WHATS WRONG WITH HOOKIN UP WIT A FORIEGNER

[Fulanizzle]

SALAM SALAM SALAAAAM

MAAAN..ITS BEEN MADD LONG.... HOW R MAH PEOPLE... AND I SEE MANY NEW ONES...YALL WELCOME!!!!

SOOOOOOOO JUST WANNA SEE PEEPS OPINIONS WHY THEY THINK ITS  CRAZY FOR A GIRL (TALKING BOUT AREWA GURLS) TO MARRY A FORIENGER ......   its like all members of the family will go BEEZERK when they find out the girl is hooking up to a guy that aint from her country........


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OOOOOOK-kay   people start rollin on!

[Anonymous]

Hhhhhmmmm ance ruwa baya tsami banza, is dat why u've been away for long???

[tmega]

Hhhhhmmmm ance ruwa baya tsami banza, is dat why u've been away for long???

kai kuma ina ruwa ka da dade wanta.
well mah sister deres nothin' in it is ur chose.

[kharuldeen]

i don't like it coz it helps in destroying our culture. ;D ;D ;D

[Anonymous]

i think its all depends on your family ...........but me left to me i see nothin wrong in it as long as religious(muslim for me) is there any culture that is better than addini so me i think once musulmi ne and i love him he loves me that perfect

[*~MuDa~*]

SALAM SALAM SALAAAAM

MAAAN..ITS BEEN MADD LONG.... HOW R MAH PEOPLE... AND I SEE MANY NEW ONES...YALL WELCOME!!!!

SOOOOOOOO JUST WANNA SEE PEEPS OPINIONS WHY THEY THINK ITS ?CRAZY FOR A GIRL (TALKING BOUT AREWA GURLS) TO MARRY A FORIENGER ...... ? its like all members of the family will go BEEZERK when they find out the girl is hooking up to a guy that aint from her country........


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OOOOOOK-kay ? people start rollin on!

Where were u all zis while, u zis gurl u 2 de yawo-yawo, u no de stay por 1 flace, where r u coming prom? Unless u tell me i 'll not answer u!

[EMTL]

Assalamu alaikum,
There is nothing wrong in marrying a foreigner provided the person is a concious Muslim.

BUT there is no place like home.
Fula, it will be interesting to have somebody whose religion, culture, etc. matches yours', for instance a Bazazzagiya ta sami wani Bazazzagi na kwarai............... Allah (SWT) yayi jagora-amiyn.

[Fulanizzle]

yes medulla......i stopped coming coz my paza and moza will not let me marry ?brad pitt! AW the pain and agony..I couldnt..just couldnt come to spend time on Kano O nomore! :-/

yo mudalicious homylicious...missed yah! wassap!

[Fulanizzle]

hey baby gal...hey EMTL... sup kharuldeen....sup tata!

lol just to fill yah in....this aint bout me... I just noticed the whole thing when i was in nija.... and just thought yall might answer my question.... coz from what i understand itll be kindda rude if i ask elders back home....


AND I ALSO THOUGHT IF THE FORIEGNER S A GOOD MUSLIM AND IF YALL FIND WHAT YALL HAVE IN COMMON....IF U PERSUE SIMILAR INTERESTS.... I MEAN, WHAT DA DILLIO...NUTHIN BAD IN MARRYING SUCH PERSON!!!!!

BUT OTHER PEOPLE I TALKED TO JUST DONT WANNA UNDERSTAND...

[Waziri]

"""""The fresh springing of herbs after the rains,
The glittering of flowers when the night clouds have rolled away in the hush hour between dawn and sunrise,
The plashing of waters as they run thru'
the stalks of golden blossoms,
The equisite beauty of white castles encompassed by verdant meadows____

NOT -and I repeat- NOT  lovelier is any of these then union with the WELL BELOVED,

Whose character is VIRTUOS
and LAUDABLE her disposition
Whose attributes are evenly matched in perfect BEAUTY.


Truly that is a miracle of wonder surpassing the tongue of the eloquent,
And beyond the range of the most cunning speech to describe:
The mind REELS before it and the intellect stands ABASHED!!!!!!!!"""""


Yes, perharps those who do not want their sister Arewa Gurl to marry a foreigner have a stronger reason, with a stronger foundation in love, than the foreigner himself. Maybe, Maybe, Maybe..................

May Allah give us what we cherish best, may Allah bless us with the ability, mental and physical, to  be able to do justice to those people we love. But the best of love we should learn to offer others is to adjust to what they wish whenever they form a wish.

[EMTL]

Waziri, you spoke the contents of many hearts...........

[Hafsy_Lady]

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH HOOKING UP WIT A FOREGINER, BUT SOME PEOPLE SAY ITS NOT RIGHT AND ITS WRONG!

MY AUNTS FREINDS SON MARRIED A MALAYSIAN AND CAME TO LIVE IN KANO & ALL DEM HAUSAWA'Z WERE LIKE WHUTTTTTTTTTT? :o YA SHI FULANI ZAI AURO YAR MALAYSIA? ............
ERRR MECHANU....& SHARRAP TO ALL OF THEM, WHAT IS WRONG WITH A MALAYSIAN? SHEBI SHE BI MUSLIM :-/? OR DAT ONE IS IT A TABOO? ::)::)

[figorms]

i dont think there is any thing wrong with that, we are all humans and as long as she loves u and u love her too then ba komai.

[gogannaka]

Well well well....i think marrying a foreigner is not supported by our ppl because of the cultural differences btw the couples and once there's a difference in culture it'll affect the child's upbringing.(my opinion).Also the children of such marriages do not usually know their relatives from one side....etc etc............

But dai fulanicious i'm not discouraging you from marrying a foreigner.........feel free.....

[Gimbiya]

I don't have any problems with it, but a person have to consider the future of ones children. sometimes we think we understand all that needed about one's culture but when we really think about it raising a child with two different heritage plus onother (the adopted heritage) is really hard. even raising a child where both parents are from the same heritage but the child is raised in different place or country is really an obsticle.