Isn't it funny that most likely a lot of those women dying to demonstrate were the architects of their own failed marriages? What with our women's nagging quests for "bokaye" don a mallaki miji, tsiwa, rashin godiya ga abinda miji ke yi da ire-irensu. Any wonder then there are many divorcees? I guess then all those men whose wives caused the brake-up of their marriages should also go on demonstration? Yes, justice should not be gender-biased!
I quite agreed with you BKGZ, and wduz (also to some extent). I knw of my elder Brother whose life i will always pray to emulate. this man has a wife, The wife is so good and caring and infact she so loving and obedient to him and his parents. she is equally good to us his juniors and indeed all his friends. I cannot tell you that i have ever seen a husband that is too confident in the integrity of his wife than this man. She once told me no wife has a better husband than her, and he co-incidently told me no husband has a better wife than him. This woman is so good that our relatives prefer to go to her than to him (for any assistance) she compel the husband to take care of his relative and never allow her relatives takes his for granted. This man had been nurturing the idea for polygamy, but he is afraid let noe he marry a joy-killer that will distrupt the happy home they sustained since 11 years ago. To crown it all, when he informed his mum that he wanna be polygamous, she said, "I dont think you will ever get a wife like Lami (not her real name)".
The Husband, in appreciation of her kindness, he threw a 10th year anniversarry party of their marriage in 2007 to honour her, where he publically declare her
"the pride of my Home". And He said to the hearing of over 500 attendees " The prophet (SAW) has said that one of the best gift of ALLAH to his servant after faith is a Virtuos wife (mar'atun salihah), whoever wants see a person who was gifted in virtuos wife here i am, and the prophet said wife's paradise is under the feet of her husband, i am now declaring before you that i have lifted my two legs for lami, i forgive her for any error that she might have committed against me or she will commit in future, and i want you and the angels of ALLAH to bear witness to what i said"
You see, this is unprecedented in our society. And it shows ther are good wives as well as appreciative Husbands. I challenge all wives and Husbands to emulate this family, Ni dai na bi kuma zanyi koyi.