married is just not about consummating the marriage, having and rearing children. It’s also about respect, kindness, sympathy and many more. And all these qualities must be exercised. This is what makes a marriage! This is what makes a man a husband! A capable husband! And this is what saves a marriage from nullification!

Waduz, we cannot just sit and moan about the rising rate of divorcees and blaming women for the misfortunes they find their selves in. I really don’t see the merit of frolicking that the consequences of being bazawarai is that these category of women will not have enough men for them to go round or they will end up being raped, committing adultery or having unwanted pregnancies. We should not ignore some of the real roots of the quandary. For example, (i.e. How many stories of arranged marriages, family crisis and other pressure issues that has lead girls to run away from home? I see no bearing of a divorcee being the sole perpetrators on the issues of rape, adultery & unwanted pregnancies.

Waduz, have you noticed this for I have. Some men have taken to mockery with ahappy face of women saying things like “ai yanzu mata sunyi yawa no husband”. Some of these men have been singing a choir about this since 2003 and the chorus of their mockery is far too strong now! I keep saying this, before our forefathers were born and before mankind knew earth, Allah subhana wata’ala has written bold that there will be two categories of mankind male and female and either they return to HIM married or unmarried. And so word of advice to those who take pleasure mocking women or divorcees about their search or desperation for a husband or women outnumbering men not to forget that they too have mothers, sisters, daughters or other female relatives.  So careful! I say, careful!

Lastly, the biggest and first step to deal with the increase rate of divorcees is to STOP THE STIGMATISATION of divorcees by the surrounding society especially by men. People should know a divorcee could be a MALE and not only female! Two, it’s not an abomination to marry a divorcee! Three, learn to endure and not send a woman packing for the tiniest, silliest and forgivable mistakes. However, some ignorant men fail to understand these simple concepts. And you need to hear the arrant nonsense that emanates from their mouth. How they denigrate and tarnish the image of divorcee is far beyond repulsive to me. The stigmatisation, labelling and de-meriting of divorcees as the most unwanted choices amongst the most preferred is absolutely disgusting!!!  

And on what can be done, Ah alot! Making people aware that divorcees have good marriage credentials too, enlightening the society about the religious significance of marriage, the symbol it carries and what it requires to stay put in marriage, The list is endless.............

But a big starting point is to start by erasing and eradicating the stigma attached to zawarci (a very big step if done)!!

Demonstrations? *chuckles* lol, lol, lol, gerroutofhur!....ka bani dariya sosai. Who are you kidding? All the forced marriages I've heard of or witnessed is where a woman is forced into matrimony but hardly any man!! :D If you ask me I’d say kawai Mutum dei yah zamah mei rike Allah dah addininci. Mace tah zama mei tawakkahl. Mace ta zama mei hankura, mai barin ma Allah komai. Demonstration a masayin mace on these sort of issues wanda Allah ne ya saukar, to me, poses as a sign of nuna fin karfi ko girman kai ko rashin yadda dah kaddarah. Toh mace wa zatayiwah? Abun da Allah ya sakah, shi zei cire. One should just kneel and subject his/herself to God period! He is ever granting.

General Board / Re: 24 Nigerian pilgrims die in Saudi Arabia
« on: December 24, 2008, 06:20:15 PM »
May their souls rest in peace Ameen yah rabbiy...........................

I believe when your times up.....then thats it. Kumah komai qaddarah na Allah ne. But I heard that alot of the pilgrims were going for travellers injections against malaria, fever & the likes of it. I overhead a man saying this "wani sabon (allura) ne wasu baturai suka kawo ake ta yima mutane".  And from what I understand, there was something wrong with the dosages given to people or their immunity level was far too low or something........


« on: December 24, 2008, 06:11:21 PM »
Thank you very much Ummita and co for the nice and inventive recipes. Keep it up and I will give it a trail. I also urge all bachelors in the forum most especially the Kanawas to try it as well. :)

NO.....really thankkkk YOU 2 d "members" for their deep contributions. Gogganaka is definately one chap who has no problem with cooking lol

Cooking Forum / Re: HAVE A LOOK......I COOKED THIS AND THAT!!!!
« on: December 24, 2008, 06:07:11 PM »
THATS IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( >:(

chit-chat / Re: Hello, I can see you are on line at this moment
« on: December 24, 2008, 05:58:17 PM »
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chit-chat / Re: END OF YEAR GAME
« on: December 24, 2008, 05:57:30 PM »
Pah, dis is discrmininatory though I dont know on what grounds. Why is admin & Husna exempted? And why would Goggs entitled to hav a present if he wins?

Minkam I know I cnt take part in d game as I will be one of the judges alongside my pops!

General Board / Re: We’ll protest nude, Bayelsa women warn
« on: November 24, 2008, 11:16:08 PM »
Jeez! :o Has it got to that point?

chit-chat / Re: HELP ME TRANSLATE
« on: November 24, 2008, 11:13:18 PM »
Yanga in english.......Anyone please?

Apart from words like showing off, or there any proper english word for the word "yanga"?

"Rainbow" in hausa? :-\

« on: November 24, 2008, 11:04:12 PM »
PS: Myself..........EXCELLENT. You've just nailed it.........True talk.....a woman would not even think twice if it were her husbands ex-girlfriend that was to donate her blood. She will even beg the woman!!!!

I still cant stop laughing. Ah!!!!! Daddy.............I just hope my siblings dont hear that at lol lol

« on: November 24, 2008, 11:03:01 PM »
Hafsyyyyy................Yay!!! Bhoi am I glad!!! I mean oh NO..... >:( you shouldnt hav made a comeback!!!! It was just paradise without you!!!! ;D

Let me seize this opportunity to apologise to my
one and only daughter in this forum UMMITA (she knows y).
A father is never in the wrong in the eyes of his daugther. Just dont forget, you owe me a birthday present, my goron sallah and also for the forth-coming sallah in two wks or so.

ai kaji she was even referring the ex as HERO, how did he become hero after he was beaten hand down lokacin neman aure - abeg spare me and call him the opposite.
No, I think hafsy was saying that women like men that play hero's especially when it is a love triangle situation. As in the exboyfreind came to the rescue in due course. Women find that a kushy "awwww" "wowwww" he did that just for her thing!!! *rolls eyes*

haba, yan arewa a kline kuyi tunani mana, you just came to
the hospital and saw this guy har ya ba matar ka blood with
out your knowledge, i courtesy demands that you be contacted
as soon as your wife requires that blood,
Were u in a rush wen u read the story? Because basically the fact of the said had it that everything was set and they have not in actual fact administered the blood onto the woman.

Ita kuma, though, i am not the divorcing type, amma definitely
zata ci ubanta wallahi,
INNALILLAH....... lol lol lol lol lol ohhhhh mah God, people in this forum can kill. Daddddddddddddddddddddddy!!!!!!!!!! ha, ha, ha ha, ha u got me throwing out my drink all over myslf. Am in hysteriaaaaa. lol, lol.........I hav not laffed this bad of recent. lol, lol, I just cnt stop laffin. :-X :-X :-X

I really wanted to add some few points from my observation from member posts but lol, lol, I cnt 4 now. My dad's done messing my head up.......Am sorry people but lol, lol, lol.....nahhhhh am outta this place!!!!!! ;D

chit-chat / Re: How are you feeling today?
« on: November 24, 2008, 10:39:12 PM »
Inshallah u'll make it. Just priortise ur revision days n time. Getting confused when exams r jst round d corner is def a NO-NO 4 u. I remember my exam era days.....just when I taught they were all over yrs ago....... I now may find myself sitting for 4 exams next yr Jan as requisites for admissions onto a type of service contract I want to do. Just the taught of it is nerve racking. If I get too panicky might opt out, not a necessity for me. In ur case..... just take it easy. Allah yer teimaka maka.

if ni wallahi if you even live within my area: I will throw out invitations for a nice lunch or dinner together! See! Its that easy!

Keyan waye nake hangowa a chan..........Gogannaka did you not read the notice!!! Its off limit to your kind.!!! >:( >:( >:( >:( zamu bika da tabarya.

Did she say food. :o :o :o Abeg am coming JUST FOR THE FOOD. Let us know in advance when you intend throw up d dinner, so dat I come on empty stomach & accordingly with my take-away packs

Allow Gogannka to breath haba!!! ;D

2 revisit this thread d soonest!

Cooking Forum / Re: HAVE A LOOK......I COOKED THIS AND THAT!!!!
« on: November 24, 2008, 10:18:18 PM »
Chabdijan!!!! Hajiya goggo mai tuwo kenan! Wai nace ba, wace mace ce take tafasa ruwan tuwon ta a kettle, sannan ta nemi kwano ta zuba, sanna ta dakko "whisk" tana kada ruwa da garin tuwo, sannan ta jefa a cikin "microwave" 3 minutes wai sai ace "food is ready"!!!! *shame on you* ;D Idan kuma this na lie, let me see since when did you make that post. Sine June, you still havent landed with the tuwo photo. Buhaha ha ha. Wallahi dont even attempt it, karki ba kanki kunya.

Madam, that reminds me. Ina kwanuka na? Tun last year! My caserole dish is with you aswell. >:( Don Allah, a dawo mun dasu. Daga kai abinci a ciki, sun makale. Smo smo abeg ;D

Kin dawo kenan!!! >:( >:( >:( >:( >:( Wallahi, I am taking this on a real personal level. Why you mocking my tuwo processing method?  >:( >:( >:( Hafsy for your own info even Quaker Oats I do it in the microwave! Indomie, I do it in the microwave! Custard, I do it in the microwave! You wont understand when extreme urgency calls for this especially when you have no time!!!  >:( >:( >:(............Am sure some of the girls here too have made tuwo in microwaves, perhaps Mufi?

Wallahi you've just motivated me to attempt making waina in a microwave. Thats my task for this wkend if time permits!

About your caserole dish..........dont make me bring up my very exhausted list of my stuff at urs  ;D

Peopleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee put up your food pics plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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