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Started by *~MuDa~*, January 12, 2008, 03:55:10 PM

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*~MuDa~*

Quote from: gogannaka on March 03, 2008, 07:44:08 AM
If i had my way i would make marriages as simple as possible.
These days one needs between half a Million and a Million Naira just to get married.

When you say that, you are literally ripping the hope from some of us! ;D ;D ;D
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gogannaka

Quote from: *~MuDa~* on March 03, 2008, 09:10:35 AM
Quote from: gogannaka on March 03, 2008, 07:44:08 AM
If i had my way i would make marriages as simple as possible.
These days one needs between half a Million and a Million Naira just to get married.

When you say that, you are literally ripping the hope from some of us! ;D ;D ;D

LOL.
So you ma you don see am ba?
Omo no be small tin wo!
I have lost hope siiiiiiiiiiince.

Lets break it down:
Lefe+Zance:- minimum is 200K(it will comprise of chinese goods)
Gida:-Rent is between 100K(2 bedroom no compund) to 250K(3 bedroom probably with small compound,NOT G.R.A)
Gyaran gida:- 100K
Dinkin Aure:- Minimum 25k(na your own only excluding hers.She'll gulp twice yours)
Biki/walima(maybe just 2 events,one for u one for her):-Minimum 120k
Sadaki:-Between 10k and 50k.

Compute the total and see.
Shiyasa kwanaki na ce ni kam..........

Allah ya bamu sa'a.
Surely after suffering comes enjoyment

Dan-Borno

 ;D  ;D  ;D don Allah don Annabi kudena razanar
da masu niyya, haba Babban Abokina GGNK, ai
in dai zaka yi list before execution ne, i dont think
kowa zai yi aure, because its scary, ni ma har na
dan shiga wani hali when i saw the budget.

"My mama always used to tell me: 'If you can't find somethin' to live for, you best find somethin' to die for" - Tupak

bakangizo

Haba, goga ;D Na lura fa kayi mugun karaya. Kamar yadda alangubro yace, rufe ido zaka yi kawai. Just start! In ka ce sai ka tara kudin gaba zakayi, wallahi ba zai yiwu ba. Irin wannan auren sai Horrorables ('yan siyasa). Ai kamar ginin gid ne; wuyar ta a fara, a hankiali za'a gama.

Muhsin

Get to know [and remember] Allah in prosperity & He will know  [and remember] you in adversity.

*~MuDa~*

Quote from: gogannaka on March 03, 2008, 09:52:15 AM
Quote from: *~MuDa~* on March 03, 2008, 09:10:35 AM
Quote from: gogannaka on March 03, 2008, 07:44:08 AM
If i had my way i would make marriages as simple as possible.
These days one needs between half a Million and a Million Naira just to get married.

When you say that, you are literally ripping the hope from some of us! ;D ;D ;D

LOL.
So you ma you don see am ba?
Omo no be small tin wo!
I have lost hope siiiiiiiiiiince.

Lets break it down:
Lefe+Zance:- minimum is 200K(it will comprise of chinese goods)
Gida:-Rent is between 100K(2 bedroom no compund) to 250K(3 bedroom probably with small compound,NOT G.R.A)
Gyaran gida:- 100K
Dinkin Aure:- Minimum 25k(na your own only excluding hers.She'll gulp twice yours)
Biki/walima(maybe just 2 events,one for u one for her):-Minimum 120k
Sadaki:-Between 10k and 50k.

Compute the total and see.
Shiyasa kwanaki na ce ni kam..........

Allah ya bamu sa'a.

Men it seem like we get the same mind o!
We are thinking alike towards this issue,
will you believe that even the figures are 65% correct?
That is only from assumption.
But we fit take am jejeli...small-small.

But for the Lefe aint 200k too small?
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HUSNAA

There is always an upper and lower limit. One shld try and stay in between.  U men have forgotten that DB is still an ango. Why dont u ask him all about it since he recently went thro that kind of expenditure.
Ghafurallahi lana wa lakum

Ibro2g

lol wonders shall never end. Goggs...lol



safety and peace.....u'll need it
Safety and Peace

Dan-Borno

Quote from: HUSNAA on March 04, 2008, 12:11:44 AM
U men have forgotten that DB is still an ango. Why dont u ask him all about it since he recently went thro that kind of expenditure.

Quote from: Dan-Borno on March 03, 2008, 10:03:46 AM
haba Babban Abokina GGNK, ai
in dai zaka yi list before execution ne, i dont think
kowa zai yi aure, because its scary, ni ma har na
dan shiga wani hali when i saw the budget.

Rabu dasu, i have already counsel them, except that
basu da niyyan yin aure ne, they enjoy barchelorhood
life.

It took me three (3) years preparing for my amarya,
and all the expenses where withdrawn from my surplus
account, so without disturbing my recurrent and capital
expenditures i have been able to gather all the marriage
stuff over a period of time.

Goga & Muda, i advise you better start saving for the
marriage, in bahaka, this inflation you are seeing will continue
raising.

Whenever you discover surplus from your earnings, just
divert it to "marriage account" lol.
"My mama always used to tell me: 'If you can't find somethin' to live for, you best find somethin' to die for" - Tupak

Muhsin

Quote from: Dan-Borno on March 04, 2008, 08:49:34 AMGoga & Muda, i advise you better start saving for the
marriage, in bahaka, this inflation you are seeing will continue
raising.

Are they the only bachelors you know up here? 
Get to know [and remember] Allah in prosperity & He will know  [and remember] you in adversity.

*~MuDa~*

Quote from: HUSNAA on March 04, 2008, 12:11:44 AM
There is always an upper and lower limit. One shld try and stay in between.  U men have forgotten that DB is still an ango. Why dont u ask him all about it since he recently went thro that kind of expenditure.

Well if you havent forgotten, DB is a capitalist and we are not, he has the means, and the surplus just like he stated:

Quote from: Dan-Borno on March 04, 2008, 08:49:34 AM
Rabu dasu, i have already counsel them, except that
basu da niyyan yin aure ne, they enjoy barchelorhood
life.

All the expenses where withdrawn from my surplus
account, so without disturbing my recurrent and capital
expenditures
i have been able to gather all the marriage
stuff over a period of time.

Whenever you discover surplus from your earnings, just
divert it to "marriage account" lol.

How can we compete with people like him ??? ??? ???
we dont stand a chance!
...He begot not, nor is He begotten!
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Dan-Borno

Quote from: *~MuDa~* on March 04, 2008, 11:11:24 AM
Well if you havent forgotten, DB is a capitalist and we are not, he has the means, and the surplus just like he stated:

Haba Muda, there is nothing like being a capitalist here,
you are just running away from marriage, and i think I
am going to invite Sheik Waliyullahi Bamalli to give you
a very strong khutba on marriage.

Whipering to muda - i have a sister working in a bank,
all these expenses will be off the list.
"My mama always used to tell me: 'If you can't find somethin' to live for, you best find somethin' to die for" - Tupak

gogannaka

Quote from: Dan-Borno on March 04, 2008, 12:00:58 PM
Whipering to muda - i have a sister working in a bank,
all these expenses will be off the list.

I heard that.

Its not about the girl DB its her family.
If it were the girls i'm sure we could convince the girl to marry us without all the expenses,besides idan ta shigo gidan ai dole ne you have to provide for her.
Amman iyaye sune matsala.

Kuma the richer the family the more expensive the marriage.
Yarinya ta saba saka lace din 30k to 50k ka ga ai akwai matsala wajen kayan zance.Ko kuma ta saba da sarkokin gwal ko designer perfumes.
Hmmmm aiki dey o!


With that 500k if i carry am buy shares inshaallahu in 6months it will double and maybe i can have a surplus account like DB suggested.

BKGZ thanks for the encouragement  ;)
Surely after suffering comes enjoyment

*~MuDa~*

Quote from: Dan-Borno on March 04, 2008, 12:00:58 PM
Quote from: *~MuDa~* on March 04, 2008, 11:11:24 AM
Well if you havent forgotten, DB is a capitalist and we are not, he has the means, and the surplus just like he stated:

Haba Muda, there is nothing like being a capitalist here,
you are just running away from marriage, and i think I
am going to invite Sheik Waliyullahi Bamalli to give you
a very strong khutba on marriage.

Whipering to muda - i have a sister working in a bank,
all these expenses will be off the list.

Its not the marriage that i am afraid of, no be se person de fear, its just that you know, its not easy, we have the girls, they are not willing cause they want ready made guys, so where does that leaves us the un-made? Kaga ko akwai matsala, Allah de yayi mana jagora!
...He begot not, nor is He begotten!
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HUSNAA

muda why are u so worried ne? have u lost faith so soon? Ka manta tun ran gini tun ran zane?
Look, you are young. Just starting out. No one expects you to have millions stashed away. Hopefully you will become gainfully employed. If you cannot find govt work, look to private institutions. If u cant find that either, try entrepreneurship.. work for yrself... think of innovative ways.. I mean you already are computer literate so look within that field and see what u can do. Learn software programming or some such.
Remember that unless your life is truncated, that the money will come eventually insha Allah, even if its not as much as u would wish, it will come... And just as surely, the right girl will come along. One who will look at YOU not what you possess. Surely since u were an embryo that information was recorded for u, how many wives you will have, how many kids, how u will struggle to acquire all.. so just relax and pray to Allah SWT.  Allah Said
"Wa izha sa'alaka ibadeey anniy, fa inni kareeb. Ujeebu da'awatuddaa'i izha da'aan. Fal yastajeebuulee, wal yu' minuu bee, la allahum yarshiduun"
And when My servants ask concerning Me, I am indeed near. I respond to the duas of the prayer, when he calls on Me. So let them obey Me and believe in Me so that they maybe led aright. (suratul baqara verse 186).
So why are you getting so twisted? Just relax, invoke Allah and know that in so far as you ask and work and strive, you have NOTHING to worry about.
Ghafurallahi lana wa lakum