help me xplain this

[fyne chick]

my brother asked me y rape is such a big deal to women. he said that in a novel if tragedy wants to be introduced to a girl's life, she gets raped. i told him that its like stealing something he said only if d girl is a virgin. afterall if she isnt a virgin then she has been having sex before which is a mechanical function like eating. so a forced meal will soon be digested. i told him about d risk of venereal disease n he conceded but said ok if disease is ruled out and assuming the girl is not beaten or physically harmed in any way. i asked him how he wd feel if a gay guy rapes him. he said we r not talking about socially unacceptable sex acts. since sex b/w a man n a woman is ok then d only problem wd be lack of consent. he said if girls were to rape him its cool with him. if he dies in d process then he died in pleasure. he says if he was a girl n a guy rapes him he wd be flattered. bcos d msg he gets wd be that d guy thinks he is sexy n unapproachable. i need points.

[dan kauye]

fyne chick,d truth is ur brother reely needs counseling and urgently!

[dan kauye]

well ,fyne chick dis post is a lil controvercial but i feel i gotta drop more lines so here we go.....

lets talk on psychological level,hav ur broda had a psychological examination b4,dented emotional behaviour,vulgar sexual rage,or been abused by sum women (or so) wyle he was kid??....if yes den dose bhvs may be haunting him,if not i cant undastand why a normal guy cud take delight in getting raped or rape related acts abi?? c...people wit dented childhood are d ones lykly 2 n-gage in such act,socially speaking its unacceptable,religiously speaking itz death penalty or so(not reely sure).....its d wurst thing a man can do 2 any woman,morally unacceptable. not even in nations lyk d US who's known 4 controvercial lyfstyles...wat mo can i say???....its not even worth it....i'm not a woman but i undastand how bitta women feel bout it... its mo lyk defiling a woma's dignity,integrity,...ty ...wateva..ty...peace ya!

[gogannaka]

From my point of view,it depends on the boys age.Normally at a certain age (usually maturity age),boys tend to fantasize having sex.So they think of all possible ways to have sex.........It is not a strange character your brother displayed.............


But on a serious note,it will reely be a disheartenin phenomena for a lady to be raped.The upset is that it is done without the consent of the lady and besides,the psychological trauma that follows...Allah ya sawwake.....

For males,i wonder how they can be raped? :roll:

[anakin]

dan kauye, i didnt see anywhere that fine chick talks about delight in raping a chick. i see where her brother is coming from. look at what he says about gay sex "socailly unacceptable." he is talking about d physical aspect only. i think girls consider rape to be traumatic cos for so long women have been considered only as good as they r sexually attrctive. so if u force urself on a woman she feels she has given u d only thing she has of value. i agree d only problem is one of consent. or if there is any psych trauma it should be one of feeling powerless at preventing something. God knows that happens millions of times to d average person. how old is fine chick's bro anyway?

[dan kauye]

dan kauye, i didnt see anywhere that fine chick talks about delight in raping a chick. i see where her brother is coming from. look at what he says about gay sex "socailly unacceptable." he is talking about d physical aspect only. i think girls consider rape to be traumatic cos for so long women have been considered only as good as they r sexually attrctive. so if u force urself on a woman she feels she has given u d only thing she has of value. i agree d only problem is one of consent. or if there is any psych trauma it should be one of feeling powerless at preventing something. God knows that happens millions of times to d average person. how old is fine chick's bro anyway?

well said anakin,i took ur correction thanx a mile,u know wat?? though i'm hardly burnous ,topics lyk dis olweiz strykes my kool as i passionately hates/loathe acts as such,both rape n gay sex is very unacceptable in every religion so i cant undastand why people n-gage in it,yeahhh.....i realized dat i've been rather harsh in  my judgement whuch waznt a welcoming gesture but i think it justifies my thots....

[fyne chick]

my brother is 23. his new year resolutions included 1. avoid girls 2. stop using d "F" word 3. stop reading philosophy. he used to be very religious but now he claims he is an agnostic. he can be quite annoying when he gets on d subject of religion or culture.