DO YOU WANT A PERFECT MAN OR WOMAN?

[bamalli]

I have travelled the world in search
   Of the perfect woman.

     After 10 years of search, I
   Am determined to go home.
   
     My best friend asked me:
   
     -- So? You have finally met your
   Perfect woman?
   
     I told him
   
     -- To the south, yes, I found the most
   Beautiful woman. Her eyes were
   Embers, her hair was golden and
   Her body, similar to that of a goddess.
   
     My friend was enthusiastic:
     -- Oh my Lord! You have made her your wife?
     -- Unfortunately I couldn't, She turned out  not
   To be perfect, because she was very poor.
   
     So, I explored the North and I
   Met a woman who was more
   Rich that all women of the earth
   Combined! She did not even know
   How big was her fortune!
   
     -- So, it was the imbodiment of
   Perfection, right?

     -- No, I replied. The problem
   Was that it was the most ugly
   Creature I have ever set my eyes on during my life time.
   
     Finally, I fled to the east and only
   there, I met a
   Women that was beautiful, rich and intelligent.
   She trully  was perfect ...
   
     -- Well ... Have you married her?
   Asked my friend

     -- No. Because unfortunately,
   This woman was also perfect in
   Searching  for the perfect man!
   
   
   _________________________________
   
     When you search for perfection, it's
   Change that you will only find ...
   Disappointment. No one and nothing is perfect in
   This world. We need to be ready to search and
   Face imperfection, and sometimes
   We should be ready to renounce our demands.
   We ourselves are not perfect, why should
   We expect perfection from others?
 
   Better: don't we encouter perfection
   as soon as we stop searching?

   Finally, can we say that true beauty
   Is truly in these small issues,
   In these anomalies that make us
   Be even closer to each other, being more
   Similar, more worthy to love?
   
   
     "Look for success, not for
     Perfection. "
   
     David Burns
     
     "Perfection is knowing
     Not to search for perfection. "


it takes God's presence for a man to be distinguished

[gogannaka]

Nice one!

[abeeda]

salam
while there is no such person who is perfect{except our beloved prophet}, one can still find a person that is perfect for him or her, it all depends on ones defination of wat perfect is keeping in mind that there must be a flaw somewhere and also bein reasonable about it.

[Muhsin]

Wa'alaiki salam, abeeda,

You should change the font colour of your reply (above). Its not visible and thus un-readable.

[abeeda]

salam
thanks, wat I wrote was-
While there is no such person who is perfect ( except of corse our beloved prophet SAW) one can still find a person that is perfect for him or her, it all depends on one's definition of wat perfect is keeping in mind that there must be a flaw somewhere and also by bein reasonable about it

[Dan-Borno]

perfect man!!!!!!! i think perfect man in this context
is guided by Holy Qur'an and Sunna of our Prophet
(SAW).  If you abide by the rules and regulations as
provided in the Qur'an and Hadith satisfactorily, I think
you have met the requirements of a perfect man!!!!!!

so, does'nt depends on one's definition of what a perfect
man/woman is, its far from that.

[Abbas Bubakar El-ta'alu]

Assalamu alaikum!
                       Oh Yes! Our beloved prophet, Mohammad (SAW) is perfect. Apart from him, "Any other perfection remains a relative terminology"!!!