WHY DU WOMEN HAVE JELOUS MINDS?

[Gimbiya]

Gimbiya, Na so I come say make I use my big mouth ansa yuwa question. as ummita no come. Di gel na sabi jealousy at all . Na one kine mumu she be. She no dey jealous. One time I na mi de zuga her say make we gather bit one gel. Jealousy dey inside me wellu wellu. Na so sometimes I come de wonda say "anya ummita ma macece kuwa" because anshe kishi kumallon mata to ita bata ma karyawa dashi balentana cin na dare da shi ;D

Kinga ni kuwa, duk wanda yace zai kwacemin dan maigida...chashi..ai sai inda karfi ya tsaya sai dai in bani da rai. 8)

I just wish I understand a word that you have said. I'm sorry me can't understand. amma kin yi gaskiya, domin nima kam haka na fada I don't tolerate all that "namiji mijin mace hudu ne" sai in karasa masa da cewa "idan da aldaci ba" :D. you know some girls nowadays settle for less that's why some think kishiya? so what? ta shigo ni ina ruwana

[MohammedIbrahim]

Gimbiya r u sure thats the way some mata think? nnyway ure in a better position to know that ;D .
? ? ?And abdulmaleek i agree with u ,and i also think wani prob da mata have is sometimes they dont think of the aftermath of their actions(mata sorry wo,i dont mean to disrespect u),i mean sometimes basa tuna gaba ,na there and then dem go scatter ur head finish everything,if u no take time me sef dem fit stretch hand ;D

[Rose]

Jelous is nothing to do with being a women.
Is just a human nature, be it a man or woman,
even animal have it.
And Men have the worse jelouse mind.

[Anonymous]

In my own thinking. I agree with Ummita. We were created to love not to hate. Jealousy should only exist in something good. Why dont we have people in this world being jealous in things like I cant recite the Quran, if she can why cant I? Things like kishin karatu, but only useless kishi against kishiyoyi. honestly speaking I dont see where this jealousy is taking any woman. Men are not as jealous as women, not that I know of. Men could even hide their jealousy and a woman simply cannot. I would advice chicks that are so jealous to just calm down. Life is not about being jealous. Life is about livin it to the fullest.

[MohammedIbrahim]

In my own thinking. I agree with Ummita. We were created to love not to hate. Jealousy should only exist in something good. Why dont we have people in this world being jealous in things like I cant recite the Quran, if she can why cant I? Things like kishin karatu, but only useless kishi against kishiyoyi. honestly speaking I dont see where this jealousy is taking any woman. Men are not as jealous as women, not that I know of. Men could even hide their jealousy and a woman simply cannot. I would advice chicks that are so jealous to just calm down. Life is not about being jealous. Life is about livin it to the fullest.

now u talking ;D , every word u said is true ;)there's no doubt about it

[Aydee Fella]

Husna sai ynzu naji magana, u see dats from a lady.

[iblink]

There is a simple answer to y women av jealous minds. i believe they r born with it, its one of the natural behaviors that makes the difference between men and women. its rather unfortunate but its true... ;D

[Blaqueen]

iblink.. i hav noticed u....

[ummita]

wow! ummita. I hope you going to keep your words. jeolous is part of being human, you have to remember there's a part that hausa say that even nana Aisha was jeolous, so we are just human.

MARK MA WORD: Kamer yadda na feda, duk namiji de zai aure for instance say.........(a man I am married 2)!!! Honestly...she is sooooo welcome whole heartedly, as long as their wud b respect, & there wud b similarities with no differenciation from our husby'z treatment 2wards us....well yeah!!!! she ias welcome. Kishi doesnt go 4 every gurl. It doesnt bother me....(4 jealosuy in other issues...ni HATERS boost ma morale) (she laffs).

I see no point in being jealous. & it has a high peak rate on eps marriage grounds. Puff!! dey get time ne. kuma Gimbz...da kikace even Aisha.....did this..that was history...besides doin that doesnt give others d priviledge 2 du it,

Besides irin jealousy de Aisha tanayi....is by no way comparable with hausa gurls.....Compare this...if Aisha gets jealous...she does her ablution, recites d quaran & then calmz down...A typical hausa gel........zetayi zagi, grab a knife & can spend a century tana masifa & holdin grudges!!! So how is that!!?

[Anonymous]

Ummita I like that flow. ;) You said it all babes. But to me, this jealousy issue exist only in the minds of haters

[Anonymous]

Seee all d members of this forum........naso I come blow spellin mistake & all of wuna blind 2 correct me. Jelous (jealous).

Naso pessin go carry on for daftness & una no go fit korrect man pikin ::) (she laffs)

Bingel kenan, kin bani dariya. But then you corrected yourself.
GASKIYA, How I wish other chick have the same positive attitudes on kishi like you did. Kice ashe zan auro mata goma (10) BAZAN SAMU MATSALA GUNKI BA KO ;D ;D ;D

I forgot I bi her GODFATHER  :-X

[Anonymous]

Besides irin jealousy de Aisha tanayi....is by no way comparable with hausa gurls.....Compare this...if Aisha gets jealous...she does her ablution, recites d quaran & then calmz down...A typical hausa gel........zetayi zagi, grab a knife & can spend a century tana masifa & holdin grudges!!! So how is that!!?

THAT IS ABSOLUTELY TRUE. KISHI IS POINTLESS

[Ibro2g]

I have`nt read the entire log, but ummita I read your log, the topic. I gave careful examination, and thoughts to the subject in consideration and I arrived at a conclusion: Ummita u r wierd. Don`t get it ruff but every creature, every soul has  some jealosy. If u have a cat or dog and bring in another, they begin mortal Kombat, if u have a guy and he sees another, a similar story, even the devil was jealous of adam, or still is. Women are obviosly associated with jealousy because of polygamy in practise. If polyandry was in practise, this topic wouldnt be here today. kapish.
I'm sorry once more if u find it insulting...just trying to help. ::)

[Ibro2g]

but only useless kishi against kishiyoyi.Men are not as jealous as women.

Men are not useless... :D and besides, I dont blame em, they want a man, they got him ;D.

Men are equally jealous, u just haven`t come across the crazy ones I think. Goodfella, dan Allah tell her about guyses.

[ummita]

I have`nt read the entire log, but ummita I read your log, the topic. I gave careful examination, and thoughts to the subject in consideration and I arrived at a conclusion: Ummita u r wierd. Don`t get it ruff I'm sorry once more if u find it insulting...just trying to help. ::)

mhmmm.........I didnt feel offended...not @ all. This is juss a thread in a forum...nefink upsets or bothers me. Neither did I get it ruff.......I keep things smooths 8) Juss kiddin.
Ok frankly speakin it has nefink 2 du with being weird.........Well mayb its juss ma normal reaction in ppls abnormal circumstances. Truss me, if a man wanna bring in a new chick...........doors open shes welcome........y shud I b jealous...as far as therez equal treatment.......its all sorted out then,.....as I always say d reason I married d guy...is d same reason anoda gurl married him, so y shud I deprive her of wantin d same thing I want if @ all it makes me happy....y wud I wanna hold bck su'in that will make her happy as well. That wud have been soooo ludacricious!!!

Besides....I kinda blame older women/some parents........they label kishiyaz like some sort of jezebel....so when a teenage gurl grows up...she hears her moma speakin of kishiya is bad...kishiya this kishiya that!!! Obviously shez gon form that sort of hatred & bad impression about kishiya.....so when she gets married & meets a kishiya....abun de anyi brainwashin nata daga gida akan mates.....then she starts actin shady........I mean come off it gurls....how can we trully know how gud these kishiyoyi wud b, when some of ya'all neva gave them a chance 2 show their gud side....U keep makin trouble & they keep retaliatin, d door swings both ways....so If u play fair..........she plays fair....& u gon leave happily eva afta..juss like in d fairy tales (she laffs) I still dont mynd!! & am keepin an open mynd on this!!