A Khutbah for the Woman

[EMTL]

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A Khutbah for the Muslim Woman

When news of the Christian army that had prepared on the horizons to
wipe out Islam reached him, Abu Qudaamah Ash-Shaamee moved quickly to the
Mimbar of the Masjid.  In a powerful and emotional speech, Abu Qudaamah
ignited the desire of the community to defend their land, Jihad for the
sake of Allah.  As he left the Masjid, walking down a dark and secluded
alley, a women stopped him and said, "As salamu alaykum wa
Rahmatullaah!"  Abu Qudaamah stopped and did not answer. She repeated her salam
again, adding "this is not how pious people should act." She stepped
forward from the shadows.  "I heard you in the Masjid encouraging the
believers to go for Jihad and all I have is this..." She handed him two long
braids. "It can be used for a horse rein.  Perhaps Allah may write me as
one of those who went for Jihaad."

The next day as that Muslim village set out to confront the crusader
army, a young boy ran through the gathering and stood at the hooves of
Abu Qudaamah's horse.  "I ask you by Allah to allow me to join the army."
Some of the elder fighters laughed at the boy.  "The horses will
trample you," they said.  But Abu Qudaamah looked down into his eyes as he
asked again, "I ask you by Allah, let me join."  Abu Qudaamah then said,
"On one condition, if you are killed you will take me with you to
Jannah amongst those you will be allowed to intercede for."  That young boy
smiled.  "It's a promise."

When the two armies met and the fighting intensified, the young boy on
the back of Abu Qudaamah's horse asked, "I ask you by Allah to give me
3 arrows."  "You'll lose them!"  The boy repeated, "I ask you by Allah
to give me them."  Abu Qudaamah gave him the arrows and the boy took
aim. "Bismillaah!" The arrow flew and killed a Roman. "Bismillaah!" The
second arrow flew, killing a second Roman. "Bismillaah!" The third arrow
flew, killing a third Roman. An arrow then struck the boy in the chest
- knocking him off the horse.  Abu Qudaamah jumped down to his side,
reminding the boy in his final breaths, "Don't forget the promise!" The
boy reached into his pocket, extracted a pouch and said, "Please return
this to my mother."  "Who's your mother?" asked Abu Qudaamah. "The
women that gave you the braids yesterday."

Think about this Muslimah.  How did she reach this level of Taqwa where
she would sacrifice her hair when today other women do the same to
imitate Kafir icons, and her son when other women would die so long as
their son stayed home.  Indeed, she spent her life in the obedience of
Allah, and when exam time came, she passed. Not only did she pass herself,
but her children shone with that same beauty of Iman, children that she
herself raised.

Very often - and perhaps in our times when we have forgotten much of
the Sunnah - the lectures, khutbahs, and talks are all directed to the
Muslim men.  We forget that from the guidance and way – of Rasul Allah -
sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - was that he would allocate a specific day
of the week to teach the women. Women would come up to him in Hajj, in
the street, even in his home and ask him questions about the Deen.  At
the Eid Salah, after addressing the men, he would take Bilal and go to
the women section and address the women.  Allah revealed an entire
Surah by the name of Surah An-Nisa – the Women.  And another by the name of
– Maryam.  And a third by the name of al Mujaadalah – the women who
pleads.  It is in enlivening this Sunnah that today this speech shall be
addressed to the believing women, al-Mu'minaat.

Dear Sister, Dear Mother, Dear Daughter.  Everyone is looking for
happiness and fun, and I am sure you are not excluded.  Where is that
happiness and fun though?  And where and when do you want that happiness?  Do
you want happiness, do you want to have `fun' in this life at the
expense of the hereafter?  Or is it in the hereafter, when you meet Allah
that you want to be happy?

Every where you go you shall find a swarm of people and media and
culture swearing to you that happiness is the happiness of the Dunya. Is it
really happiness though?  On the day of Repayment, Allah shall take the
most `happiest' kafir of the Dunya and dip him in Jahannam – Hellfire.  
Then he shall ask him, "Have you ever seen any happiness?" The Kafir
will say, "Never!"

Nay, the happiness is only the happiness of the hereafter no matter
what happens in this Dunya.  Allah shall bring on the Day of Repayment the
most tested human and dip him in Jannah – Paradise.  He shall then ask
him, "Have you ever seen sadness?"  And that person shall say, "Never!"

And don't think that this happiness and fun is exclusive to the
hereafter.  It is very much tied to this life as well.  Listen and understand
the words of Allah:

Whoever works righteousness, whether male or female, while he (or she)
is a true believer verily to him We will give a good life (in this
world with respect, contentment and lawful provision), and We shall pay
them certainly a reward in proportion to the best of what they used to do
(i.e. Paradise in the Hereafter). – Surah AnNahl (16/97)

Dear Sister, you have to understand that you or anyone may enter
Hellfire!  By Allah, we are not better than Fatimah, the daughter of Rasul
Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam.  And he said to her, "O Fatimah the
daughter of Muhammad, Ask me whatever you wish from my wealth, for I
shall avail you nothing to Allah."  Meaning that it doesn't matter if
you're my daughter, if you don't work for Jannah, saying to Allah that my
father is so and so will not help you in anyway.

Islam is filled with many Mu'minahs that completed their Taqwa of
Allah.  When the other girls put up posters of kafir singers and kafir
athletes and kafir actresses, you should put up posters in your heart of
Fatimah and many other Mu'minahs.

Aasiyah, the wife of Fir'own. Her Eeman in Allah thrived under the
shadow of someone that said, "I am your Lord, Most High!" When news reached
Fir'own of his wife's Eeman he beat her and commanded his guards to
beat her. They took her out in the scalding noon heat, tied her hands and
feet and beat her perpetually. Who did she turn to? She turned to
Allah! She prayed, "My lord, build for me a home with you in Paradise and
save me from Fir'own and his deeds and save me from the transgressive
people."

It was narrated that when she said this, the sky opened for her and she
saw her home in Paradise. She smiled. The guards watched astonished -
she's being tortured and she smiles? Frustrated, Fir'own commanded a
boulder to be brought and dropped on Aasiyah, to crush her to death. But
Allah took her soul before the boulder was brought and she became an
example for all the believing men and women till the end of time:

[And Allah has set forth an example for those who believe: the wife of
Fir'own (Pharaoh) – when she said, "My Lord, Build for me a home with
You in Paradise, and save me from Fir'own and his deeds, and save me
from the transgressive-disbelieving people.] -Tahreem 66/11

When we talk about Jihad and Shuhadaa' - martyrs, do you know who the
first Muslim in Islam to be killed in the path of Allah was?  It was
Summayah, the mother of Ammar.  When Abu Jahl heard of her Islam and her
husband Yaasir and her son Ammar, he whipped them all and beat them. So
much so, that Rasul Allah would pass by them as they went through this
test of their Iman and would say to them, "Be patient O family of
Yaasir, for you have a date set (when you shall enter) Jannah!"

As Abu Jahl beat Sumayyah one day, she refused to recant her Deen,
something that enraged Abu Jahl. He took a spear as she lay on the burning
sand, looking up to the sky, and he speared her through her midsection.  
She was the first of her family and the entire Ummah to meet Allah as a
Martyr.

Dear Sister, our role models come from the Quran.  You may have heard
the story of the boy and the  king. When the entire village became
Muslim by the death of that young boy, the king ordered that an enormous
fire be kindled and that all those who would not recant their religion be
burnt alive.  A Mu'minah, stood with her baby over the fire. She looked
at her baby, and seeking her child's weakness and innocence, she
considered turning her back.  The baby said to her, "What are you waiting for
mother.  Go forward for you are on the truth!"  She nodded.  Then with
her baby in hand she was pushed to her death.

[And they ill-treated them for no other reason than that they believed
in Allah, Exalted in Power, Worthy of all Praise!- * Him to Whom
belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth! And Allah is Witness to
all things.]. - Surah AlBuruj, 8,9

And dear sister, your role models come to you from today.  As her son
tells us, a senior women in a Muslim land decided that all the vanity
that normally happens in the gatherings of women was not for her.  She
turned to Salah and praying at night, and in her old age, she found
herself calling to her son one night from her prayer room.  He the son says,
"I came in and she was in Sajda saying that she was paralysed!" Her son
took her to the doctors and she began a cycle of rehabilitation, but
there was little hope. She then commanded her son to take her back home,
take her back to her prayer room, take her back to that Sajdah.  As she
prayed to Allah in her sajdah, the night came when she called to her
son.  "Astawdi'ukallaah alladhee laa yadee'u wa daa'i'uh – I leave you in
the trust of Allah, and whenever something is left in Allah's trust it
is never lost."  She passed away in her sajdah.  Her muscles froze in
that position and so they had to wash her body as she was in Sajdah. The
prayed Janazah for her as her body was in sajdah. The carried her to
the grave yard as her body was in Sajdah.

The buried her as she was in Sajdah.  And the Prophet said that we
shall all be resurrected on what we died on, she shall be resurrected on
the day of judgement in Sajdah to Allah – Jalla Jalaaluhu wa taqaddasat
asmaa'uhu - because that it how she lived and died.



When Imam Ahmad was still young, his father died.  He would tell his
students of the work his mother went through in raising him, and he would
pray for her.  In the cold Baghdad nights, she would wake long before
him to warm the water so that her son Ahmad could make wudu for Fajr.  
Then she would wrap him in blankets, herself cloaked in her Jilbaab, and
guide him through the dark, cold alleys to reach the main Masjid, long
before Fajr so that her son could get a good seat in class.  Her son
Ahmad - at that age in grade 2 or 3 - would sit all day long studying
Quran and Sunnah, and she would wait for him to finish so that she could
drop him home safely.  At the age of 16, she prepared money and food for
him and told him, "Travel for your search of knowledge."  He left for
Makkah and Madinah and many other places and met many great scholars.  
She raised Ahmad to become one of the four greatest Imams in Islam.

Dear sister, after all this, ask a non-Muslim what it is that he wants
from you?  Does he want you to be liberated?  Liberated from what? From
Allah and his Messenger?  From the Quran and the Sunnah?  From Jannah?  
From this deen that Allah chose for you?

And what is he going to give you in return?  Happinness?  By Allah, he
does not own any happiness to give.  Is he going to give you love and
protection from punishment in the grave and from hellfire and from
death?  Why is it that they want to liberate young beautiful women?  Why
don't they liberate the seniors?  Why don't they liberate the indigenous?  
Why don't they liberate the inmates?  Why is their target audience a
young and skinny and tall women (their definition of beauty) between the
age of 13 – 28?  And why is their first call for you to take off your
Hijab?

Remember that friend – if you consider him so – carefully, for –
without any doubt, by Allah - he shall be your bitterest enemy on the day of
Repayment:

[Friends on that day will be foes, one to another - except the
Righteous] - Surah Zukhruf (43/67)

One Kafirah summed up exactly what they think of women, "It's not who
you are, it's what you wear and what you look like!"  And listen to
Fabian, a french `model' (of what?), as she spit on the fashion industry.
"Fashion houses made me into a mannequin, a wooden idol.  The mission:
to manipulate hearts and alter minds.  I learnt how to be worthless,
nothing on the inside, cold.  We lived in a world of filth in all that
filth means."

When the Prophet - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - stood on the plain of
Arafah and gave his farewell speech he said to the Ummah, "Treat the
women kindly!"  History records that in Europe in the same year, at the
same time that Islam was saying this, the Christian clergy were arguing
whether a women was a human or an animal!  Those clergymen are the
ancestors of the Kuffar that now want to `liberate' you.

There is much more than can be said.  I shall conclude with the advice
of Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - to every Muslim mother,
daughter, and wife: "If the women prays her five (Salah), fasts her
month (of Ramadan), protects herself (from committing Zina), and listens
to her husband, it will be said to her, `from any door you wish, enter
Paradise!"  Sister, that is where you want to be.

[O ye who believe! give your response to Allah and His Messenger, when
He calls you to that which shall give you life; and know that Allah
cometh between a man and his heart, and that it is He to Whom ye shall
(all) be gathered.] - Surah Anfal 8/24

Allah and His Messenger are calling you to life.  Dear sister, reply!

email from brother Zubeir Ahmed.

[Ihsan]

Oh my, what an article. Thank you sooooooooooo much for sharing it with us. May Allah reward you immensely...Ameen.

May Allah guide us onto the right path...Ameen

[mlbash]

ALLAHU AKHBAR! JAZAKALLAHU KHAIR!

[SAAHIB 92]

all praise be to almighty, i wish to express my inexplicaple joy over this article which u ve' allowed us to share with u.

insha'allahu i shall forward it to brothers,sisters, and all those who follows the sunnati rasulullah.

moreover, plz send more of this re' the kind of articles that we suppose to write inorder to give ourselves a maximum enlightement of islam.

XANK U VERY MUCH MAY ALLAH REWARDS U WITH JANNATIL FIRDAUS.

MA'ASSALAM

[al_hamza]

May Allah (S.W.T) grant our mothers strong faith so they could throw us out of our homes for Jihad Amin!

[Hafsy_Lady]

Brother EMTL, THIS IS SUCH A GOOD ARTICLE. ALLAH YA SHI ALBARKA

[Fateez]

Assalamu alaikum

Thank you very much EMTL for such a wonderful article may Allah reward you Abundantly. InshaAllah i'll print it out and share it with my friends.

[dan kauye]

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